Get on the waitlist for Functional Health Coaching HERE.

Are you doing all the right things but still feel drained? You might be dealing with energy vampires—those people, patterns, and thoughts that quietly deplete your mental, emotional, and spiritual reserves. In today’s episode, we’re diving into how to identify energy vampires (including the ones that live in your own head), what Scripture teaches about stewarding your energy, and grace-filled strategies to stop the leaks—without cutting people off or losing your purpose.

We’ll talk about signs of energy depletion, the four types of energy vampires, and practical boundaries for Christian women in leadership who want to lead with peace instead of performance.

You’ll walk away with biblical truth, nervous system wisdom, and permission to rest, reset, and reclaim your joy.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

• The signs you’re being drained emotionally—even when you can’t pinpoint why
• 4 common types of “energy vampires” (and which one lives rent-free in your head)
• Scripture-based truth on boundary setting and energy stewardship
• Practical tools to stop over-functioning and start leading with presence
• How to protect your peace without losing your purpose as a woman in leadership

I hope this episode blesses you!

Xoxo,

Tanya

Episode Resources:

GFL Episode Catalog

5 Ways To Connect With Me:

1️⃣ FREE CALL: Book your FREE Coaching Call now! Get personalized and practical strategies for work-life balance. Start your grace-filled life and leadership journey ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/workwithme

2️⃣ FACEBOOK: Become part of our Supportive Facebook Group. Connect, share, and learn with others navigating life and leadership ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/community

3️⃣ FREE WORKSHOP: Watch my FREE “Conquer Your Email Inbox” workshop! It's your key to jumpstart productivity ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/workshop

4️⃣ COACHING: Are you READY to Lead Well, Live Well and BE Well? Get on the waitlist for functional health coaching. It’s the accountability and guidance you need to reclaim your health and happiness! ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/health

5️⃣CONTACT: Leave me a question or comment ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/contact

"Yes! Finally, a podcast helping others become the thriving leaders they’re meant to be outside of hustle-culture! This is an amazing resource! Thank you so much for sharing and helping us become Spirit-driven, peaceful leaders!"

If you can relate, please consider rating and reviewing my show! It helps me reach more people – just like you – to help them change their future. Don’t forget to follow the show so you don’t miss any episodes! And, if you’re feeling really generous, I’d be SO honored if you would share this podcast with someone.

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Reminder: The information you hear on this show is not meant to diagnose, manage or treat disease. Always consult with your own health practitioner before you make any changes to your health.

Get on the waitlist for Functional Health Coaching HERE.

Are you doing all the “right things” for your health but still feeling drained, anxious, or on edge? In this episode, we explore the deeper detox you may be missing—the one that involves your nervous system, relationships, and leadership boundaries. Tanya shares how emotional and relational toxicity can sabotage your health just as much as environmental toxins. You’ll learn how to recognize hidden stressors, set healthy boundaries with difficult people (without guilt), and support your body, mind, and spirit in healing—especially as a woman in leadership. This is a conversation about whole-person wellness, discernment, and protecting your peace without losing your purpose.

Key Points:

• What “toxic load” really means from a functional and emotional perspective
• Signs you're carrying emotional or relational toxicity
• How to lead well around toxic behavior without internalizing it
• The three layers of detox: body, mind, and boundaries
• Why discernment—not drama—is the key to setting peace-protecting boundaries
• What Scripture teaches us about guarding our heart and detoxing with grace

Mentioned in this Episode: – Proverbs 4:23 – 1 Corinthians 6:19 – Waitlist for functional health coaching: gracefilledleaders.com/health

I hope this episode blesses you!

Xoxo,

Tanya

Episode Resources:

GFL Episode Catalog

5 Ways To Connect With Me:

1️⃣ FREE CALL: Book your FREE Coaching Call now! Get personalized and practical strategies for work-life balance. Start your grace-filled life and leadership journey ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/workwithme

2️⃣ FACEBOOK: Become part of our Supportive Facebook Group. Connect, share, and learn with others navigating life and leadership ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/community

3️⃣ FREE WORKSHOP: Watch my FREE “Conquer Your Email Inbox” workshop! It's your key to jumpstart productivity ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/workshop

4️⃣ COACHING: Are you READY to Lead Well, Live Well and BE Well? Get on the waitlist for functional health coaching. It’s the accountability and guidance you need to reclaim your health and happiness! ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/health

5️⃣CONTACT: Leave me a question or comment ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/contact

"Yes! Finally, a podcast helping others become the thriving leaders they’re meant to be outside of hustle-culture! This is an amazing resource! Thank you so much for sharing and helping us become Spirit-driven, peaceful leaders!"

If you can relate, please consider rating and reviewing my show! It helps me reach more people – just like you – to help them change their future. Don’t forget to follow the show so you don’t miss any episodes! And, if you’re feeling really generous, I’d be SO honored if you would share this podcast with someone.

Click here to view our privacy policy.

Reminder: The information you hear on this show is not meant to diagnose, manage or treat disease. Always consult with your own health practitioner before you make any changes to your health.

