🎙️ Why did I name my podcast The Smart Black Girl? Because for most of my life, that’s who I was—the smart one. But what happens when that identity gets challenged?

🧠 From childhood, I was celebrated for my intelligence. My family expected me to use my brain to create a better future. I obsessed over perfect grades, corrected my teachers, and devoured books, imagining myself as the smart character in every story. But then, life threw me a curveball…

🏫 A Shift in Identity Moving from a predominantly Black school to a mostly white one, I suddenly became not just the smart girl but the smart Black girl.

🏙️ The Next Move: Bias & Fear Transferring to a majority-Black high school (nicknamed the fight school), I feared I wouldn’t fit in. I had developed biases about my own community and even begged to go elsewhere. But instead of fear, I found some of the best people I’d ever meet.

🎓 College Changed Everything In a sea of accomplished Black women, I was no longer the smart Black girl. I was just average. As a first-generation college student, I had no blueprint for success—no mentors, no guide on balancing school, work, and social life. I felt lost.

🔄 Comparison is a Thief I isolated myself, convinced that everyone else had life figured out while I struggled. My confidence shattered. If I wasn’t the smart Black girl, then who was I?

✨ Rebuilding My Identity That’s how The Smart Black Girl Podcast was born. This is my diary—a space where I rediscover myself and bring you along for the ride.

💬 So, my smarticle particles, what identity shaped you? Let’s talk about it in the comments.

#SmartBlackGirl #IdentityCrisis #BlackExcellence #SelfDiscovery #Podcast

💬 Life has been A LOT lately. I’ve been battling my mental health, received some bad medical news, and honestly, I’ve been pushing God away without even realizing it. If it weren’t for my husband, I probably would have stayed curled up on the couch for days. But today, I want to talk about Lent, healing, and finding my way back to God.

☁️ The first 3 months of the year have been rough. My mental health is slowly improving, but the weight of everything has felt unbearable. If you’ve ever felt like you’re drowning in life’s struggles, I see you. I know that feeling all too well. But I also know that fighting for yourself—no matter how small the steps—matters. For me, that fight looks like taking my meds, crying through therapy, and simply showing up.

🙌 A Simple Prayer Changed Everything.
This morning, my husband set a 5-minute timer and told me to just close my eyes and pray. The only words that came out were:
“Help me Lord, help me Lord, help me Lord.”
And you know what? It helped.

📵 Why I’m Giving Up Media for Lent
I realized I’ve been filling my emptiness with social media, YouTube, and distractions—anything to numb the pain. But God has been calling me to fill that space with Him instead. So for the next 40 days, I’m fasting from digital media (except audiobooks and gospel music) and using this time to rebuild my faith.

📖 Matthew 18:12-13 reminds me that even when we wander, God searches for us. No matter how far I’ve strayed, He wants me back in His arms. And today, I’m choosing to let Him in.

✨ If you’ve been struggling too, know this—you are not alone, and your life is worth fighting for. Let’s talk about it in the comments. How has the start of your year been? 👇🏾

💬 I've been going THROUGH it, y’all. For the past few months, I’ve felt lost, hurt, and completely exhausted. As many of you know, I live with Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Depression, and ADHD—and for years, medication helped me stay stable. But recently, I made the decision to stop taking my meds, thinking I could manage everything on my own. Spoiler alert: It did NOT go well.

☁️ The Darkness Took Over
In just two months, my world started crumbling. I lost my sense of self, my connection to God, and even my ability to function. Praying felt impossible. Getting out of bed? A struggle. I felt like I was failing at life itself.

💡 But here’s what saved me:

• My support system. My husband, therapist, and friends held me together when I couldn’t do it alone.
• Seeking help again. I had a real, honest conversation with my psychiatrist about restarting medication.
• A message from God. When I questioned, "Where is God?"—He reminded me He’s always been right here. A video from @Untrenditional Gospel titled "God Is Calling You to Create" gave me the push I needed.

🚀 So here I am, taking my first step back. This is not the end—it’s a new beginning. If you’ve ever felt like you’re failing, like you’ve lost sight of yourself, or like you’re too far gone to start over—this video is for you.

✨ You are not alone. You are not a failure. You can always start again.

🖤 Drop a comment below—have you ever struggled with medication, mental health, or your faith? Let’s talk. 👇🏾

🎙️ Hello, my lovely smarticle particles! In today’s heartfelt episode, I’m diving deep into the topic of people-pleasing, how it undermines our boundaries, and the role that faith in God plays in healing these patterns.

🌟 Topics covered in this episode:
➡️ How people-pleasing stems from fear and past shame.
➡️ Breaking free from fawn trauma responses and emotional manipulation.
➡️ The connection between unresolved childhood habits and adult boundary-setting.
➡️ Inviting God into the healing process to experience peace, love, and restoration.
➡️ Scriptural wisdom: Romans 12:2 and how to renew your mind and embrace God’s will.

💬 I’ll also share my personal struggles with boundaries, my journey through shame, and how God has been guiding me back to peace and joy. This is an honest conversation about growth, setbacks, and finding strength through scripture and surrendering to His love.

🔑 Key takeaway: God doesn’t want us to perform for His love—He wants us to receive it and find empowerment in His grace.

