In this episode of Healing Doesn’t Have to Hurt, April and Andrea take an honest, deeply human look at shame—what it is, where it comes from, and why it can feel so paralyzing and all-consuming. They explore how shame is not about what we do, but about who we believe we are, and how quickly it can collapse our sense of self.Drawing from personal experiences, clinical insight, and the foundational work of Brené Brown, they unpack the concept of the shame spiral (or “shame storm”)—those moments when embarrassment, fear, or feeling “in trouble” instantly pulls us into shutdown. They discuss how shame lives in the body, how it’s shaped by childhood, family, school, and society, and why it so often leads to masking, overcompensating, and isolation.This episode also offers practical, body-based tools for navigating shame when it shows up. April and Andrea share simple regulation techniques—like posture shifts, movement, naming the experience, humor, breathwork, and gentle self-soothing—to help bring the nervous system out of collapse and back into safety.Shame thrives in silence, but healing happens in awareness and connection. This conversation is an invitation to meet shame with curiosity instead of judgment—and to remember that you are not broken, defective, or alone.