Episode Description – I’m Done

In this episode of Healing Doesn’t Have to Hurt, April and Andrea explore what it really means to be done — that breaking point when burnout meets surrender. Whether it’s a relationship, a job, or just life feeling too heavy, they talk about how “done” can actually be a doorway to healing.

Through honest conversation and gentle humor, they unpack the difference between giving up and letting go, the childhood messages that keep us pushing past our limits, and how to recognize when your body and mind are asking for rest. With practical tools for nervous system regulation and self-compassion, they remind us that being done doesn’t mean you’re broken — it means your body is calling you back to peace.

Because sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do is stop trying to fix it all and finally surrender.

In this episode of Healing Doesn’t Have to Hurt, April and Andrea dive into the many layers of feeling “tired.” From physical fatigue and soul exhaustion to the existential weariness that comes with living through challenging times, they unpack how modern life and even “good” busyness can drain our energy.

Through honest reflection and relatable stories, they explore how rest isn’t something to be earned but a vital part of healing. The hosts share practical tools for calming the nervous system, restoring balance, and finding peace through mindful rest and energy medicine techniques.

You’ll also learn a simple grounding exercise that helps release eye and body fatigue, plus a few lighthearted moments to remind us that healing can include laughter, too.

In this episode of Healing Doesn’t Have to Hurt, April and Andrea unpack the phrase we all use but rarely mean: “I’m fine.” Together, they explore how this universal mask hides our true emotions, creates disconnection, and keeps us in survival mode. They reflect on the childhood messages that taught us to suppress feelings, the exhaustion of constant masking, and how perfectionism, people-pleasing, and over-giving often keep us from authenticity.

With warmth and humor (including a memorable bra analogy), they share practical tools like grounding exercises and gentle self-regulation practices to help us recognize when we’re hiding, soften the inner critic, and safely return to alignment. This episode is a reminder that healing starts with awareness, choice, and the courage to show up as our real selves.

We’re overwhelmed — plain and simple. Between juggling work, family, and all the things we think we should be doing, sometimes it just feels like too much. In this episode we talk honestly about that feeling, why it happens, and how we’re trying to give ourselves a little more grace in the middle of it. We also share what’s helping us regulate and find some relief from the suffering of overwhelm.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re running in a hundred directions at once, you’re not alone — we’re right there with you.

In this episode of Healing Doesn’t Have to Hurt, your hosts dive into the very real experience of feeling stuck.

From decision fatigue to decision paralysis, they unpack how these struggles are connected to the nervous system and our past experiences. They explore why making even the smallest choice can feel overwhelming, how trauma shapes our responses, and why sometimes the safest option feels like doing nothing at all.

You’ll hear practical tools for moving forward, the importance of nervous system regulation, and how finding alignment can shift decision-making from fear to clarity. Plus, they share personal stories, tiny pivots that create relief, and a simple mantra for choosing what feels like a “hell yes” in your life.

If you’ve ever felt paralyzed by choices or worn out from constant decision-making, this conversation will give you insights, compassion, and gentle strategies to move toward peace and alignment.

✨ Episode 2: I’m a Mess

Ever feel like you’re falling apart—like no matter how hard you try, you just can’t keep it together? You’re not broken. You’re not weak. You’re human.

In this episode of Healing Doesn’t Have to Hurt, we talk about what’s really happening when you feel like a mess: your nervous system is doing its job to protect you, sometimes by shutting things down. We’ll unpack why this happens, how it shows up in everyday life, and most importantly, how to meet yourself with compassion when your body says, “enough.”

Because you don’t need fixing—you need understanding. 💙

In this first episode, we explore the idea that growth and transformation don’t have to come from suffering. Through personal stories including a powerful lesson from a traditional sweat lodge in Mexico and a breakthrough experience with belief-change practices. We challenge the “no pain, no gain” mindset often tied to healing. You’ll also learn a simple, science-backed technique for calming your nervous system: the humming effect. Join us as we set the stage for a podcast that’s all about gentle, empowering ways to heal and align.