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The groundbreaking work on trauma that remains a “classic for our generation” (Bessel van der Kolk, MD, author of The Body Keeps the Score) Trauma and Recovery is the foundational text on understanding trauma survivors. By placing individual experience in a political frame, psychiatrist...

The birth story podcast

We expect an enormous amount from our teenage girls in a world where they are bombarded with messages about how they should look, behave, succeed. Yet we also speak as though adolescence is a nightmare rollercoaster ride for both parent and child, to be endured rather than enjoyed. In Untangled, clinical psychologist Lisa Damour provides an accessible, detailed, comprehensive guide to parenting teenage girls. She believes there is a predictable blueprint for how girls grow; seven easily recognisable "strands" of transition from childhood through adolescence and on to adulthood.

#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER – OVER 3 MILLION COPIES SOLD Discover how to become the joyous, confident woman you were meant to be. Do you ever suspect that everyone else has life figured out and you don't have a clue? If so, Rachel Hollis has something to tell you: that's a lie. If you have...

Dr. Elaine Aron's audiobook Psychotherapy and the Highly Sensitive Person redefines the term highly sensitive for the professional researcher and practitioner. She dispels common misconceptions about the relationship between sensitivity and other personality traits, such as introversion and shyness, and further defines the trait for the benefit of both the clinician and patient.  

In The Science of Likability, you'll get all that and more. I've taken 27 seminal scientific and psychological studies and broken them down, so you can use their findings to your advantage. Every piece of advice in this book to increase your social standing and likability factor is 100% backed by in-depth, peer-reviewed research. You can get a new haircut and wardrobe, and you even learn funny jokes. But likability is something more. It's subconscious, and it's the small signs that signal our brains to let their guards down and embrace others.

Models is the first book ever written on seduction as an emotional process rather than a logical one, a process of connecting with women rather than impressing them. It's the most mature and honest guide on how a man can attract women without faking behavior, without lying and without emulating others. A game-changer.

OVER HALF A MILLION COPIES SOLD A must-have resource for anyone who lives or works with young kids, with an introduction by Adele Faber, coauthor of How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk, the international mega-bestseller The Boston Globe dubbed “The Parenting Bible.”...

From the indie rockstar of Japanese Breakfast fame, and author of the viral 2018 New Yorker essay that shares the title of this book, an unflinching, powerful memoir about growing up Korean American, losing her mother, and forging her own identity. In this exquisite story of family, food, grief...

One of the world’s top pick-up artists, Richard La Ruina went from having no women to being a true master of seduction. Now he shows you how to do the same. So move over Mystery, and tell Neil Strauss that The Rules of the Game are about to be rewritten. Every element of the winning pickup is...

★あげまんは、 野放しにする。 中谷流・放置人間関係術。 ★恋愛が苦手な人、それは関係を強要する人。 典型的なのは、いわゆるストーカー。 そこまでいかなくても、相手の自由を束縛したり、 独占しようとする人は少なくありません。 その息苦しさは、早晩、人間関係を破綻させます。 その点、「天才」たちのパートナーは違います。 上手に、相手を「放置」できるのです。 天才は、自分一人では受け入れられない。 天才は、自分一人で独占してはならない。 そういうことを知っているのですね。 天才のパートナーの天性性、中谷さんから教わりました。 ★こんな方に有効です♪ □拘束しがちな方。 □つい常識論を戦わせてしまう方。 □子育て中の方。 ★別ナカ87――7つの学び ○「接触時間が短いほど、幸福度が高い。」 ○「偉人の奥さんは、野放しにできる。」 ○「天才に、社会常識を持ち込んではならない。」 ○「清潔な種が、生き延びる。」 ○「トラブル対応に、男の度量が表れる。」 ○「こうしたら、こうなるよと教えよう。」 ○「女性を大切にすることが、性教育の第一歩。」 ゲスト:久瑠あさ美、奈良巧

