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  • Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | Full Moon & Ovulation: How to Care for Yourself at Peak Energy
    2026/06/29

    This week's Healing Her Story episode tunes into the energy of the full moon, landing on the rare day when the episode airs right alongside the actual peak.

    As Cancer season continues, the focus for these Monday episodes remains on care. And today's invitations apply just as much to this full moon as they do to your inner summer, your ovulation time.

    But this carries profound wisdom about how to work with peak energy rather than against it.

    The full moon is a time of fullness. The light is at its peak. And in the menstrual cycle, estrogen is at its peak too. In this episode, Riva shares three invitations for moving through this intensified energy with more support and intention.

    She covers:

    Creative expression — why getting what is inside of you outside of you, through art, cooking, movement, or making, is one of the most healing things you can do during this phase

    Connection — discerning what nourishes you right now, whether that is a solo date, deep rest, or a long dinner with a friend who actually fills you up

    Taking action — why the full moon has a way of making things undeniable, and why now might be the time to finally move on what you have been overthinking

    Riva closes with an invitation to celebrate yourself this week, drawing on the trauma-informed concept of resourcing, acknowledging what is already going well as a way to build confidence and create space for more positive change.

    Donation-Based Trauma-Informed Somatic Meditation to Support You, This Week 🤲🏼🌹

    Somatic Body Scan for Self-Love and Body Appreciation

    This simple practice invites you to pause, breathe, and reconnect with your body in a gentle and trauma-informed way.

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    Our intro and outro song, Reclamation (Reborn), is an anthem of remembering.

    This song was created as a companion for the healing journey, especially for women reclaiming their voices, their rhythms, and their belonging in a world shaped by patriarchy.

    You’re invited to listen, feel, and let the music meet you wherever you are.

    Looking for support? Here's how to go deeper:

    • Book a Somatic Assessment: Your 75-min 1:1 virtual session to explore what your body is holding and shape a personalized care plan. Book Here
    • Free Trauma Recovery Mini-Course: A self-guided intro to trauma recovery and nervous system care. Download Here
    • 1:1 and Group Support: Virtual and in-person offerings. Learn More
    • Meditations on Insight Timer: Guided practices for nervous system regulation. Listen Here
    • Watch Reclamation: A music video and expressive arts project. Watch Here

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    19 分
  • Why Women Are Exhausted: The Price of Carrying Care in a World That Doesn't Value It
    2026/06/26

    This week's Healing Her Story episode opens a new cycle with a focus on care. What it costs. Who provides it. And why so many women are running on empty.

    Riva revisits a conversation she started on the show last year, this time with a deeper understanding, not just intellectually, but in her own body and nervous system.

    But this carries profound wisdom about what happens when an entire society fails to value the work that holds it together.

    In this episode, Riva breaks down the staggering economic reality of unpaid care work in America, the racial disparities within that data, and why care work remains one of the most undervalued forms of labor in the world. She explores the biological truth that oxytocin, not dopamine, is the primary regulator of the female nervous system, and why so many women are not receiving the reciprocal connection their bodies actually need to thrive.

    She also gets personal, sharing her own ongoing search for answers through the Western medical system, and why so many women leave talk therapy feeling like it simply wasn't built for them.

    In this episode Riva explores:

    The real dollar value of unpaid care work and why the numbers look different across race

    Why care work is the most essential industry in the world and remains chronically underpaid

    The biological need for oxytocin in the female nervous system and why dopamine-driven productivity culture leaves women depleted

    Why your rage, anxiety, and exhaustion are not problems to fix but intelligent responses to an oppressive system

    What it actually means to receive care rather than only give it

    This episode closes with three questions Riva invites you to sit with: do you see your caregiving as valuable, do you feel obligated to care for others at the expense of yourself, and is it easier to show up for others than for yourself.

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    Our intro and outro song, Reclamation (Reborn), is an anthem of remembering.

    This song was created as a companion for the healing journey, especially for women reclaiming their voices, their rhythms, and their belonging in a world shaped by patriarchy.

    You’re invited to listen, feel, and let the music meet you wherever you are.

