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    2025/12/24
    9 分
  • Ep. 34: How Manifestation Works - The 3 Steps That Create Real Change
    2025/12/17

    Manifestation isn’t about hoping harder or waiting longer — it’s about removing what’s in the way and stepping into who you already know you’re meant to be. In this episode, we talk about how manifestation actually works when it’s rooted in clarity, self-trust, and aligned movement forward. This is about becoming the version of you that makes what you want inevitable.


    In this episode, we cover To Be Magnetics 3 steps of manifesting:

    • Unblocking - how to spot and rewire your limiting beliefs
    • Expanders - find the people that make you see to believe your manifestation is possible
    • Aligned Action - the energy you put into the path you're going, is the start of everything


    If you’ve been “trying to manifest” but keep hitting the same ceiling, this episode will shift how you see the process — and yourself. Because once you understand how manifestation really works, you stop just trying to think positive and start becoming the version of you that naturally attracts them.


    If you have any questions that you'd like advice, please send a DM to the podcast instagram page.

    Podcast Instagram: @whothef.ck

    Podcast host: @jess.ica.lee

    Podcast Editor: @mollysmithpiro

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    43 分
  • Ep. 33: Forgiveness - The Truth About Shame, Self-Abandonment, and Healing
    2025/12/10

    This week’s episode dives into what real forgiveness looks like — not the surface level kind, the kind that restores self-trust, actually sets you free, and breaks lifelong patterns.

    Jessica talks about how staying after cheating can lead to deep self-abandonment, why shame becomes the glue holding old cycles together, and keeps us stuck in versions of ourselves we’ve outgrown. This is the episode that brings you back to yourself.


    In this episode we cover:

    • Why staying after betrayal erodes self-trust deeply
    • How self-abandonment hurts more than heartbreak
    • The way shame forms from childhood forward
    • How your nervous system keeps old stories alive
    • Self-forgiveness as the bridge to your evolution
    • Forgiving others and forgiving ourselves


    If you’ve ever stayed too long, blamed yourself too hard, or carried shame for things you did to survive — this one is for you.

    Tune in to release the weight, remember who you are, and start walking into 2026 lighter and so much more in your power.

    HD Authority Episode: Human Design Authority Episode


    Referenced experts and podcasts:

    • Dr. Robert Enright - International Forgiveness Institute
    • Sarah Baldwin - Nervous System Essentials


    If you have any questions that you'd like advice, please send a DM to the podcast instagram page.

    Podcast Instagram: @whothef.ck

    Podcast host: @jess.ica.lee

    Podcast Editor: @mollysmithpiro

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    Scheduling: DM the podcast page

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    47 分
  • Ep. 32: Imposter Syndrome - Just Self-Doubt, Old Programming, and Cognitive Distortion
    2025/12/03

    If you’ve ever felt unqualified, unready, or like you’re faking it, this episode will help you see what’s actually happening beneath the fear. We break down the psychology, the patterns, and the nervous-system roots so you can finally understand why your brain fights you at the exact moment you’re leveling up.

    Listen in and learn how to break the imposter syndrome cycle, rewire the fear narrative, actually embody the personal growth you’ve been working toward, and finally feel aligned with the life you’re already showing up for.


    In this episode, we cover:
    • What imposter syndrome actually is
    • High-functioning codependence roots & patterns
    • The identity–evidence gap
    • Cognitive distortion & mind dysmorphia
    • Perfectionism → procrastination loop
    • Inspiration vs “being an imposter”
    • How to own your story without apologizing


    By the end, you’ll realize you were never the fraud — just the one brave enough to outgrow who you used to be.

    If you have any questions that you'd like advice, please send a DM to the podcast instagram page.

    Podcast Instagram: @whothef.ck

    Podcast host: @jess.ica.lee

    Podcast Editor: @mollysmithpiro

    Get Your Human Design Chart

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    • JESSICA6850 - 15% off for up to 1 year
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    Coupon code for $50 off a Human Design Reading: PODCAST50

    Scheduling: DM the podcast page

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    43 分
  • Episode 31: How to Become Unshakeable - Ego Death, Self-Trust, and Standing Strong in Who You Are
    2025/11/26

    This episode breaks down the inner identity work, ego healing, and consistent action that create a version of you that isn’t easily thrown off by people, pressure, or old patterns. It’s about building confidence from the inside out.

    • Rebuild who you believe you are internally
    • Identify and dissolve your unhealthy ego patterns
    • Understand how childhood wounds still shape your reactions
    • Take aligned action that builds real self-trust daily
    • Hype yourself up to strengthen your inner momentum

    If you’re ready to stop getting knocked off your path and finally feel rooted in who you are, this episode will hit exactly where you need it. Tune in to start becoming unshakeable.


