• When Your Content Stops Hitting: The Hidden Gap Between Relatability And Converting
    2025/10/30

    Your content isn’t broken, the energy behind it is. In this episode of Unapologetically Visible, I pull back the curtain on why brilliant, high-achieving women find themselves showing up online every day and still not converting. I expose the quiet ways your authority slips through the cracks when you try to be “relatable” instead of respected, and what it actually looks like to rebuild authority in the Age of AI where information is free, AI is everywhere, and embodiment is the new currency.

    I'm walking you through:

    • The Five Hidden Gaps that kill conversion even when you’re consistent
    • Language Gap: You sound like a peer instead of a leader.
    • Energy Gap: You’re trying to earn trust instead of emanating it.
    • Offer Gap: You’re teaching what you know instead of embodying what you’ve mastered.
    • Audience Gap: You’re talking to everyone, which means you’re leading no one.
    • Identity Gap: You’re visible, but not embodied.
    • The Bigger Shift: Why we’ve entered an era where “how-to” content no longer sells—and why authority, embodiment, and internal regulation now separate respected leaders from performative ones.
    • The Mini Coaching Moment: Three questions to instantly diagnose whether your content comes from validation or vision.


    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Visibility and Authority

    01:20 Understanding Content Conversion Challenges

    03:15 The Five Gaps in Leadership Authority

    09:42 The Shift in Content Creation with AI

    12:20 Closing the Gap Between Relatable and Respectable



    Takeaways


    Your content may be engaging but not converting.

    Position yourself as a leader, not a peer.

    Authority language is clear and decisive.

    Energy in your content should be calm, not desperate.

    People pay for proximity and embodiment, not just information.

    Speak directly to your most aligned buyer.

    Leadership means being willing to repel the masses.

    Your words and energy must match for authenticity.

    Content should reflect your lived experience.

    Lead from your truth to enhance visibility.



    💼 Work With Christina

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    Connect with Christina

    Instagram | @TheSocialButterflyGal

    LinkedIn | Christina Olivarez

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  • Why I Don’t Believe in the Phrase ‘You’re Playing Small’, And What I Coach On Instead.
    2025/10/23

    For years, “You’re playing small” was the rallying cry of every entrepreneur trying to break through the next level. But what if that phrase isn’t motivation... what if it’s manipulation? In this episode of Unapologetically Visible, I get raw about why I've retired the phrase “you’re playing small” and what I believe in instead. I'm sharing the truth behind scale culture, how chasing “big” almost cost me my peace, and the deeper lesson I'm now coaching my clients to embody: success isn’t always about expansion, it’s about alignment.

    This is for the high-earning, emotionally mature Latina & WOC founder who’s tired of proving, performing, and pushing, and ready to build from a place of clarity, joy, and capacity instead.

    You’ll hear me unpack:

    • The hidden burnout behind “go bigger or go home” culture
    • Why “playing small” might actually be protecting your peace
    • How to define success through your own lens of joy, legacy, and sovereignty
    • What it looks like to build an aligned business that fits your life, not the other way around


    Connect with Christina:

    Ep 7: How I am Using Human Design: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-visible-for-latinas-woc-founders-personal/id1828485468?i=1000726287988


    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheSocialButterflyGal


    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christina-jovanna-olivarez-14081226/


    Work with me in 1:1 Coaching: https://www.thesocialbutterflygal.net/coaching


    Book me to Speak: https://www.thesocialbutterflygal.net/speaking


    Join my weekly Newsletter: https://exceptional-architect-8453.kit.com/378645e1ce?fbclid=PARlRTSANCI4xleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABpwL4UshgKq2y34f4gX8k-BKqVw6kW9ogPsW1pqDYUiyqDVmxH1ktkE0vsl76_aem_ZETt0-vlZ8X_WjedxNzxsg


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    18 分
  • Crafting a Compelling Pitch for Visibility Opportunities (LIVE COACHING- POWER HOUR TRAINING)
    2025/10/16

    Ever wanted to speak on more stages, or pitch yourself for a podcast or media opportunities? This episode is for you! In this episode of Unapologetically Visible, I'm sharing the live recording of my monthly SBGxH+S Power Hour Trainings. My Power Hour Trainings ($97/mo) happen every 3rd Wednesday of the Month, where we dive deep into topics from my signature framework: Visibility to Legacy. This is perfect if you want a taste of training & coaching with me & access to the Hustle + Socialize Mastermind Inner Circle, a curated network of high-achieving Latina and Women of Color founders who are redefining visibility, wealth, and leadership on their terms. Our Power Hours include: 30 minutes of training and 30 minutes of Hot Seat Coaching.


