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You were one person your whole life — with dreams, opinions, passions, and a sense of who you were. Then you became a mum… and suddenly, you don't know how to connect the two anymore.

In this episode, Charlie opens up about losing yourself in motherhood — even when becoming a mum was part of the dream. She explores:

→ Why something still feels missing, even when you're living what you always wanted

→ How motherhood asks us to give constantly from the moment baby arrives — and why no one teaches us how to refill the cup

→ Why you're allowed to make space for your needs too (and how to actually do it)

→ Small shifts that helped Charlie regain herself after 5 babies

→ A mindset shift that changed everything

Charlie also shares the mistakes she made along the way — and what she learned from them. Because she's been putting it all together to help you find an easier path: one where you can enjoy motherhood AND love yourself again.

🔔 Something new is coming at the end of May to help mums with exactly this. Follow @charliesparentingpages on Instagram to be the first to know.

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Charlie dives deep into one of the most Googled topics in motherhood: sleep. From what newborn sleep actually looks like (spoiler: it's not what you expect) to the 4-month sleep regression, she shares what she learned across five babies. This episode covers sleep safety essentials, practical survival tips for exhausted mums, and how to cope when you're running on empty — without the judgement.

What You'll Learn

* What newborn sleep really looks like and why your baby isn't broken

* How to help with day-night confusion in the early weeks

* The key sleep safety guidelines every parent needs to know

* Why mum sleep matters and practical ways to protect it

* What the 4-month sleep regression actually is (and how to survive it)

* Seven actionable tips for sleep-deprived mums

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Charlie opens up about the reality of 3am feeds — the loneliness, the exhaustion, but also the unexpected tenderness of those quiet hours. Whether you're breastfeeding or bottle feeding, this episode is packed with practical tips to help you survive (and even enjoy) the night shift, from prepping bottles in advance to finding your night time Netflix companion.

What You'll Learn

* Why you're never really alone at 3am (welcome to the club)

* How to set up simple "feeding stations" around your home

* The bottle prep hack that saves your sanity during night feeds

* Why room temperature bottles might be your best friend

* How to steal sleep before the night shift begins

* Finding comfort in podcasts, shows, and mum friends who get it

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Ever felt like leaving the house with your baby requires the same level of planning as a two-week holiday abroad? You're not alone — and you're definitely not doing anything wrong.

In this episode, Charlie shares everything she learned (the hard way, across five babies) about actually getting out the front door with a newborn. From the mental load that makes a simple trip to the shops feel impossible, to the practical systems that finally made outings manageable — this is the honest, no-judgement guide every first-time mum needs.

Whether you're struggling to leave the house at all, or just want to feel less frazzled when you do, this episode will leave you feeling seen, supported, and ready to try again.

What You’ll Learn:

* Why leaving the house with a baby is genuinely hard (and why it's not your fault)

* The mindset shift that changed everything for Charlie

* How to have a bag that's always ready to grab and go

* The "feed just before you leave" trick that stops the endless cycle

* How to find your local "reset spots" for when things go sideways

* What to do when it all falls apart in public

* Why getting out — even imperfectly — matters more than you think

RESOURCES MENTIONED

* The First Time Mum Ultimate Handbook — Find it in Charlie's Stan Store (link in Instagram bio @charliesparentingpages) or on Charlie’s website below

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In this episode, Charlie breaks down the parenting admin that catches so many first-time mums completely off guard — the paperwork, the deadlines, and the government websites nobody warns you about.

From registering the birth to claiming Child Benefit to navigating free nursery hours, Charlie shares the practical steps and emotional reality of managing it all while sleep-deprived and in the newborn fog.

After five babies, she's been through this admin more times than she can count — and she's here to make sure you don't have to figure it out alone.

What you’ll Learn:

* Why nobody talks about parenting admin (and why that needs to change)

* The Big Three: Birth registration, Child Benefit, and free nursery hours

* Key deadlines you can't afford to miss

* Why this hits so hard emotionally — and why it's not your fault

* Practical tips to make admin less overwhelming

* How the How To Handbook can help

RESOURCES MENTIONED

* The How To Handbook — Find it in Charlie's Stan Store (link in Instagram bio @charliesparentingpages) or on Charlie’s website below

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In this week's special episode, Charlie welcomes her FIRST EVER GUEST — Hannah, a financial advisor with 11 years of experience in the financial sector (9 years in specialist mortgage sector). Together, they unravel the often overwhelming world of finances for young couples, first-time parents, and single parents who dream of gaining financial stability and getting on the property ladder.

Hannah shares her journey from high street banking to becoming a mortgage broker after having her youngest, and opens up about her own experience buying a home as a single parent. This is real talk, no jargon — just practical advice for families who feel like homeownership is out of reach.

What You'll Learn

* Why mortgages aren't as scary as they seem (and where to start)

* Options if you haven't been able to save a deposit

* What shared ownership actually is and how it works

* The truth about 100% mortgages and why Hannah doesn't recommend them

* Practical budgeting tips for young families in survival mode

* How to meal plan and shop smarter to save money

* Teaching your children about saving from an early age

* What a Lifetime ISA is and how it can help you buy a home

Resources Mentioned

* Lifetime ISA (LISA)

* Skipton 100% Mortgage

* Shared Ownership Scheme

* Martin Lewis Money Saving Expert

Connect with Hannah

Email: hiwrixen@outlook.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hannah_financial_coach/

Tik Tok: Hannah_financial_coach

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In this honest and heartfelt episode, Charlie opens up about what happens to your relationship once babies arrive. Drawing from 13 years of marriage and five children, she shares what worked, what didn't, and what she wishes she'd done differently. This isn't therapy — it's real talk from a mum who's been in the trenches, offering support and practical steps to help you stay connected with your partner through the chaos of early parenthood.

What You'll Learn

* Why your relationship will change after having a baby — and why that's not a bad thing

* How resentment creeps in quietly and what to do about it

* Small, consistent ways to look after each other (no grand gestures required)

* Why remembering you were a couple first matters more than you think

* 7 practical action steps to stay connected — even when you're exhausted

* What Charlie wishes she'd known in those early years

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In this deeply honest episode, Charlie unpacks mum guilt — when it starts, how it shows up, and why it can feel impossible to shake. From the moment you see those two lines to the daily battles with comparison and self-doubt, Charlie shares her own stories from five pregnancies and offers practical ways to manage the guilt without letting it consume you. This is your reminder that the worry itself is proof you're a good mum.

What You'll Learn:

* Why mum guilt begins during pregnancy, not after birth

* How guilt shows up in feeding, sleep, and your emotions

* The comparison trap and why social media makes it worse

* Charlie's personal mum guilt stories across five babies

* Five practical strategies to manage (not eliminate) guilt

* How to reframe guilt as a signal of what you value

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