Have you ever stopped to wonder whether the thing you're chasing is actually the feeling you believe it will give you?

After seeing Gabby Bernstein speak, I found myself reflecting on one sentence that completely stopped me in my tracks: "The thing you want is getting in the way of the thing you need."

In this episode, I explore why I don't think we're really searching for the promotion, the baby, the house or the book deal. I think we're searching for what we believe those things will make us feel: relief, peace, happiness and freedom.

I share how this idea fits with my own journey through infertility, burnout and manifestation, why I believe healing starts with a willingness to feel differently, and how we can begin creating the feelings we're longing for before life looks exactly how we imagined.

Because perhaps the real magic isn't getting the thing you want. Perhaps it's learning how to feel good while your life is still unfolding.

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In this episode, I share what happened when I decided to stop focusing on what wasn't working and start focusing on raising my vibration again. From gratitude practices and visualisation to revisiting some of my favourite manifestation teachers, I've found myself back in that feeling of possibility, and things have started moving.

I talk about the concept of Ask, Believe, Trust, Receive, why I think the "believe" part is actually the hardest, and share some of the manifestations that have shown up recently (including a washing machine within 24 hours, a family holiday, and some exciting career developments).

Whether you're a manifestation sceptic, a secret believer, or fully in your own manifesting era, this episode is a reminder that sometimes the biggest shift happens when you stop trying to control everything and start allowing yourself to believe that good things might actually be on their way. ✨

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Have you ever asked for a sign?

In this episode, I explore the role signs have played throughout my life, particularly during the most uncertain moments. From repeated numbers to unexpected coincidences, I share why I started asking for signs, what they gave me, and why I've become less interested in whether they're "real" and more interested in how they make me feel.

This isn't an episode about convincing you to believe in anything. It's about hope, trust, and finding comfort when life feels uncertain. Because sometimes the sign itself isn't the point. Sometimes it's simply the reminder that everything might just be okay. ✨

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In this episode, I explore one of the biggest mindset shifts I've learned over the last few years: that two things can be true at once.

You can deeply want something to change and still enjoy your life today. You can be grateful and disappointed, hopeful and frustrated, excited and scared. Using my own experience of infertility, motherhood, and the tendency we all have to postpone happiness until the next milestone, I talk about how I stopped putting my life on hold and started living again.

If you've ever found yourself saying, "I'll be happy when...", this episode is for you.

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Episode 2 is a little late because life, illness and motherhood completely took over. After a horrendous week of sickness bugs, tonsillitis and feeling very sorry for myself, I found myself thinking about what actually helps me pull myself out of a rut.

I talk about the idea from The One Thing, and how sometimes, instead of trying to fix everything at once, we need to focus on the one thing that will help us feel a little better. For me this week, that was raising my vibration, not in a forced “good vibes only” way, but by remembering the tools that help me feel lighter, calmer and more like myself again.

This episode is about low weeks, losing your footing, and gently coming back to yourself one small shift at a time.

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Four years ago, I started this podcast in the middle of a really difficult time… and then I disappeared.

In this episode, I’m sharing why.

At that point, I’d already been trying for a baby for three years and had hit burnout. I was doing everything I could to feel better, but underneath it all, I was struggling more than I wanted to admit. Not long after my last episode, everything changed. I left my job, started a new one, began IVF, and within weeks, I was pregnant. It all happened so quickly that I chose to step away and process it privately. This episode isn’t just about what happened next — it’s about everything that came before. The burnout, the rebuilding, and the quiet work no one sees. I’m coming back from a very different place, and this podcast is now about navigating the in-between — building a life that feels good now, even while you’re still waiting.

If that’s where you are, you’re not alone.

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I had a revelation this week! I came face to face with a narrative i've been telling myself my whole life, which has impacted how i've acted around people and dictated actions I've taken for YEARS - I'm talking like 15 years. I've no idea where this story came from, or when I started telling it to myself, but through realising what it is, I've been able to process it, accept it, thank it and choose again. I'm now on a path to create a new story, a more positive story, the story that brings the life I want to life.

This episode is a bit of a ramble, it's quite fertility focused (mainly because that's what my limiting belief is around) but hopefully it will help you come face-to-face with that blockage or limiting story you've been telling yourself.

Follow me on @wingingit_pod - tell me about your limiting beliefs and what you're doing to choose again!! x

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In today's podcast I was inspired by a quote from the 'One Thing' by Gary Keller...

"If we're not careful, we wind up ricocheting from achieving and acquiring to acquiring and achieving without ever taking time to fully enjoy any of it".

I FEEL SEEN

And so in today's podcast, I explore how this has been the story and cycle in my life, and I look to my 10 year old self for a bit of help in breaking this cycle - just continuing my journey to be present in the present and appreciate what I have.

If you are stuck in this "what's next? What's next? What's next?" cycle, give it a listen.

Let me know what you think x

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