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At the heart of dealing with difficult people is handling their—and your own—emotions. How do you stay calm in a tough conversation? How do you stay unruffled in the face of passive-aggressive comments? And how do you know if you're difficult to work with? This book explains the research behind our emotional response to awful colleagues and shows how to build the empathy and resilience to make those relationships more productive.

We're trying to get something done that really matters to us. To do this we need to work with others. But these others include people we don't agree with or like or trust, so working with them seems impossible - like collaborating with the enemy. What can we do?

Actions can only speak louder than words when their intentions are clear. Are you tired of fighting? Feel like your actions and intentions keep getting lost in translation? Frustrated with feeling misunderstood and perpetually caught in a vicious cycle of miscommunication? Psychotherapist Dr. Patricia Timerman Barbosa da Silva, who was also tired of the cycle, developed the IAP Model—Intention, Action, Perception—which she calls the “Google Translate” of communication.

小さな会社の社長さんが、やむなく人員整理のためにリストラを断行しなければならなくなった時に、事前に知っておいてほしい重要なことを簡潔にまとめました。

With almost 3 million copies sold worldwide, this new edition of an enduring classic is the definitive guide to dramatically improve leadership effectiveness, transform personal and professional relationships, and unleash organizational results. Significantly revised throughout, this edition includes updated stories, brand new content, and a practical group discussion guide.

Our words have the power to create profound healing or incredible suffering. Yet even with the best intentions, it is often difficult to express ourselves in ways that build harmony and trust. Speaking Peace presents a seminal four-part model you can use immediately to connect to the spirit of...

Charming, charismatic, and delightful or manipulative, self-serving, and cunning? Psychopaths are both and that’s exactly what makes them dangerous. Best-selling author of the international phenomenon Surrounded by Idiots, Thomas Erikson, reveals how to identify the psychopaths in your life and combat their efforts to control and manipulate. Surrounded by Psychopaths teaches listeners how to deal with psychopaths in their lives by becoming aware of their own behavior and their weaknesses.

In today's fractured world, collaboration is increasingly difficult yet more crucial than ever. Often, to get something done that really matters, we need to work with people we don't agree with, like, or trust. Drawing from thirty-plus years of experience working with leaders in over fifty countries, Adam Kahane shows why conventional collaboration—requiring harmony and agreement—is obsolete. Instead, he provides a groundbreaking approach that embraces discord, experimentation, and genuine cocreation.

Arrêtez de vouloir contrôler l’incontrôlable, laissez donc faire ! Deux mots simples vont changer votre vie ! Vous avez du mal à atteindre vos objectifs ou à être plus heureux ? Le problème ne vient pas de vous. Le problème, c’est le pouvoir que vous donnez aux autres. Dans ce livre, vous apprendrez comment deux mots – Let Them (laissez-les) – peuvent vous délivrer de l’opinion et du jugement d’autrui. Vous serez alors libéré du besoin épuisant de vouloir tout contrôler autour de vous.

In this timeless classic, Florence Scovel Shinn explains how your beliefs, expectations, and words quietly influence the opportunities and outcomes in your life. At its core, this book reveals a simple truth: what you consistently expect, speak, and believe tends to shape what you experience. While many people notice these patterns, few fully understand why they happen or how to work with them intentionally.

This book will inspire you to: control the negotiation before you enter the room; persuade others to do what you want - for their own reasons; manage emotions on both sides of the table; understand the rules of negotiating across cultures; set the stage for a healthy relationship long after the ink has dried; and identify what you can live with and when to walk away.

How to Win Friends and Influence People contains 100% time-tested, rock-solid advice that has inspired millions for nearly a century, leading scores of now-successful people up the ladder of success in both business careers and personal relationships.

What if the conflicts in our lives—from personal disagreements to workplace tensions to global divisions—all stem from the same root cause? The Anatomy of Peace shows how our biases and behaviors perpetuate cycles of conflict and, more importantly, how we can break free from these patterns to create lasting peace and meaningful change.

Toxic workplaces take all kinds of forms—whether it's a narcissist boss who belittles and bullies, colleagues who backstab and gaslight, "work friends" who drain you with endless complaining, or a culture of overwork and burnout. It can feel impossible to know whether to speak up and when to keep your head down. Do you try to address it head-on, go to HR, or play office politics? The HBR Guide to Navigating the Toxic Workplace will help you set boundaries and change what you can while helping you maintain your mental health and your self-respect in some of the toughest situations at work.