    In this Power Hour that I'm featuring on the podcast, I'm training on the topic of Crafting a Compelling Pitch for Visibility Opportunities. We cover:

    • Problem with Pitches
    • Visibility is Earned by Story & Strategy
    • What Makes a Pitch Compelling
    • The Pitch Framework
    • Where To Pitch


    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Unapologetically Visible

    39:51 Inside the Power Hour Training

    39:51 Engagement and Community Building

    40:22 Coaching and Personal Development



    Connect with Christina:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheSocialButterflyGal

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christina-jovanna-olivarez-14081226/

    Work with me in 1:1 Coaching: https://www.thesocialbutterflygal.net/coaching

    Book me to Speak: https://www.thesocialbutterflygal.net/speaking

    Join my weekly Newsletter: https://exceptional-architect-8453.kit.com/378645e1ce?fbclid=PARlRTSANCI4xleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABpwL4UshgKq2y34f4gX8k-BKqVw6kW9ogPsW1pqDYUiyqDVmxH1ktkE0vsl76_aem_ZETt0-vlZ8X_WjedxNzxsg

    Power Hours: https://portal.dubsado.com/public/form/view/688cd8082cd0c17eb4593df1?


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    41 分
  • The Difference Between Coaching, Consulting, Mentoring, Strategy, Training, and Advising — and Which One You Actually Need
    2025/10/09

    Coaching, Mentoring, Consulting, Strategy, Advising, Training... Which do you need? In this episode of Unapologetically Visible, I discuss the importance of understanding different types of support available to high-achieving Latina and women of Color Founders. I break down the distinctions between coaching, consulting, mentoring, strategy, training, and advising, emphasizing the need for discernment in choosing the right support for individual needs. Sometimes it's you need all of the above. I share personal experiences and client stories to illustrate how each modality serves different purposes in the journey of leadership and visibility. The episode concludes with a call to action for you to reflect on your current needs and the type of support that will empower your growth.


    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Visibility and Support

    02:42 Understanding Coaching: Transformation and Identity

    05:54 Consulting: Analysis and Direction

    07:23 Mentorship: Wisdom Through Lived Experience

    08:35 Strategy: The Blueprint for Visibility

    10:58 Training: Developing Tactical Skills

    11:20 Advising: Thought Partnership and Guidance

    13:22 Navigating Frustrations in Support

    14:08 Tailoring Support to Individual Needs

    17:12 The Power of Discernment in Seeking Help


    Takeaways


    Coaching focuses on transformation and identity alignment.

    Consulting provides expert analysis and direction.

    Mentorship offers wisdom from lived experiences.

    Strategy is essential for effective visibility planning.

    Training develops specific skills for execution.

    Advising serves as a thought partnership for clarity.

    Discernment in choosing support is crucial for growth.

    Visibility strategies should align with personal energy and capacity.

    Different support modalities serve different stages of leadership.

    Investing in the right support empowers women to rise.


