Why are this year’s costumes mid while horror cafés and niche coffee shops are thriving? We get into men flopping photo poses (sorry, Travis), Eric André winning, Sabrina-core, the Xbox → Sega pipeline, and how third spaces beat corporate beige. The nerds won, the vibes are local, and Halloween doesn’t end on Oct 31 it just moves to your favorite spooky café.

In this solo episode, I break down why we need monsters and why we keep making new ones. Drawing from Frankenstein, queer horror, and modern psychology, “The Myth of the Monster” explores what happens when difference gets mistaken for danger.

We talk dehumanization bias, cultural fear, and the instinct to exile whatever reminds us we’re not as healed as we pretend.

Sources:

• Shelley, M. (1818). Frankenstein; or, The Modern Prometheus.

• Allport, G. (1954). The Nature of Prejudice. Addison-Wesley.

• Haslam, N. (2006). “Dehumanization: An Integrative Review.” Personality and Social Psychology Review, 10(3), 252–264.

• Benshoff, H. M. (1997). Monsters in the Closet: Homosexuality and the Horror Film. Manchester University Press.

• Farrimond, K. (2020). “Horror as a Safe Space for Queer Identity.” Feminist Media Studies.

• Cohen, J. J. (1996). “Monster Culture (Seven Theses).” In Monster Theory.

• Tufekci, Z. (2018). Twitter and Tear Gas: The Power and Fragility of Networked Protest. Yale University Press.

Eva (@birdlets) is back to talk spooky with us! In this episode, we map the spectrum of October: from pumpkin-patch cozy to slasher-movie chaos. We talk why Jennifer’s Body sits weirdly (and importantly) in the queer canon, and how horror can be cathartic when you feel physically safe, mentally detached, and in control. We trade childhood Halloween stories, Bloody Mary bathroom lore, and a couple UFO tales that had the jets circling (yes, really). It’s anxiety, nostalgia, and autumn aesthetics in one place with a tease for next time: the micro-revival of horror culture in everyday spaces.

Cold fronts, rain-memory, and Horror Nights chainsaws. Salem plans, pumpkin pie beef, Sonic nostalgia, VR ethics and a real talk pit stop on SAD, sleep, and why your October mood isn’t just “in your head.” Press play cause we’re carving deeper.

Spooky season used to start on October 1. Now it rolls in with a PSL in late August. In pt. 1 of this spooky series, we ask why Halloween keeps creeping earlier, how retail turned September into Spirit Month, and why Thanksgiving got ghosted. We swap school-parade nostalgia, Cartoon Network Blair Witch memories, and debate whimsical-cozy vs. gore-for-sport horror. Also on the table: climate change, capitalism, and the seasonal identity crisis.

In this episode, we break down what real hope looks like when life’s falling apart: not blind optimism, not “good vibes only,” but psychological grounding, micro-rituals, and the small ways we keep going. We’ll talk about the science behind hope (Snyder’s Hope Theory), how to rebuild it through agency and action, and what it means to treat hope as resistance instead of denial.

If you’ve been running on empty, this one’s for you.

Sources:

1. Snyder, C. R. (1994). The Psychology of Hope: You Can Get There from Here.
Foundational text on Hope Theory, defining hope as a cognitive process made of three components: goals, pathways, and agency.

2. Berkeley Well-Being Institute. “What Is Hope and How to Cultivate It.”
Explains hope as a measurable mindset, outlines Snyder’s Hope Theory, and links to practical exercises for building it.

3. Psychology Today. “How to Build Hope in Troubled Times.”
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/your-personal-renaissance/202504/how-to-build-hope-in-troubled-times
4. EAP at The University of Texas at Austin. “The Science and Power of Hope.”
https://eap.utexas.edu/news/lessons-science-and-power-hope

5. Our Mental Health. “Unlock Success with Hope Theory: Achieve Goals and Enhance Well-being.”
https://www.ourmental.health/positive-psychology/unlock-success-with-hope-theory-achieve-goals-and-enhance-well-being

6. Brown, Brené. (2010). The Gifts of Imperfection.

7. Solnit, Rebecca. (2004). Hope in the Dark: Untold Histories, Wild Possibilities.

We start with a simple question “How old were you when you discovered sparkling water?” and end up everywhere: LaCroix slander, Topo Chico devotion, why block cheese > pre-shredded, and how pineapple on pizza became a personality quiz. Along the way, we talk about depression turning soda cravings into seltzer habits, being a “food freak” vs. “food cautious,” sushi redemption arcs, and Thai home-cooking love. Then it gets real: an Uber Eats drop off that turned dangerous, three kids yelling “ICE” for laughs, and the case for calling out your friends before the cops do. We close with a story about breaking up with a childhood best friend over weed, losing religion, finding our voices, and the weird way taste buds and beliefs mature together.

Eva is back for this episode, and what starts as lighthearted banter quickly unravels into something deeper. We drift from MySpace nostalgia and high school what-ifs to stories of secret crushes, masking, and the strange ways memory rewrites our past. Along the way we reflect on missed chances, adolescent anxieties, and how the digital spaces we grew up in shaped who we are now. It’s messy, funny, vulnerable, and like high school itself, equal parts cringe and unforgettable.