Dealing with customers isn't easy, they aren't always right or even pleasant. Business author Renée Evenson ensures you’ll always have the right words to defuse tense interactions. Practical and insightful, this book ensures you’ll never again be at a loss for what to say to customers. In...

Kissinger's six leaders are Konrad Adenauer, Charles de Gaulle, Richard Nixon, Anwar Sadat, Lee Kuan Yew and Margaret Thatcher. All of them were formed in a period when established institutions collapsed all over Europe, colonial structures gave way to independent states in Asia and Africa, and a new international order had to be created from the vestiges of the old. 

No one wants to go into a tenuous situation blind and fumbling for words. Rather than shy away from a difficult situation or conversation, The Conflict Resolution Phrase Book, is the ideal resource to help anyone prepare for and prevail in these situations. Some situations are unpredictable, and you can't plan for every conversation, but having the right words on hand empowers you to stand up to conflict rather than run from it. The more you practice confronting and even embracing conflict, the stronger that habit will become.

Spanning world civilizations, synthesizing dozens of political, philosophical, and religious texts and thousands of years of violent conflict, The 33 Strategies of War is a comprehensive guide to the subtle social games of everyday life, informed by the most ingenious and effective military principles in war. Structured in Greene's trademark style, The 33 Strategies of War is the I Ching of conflict, the contemporary companion to Sun Tzu's The Art of War.

 Broken promises, missed deadlines, poor behavior - they don't just make others' lives miserable; they can sap up to 50 percent of organizational performance and account for the vast majority of divorces. Crucial Accountability offers the tools for improving relationships in the workplace and in life and for resolving all these problems - permanently.

The Outward Mindset presents compelling true stories to illustrate the gaps that individuals and organizations typically experience between their actual inward mindsets and their needed outward mindsets. And it provides simple yet profound guidance and tools to help bridge this mindset gap.

Family Business Management provides an accessible overview of the core aspects of family business, with an international, practice-based perspective. Structured in four parts, the book covers key topics such as family firm goals, conflict management, human resources, strategy, financial management, family and business governance, and succession planning. A wide variety of cases and examples are used throughout the book to highlight cultural and institutional differences between family businesses in contrasting contexts.

Arguments don’t have to wreck the night–or the relationship. They just need a translator. The 5 Conflict Languages reveals five distinct “fight dialects” most couples use and gives you one lightning-quick phrase plus a micro-action to calm each one in under two minutes.

This audiobook is a comprehensive guide to navigating leadership in the real world, blending traditional theories with practical, real-life experiences. Written from the perspective of someone who learned leadership on the job rather than in classrooms, it highlights the importance of emotional intelligence, adaptability, and continuous learning in effective leadership.

In the six lectures of How to Build and Maintain Trust in the Workplace, leadership coach Rachel Campagna will help you understand the importance of trust and how it works from a professional perspective. As you get a clearer picture of what trust entails and how it contributes to workplace success, you’ll also gain a greater appreciation for the importance of communication, consistency, and competence—the three Cs every effective team needs.

In this new edition, updates have been made to 30 percent of the audiobook that delves into the fresh challenges inherent in today's workplace, including new stories and case examples, as well as an entire additional chapter with a focus on humble inquiry in the context of remote and hybrid work.

The updated Thin Book of Trust offers a framework that supports trust building as a workplace competency. It is based on the idea that building trust is a competency, a set of skills that can be learned, improved, and practiced. It will help you continuously improve your ability to build and maintain trust with others. It can also help you create and contribute to a high-trust culture at work.

Bullies aren't limited to the playground. These days, they roam our offices and can be found everywhere from break rooms to boardrooms. They don't steal your lunch money, but they can make your work life a living hell - and even ruin your career. Whether the bully is a boss or a coworker...whether you're the target of manipulation, intimidation, verbal abuse, or deliberate humiliation, Beating the Workplace Bully will show you how to fight back.

Follow along as Dr. Liker explains the Lean Leadership Development Model (LLDM) and how it aligns with the accepted principles of operational excellence. Learn about the behaviors required to sustain it long term, and understand how leadership must walk the talk of "True North".