    Connect with Christina:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheSocialButterflyGal


    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christina-jovanna-olivarez-14081226/


    Work with me in 1:1 Coaching: https://www.thesocialbutterflygal.net/coaching


    Book me to Speak: https://www.thesocialbutterflygal.net/speaking


    Join my weekly Newsletter: https://exceptional-architect-8453.kit.com/378645e1ce?fbclid=PARlRTSANCI4xleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABpwL4UshgKq2y34f4gX8k-BKqVw6kW9ogPsW1pqDYUiyqDVmxH1ktkE0vsl76_aem_ZETt0-vlZ8X_WjedxNzxsg



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    19 分
  • The Real Reason Latina Founders Burn Out, And How to Stop It
    2025/10/02

    In this episode of Unapologetically Visible, I delve into the unique experiences of burnout faced by Latina founders. I'm sharing my personal journey through burnout, especially navigating a tough event season in early 2025. We will dive into the real reason why Latina Founders are burned out, including the systemic, cultural, and emotional factors that contribute to this phenomenon. Then I will take you through a process where we will redefine what it means to be properly resourced and to embrace the importance of receiving support. The episode concludes with a call to action for women to prioritize their health and well-being while building their legacies.


    Chapters

    00:00 Understanding Burnout in Latina Founders

    02:12 Christina's Personal Burnout Journey

    08:08 Identifying the Root Causes of Burnout

    12:08 Shifting Perspectives on Resourcefulness

    15:43 Building a Sustainable Legacy


    Takeaways

    Burnout is a deeper issue for Latina founders.

    Cultural expectations contribute to feelings of burnout.

    It's essential to redefine what being properly resourced means.

    Receiving support is a crucial aspect of leadership.

    Your health should be prioritized over legacy.

    Burnout is a warning sign, not a badge of honor.

    Latina founders often carry generational pressures.

    Visibility comes with the weight of representation.

    Building a sustainable business requires rest and support.

    You deserve a business that feels safe and nourishing.


    Connect with Christina:


    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheSocialButterflyGal


    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christina-jovanna-olivarez-14081226/


    Work with me in 1:1 Coaching: https://www.thesocialbutterflygal.net/coaching


    Book me to Speak: https://www.thesocialbutterflygal.net/speaking


    Join my weekly Newsletter: https://exceptional-architect-8453.kit.com/378645e1ce?fbclid=PARlRTSANCI4xleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABpwL4UshgKq2y34f4gX8k-BKqVw6kW9ogPsW1pqDYUiyqDVmxH1ktkE0vsl76_aem_ZETt0-vlZ8X_WjedxNzxsg




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    18 分
  • Things I Did to Break Free from the Fear of Selling
    2025/09/25

    Many of my clients come to me with the fear of selling. In this podcast episode of Unapologetically Visible, I'm sharing my journey of reframing selling from a manipulative act to a generous invitation for transformation. I'm outlining five actionable steps to overcome the fear of selling, emphasizing the importance of self-regulation, clarity in messaging, and shifting from a mindset of chasing to inviting potential clients. The episode concludes with practical exercises to help you embrace your worth and visibility in the sales process.


    Chapters

    00:00 Embracing the Fear of Selling

    02:17 Reframing Selling as Leadership

    04:54 Five Strategies to Overcome Selling Anxiety

    07:00 The Power of Practice and Regulation

    09:14 Transforming Sales into Data

    11:40 Clarity in Offers and Messaging

    13:48 Shifting from Chasing to Inviting

    16:11 The Personal Impact of Selling

    18:26 Coaching Process for Selling Confidence

    20:15 Conclusion and Call to Action


    Takeaways


    Selling is often perceived as manipulation, but it is actually an invitation to transformation.

    Fear of selling is rooted in visibility and the risk of rejection.

    Reframing selling as a leadership act can alleviate anxiety.

    Practicing saying your price out loud builds confidence.

    Regulating your body and breath before selling is crucial.

    Sales should be viewed as neutral data rather than a reflection of self-worth.

    Clarity in offers and messaging reduces fear and confusion.

    Shifting from chasing clients to inviting them fosters deeper connections.

    Every rejection is an opportunity to gather data and improve.

    Embracing your identity in sales empowers you and others.


