In this episode of Diary of an Ex-Ho, host Cheri Hardman sits down with Portland-based producer and comedian Umi Om for a raw, honest, and hilarious conversation about sex, relationships, and self-acceptance.Umi opens up about her unique path to defining her own relationship style, moving away from traditional expectations, and finding comfort in her own skin. We dive into everything from "The Wheel of Sexy Questions" and celebrity crushes to navigating body image in a society that tells women not to love themselves. Plus, Umi shares a wild, memorable story about the lengths she went to for privacy in her 20s.In this episode, we discuss:The Power Dynamics of Relationships: Why Umi chooses a life partnership over traditional marriage and how she learned to value unconditional love over control.Sexual Awakenings: From early realizations to the influence of mainstream porn vs. reality.Body Positivity & Self-Love: How we can reclaim our relationship with our bodies and move past societal conditioning that starts as young as age nine.The "Ho" Bucket List: What’s still on the list, and why communication remains the ultimate turn-on.Life in Portland: Details on Umi’s upcoming AAPI showcase and connecting with the local comedy scene.Connect with Umi Om:Instagram: @ummi_omUpcoming Event: Asian American Pacific Islander Showcase, Day 2 – Saturday, May 30th at Core Food Cart and Bar, Portland, OR.Support the Show:If you enjoyed this episode, please hit that LIKE button, SUBSCRIBE, and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode of Diary of an Ex-Ho. Share your thoughts in the comments—we want to hear your stories!#DiaryOfAnExHo #SexPositivity #BodyPositivity #ComedyPodcast #RelationshipTalk #UmiOm #SherryHardman #PortlandComedy #SexualAwakening #HonestConversations

From Mormon Mission to Sexual Liberation: Comedian Ruby Do Gets RealIn this episode of Diary of an Ex Ho, we sit down with the hilarious Portland-based comedian and fellow podcaster, Ruby (Rue) Do. Rue opens up about her fascinating journey from growing up in a strict religious household to finding her true self through comedy, polyamory, and radical self-love.We dive deep into:The "Sexual Awakening": How a Mormon mission in Nicaragua changed Rue's perspective on her own attraction to women.Mary Shag Kill: Rue plays the "Jennifer Edition"—wait until you hear what she says about Jennifer Coolidge!Porn & Body Image: A candid look at how the adult industry affects our self-esteem and the difference between entertainment and education.Polyamory & Power: Rue shares a personal story about navigating multiple partners in California and the empowerment that comes with honesty and "owning your company."Whether she’s discussing her sexual bucket list (including an orgy and a train!) or why she’s attracted to "simple, honest dudes," Rue brings a refreshing, no-filter energy that you don't want to miss.Connect with our guest, Ruby Do:Instagram: @Ruby_DoPodcast: Motherhood, Sex, & MarijuanaTIMESTAMPS0:00 - Intro & Regrets Policy1:08 - Meet Ruby: Orientation & Relationship Status2:30 - Game Time: Mary Shag Kill (The Jennifer Edition)4:15 - Hooking up in the Comedy Scene5:05 - Relationship Role Models: Parents & Simple Love7:40 - Sexual Awakening: Growing up Mormon & Nicaragua9:23 - Celebrity Crushes & "Spunkiness"10:30 - Physical Types (Size Matters?)11:15 - Movie Sex Scenes: Monster's Ball & Unfaithful12:10 - The Truth About Porn & Body Issues14:00 - Defining "Amazing Sex"16:00 - The Wheel of Sex: Fetishes & Regrets17:50 - The Sexual Bucket List19:00 - Motherhood, Sex, & Marijuana Podcast19:40 - A Story of Polyamory & Self-LoveABOUT DIARY OF AN EX HOWelcome to Diary of an Ex Ho, the podcast where we strip away the shame and talk openly about sex, relationships, and the journeys that make us who we are today. Hosted with wit and zero judgment.Subscribe for more episodes every Wednesday!#DiaryOfAnExHo #RubyDo #ComedyPodcast #Polyamory #SexualLiberation #MormonToMainstream #Relationships #PortlandComedy #SexPositiveCheri Hardman is a comedian from Tacoma, WA. She performs all over the United States and also has a podcast called Diary of an Ex Ho where she talks to other comedians about their love lives. Cheri's humor is irreverent and often deals with adult topics. She is available for private parties such as bachelorette or birthday parties.Cheri produces 2 independent comedy shows that she can bring to your town, Roast Your Ex and Diary of an Ex Ho Live.You can find her current schedule on her website at https://www.cherihardman.com

"Every pussy is special." Welcome back to Diary of an Ex-Ho! This week, I’m joined by the incredibly sharp and dry-witted Mixed Dahlia Bell, a queer comedian from Portland, Oregon. We dive deep into the logistics of "Creature Edition" Mary-Shag-Kill, the reality of "impromptu green room blowjobs," and why being a "bottom’s bottom" is a full-time job.Dahlia shares her "sexual awakening" story involving a red-headed proto-twink, her medically diagnosed "fat ass," and the hilarious (and slightly traumatic) David Bowie-inspired story of her very first hookup. If you’ve ever wondered if your husband is the love of your life or just a very dedicated stalker, this episode is for you!In this episode, we discuss:Mary-Shag-Kill: Godzilla vs. King Kong vs. Bigfoot (it gets logistical).Relationship Models: Navigating 54 years of parental codependency.Sexual Bucket Lists: Why Dahlia is saving a gangbang for retirement.The Labyrinth Effect: How David Bowie’s bulge changed everything.Comedy Life: Hooking up with audience members and the etiquette of "The Green Room."🕒 Key Moments0:00 – Welcome to Diary of an Ex-Ho!1:37 – Mary-Shag-Kill: The Creature Edition (Bigfoot Logistics)4:10 – Have you ever hooked up with someone because of comedy?6:18 – Growing up with 54 years of codependency9:15 – Celebrity crushes: Boy George & Cyndi Lauper11:42 – "You're kind of scary": Cheri on Dahlia’s dry delivery12:22 – The Crying Game & trans representation in the 90s15:00 – The reality of sex and aging (It’s a lot of lube)17:18 – The Sexual Bucket List: The "Starter" Gangbang20:41 – Medically diagnosed with a fat ass25:05 – The Labyrinth Story: A Catholic school boy and a moral crisis🔗 Connect with the GuestFollow Mixed Dahlia Bell for more dry wit and show dates:📸 Instagram: @mix.daliabelle🎟️ See her at Only the Baddest at Nosh Pit (Portland) on the 14th!🎙️ Support the PodcastIf you enjoyed this episode, please Subscribe, hit the Bell Icon, and leave a comment below!Follow Cheri Hardman: @CheriHardmanListen on Spotify/Apple Podcasts: [Search "Diary of an Ex-Ho"]#ComedyPodcast #DiaryOfAnExHo #CheriHardman #MixedDahliaBell #StandUpComedy #LGBTQComedy #SexPositive #PortlandComedy #TacomaComedyCheri Hardman is a comedian from Tacoma, WA. She performs all over the United States and also has a podcast called Diary of an Ex Ho where she talks to other comedians about their love lives. Cheri's humor is irreverent and often deals with adult topics. She is available for private parties such as bachelorette or birthday parties.Cheri produces 2 independent comedy shows that she can bring to your town, Roast Your Ex and Diary of an Ex Ho Live.You can find her current schedule on her website at https://www.cherihardman.com