    Looking for support? Here's how to go deeper:

    • Book a Somatic Assessment: Your 75-min 1:1 virtual session to explore what your body is holding and shape a personalized care plan. Book Here
    • Free Trauma Recovery Mini-Course: A self-guided intro to trauma recovery and nervous system care. Download Here
    • 1:1 and Group Support: Virtual and in-person offerings. Learn More
    • Meditations on Insight Timer: Guided practices for nervous system regulation. Listen Here
    • Watch Reclamation: A music video and expressive arts project. Watch Here

    Follow on Instagram: @healingherstorypodcast

    Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Email riva@windsofchangesac.com or DM @healingherstorypodcast on Instagram.

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    33 分
  • Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | Stop Pushing Too Hard Too Fast: Waxing Moon Self-Care for a Sustainable Cycle
    2026/06/22

    This week's Healing Her Story episode tunes into the energy of the waxing moon and the follicular phase, one of the most tender and misunderstood windows of the cycle.

    This is a transitional energy. Estrogen is rising. The light is returning. And so often, this is exactly where women push too hard too fast, burning out before they even reach ovulation.

    But this carries profound wisdom about how to move through this phase with care instead of force.

    In this episode, Riva explores what the waxing moon is actually for. Not maximum output, but grounded, sustainable momentum. She shares her own evolving practices, including slow strength training, morning nourishment, and why progesterone loves steadiness and consistency.

    She covers:

    Why grounding matters most during this rising energy and how to find what actually grounds you

    Why this is the perfect time to explore something new without the pressure of committing yet

    Why HIIT and intense cardio aren't always the answer here and what gentle, joyful movement can offer instead

    A simple anchor question for Cancer season — how can you tend to yourself the way you tend to everyone else

    If you have ever crashed right before ovulation and wondered why, this episode will help you understand what your body actually needed.

    A Special Offering

    Riva also shares a new menstrual cycle coaching package called Synchronize, with two spots available at the pilot rate through August. The next step is booking a Somatic Assessment and Care Planning Session to explore if this is the right fit for you. Book Here

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    Our intro and outro song, Reclamation (Reborn), is an anthem of remembering.

    This song was created as a companion for the healing journey, especially for women reclaiming their voices, their rhythms, and their belonging in a world shaped by patriarchy.

    You’re invited to listen, feel, and let the music meet you wherever you are.

    Looking for support? Here's how to go deeper:

    • Book a Somatic Assessment: Your 75-min 1:1 virtual session to explore what your body is holding and shape a personalized care plan. Book Here
    • Free Trauma Recovery Mini-Course: A self-guided intro to trauma recovery and nervous system care. Download Here
    • 1:1 and Group Support: Virtual and in-person offerings. Learn More
    • Meditations on Insight Timer: Guided practices for nervous system regulation. Listen Here
    • Watch Reclamation: A music video and expressive arts project. Watch Here

    Follow on Instagram: @healingherstorypodcast

    Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Email riva@windsofchangesac.com or DM @healingherstorypodcast on Instagram.

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    28 分
  • Living Beyond the Box: Creativity, Multiplicity & Self-Expression with Dr. Tavina Lynn
    2026/06/19

    This week's Healing Her Story episode welcomes a guest whose life refuses to fit inside a single box.

    Dr. Tavina Lynn holds a PhD in Chemistry and teaches at Sacramento City College. She is also a writer, a dancer, a creative visionary. And for years, she believed she had to choose between these parts of herself.

    But this carries profound wisdom about what becomes possible when we stop choosing.

    Riva and Tavina met at a mural project, and the instant connection that followed set the stage for this conversation. In honor of Gemini season, this episode explores multiplicity, duality, and what it means to be more than one thing.

    They cover:

    Growing up in chaos and finding structure through learning and how that shaped Tavina's relationship to curiosity

    The internal pressure to choose between science and art and the misery that came from forcing herself into chemistry alone

    How COVID became an unexpected reset that reconnected her to her multifaceted self

    Why rigid, linear systems no longer serve everyone and how the breakdown of those systems creates space for something more fluid

    The real cost of suppressing parts of yourself to belong and why true belonging starts with accepting yourself first

    Creative life force energy and what it feels like to be danced by the dance instead of controlling it

    This episode is an invitation to stop asking which version of you is allowed to show up, and start asking what becomes possible when all of you does.

