Episode #1043

This episode is for the men who crossed the line and now don’t know how to fix what’s broken. If you’ve cheated, or you’re carrying the weight of a past affair your wife doesn’t know about, this conversation lays out exactly what happens next and what to do about it.

Doug walks through what women actually feel after infidelity the confusion, the emotional fallout, and the way trust doesn’t just crack but completely collapses. He also breaks down what typically happens to men in this situation. The shame. The guilt. The regret. And how that can either be the beginning of real change or the start of a deeper downward spiral.

You’ll learn why saying “I’m sorry” isn’t even close to enough, why most guys make it worse by trying to buy their way back or shift the blame, and what it actually looks like to take full ownership. If your marriage is on the line, this isn’t about defending yourself. It’s about stepping up, rebuilding trust one small promise at a time, and showing your wife that the man she married still exists.

Whether you’re trying to save your relationship or just starting to face the impact of what happened, this episode is a grounded place to start.

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Episode #1042

In this episode, Doug and Chris answer real questions from men dealing with the silent drift in their relationships. One guy’s wife hides her phone and avoids conversation. Another gets shot down every time he tries to initiate intimacy. Sound familiar?

They talk about why therapy often leaves couples stuck in the past and how most men unknowingly fall into the “nice guy” trap trying to fix things by being extra helpful, only to lose polarity and respect in the process.

You’ll hear coaching insights around what to do when your wife feels more connected to her phone than to you, and how to take action without coming off as needy or overbearing. This isn’t about chasing or begging. It’s about showing up in a grounded, confident way that actually shifts the dynamic.

If you’ve been asking yourself, “Why does she feel so distant?” or “How do I make a move without risking rejection again?” this conversation is for you.

If you're ready to get a clear plan for how to reconnect with your wife and turn things around without more painful talks or guessing what to do next, get the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It's direct, simple to follow, and built for men who want to lead with confidence again.

Episode #1041

In this episode, we’re answering a straight-up question from a listener.
“I feel like my wife and I are just roommates. There’s no spark. How do I get the passion back without begging for sex?”

Doug Holt and Chris Hansen dive into what’s really going on when men feel stuck in this kind of dynamic. They talk about the shift from being a strong partner to slipping into the “nice guy” role. It sounds helpful on the surface but often kills the attraction behind the scenes.

If you're feeling unappreciated, walking on eggshells, or stuck trying to fix things by doing more chores or being extra nice, this will be eye-opening. You'll learn why that approach usually backfires and what to do instead.

They also walk through key tools like the Triadic Connection and how to rebuild trust, emotional safety, and attraction in your marriage without begging or forcing anything. It’s all about leading from a grounded, confident place.

This is real talk for men who want to turn things around and lead at home the same way they lead at work.

If your marriage feels off and you’re ready to fix it without more talking or guessing, get the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It gives you the tools to reconnect and lead again. No fluff. Just a clear path forward.

Episode #1040

We’re revisiting one of the most eye-opening conversations we’ve had on the show. Most men were never taught how women’s cycles really work. Most women weren’t either. Yet when you start to understand what’s happening week by week, everything changes in your relationship.

In this revisit, Doug is joined by his wife Erin, who breaks down the four phases of a woman’s cycle and shows men how to support their partners in practical, everyday ways. You’ll hear why she feels like a different woman at different times, how to time conversations and intimacy better, and why this knowledge is just as valuable for dads and even business leaders.

This isn’t about fixing her. It’s about understanding her. When you do, you create more connection, safety, and intimacy at home.

If your marriage feels off track and you’re ready for a clear way forward, watch the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It will give you the tools to take the lead and start making changes today.

Episode #1039

A lot of guys think they can only grow by surrounding themselves with men on their same level or above them. The truth is real growth happens when you reach back and help another man who is a few steps behind.

In this episode, Doug and Coach Mike talk about what it really means to lead, why lifting other men up deepens your own mastery, and how staying humble keeps you moving forward. They share stories about fatherhood, coaching, and the lessons that come when you stop trying to prove yourself and start serving.

If you are waiting to feel ready before you step up for others, you are missing the point. The moment you help another man figure something out, the lesson sinks deeper for you too.

If your marriage feels stuck and you want a clear way forward, get the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It will give you the tools to start making changes today and your wife will feel the difference.

Episode #1038

Most men say they’re being real, but deep down, they know something’s off. In this episode, Doug sits down with Eric “The Viking” at the TPM Ranch to talk about what actually changes when you stop hiding, drop the mask, and start showing up as your true self.

Eric opens up about the shift that happened when he finally got honest with himself and others. It didn’t come from a big breakthrough or a single moment. It came from consistent, small actions. Real change showed up in how he led his team, how he connected with his wife, and how he carried himself as a man.

They also dig into why so many guys stay stuck being the “nice guy,” how fear of judgment keeps you silent, and what it looks like to build a life that actually reflects your values.

If you’re feeling like something’s missing but can’t put your finger on it, this one’s worth a listen. It’s honest, grounded, and packed with stuff you can actually use.

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Episode #1037

We’re revisiting an important conversation that continues to hit home for so many men. What happens when the marriage is technically over, but you sense there’s still a chance to reconnect?

In this episode, Doug answers a listener’s question about when and how to approach reconciliation after separation or divorce. He breaks down why chasing your ex or falling back into old habits pushes her further away, and what it looks like to show up with real confidence instead of neediness.

You’ll hear practical strategies for getting grounded, filling your own cup, avoiding the “deer” response, and practicing engaged indifference so you can create attraction again rather than giving your ex all the power. This isn’t about replaying the past it’s about becoming the man you know you can be and approaching the relationship in a healthier way.

If you’ve ever wondered whether dating your ex is possible, this revisit will give you perspective and tools you can use right now.

If your marriage feels stuck or distant, don’t wait until it’s too late. Get the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It shows you exactly what’s going wrong and how to start rebuilding the connection today.

Episode #1036

Are you truly living, or just getting through the day?

In this episode, Doug and Coach Steve have an honest conversation about purpose, aging, marriage, and the kind of legacy most men never stop to think about. Not legacy in the financial sense, but how you show up as a man, how you lead at home, and what you're quietly passing on to your kids.

They share stories of mentors, tough transitions, and the moments that force you to ask, "Is this really the life I want to be living?" From broken trust to burnout, to feeling stuck in the same daily routine, this is a conversation about what it really looks like to turn things around.

You’ll hear what happens when men stop waiting and start making bold, uncomfortable moves toward growth. And why living with intention today might be the most important gift you leave behind.

If you've been playing it safe or telling yourself it’s not that bad, this episode might be the wake-up call you need.

If your relationship feels stuck and you’re not sure how to fix it, get the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It breaks down exactly what’s going wrong and gives you a clear, proven path to rebuild connection and trust without dragging your wife into another hard conversation.