Episode #1043

This episode is for the men who crossed the line and now don’t know how to fix what’s broken. If you’ve cheated, or you’re carrying the weight of a past affair your wife doesn’t know about, this conversation lays out exactly what happens next and what to do about it.

Doug walks through what women actually feel after infidelity the confusion, the emotional fallout, and the way trust doesn’t just crack but completely collapses. He also breaks down what typically happens to men in this situation. The shame. The guilt. The regret. And how that can either be the beginning of real change or the start of a deeper downward spiral.

You’ll learn why saying “I’m sorry” isn’t even close to enough, why most guys make it worse by trying to buy their way back or shift the blame, and what it actually looks like to take full ownership. If your marriage is on the line, this isn’t about defending yourself. It’s about stepping up, rebuilding trust one small promise at a time, and showing your wife that the man she married still exists.

Whether you’re trying to save your relationship or just starting to face the impact of what happened, this episode is a grounded place to start.

If you're ready to stop living with regret and want a proven path to rebuild trust, connection, and leadership in your marriage, go to https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales and get the free training. It will show you how to take action and lead your relationship forward.

Episode #1042

In this episode, Doug and Chris answer real questions from men dealing with the silent drift in their relationships. One guy’s wife hides her phone and avoids conversation. Another gets shot down every time he tries to initiate intimacy. Sound familiar?

They talk about why therapy often leaves couples stuck in the past and how most men unknowingly fall into the “nice guy” trap trying to fix things by being extra helpful, only to lose polarity and respect in the process.

You’ll hear coaching insights around what to do when your wife feels more connected to her phone than to you, and how to take action without coming off as needy or overbearing. This isn’t about chasing or begging. It’s about showing up in a grounded, confident way that actually shifts the dynamic.

If you’ve been asking yourself, “Why does she feel so distant?” or “How do I make a move without risking rejection again?” this conversation is for you.

If you're ready to get a clear plan for how to reconnect with your wife and turn things around without more painful talks or guessing what to do next, get the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It's direct, simple to follow, and built for men who want to lead with confidence again.

Episode #1041

In this episode, we’re answering a straight-up question from a listener.
“I feel like my wife and I are just roommates. There’s no spark. How do I get the passion back without begging for sex?”

Doug Holt and Chris Hansen dive into what’s really going on when men feel stuck in this kind of dynamic. They talk about the shift from being a strong partner to slipping into the “nice guy” role. It sounds helpful on the surface but often kills the attraction behind the scenes.

If you're feeling unappreciated, walking on eggshells, or stuck trying to fix things by doing more chores or being extra nice, this will be eye-opening. You'll learn why that approach usually backfires and what to do instead.

They also walk through key tools like the Triadic Connection and how to rebuild trust, emotional safety, and attraction in your marriage without begging or forcing anything. It’s all about leading from a grounded, confident place.

This is real talk for men who want to turn things around and lead at home the same way they lead at work.

If your marriage feels off and you’re ready to fix it without more talking or guessing, get the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It gives you the tools to reconnect and lead again. No fluff. Just a clear path forward.