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  • Diary of an Ex Ho Episode 105 Ruby Doll: I can have anything I _____ want
    2026/05/19

    From Mormon Mission to Sexual Liberation: Comedian Ruby Do Gets RealIn this episode of Diary of an Ex Ho, we sit down with the hilarious Portland-based comedian and fellow podcaster, Ruby (Rue) Do. Rue opens up about her fascinating journey from growing up in a strict religious household to finding her true self through comedy, polyamory, and radical self-love.We dive deep into:The "Sexual Awakening": How a Mormon mission in Nicaragua changed Rue's perspective on her own attraction to women.Mary Shag Kill: Rue plays the "Jennifer Edition"—wait until you hear what she says about Jennifer Coolidge!Porn & Body Image: A candid look at how the adult industry affects our self-esteem and the difference between entertainment and education.Polyamory & Power: Rue shares a personal story about navigating multiple partners in California and the empowerment that comes with honesty and "owning your company."Whether she’s discussing her sexual bucket list (including an orgy and a train!) or why she’s attracted to "simple, honest dudes," Rue brings a refreshing, no-filter energy that you don't want to miss.Connect with our guest, Ruby Do:Instagram: @Ruby_DoPodcast: Motherhood, Sex, & MarijuanaTIMESTAMPS0:00 - Intro & Regrets Policy1:08 - Meet Ruby: Orientation & Relationship Status2:30 - Game Time: Mary Shag Kill (The Jennifer Edition)4:15 - Hooking up in the Comedy Scene5:05 - Relationship Role Models: Parents & Simple Love7:40 - Sexual Awakening: Growing up Mormon & Nicaragua9:23 - Celebrity Crushes & "Spunkiness"10:30 - Physical Types (Size Matters?)11:15 - Movie Sex Scenes: Monster's Ball & Unfaithful12:10 - The Truth About Porn & Body Issues14:00 - Defining "Amazing Sex"16:00 - The Wheel of Sex: Fetishes & Regrets17:50 - The Sexual Bucket List19:00 - Motherhood, Sex, & Marijuana Podcast19:40 - A Story of Polyamory & Self-LoveABOUT DIARY OF AN EX HOWelcome to Diary of an Ex Ho, the podcast where we strip away the shame and talk openly about sex, relationships, and the journeys that make us who we are today. Hosted with wit and zero judgment.Subscribe for more episodes every Wednesday!#DiaryOfAnExHo #RubyDo #ComedyPodcast #Polyamory #SexualLiberation #MormonToMainstream #Relationships #PortlandComedy #SexPositiveCheri Hardman is a comedian from Tacoma, WA. She performs all over the United States and also has a podcast called Diary of an Ex Ho where she talks to other comedians about their love lives. Cheri's humor is irreverent and often deals with adult topics. She is available for private parties such as bachelorette or birthday parties.Cheri produces 2 independent comedy shows that she can bring to your town, Roast Your Ex and Diary of an Ex Ho Live.You can find her current schedule on her website at https://www.cherihardman.com

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  • Diary of an Ex Ho Episode 104 Mx Dahlia Belle: A Bottom's Bottom
    2026/05/19

    "Every pussy is special." Welcome back to Diary of an Ex-Ho! This week, I’m joined by the incredibly sharp and dry-witted Mixed Dahlia Bell, a queer comedian from Portland, Oregon. We dive deep into the logistics of "Creature Edition" Mary-Shag-Kill, the reality of "impromptu green room blowjobs," and why being a "bottom’s bottom" is a full-time job.Dahlia shares her "sexual awakening" story involving a red-headed proto-twink, her medically diagnosed "fat ass," and the hilarious (and slightly traumatic) David Bowie-inspired story of her very first hookup. If you’ve ever wondered if your husband is the love of your life or just a very dedicated stalker, this episode is for you!In this episode, we discuss:Mary-Shag-Kill: Godzilla vs. King Kong vs. Bigfoot (it gets logistical).Relationship Models: Navigating 54 years of parental codependency.Sexual Bucket Lists: Why Dahlia is saving a gangbang for retirement.The Labyrinth Effect: How David Bowie’s bulge changed everything.Comedy Life: Hooking up with audience members and the etiquette of "The Green Room."🕒 Key Moments0:00 – Welcome to Diary of an Ex-Ho!1:37 – Mary-Shag-Kill: The Creature Edition (Bigfoot Logistics)4:10 – Have you ever hooked up with someone because of comedy?6:18 – Growing up with 54 years of codependency9:15 – Celebrity crushes: Boy George & Cyndi Lauper11:42 – "You're kind of scary": Cheri on Dahlia’s dry delivery12:22 – The Crying Game & trans representation in the 90s15:00 – The reality of sex and aging (It’s a lot of lube)17:18 – The Sexual Bucket List: The "Starter" Gangbang20:41 – Medically diagnosed with a fat ass25:05 – The Labyrinth Story: A Catholic school boy and a moral crisis🔗 Connect with the GuestFollow Mixed Dahlia Bell for more dry wit and show dates:📸 Instagram: @mix.daliabelle🎟️ See her at Only the Baddest at Nosh Pit (Portland) on the 14th!🎙️ Support the PodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, please Subscribe, hit the Bell Icon, and leave a comment below!Follow Cheri Hardman: @CheriHardmanListen on Spotify/Apple Podcasts: [Search "Diary of an Ex-Ho"]#ComedyPodcast #DiaryOfAnExHo #CheriHardman #MixedDahliaBell #StandUpComedy #LGBTQComedy #SexPositive #PortlandComedy #TacomaComedyCheri Hardman is a comedian from Tacoma, WA. She performs all over the United States and also has a podcast called Diary of an Ex Ho where she talks to other comedians about their love lives. Cheri's humor is irreverent and often deals with adult topics. She is available for private parties such as bachelorette or birthday parties.Cheri produces 2 independent comedy shows that she can bring to your town, Roast Your Ex and Diary of an Ex Ho Live.You can find her current schedule on her website at https://www.cherihardman.com