    Links:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheSocialButterflyGal

    Work with me in 1:1 Coaching: https://www.thesocialbutterflygal.net/coaching

    Book me to speak at Your Next Event: https://www.thesocialbutterflygal.net/speaking

    Join my weekly Newsletter: https://exceptional-architect-8453.kit.com/378645e1ce?fbclid=PARlRTSANCI4xleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABpwL4UshgKq2y34f4gX8k-BKqVw6kW9ogPsW1pqDYUiyqDVmxH1ktkE0vsl76_aem_ZETt0-vlZ8X_WjedxNzxsg

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    21 分
  • The Hidden Cost​: Why Visibility Is the Most Radical Act for Latinas in Leadership
    2025/09/18

    Happy Hispanic Heritage Month! Now more than ever do we as Latina Leaders need to use our voices and our visibility. Our visibility is a radical act. In this episode, I share data on Latino entrepreneurship, highlighting the growth of Latina entrepreneurs despite challenges. I also emphasize that visibility is a radical act that can combat the hidden costs of invisibility, including financial, emotional, credibility, cultural, and generational costs. I am also providing actionable strategies for staying visible and encouraging you to take steps to reclaim your visibility and leadership.



    00:00 Celebrating Hispanic Heritage Month and Visibility

    01:11 The State of Latino Entrepreneurship

    01:57 The Radical Act of Visibility

    07:21 Hidden Costs of Invisibility

    10:44 Strategies for Staying Visible

    14:17 Taking Action and Challenges for Visibility


    Takeaways


    Latinas are the fastest growing segment of entrepreneurs.

    Visibility is crucial for financial opportunities.

    Invisibility has hidden emotional costs.

    Your story matters; define it before others do.

    Cultural representation is vital for community empowerment.

    Generational costs of invisibility affect future leaders.

    Values-led visibility shifts focus from validation to impact.

    Nervous system regulation is key for confident visibility.

    Building your own platform is essential for voice amplification.

    Taking action is necessary to combat invisibility.


    Links:

    Latino Entrepreneurship Study: https://www.gsb.stanford.edu/insights/decade-data-shows-latino-entrepreneurs-growing-adapting

    Ep 4: Online Perception vs Real Life: Navigating Misunderstandings in Visibility: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unapologetically-visible-for-latinas-woc-founders-personal/id1828485468?i=1000723808134

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheSocialButterflyGal

    Coaching: https://www.thesocialbutterflygal.net/coaching

    Speaking: https://www.thesocialbutterflygal.net/Speaking





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  • How I Am Using Human Design to Restructure My Life and Business for the Next Decade
    2025/09/11

    In this episode of Unapologetically Visible, I'm sharing my transformative journey with Human Design, illustrating how it has reshaped my business and personal life. I am a Generator 4/6 profile. What are you?


    I'm discussing the importance of understanding your Human Design profile and one's energy type, the significance of rest, and how to make decisions aligned with one's true self.


    In this episode, I'm also diving deep into how I'm using my Human Design for the next decade in business and for my life as I restructure and rebuild to be in alignment with all part of my Human Design Profile. At the end of the episode, I take you through a coaching moment that will help you understand how to make better decisions using your energy type.


    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction to Human Design

    02:35 Understanding Human Design and Its Impact

    05:21 Personal Journey with Human Design

    08:01 The Wake-Up Call: Lessons from the 2025 Conference

    10:39 The Importance of Rest and Realignment

    13:40 Restructuring Business Around Human Design

    16:13 Making Decisions Aligned with Human Design

    19:07 Coaching Moment: Trusting Your Design

    19:47 Conclusion and Call to Action


    Takeaways


    Human design has been a lifeline for me.

    I needed to host this type of event, especially going into the new year.

    My energy thrives when I'm doing work that genuinely lights me up.

    I realized that I don't need to have it figured out right now.

    Rest for me looks like pure joy.

    My business model now revolves around one question: Does this light me up?

    I'm saying no to opportunities that would drain me.

    Human design isn't a trend; it's my compass.

    I want to model a new way of leading by being authentic.

    This next chapter is about my alignment, my joy, and my embodiment.


    Links:

    Get Your Human Design Profile: https://www.myhumandesign.com

    Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheSocialButterflyGal

    Work with me 1:1 in Coaching: https://www.thesocialbutterflygal.net/coaching

    Book me to Speak: https://www.thesocialbutterflygal.net/speaking

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    21 分