📖 Ready to start your journey? Open your Bible to John and begin understanding God’s character and love for you. Let’s grow together in faith and renewal!

✨ Let’s chat! Have you struggled with people-pleasing or boundary-setting? How has God helped you navigate this? Share your stories in the comments below!

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💡 Remember: Stay smart, stay blessed, and keep shining, my lovely smarticle particles! 💖

Hello, lovely smarticle particles! 🌟 Today, we're diving into the cycles of life—understanding the end of one phase, the beginning of another, and how faith plays a powerful role in navigating these transitions. Life’s cycles can be uncertain, especially during moments of change like marriage, job loss, or new beginnings. In this episode, I'll guide you on how to recognize these transitions, move forward with confidence, and find strength in faith to overcome feelings of fear and uncertainty. 🌻

We’ll talk about embracing change through three key steps:

1. Recognizing Transition: Identifying the end of a life cycle and the beginning of a new one, and how to approach each step without fear.
2. Acceptance and Celebration: Finding peace by shifting reliance from ourselves to God, leading to courage and spiritual growth.
3. Finding Strength in Faith: Trusting in God as we release control, allowing His love to replace our fear and renew us through sanctification. 🌿

Scripture reminds us, "To everything, there is a season" (Ecclesiastes 3:1-2)—a truth that helps us understand that each ending brings a fresh beginning. 💧 Our bodies and spirits need the “living water” of the Holy Spirit to bring renewal, just as our bodies need literal water for health.

If you’ve ever felt lost in transition, leave a comment below, and let’s discuss! 🙏 Share how you've invited God into your life’s changes, and don't forget to like, follow, and subscribe for more encouragement on navigating life with faith.

Hello, my lovely smarticle particles! 🌟 In today’s episode, we’re diving into something deeply personal and transformative—trauma responses. Trauma responses, such as Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn, are reactions to distressing events that shape how we cope with anxiety and fear. 💔 I’ll be sharing my personal experiences with each of these responses and how they have shown up in my life, especially during anxiety attacks and difficult moments. 🧠

You’ll learn how these responses—Fight (aggression), Flight (running away), Freeze (paralysis), and Fawn (people-pleasing)—affect us, and most importantly, how to start healing from them. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, stuck, or trapped in these cycles, you’re not alone. I’ll also share what helped me, from individual therapy to medication, journaling, and reading about boundaries. 📖✨

Together, we’ll explore how scripture, like 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, encourages us to seek comfort in God during challenging times. This episode is for anyone navigating trauma, anxiety, or the impact of childhood experiences. Let’s break free from these trauma responses and start walking towards healing and peace. 🕊️

Have you ever experienced a trauma response? Share your story in the comments below, and let’s continue the conversation. Don’t forget to like, follow, and subscribe for more videos on mental health, healing, and faith.

Hello, my lovely smarticle particles! 🌟 In today’s episode, I want to talk about something truly life-changing: surrendering to silence and finding peace in faith. Recently, I’ve been experiencing a state of serenity that can only come from complete trust in God. Through this beautiful silence, I’ve learned to surrender my worries, anxiety, and fears. 🙏

In this video, I dive into what I’m learning from Priscilla Shirer’s book, "I Surrender All", and Dr. Joslyn Johnson’s powerful workshop, "The Good Girls Sin." If you’re someone who struggles with people-pleasing, childhood trauma, or the anxiety that comes from the fawn trauma response, this message is for you. By surrendering our hearts to God, we allow the Holy Spirit to fill us with love, peace, joy, and the other fruits of the spirit. 🍇

I share my personal journey of spending time in silent prayer, using just a timer and sitting with God. I used to think I didn’t know how to pray "right," but now I realize that silence is enough. The Holy Spirit has filled me with a sense of peace I never knew was possible, and I encourage you to experience the same. ✨

What fears are holding you back from surrendering? Let’s explore the joy and freedom that come from releasing control to the one who knows and loves you completely. 🕊️

💬 Comment below: What are you afraid of surrendering to God?
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Hello, my lovely smarticle particles! 💡 Today, we’re tackling a topic that affects so many of us: shame. Shame is a powerful emotion that can hold us back, distort our self-worth, and keep us from living life fully. Whether it comes from family upbringing, societal norms, or our own mistakes, it’s crucial to recognize and break free from the grip of shame.

In this episode, I dive into the difference between shame and guilt, and why it's so important to overcome shame for our mental, physical, and spiritual well-being. I share my own struggles with shame—whether it's forgetting to take my meds, not praying enough, or just being myself—and how I’ve found healing through self-reflection, compassion, and my faith in God.

By relying on the grace and forgiveness of God, we can release shame and live with more love, kindness, and understanding toward ourselves and others. As Romans 10:11 reminds us, "Anyone who believes in Him will never be put to shame." 🙏

Let’s discuss practical steps to overcome shame and embrace God’s forgiveness, as well as tools to practice grace and compassion in our daily lives. We are already loved by God, so let’s learn to love ourselves the same way. 💖

Have you ever felt shameful? Share your story in the comments below. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell so you never miss an episode! Stay smart, stay blessed, and keep shining, my smarticle particles! ✨