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  • Diary of an Ex Ho Episode 103 Mack Lee
    2025/11/19

    In this candid and hilarious episode of Diary of an Ex Ho, host Cheri Hardman welcomes bisexual Portland comedian and writer Mack Lee (they/them)! Mack, currently in an open relationship, dives deep into the complexities of their love life, including how their parents' caregiver dynamic warped their idea of love, dating within the comedy scene, and the spicy story of how they met and married their ex-wife (who was previously married to their childhood best friend!).

    You won't want to miss Mack's hot takes on:

    • Marry, Shag, Kill (Nice Guy Edition): Bob Ross, Betty White, & Mr. Rogers! (1:19)

    • The Comedy Scene: Hooking up with fellow comedians—the embarrassing one, the ongoing one, and the one who became a friend. (2:55)

    • A Twisted Idea of Love: How growing up with a caregiver parent affected Mack's anxious attachment style and instinct to over-give. (4:30)

    • Sexual Awakening: From grinding on the couch as a kid to their celebrity crush on emo singer Connor Oberst. (5:50)

    • Dating App Turnoffs: Why marketing yourself online is just gross. (8:40)

    • The Kink Corner: Why a 10/10 sex life is essential, the definition of amazing sex, and Mack's favorite intimate kink: piss play! (11:25)

    • Sexual Regrets & Attachment Issues: The challenges of being a horny person who gets easily attached. (15:42)

    • The Ex-Wife Origin Story: Sneaking around after her wife said "no" to a hookup, and the thrill of taboo, approved-then-unapproved cheating. (19:37)



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    • Catch Mack Live: Check out Mack's monthly comedy dating show, Heartthrob, every third Friday at 8:30 PM at Kickstand Comedy in Portland, Oregon! (Next one: December 19th - Holiday Heartthrob)



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    • https://www.cherihardman.com




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    24 分
  • Diary of an Ex Ho Episode 102 Derek Gladson VR Porn
    2025/10/08

    🤯 VIRTUALLY WILD: Comedian Derek Gladson on VR PORN, Titanic, and Star Wars Rings! 💍


    Welcome back to Diary of an Ex-Ho! Host Cheri Hardman sits down with comedian and podcaster Derek Gladson for a hilariously honest and super deep dive into sex, relationships, and the wild world of VR technology.

    Derek (who is engaged to the love of his life!) holds nothing back as he shares his personal journey, from recovering from addiction to finding true love and, yes, getting completely sucked into Virtual Reality Porn.



    • Marry, Shag, Kill: Cartoon Edition! Derek makes some shocking choices with Olive Oil, Rosie the Maid, and Betty Rubble!

    • The Power of a Stable Home: How having parents who are still happily married after 37 years influenced Derek's need for non-chaotic relationships.

    • My Sexual Awakening: It all started with Lara Croft’s triangle tits in the original Tomb Raider on the PlayStation 1.

    • Titanic & VHS Tapes: The surprising movie scene that got a lot of rewinds (and ruined a VHS tape!).

    • VR Porn Obsession: Derek hilariously explains why he knows he's "more fat than horny" after getting distracted by a pie while watching a specific MILF VR scene. Plus, thoughts on the new Hocus Pocus and Scooby-Doo parodies!

    • Body Image & Recovery: Derek opens up about his 13 years of sobriety from heroin and how his recovery led to weight gain and changes in body image (and dick size!).

    • Finding "The One": The sweet story of meeting his fiancé and proposing in front of the Millennium Falcon with Han Solo and Leia rings.