Get on the waitlist for Functional Health Coaching HERE.

In this powerful and practical episode, Tanya tackles one of the most challenging aspects of leadership: navigating team resistance when a necessary decision isn't popular. Designed for high-integrity women leaders, especially in healthcare, this episode offers a faith-rooted framework for setting boundaries, holding the line with grace, and discerning the difference between healthy leadership and autocratic control. With real-world wisdom, scriptural truth, and compassionate challenge, Tanya helps leaders balance empathy with authority—without losing themselves in the process.

Whether you’re facing ongoing pushback from your team, struggling with decision fatigue, or feeling guilty about making a hard call, this episode will equip and encourage you to stand firm in your role while remaining grounded in purpose and peace.

What You’ll Learn:

• The emotional toll of unpopular but necessary decisions
• Signs a conversation has moved from dialogue to demand
• Four practical boundary-setting statements every leader should use
• The difference between being clear vs. being controlling
• Why being unpopular doesn’t mean you’re leading poorly
• How Jesus modeled purpose-driven leadership under pressure

Episode Resources:

GFL Episode Catalog

5 Ways To Connect With Me:

1️⃣ FREE CALL: Book your FREE Coaching Call now! Get personalized and practical strategies for work-life balance. Start your grace-filled life and leadership journey ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/workwithme

2️⃣ FACEBOOK: Become part of our Supportive Facebook Group. Connect, share, and learn with others navigating life and leadership ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/community

3️⃣ FREE WORKSHOP: Watch my FREE “Conquer Your Email Inbox” workshop! It's your key to jumpstart productivity ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/workshop

4️⃣ COACHING: Are you READY to Lead Well, Live Well and BE Well? Get on the waitlist for functional health coaching. It’s the accountability and guidance you need to reclaim your health and happiness! ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/health

5️⃣CONTACT: Leave me a question or comment ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/contact

"Yes! Finally, a podcast helping others become the thriving leaders they’re meant to be outside of hustle-culture! This is an amazing resource! Thank you so much for sharing and helping us become Spirit-driven, peaceful leaders!"

If you can relate, please consider rating and reviewing my show! It helps me reach more people – just like you – to help them change their future. Don’t forget to follow the show so you don’t miss any episodes! And, if you’re feeling really generous, I’d be SO honored if you would share this podcast with someone.

Click here to view our privacy policy.

Reminder: The information you hear on this show is not meant to diagnose, manage or treat disease. Always consult with your own health practitioner before you make any changes to your health.

Get on the waitlist for Functional Health Coaching HERE.

In this heartfelt episode, Tanya explores a topic many women quietly carry — the pain of feeling shut out by those we love. Whether it’s strained relationships with adult children, in-laws, close friends, siblings or even spouses, this kind of relational heartache leaves us wondering: How did we get here… and how do we heal?

Tanya shares practical, faith-rooted wisdom on how to respond with grace instead of guilt, humility over defensiveness, and love without manipulation. She reminds us that leadership isn’t just about our titles or our work — it’s about how we lead ourselves through seasons of rejection, disappointment, and strained connection.

Through personal reflection, biblical encouragement, and practical takeaways, Tanya equips you to keep showing up with love and consistency, trusting God to work in the hearts you can’t change.

If you’re navigating relational strain in your family or close friendships, this episode will encourage you, equip you, and remind you that you are not alone.

✔ Why relational pain in midlife cuts so deep ✔ How to respond with maturity, humility, and faith ✔ Why boundaries aren’t rejection — and how to respect them ✔ How to lead yourself through relational heartache without guilt trips or control ✔ The spiritual perspective on reconciliation and healing ✔ Practical steps to remain consistent in love without expectation

I hope this episode blesses you!

Xoxo,

Tanya

Episode Resources:

GFL Episode Catalog

5 Ways To Connect With Me:

1️⃣ FREE CALL: Book your FREE Coaching Call now! Get personalized and practical strategies for work-life balance. Start your grace-filled life and leadership journey ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/workwithme

2️⃣ FACEBOOK: Become part of our Supportive Facebook Group. Connect, share, and learn with others navigating life and leadership ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/community

3️⃣ FREE WORKSHOP: Watch my FREE “Conquer Your Email Inbox” workshop! It's your key to jumpstart productivity ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/workshop

4️⃣ COACHING: Are you READY to Lead Well, Live Well and BE Well? Get on the waitlist for functional health coaching. It’s the accountability and guidance you need to reclaim your health and happiness! ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/health

5️⃣CONTACT: Leave me a question or comment ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/contact

"Yes! Finally, a podcast helping others become the thriving leaders they’re meant to be outside of hustle-culture! This is an amazing resource! Thank you so much for sharing and helping us become Spirit-driven, peaceful leaders!"

If you can relate, please consider rating and reviewing my show! It helps me reach more people – just like you – to help them change their future. Don’t forget to follow the show so you don’t miss any episodes! And, if you’re feeling really generous, I’d be SO honored if you would share this podcast with someone.

Click here to view our privacy policy.

