In this episode of Diary of an Ex-Ho, host Cheri Hardman sits down with Portland-based producer and comedian Umi Om for a raw, honest, and hilarious conversation about sex, relationships, and self-acceptance.Umi opens up about her unique path to defining her own relationship style, moving away from traditional expectations, and finding comfort in her own skin. We dive into everything from "The Wheel of Sexy Questions" and celebrity crushes to navigating body image in a society that tells women not to love themselves. Plus, Umi shares a wild, memorable story about the lengths she went to for privacy in her 20s.In this episode, we discuss:The Power Dynamics of Relationships: Why Umi chooses a life partnership over traditional marriage and how she learned to value unconditional love over control.Sexual Awakenings: From early realizations to the influence of mainstream porn vs. reality.Body Positivity & Self-Love: How we can reclaim our relationship with our bodies and move past societal conditioning that starts as young as age nine.The "Ho" Bucket List: What’s still on the list, and why communication remains the ultimate turn-on.Life in Portland: Details on Umi’s upcoming AAPI showcase and connecting with the local comedy scene.Connect with Umi Om:Instagram: @ummi_omUpcoming Event: Asian American Pacific Islander Showcase, Day 2 – Saturday, May 30th at Core Food Cart and Bar, Portland, OR.Support the Show:If you enjoyed this episode, please hit that LIKE button, SUBSCRIBE, and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode of Diary of an Ex-Ho. Share your thoughts in the comments—we want to hear your stories!#DiaryOfAnExHo #SexPositivity #BodyPositivity #ComedyPodcast #RelationshipTalk #UmiOm #SherryHardman #PortlandComedy #SexualAwakening #HonestConversations