    Connect with Dr. Tavina Lynn:

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    Tavina’s Book: STILL in My Mother’s Womb: A Daughter’s Healing Experience

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    Our intro and outro song, Reclamation (Reborn), is an anthem of remembering.

    This song was created as a companion for the healing journey, especially for women reclaiming their voices, their rhythms, and their belonging in a world shaped by patriarchy.

    You’re invited to listen, feel, and let the music meet you wherever you are.

    Looking for support? Here's how to go deeper:

    • Book a Somatic Assessment: Your 75-min 1:1 virtual session to explore what your body is holding and shape a personalized care plan. Book Here
    • Free Trauma Recovery Mini-Course: A self-guided intro to trauma recovery and nervous system care. Download Here
    • 1:1 and Group Support: Virtual and in-person offerings. Learn More
    • Meditations on Insight Timer: Guided practices for nervous system regulation. Listen Here
    • Watch Reclamation: A music video and expressive arts project. Watch Here

    Follow on Instagram: @healingherstorypodcast

    Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Email riva@windsofchangesac.com or DM @healingherstorypodcast on Instagram.

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    1 時間 26 分
  • Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | How to Actually Care for Yourself at the New Moon
    2026/06/15

    The new moon is here — and so is a new focus for our Cycle Sync episodes. This week, Riva introduces the themes of Cancer season as a guiding lens for the cycles ahead, with one central question at the heart of it all: how do we actually care for ourselves?

    This episode is an invitation to move away from rigid, one-size-fits-all self-care and toward something more fluid, personal, and cyclically aware. Riva shares how the new moon and menstruating phase call us toward lower energy, inward focus, and genuine rest — and what it practically looks like to create, prioritize, and protect that rest in a busy life.

    In This Episode

    • Introducing Cancer season and its themes of care: self-care, community care, and deeper nurturance
    • How Riva's own self-care shifts between structured seasons and spacious ones
    • The new moon and menstruating phase: what to expect energetically and how to work with it
    • A practical strategy for protecting rest using your calendar
    • What rest actually means — and why Netflix might not be cutting it
    • Restorative movement ideas for the new moon phase
    • Alone time vs. social recharging: how to discern what you actually need
    • Why there is no universal prescription for self-care — and why that's a good thing

    Ready to go deeper? Download the Cycle Support Map — your guide to tracking and working with your cycle week by week.

    Send us Fan Mail

    Our intro and outro song, Reclamation (Reborn), is an anthem of remembering.

    This song was created as a companion for the healing journey, especially for women reclaiming their voices, their rhythms, and their belonging in a world shaped by patriarchy.

    You’re invited to listen, feel, and let the music meet you wherever you are.

    Looking for support? Here's how to go deeper:

    • Book a Somatic Assessment: Your 75-min 1:1 virtual session to explore what your body is holding and shape a personalized care plan. Book Here
    • Free Trauma Recovery Mini-Course: A self-guided intro to trauma recovery and nervous system care. Download Here
    • 1:1 and Group Support: Virtual and in-person offerings. Learn More
    • Meditations on Insight Timer: Guided practices for nervous system regulation. Listen Here
    • Watch Reclamation: A music video and expressive arts project. Watch Here

    Follow on Instagram: @healingherstorypodcast

    Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Email riva@windsofchangesac.com or DM @healingherstorypodcast on Instagram.

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    37 分
  • Moon Phases & Feminine Power: Your Weekly Cycle Sync | The Duality of the Waning Moon: Rest, Momentum, and Healing
    2026/06/08

    This week's Healing Her Story episode attunes to the energy of the waning moon --- one of the most misunderstood transitions in the lunar cycle.

    Because this phase is not just about slowing down.

    But this carries profound wisdom about what the waning moon is actually asking for -- and why it looks different for every woman.

    In this episode, Riva explores the duality of the waning moon and luteal phase through the lens of Gemini season. This is a bridge phase. Not fully yang. Not fully yin. And that in-between quality is exactly what makes it so rich.