★女性は、わがままなもの。中谷流・「属性」把握術 ★「属性」、それは根本的性質。持って生まれた習性。 属性を知らない人は、がっかりしたり落ち込んだりします。 最初はやさしかった彼女が、だんだんきつくなってきた。 夫がいい年してミニスカートにちらちらと目をやる。 こんなことで一喜一憂するのは、 「魚を料理したら、生臭くなった」と嘆いているのと同じ。 最初から、そういうものなのだと知っておくことが、 他者といい関係をつくる上でとても重要なのです。 「属性」のとらえかた、中谷さんから教わりました。 ★こんな方に有効です♪ □パートナーに幻滅している方。 □異性を見る目がないと思っている方。 □毎日面白くないと思っている方。 ★別ナカ85――7つの学び ○「女性が選ぶ立場。男は選ばれる立場。」 ○「男には『女を見る目』はない。」 ○「自己肯定感が足りないから、迷いが出る。」 ○「価値観がひっくり返る瞬間が、お得。」 ○「面白かったことを数えよう。」 ○「正しいことより、大切なこと。」 ○「属性を受け入れていくのが、覚悟。」 ゲスト:久瑠あさ美、奈良巧

Discover a way to end constant power struggles with your defiant, oppositional, "impossible" five-to-12-year-old, with the help of leading child psychologist Russell A. Barkley. Dr. Barkley's approach is research based, practical, and doable - and leads to lasting behavior change. Vivid, realistic stories illustrate what the techniques look like in action. Thoroughly revised to include the latest resources and 15 years' worth of research advances, the second edition also reflects Dr. Barkley's ongoing experiences with parents and kids.

This program is read by the author. A dark romance evolves between a high schooler and her English teacher in this breathtakingly powerful memoir about a young woman who must learn to rewrite her own story. “Have you ever read Lolita?” So begins seventeen-year-old Alisson’s metamorphosis...

先日、ある教育関係者と対談をした。打ちあわせの席で彼がしみじみと口にしたことがある。 「石田さん、見合いっていいですよ」 彼はぼくより６歳年下で、当然恋愛結婚だと思っていた。 「もしかして、お見あいで結婚したの」 創作和食の個室で、彼はお造りをつまみながらいう。 「そうなんです。最初にうちの奥さんと会ったときは、ぼくが18歳で彼女が16歳でした」 驚いた。ふたりともようやく婚姻が可能な年齢になったばかりだ。 「これからこの人と結婚するとわかっている相手と初めて会うというのは、なんだか不思議な感じで、なかなかいいものです」 （本文より）　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　石田衣良ブックトーク『小説家と過ごす日曜日』はこちらから→http://yakan-hiko.com/ishidaira.html

In Heaven, a 14-year-old boy is tormented for having a lazy eye. Instead of resisting, he chooses to suffer in silence. The only person who understands what he is going through is a female classmate, Kojima, who experiences similar treatment at the hands of her bullies. Providing each other with immeasurable consolation at a time in their lives when they need it most, the two young friends grow closer than ever. But what, ultimately, is the nature of a friendship when your shared bond is terror?

Caring for someone with dementia can be a challenging, heartbreaking experience … but it can also be rewarding, fulfilling and meaningful. Most dementia caregivers find that the first, and sometimes most difficult step, is accepting the diagnosis and adjusting to a new normal. In Day to Day: Living With Dementia, Angela Lunde, M.A., an expert in dementia care at Mayo Clinic, helps you take that first step and chart your path toward living well, even in the face of dementia.

The Friendship Formula shows listeners how to create and maintain long-lasting, nurturing and functioning friendships. Friendship is a beautiful thing, but there are lots of difficult times in life where it can be tricky to navigate: when friendship becomes toxic; how to break up with a friend; what to do if a friend 'ghosts' you and surviving friendship betrayal; how motherhood can impact female friendships; friendship grief and how to cope with losing a friend.  

Oprah Winfrey and renowned brain development and trauma expert, Dr Bruce Perry, discuss the impact of trauma and adverse experiences – and how healing must begin with a shift to asking 'What happened to you?' rather than 'What’s wrong with you?'. Through wide-ranging and often deeply...

This beautiful and deeply moving tale recounts educational psychologist Torey Hayden's battle to unlock the emotions of a troubled and sexually abused child who, with the help of Hayden, was finally able to overcome her dark past and realise her full potential. Six-year-old Sheila was abandoned...