    0:00 - Welcome & Introduction: Derek Gladson0:44 - Marry, Shag, Kill: Cartoon Chicks Edition! (Olive Oil, Rosie, Betty Rubble)2:36 - Hooking up because of comedy (or music!)3:39 - How stable parents affect relationships5:14 - Sexual Awakening: Tomb Raider, PS1, and Triangle Tits6:20 - Celebrity Crushes: Pink Power Ranger & Padmé (Natalie Portman)7:18 - Derek's "Type" & Biggest Turnoffs (Cigarette Smoking!)9:35 - Mainstream Movie Sex Scenes & Rewinding Titanic10:18 - The Wild World of VR Porn 🤯15:20 - The Importance of Sex in a Relationship (Scale of 1-10)16:20 - Definition of Amazing Sex: Passion & Connection18:08 - Warning Signs: Being Attracted to "The Sick Part"19:35 - Wheel of Dirty Questions: Favorite Sex Toy21:14 - Body Image, Recovery & The Heroin-Weight Gain Connection22:02 - Best Compliment on His Naked Body & Penis Size Theory23:11 - Sexual Regrets & Proposing at Disneyland’s Millennium Falcon

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    35 分
  • Diary of an Ex Ho Episode 101 Mike Hanson-Handyman Fantasy
    2025/09/24

    Comedian Cheri Hardman talks to fellow comedian, Mike Hanson, about his relationships and what type of woman he likes. He also talks about his favorite porn category, The Handyman Fantasy. Mike was afraid to do this podcast for a while, did he have anything to worry about? Find out by watching Diary of an Ex Ho Episode 101 Mike Hanson Handyman Fantasy! Cheri Hardman is a comedian from Tacoma, WA. She performs all over the United States and also has a podcast called Diary of an Ex Ho where she talks to other comedians about their love lives. Cheri's humor is irreverent and often deals with adult topics. She is available for private parties such as bachelorette or birthday parties.Cheri produces 2 independent comedy shows that she can bring to your town, Roast Your Ex and Diary of an Ex Ho Live.You can find her current schedule on her website at https://www.cherihardman.com

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    37 分
  • Diary of an Ex Ho Episode 100 Javann Jones Black Thor
    2025/09/17

    Welcome to the 100th episode of Diary of an Ex-Ho! In this landmark episode, host Cheri Hardman is joined by special guest Javann Jones for a candid conversation that redefines modern dating.Javvan opens up about his identity as a pansexual and genderqueer individual, explaining what these terms mean to him and how they shape his life. As a polyamorous person, he shares a unique perspective on relationships and introduces a concept you might not have heard of: "polysaturation."He breaks down how managing multiple relationships is similar to the challenges faced in monogamy—it's all about time and energy. Don't miss this insightful episode that explores love, identity, and the boundaries of connection.Like and subscribe so you don't miss new episodes!Share your thoughts in the comments below!#DiaryOfAnExHoe #JavenJones #Polyamory #Pansexual #Genderqueer #Relationships #DatingAdvice #Polysaturation #Podcast #ExHoeCheri Hardman is a comedian from Tacoma, WA. She performs all over the United States and also has a podcast called Diary of an Ex Ho where she talks to other comedians about their love lives. Cheri's humor is irreverent and often deals with adult topics. She is available for private parties such as bachelorette or birthday parties.Cheri produces 2 independent comedy shows that she can bring to your town, Roast Your Ex and Diary of an Ex Ho Live.You can find her current schedule on her website at https://www.cherihardman.com

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    41 分
  • Diary of an Ex Ho Episode 99 Christian Gray-Not Into Babysitting the Golden Girls
    2025/09/06

    Get ready for an uncensored and hilarious conversation on this episode of Diary of an Ex-Ho. Your host, Cheri Hardman, sits down with comedian Christian Gray, also known as The Gray Area Comedy.Christian gets real about his past, sharing how his unconventional childhood and "wild boy" twenties shaped his approach to relationships and intimacy. He opens up about using sex to cope with deeper issues and the journey to a healthier mindset. This episode isn't just a trip down memory lane; it's a raw look at personal growth, the importance of genuine connection, and learning to find happiness beyond the "honeymoon phase."Cheri Hardman is a comedian from Tacoma, WA. She performs all over the United States and also has a podcast called Diary of an Ex Ho where she talks to other comedians about their love lives. Cheri's humor is irreverent and often deals with adult topics. She is available for private parties such as bachelorette or birthday parties.Cheri produces 2 independent comedy shows that she can bring to your town, Roast Your Ex and Diary of an Ex Ho Live.You can find her current schedule on her website at https://www.cherihardman.com

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    33 分
  • Diary of an Ex Ho Episode 98 Erica Tausch-Serial Killer Tattoo
    2025/08/27

    On this week's episode of Diary of an Ex Ho, your host Cheri Hardman is joined by the incredible Erica Tausch for a raw and hilarious conversation you won't want to miss. She's spilling all the tea, from defining her "type"—which Cheri totally relates to—to navigating some seriously bizarre dating experiences. Get ready to cringe, laugh, and question everything you thought you knew about red flags. 🚨 We dive deep into the ultimate dating deal-breaker: dating a guy with a John Wayne Gacy tattoo. Yes, you read that right.

    Tune in as we unpack what it means to truly find your type, the importance of listening to your gut, and why a clown tattoo might be the ultimate sign to run for the hills. This episode is packed with invaluable lessons and wild stories that will have you on the edge of your seat.

    Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share with a friend!

    #DiaryofanExHo #EricaTausch #DatingPodcast #DatingStories #RedFlags #DatingAdvice #JohnWayneGacy #Podcast #NewEpisode #PodcastLife #TrueCrime

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    29 分