    She covers:

    Why some women still feel momentum during this phase and how to channel that energy wisely into completion and preparation

    The nesting impulse -- closing loops, clearing space and tending to your future self

    Why connection becomes deeply regulating during this time and what the female nervous system actually needs

    The other side of the duality -- slowing down, saying no, and leaning into rest when the body asks for it

    Why your experience of this phase may look completely different from cycle to cycle and from woman to woman

    The deeper invitation this week -- not to follow a formula, but to pause and sense what you actually need

    This episode is a reminder that cycle syncing is about so much more than productivity. It is about embodying a different way of being entirely.

    Send us Fan Mail

    Our intro and outro song, Reclamation (Reborn), is an anthem of remembering.

    This song was created as a companion for the healing journey, especially for women reclaiming their voices, their rhythms, and their belonging in a world shaped by patriarchy.

    You’re invited to listen, feel, and let the music meet you wherever you are.

    Looking for support? Here's how to go deeper:

    • Book a Somatic Assessment: Your 75-min 1:1 virtual session to explore what your body is holding and shape a personalized care plan. Book Here
    • Free Trauma Recovery Mini-Course: A self-guided intro to trauma recovery and nervous system care. Download Here
    • 1:1 and Group Support: Virtual and in-person offerings. Learn More
    • Meditations on Insight Timer: Guided practices for nervous system regulation. Listen Here
    • Watch Reclamation: A music video and expressive arts project. Watch Here

    Follow on Instagram: @healingherstorypodcast

    Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Email riva@windsofchangesac.com or DM @healingherstorypodcast on Instagram.

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    21 分
  • Why Your Nervous System Responds Better to Curiosity Than Criticism
    2026/06/05

    This week's Healing Her Story episode explores something that doesn't get talked about enough in healing spaces.

    Curiosity.

    Not as a personality trait. As a biological necessity.

    In this solo episode, Riva shares one of the most fundamental shifts she made in her own healing journey -- from relentless self-judgment to genuine curiosity. And why that shift changed everything. Not just emotionally. Biologically.

    She opens up about the years she spent trying to force change. Meditating more, scrolling less, thinking more positively, losing weight -- all at the same time. And how every time she fell short, the inner critic got louder. The loop got tighter. And the change she so desperately wanted never came.

    It wasn't until she discovered trauma-informed care that she understood why.

    Judgment creates unsafety in the nervous system. And an unsafe nervous system cannot change.

    In this episode she explores:

    Why everything your system does is a protective strategy and not a personal failing

    How curiosity literally primes the brain to form new neural pathways and learn

    The dopamine connection and why curious people tolerate uncertainty and discomfort better

    Why safety has to come before curiosity and the somatic practices that create that foundation

    How to begin shifting from "what is wrong with me" to "I wonder why this is happening" -- and what that tiny shift does inside your body

    If you have ever felt stuck in the loop of trying hard, falling short, and judging yourself for it -- this episode will finally help you understand why. And what to do instead.

    Resources to Support You This Week:

    Free Trauma Recovery Mini Course -- Three foundational pillars of trauma recovery with short somatic practices to help your nervous system move toward regulation and safety.

    Send us Fan Mail

    Our intro and outro song, Reclamation (Reborn), is an anthem of remembering.

    This song was created as a companion for the healing journey, especially for women reclaiming their voices, their rhythms, and their belonging in a world shaped by patriarchy.

    You’re invited to listen, feel, and let the music meet you wherever you are.

    Looking for support? Here's how to go deeper:

    • Book a Somatic Assessment: Your 75-min 1:1 virtual session to explore what your body is holding and shape a personalized care plan. Book Here
    • Free Trauma Recovery Mini-Course: A self-guided intro to trauma recovery and nervous system care. Download Here
    • 1:1 and Group Support: Virtual and in-person offerings. Learn More
    • Meditations on Insight Timer: Guided practices for nervous system regulation. Listen Here
    • Watch Reclamation: A music video and expressive arts project. Watch Here

    Follow on Instagram: @healingherstorypodcast

    Subscribe so you never miss an episode. Email riva@windsofchangesac.com or DM @healingherstorypodcast on Instagram.

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    23 分