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  • Why Relationships Feel Uncertain Before They Transform
    2026/06/11

    Join us in this episode as we discuss the space in-between change. These 'liminal' spaces often exist when the couple is trying to change and act as a bridge between what they once were, and what there becoming.

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

    Check out our Weekly Podcast:

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Relationship Cycle Reset:

    If you are interested in learning more about our relationship cycles reset program, click the link below and we would be happy to provide the details.

    Sign up for a Exploratory Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

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    23 分
  • How Butterfly's Effect Your Relationship
    2026/06/04

    In this episode we discuss how butterflies affect your relationship by examining chaos theory and how the little things have big returns. Great listen!

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

    Check out our Weekly Podcast:

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Cycle Reset Program:

    If you are interested in learning how to break those negative patterns that keep you stuck in your relationship, sign up for an exploratory call and we would be happy to walk you through the details. No obligation.

    Sign up for a Exploratory Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq


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    28 分
  • How To Create 'Real' Transformation In Your Relationship
    2026/05/28

    Join us in this episode where we discuss First Order, versus Second Order change and how to create sustained transformation in your relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

    Check out our Weekly Podcast:

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Relationship Cycle Reset:

    If you are interested in learning more about our Relationship Cycle Reset program, click the link below and we would be happy to walk you through the program to see if you are a good fit.

    Sign up for a Exploratory Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

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    25 分
  • Why It's Hard To Trust Your Partner When They Say "I'm Sorry"
    2026/05/21

    Join us in this episode on the 12 reasons why it hard to believe your partner when they say I'm Sorry. And, how to give a good apology.

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

    Check out our Weekly Podcast:

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Relationship Cycle Reset Program:

    If you are tired of repeating the same patterns in your relationship, clock the link below to learn more about our Cycle Rest program and to see if you are a good fit.

    Sign up for a Exploratory Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq


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    29 分
  • The Psychology Behind 'Why' Couples Trigger Each Other
    2026/05/14

    In this episode we discuss 'why' couples trigger each other. You will learn how the nervous system reacts, the unmet attachment needs that go unnoticed, and the stories you tell yourself that become self-fulfilling prophecies.


    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

    Check out our Weekly Podcast:

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Cycle Reset:

    If you are interested in learning more about our Cycle Reset program, click on the link below and sign up for an Exploratory Call to see if you are a good fit. No obligation necessary.

    Sign up for a Exploratory Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq


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    22 分
  • The 'Hidden Benefits' of Negative Cycles
    2026/05/07

    In this episode we discuss the hidden benefits of negative cycles. You will learn why cycle may have hidden benefits, and how to uncover them so you can get your 'real' needs met.


    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/


    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide


    Check out our Weekly Podcast:

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP


    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/


    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp


    Cycle Reset Program:

    If you want to learn more about our Cycle Reset program you can sign up for an Exploratory Call and we would be happy to walk you through the program to see if you are a fit.

    Sign up for a Exploratory Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq


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    23 分
  • Why "Good Communication Skills" Can't Fix Bad Cycles
    2026/04/30

    In this episode we discuss how even the best communicators cannot fix a bad cycles. In fact, cycles break down communication. Find out why?

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/


    Download our FREE "Get to the Root of the Problem eBook:

    https://traumafreerelationship.com/getting-to-the-root-guide


    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/


    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp


    Cycle Reset Program:

    If you are interested in learning more about our Cycle Rest program you can schedule a Clarity Call at the link below and we can discuss if you are a good fit.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

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    29 分
  • What You're REALLY Feeling Underneath Anger
    2026/04/23

    In this episode we discuss, 1) Why anger is not the primary emotion, 2) What anger is really masking, and 3) How anger fuels cycles that keep couples stuck.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Cycle Reset Program:

    We help couples break their painful patterns that keep them stuck so they can communicate better, repair more quickly, and stay connected longer. If you are interested in learning more about how we can help, I invite you to sign up for a Clarity Call and see if you are a good fit for our program.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

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    22 分