    Human Design Channel of the Week: 58-18 The Channel of Judgement


    If you have any questions that you'd like advice, please send a DM to the podcast instagram page.

    Podcast Instagram: @whothef.ck

    Podcast host: @jess.ica.lee

    Podcast Editor: @mollysmithpiro

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    Scheduling: DM the podcast page

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    40 分
  • Ep. 30: From Passive to Powerful- Choosing Intention Every Day
    2025/11/19

    This week, we’re talking about the moment you realize you’ve been coasting — letting other people’s opinions, expectations, and comfort zones make decisions for you. And how that quiet, passive way of living slowly disconnects you from your truth, your power, and your actual potential.

    If you’ve been feeling stuck, drained, or like life is just happening to you, this episode is your wake-up call. We’re diving into what it really looks like to shift from passive to powerful — from reacting to everything around you, to becoming the one who sets the tone, the pace, and the direction of your own life.

    In this episode, we break down four classic sayings that hit completely different when you've lived a little and you’re in your growth era:

    • If nothing changes, nothing changes: why autopilot feels safe but slowly drains your life force.
    • You reap what you sow: how effort, intention, and presence create the life you actually want.
    • Chess, not checkers: the long game of self-growth, strategic moves, and surrounding yourself with expanders.
    • Fortune favors the bold: the energy shift that happens when you go first and life finally meets you halfway.

    This episode is for anyone who’s tired of feeling stagnant, stuck, or disconnected — and ready to start participating in their own becoming. You’ll walk away with clarity, a fire in your chest, and the reminder that your life responds to your energy, your choices, and your willingness to move.


    We’re stepping into the era of living on purpose — one intentional, slightly uncomfortable, absolutely worth-it decision at a time.


    Podcast Episodes Mentioned:

    • Nothing and Nobody Will Ever Hurt You Again After This - Codie Sanchez
    • Dana White - A Winners Mindset - Skinny Confidential


    Human Design Channel of the week: Channel 12-22


    If you have any questions that you'd like advice, please send a DM to the podcast instagram page.

    Podcast Instagram: @whothef.ck

    Podcast host: @jess.ica.lee

    Podcast Editor: @mollysmithpiro

    Get Your Human Design Chart

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    • JESSICA6850 - 15% off for up to 1 year
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    Coupon code for $50 off a Human Design Reading: PODCAST50

    Scheduling: DM the podcast page listed above


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    53 分
  • Ep. 29: Cortisol, Dopamine & Serotonin: The Real Reasons You’re Stressed or at Peace
    2025/11/12

    Ever wonder why you swing between feeling anxious, unmotivated, or constantly chasing the next high?
    It’s not just your mindset — it’s your hormones.

    This episode breaks down the three key hormones that shape your daily life:
    💥 Cortisol – the stress signal that keeps you in survival mode
    Dopamine – the chase chemical behind motivation, reward, and addiction
    🌿 Serotonin – the calm, grounding hormone that creates real peace


    Learn how these three chemicals quietly dictate your energy, mood, focus, and relationships — and what happens when one takes over.

    You’ll also discover how your ego teams up with your biology to protect your identity, why overstimulation keeps you restless, and how to reset your body’s balance through small, practical habits.

    If you’re ready to understand why you feel the way you do — and how to finally feel steady again — this episode is your starting point.

    If you have any questions that you'd like advice, please send a DM to the podcast instagram page.

    Podcast Instagram: @whothef.ck

    Podcast host: @jess.ica.lee

    Podcast Editor: @mollysmithpiro

    Get Your Human Design Chart

    Membership link and my Discount Code for TBM

    • JESSICA6850 - 15% off for up to 1 year
    • To Be Magnetic - Membership

    Coupon code for $50 off a Human Design Reading: PODCAST50

    Scheduling link: Book a Human Design Reading with Me

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    29 分
  • Ep. 28: Boundaries; Where Self-Love Becomes Self-Respect
    2025/11/05

    Every episode has been leading here. Growth. Confidence. Communication. The inner child. People-pleasing.
    It all comes down to this — boundaries.


    Boundaries aren’t walls. They’re a filter for the energy that reaches you.

    This episode dives into what boundaries really are, what they’re not, and how to finally hold them without guilt.
    Because every “no” that honors you creates space for a “yes” that’s aligned.

    What you'll get from this episode:

    • The difference between healthy and unhealthy boundaries
    • How childhood conditioning and family dynamics influence your ability to set boundaries
    • Why boundaries are the backbone of authentic connection and self-trust
    • The What, Why, and How of boundaries


    Human Design Channel of the week: Channel 20-34 -- Time Stamp 22:30

    If you have any questions that you'd like advice, please send a DM to the podcast instagram page.

    Podcast Instagram: @whothef.ck

    Podcast host: @jess.ica.lee

    Podcast Editor: @mollysmithpiro

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    27 分