We all need help navigating the politics of ministry. In The Politics of Ministry, Bob Burns, Tasha Chapman, and Donald Guthrie combine their long ministry experience with sociological research on the topic. Filled with real-life stories taken from a variety of ministry settings, this book sets out wise principles and practices that help us see more clearly the political dynamics at play in our churches and parachurch ministries.  

Making progress on complex, problematic situations requires a new approach to working together: transformative facilitation, a structured and creative process for removing the obstacles to fluid forward movement. This book is for anyone who helps people work together to transform their situation, be it a professional facilitator, manager, consultant, coach, chairperson, organizer, mediator, stakeholder, or friend. It offers a broad and bold vision of the contribution that facilitation can make to helping people collaborate to make progress.

This audiobook will walk us through initial simple two party negotiations to multi-party negotiations, disputes, and mediation. These are basic principles taught in business school, in management seminars, and in leadership programs. Many of the principles are derived from countless books on the subject matter that were prolific in the 1980s and 1990s, and some as far back as the turn of the 20th century. You should be able to listen through this in one day, but make sure to bookmark the sections that you want to come back to, and come back to them often.

The Asshole Whisperer book for managers contains true stories and tips to deal with crappy leaders and jerks at work. You will learn how to use corporate values to hold people at work accountable for their conduct, how to give feedback about attitudes or behavior, and how to quickly assess and utilize personality traits (extrovert, introvert, ambivert) to your mutual benefit. Why? So, you can meet your goals and deadlines and to put it simply, get shit done. Assholes are part of our lives.

Experience the Power of Charismatic Leadership—Narrated by author John C. Maxwell! Is charisma essential for every leader? Absolutely. At its core, leadership is influence—nothing more, nothing less. And to influence others effectively, you must connect with them. In The Charismatic Leader...

The author of the world’s best-selling book on negotiation draws on his nearly fifty years of experience and knowledge grappling with the world’s toughest conflicts to offer a way out of the seemingly impossible problems of our time. Conflict is increasing everywhere, threatening everything...

Most investors chase headlines, trends, and short-term gains. Strategic investors build wealth by understanding the economic forces that actually drive long-term success. The Strategic Investor shows you how to think like a business economist instead of a market gambler. Rather than reacting to price swings and financial noise, this book teaches you how to evaluate real businesses, identify durable competitive advantages, understand incentives, recognize market cycles, and position your portfolio for steady compounding over time.

101 Tough Conversations to Have with Employees provides guidance for managers on how to broach uncomfortable conversations across a wide range of issues. Summary: Inappropriate workplace conduct, lateness, sexually offensive behavior, productivity and communication issues . . . these are just a...

For ages, philosophers, self-help gurus, religious teachers, and artists have been discussing the power of affirmations. René Descartes said, “I think, therefore I Am”. Moses in answering the Pharaoh’s question as to who sent him said, “I Am”. Even the rap artist Eminem said, “I Am whatever you say I Am, if I wasn’t why would I say I Am.” The question then looms, if positive affirmations work so well, then why isn’t everyone using them to excel in their lives? The simple answer is, that they don’t feel like their affirmations work.

Führung entsteht im Moment eines Satzes. In der Klarheit, die bleibt, wenn alles andere unscharf wird. Dieses Buch zeigt, wie Worte Orientierung schaffen – leise, präzise, wirksam. Führung wirkt nicht über Methoden oder Rollenmodelle, sondern über Sprache. Über Sätze, die Orientierung geben. Über Fragen, die Räume öffnen. Über Formulierungen, die Unsicherheit benennen, ohne sie zu vergrößern. „Führung ist Sprache“ erklärt die psychologische Mechanik dieser Momente: Warum präzise Worte Halt erzeugen. Wie Unklarheit Konflikte nährt.

La menzogna svelata non è un manuale per smascherare le bugie, ma un libro per comprendere cosa accade realmente nelle relazioni professionali quando la verità fatica a emergere. Nel lavoro, nelle aziende, nella vendita e nella negoziazione, le persone raramente mentono per ingannare. Molto più spesso lo fanno per proteggersi: dal giudizio, dal conflitto, dalla perdita di ruolo o di credibilità.