Reminder: The information you hear on this show is not meant to diagnose, manage or treat disease. Always consult with your own health practitioner before you make any changes to your health.

In this truth-bomb-filled episode, I sit down with leadership engagement expert and founder of Take New Ground, Adrian Koehler. Known for his bold mix of tough love and deep compassion, Adrian dives headfirst into the raw truth about what makes leaders effective—not just exceptional.

We unpack everything from fear-based leadership and the hidden costs of people-pleasing to building team cultures rooted in truth and commitment (not performance and politics). Adrian also challenges us to question our stories, face our fear, and stop hiding behind comfort and approval.

If you're a Christian woman in leadership who's tired of over-functioning, burnout, or leading from a place of fear—this one will shake you up (in the best way).

What We Cover:

• Why effectiveness matters more than being “exceptional”
• The myth of being “stuck” and how we keep ourselves there
• How fear is not the enemy—it’s an invitation
• Why most leaders avoid hard conversations and what it costs them
• The connection between courage, faith, and taking meaningful risks
• How team culture must be built on commitment, not just competency
• What Jesus modeled about approval, courage, and disruption

Resources Mentioned:

• TakeNewGround.com
• Adrian’s Instagram: @adrian.k
• Public Trainings: The Revenant Process and Intrepid Leadership Training

I hope this episode blesses you!

Xoxo,

Tanya

Episode Resources:

GFL Episode Catalog

5 Ways To Connect With Me:

1️⃣ FREE CALL: Book your FREE Coaching Call now! Get personalized and practical strategies for work-life balance. Start your grace-filled life and leadership journey ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/workwithme

2️⃣ FACEBOOK: Become part of our Supportive Facebook Group. Connect, share, and learn with others navigating life and leadership ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/community

3️⃣ FREE WORKSHOP: Watch my FREE “Conquer Your Email Inbox” workshop! It's your key to jumpstart productivity ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/workshop

4️⃣ COACHING: Are you READY to Lead Well, Live Well and BE Well? Get on the waitlist for functional health coaching. It’s the accountability and guidance you need to reclaim your health and happiness! ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/health

5️⃣CONTACT: Leave me a question or comment ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/contact

"Yes! Finally, a podcast helping others become the thriving leaders they’re meant to be outside of hustle-culture! This is an amazing resource! Thank you so much for sharing and helping us become Spirit-driven, peaceful leaders!"

If you can relate, please consider rating and reviewing my show! It helps me reach more people – just like you – to help them change their future. Don’t forget to follow the show so you don’t miss any episodes! And, if you’re feeling really generous, I’d be SO honored if you would share this podcast with someone.

Click here to view our privacy policy.

Reminder: The information you hear on this show is not meant to diagnose, manage or treat disease. Always consult with your own health practitioner before you make any changes to your health.

Get on the waitlist for Functional Health Coaching HERE.

In this episode, we’re confronting a trap that many high-capacity Christian women leaders fall into — leading from performance instead of presence. If you’ve ever felt like you have to prove your worth in the boardroom, overdeliver to feel safe, or play a role just to hold it all together… this episode is for you.

We explore how people-pleasing, perfectionism, and fear of being misunderstood drive us to perform rather than lead authentically. You’ll walk away with a renewed perspective on what real courage looks like in leadership — and practical steps to break the cycle of pretending so you can lead from identity, not insecurity.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How performance-based leadership quietly leads to burnout and resentment
• The connection between people-pleasing and fear of rejection
• What it means to lead from identity, not image
• Faith-based mindset shifts to cultivate courage
• Reflection prompts to help you move from pretending to presence

I hope this episode blesses you!

Xoxo,

Tanya

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Episode Resources:

GFL Episode Catalog

5 Ways To Connect With Me:

1️⃣ FREE CALL: Book your FREE Coaching Call now! Get personalized and practical strategies for work-life balance. Start your grace-filled life and leadership journey ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/workwithme

2️⃣ FACEBOOK: Become part of our Supportive Facebook Group. Connect, share, and learn with others navigating life and leadership ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/community

3️⃣ FREE WORKSHOP: Watch my FREE “Conquer Your Email Inbox” workshop! It's your key to jumpstart productivity ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/workshop

4️⃣ COACHING: Are you READY to Lead Well, Live Well and BE Well? Get on the waitlist for functional health coaching. It’s the accountability and guidance you need to reclaim your health and happiness! ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/health

5️⃣CONTACT: Leave me a question or comment ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/contact

"Yes! Finally, a podcast helping others become the thriving leaders they’re meant to be outside of hustle-culture! This is an amazing resource! Thank you so much for sharing and helping us become Spirit-driven, peaceful leaders!"

If you can relate, please consider rating and reviewing my show! It helps me reach more people – just like you – to help them change their future. Don’t forget to follow the show so you don’t miss any episodes! And, if you’re feeling really generous, I’d be SO honored if you would share this podcast with someone.

Click here to view our privacy policy.

Reminder: The information you hear on this show is not meant to diagnose, manage or treat disease. Always consult with your own health practitioner before you make any changes to your health.

Get on the waitlist for Functional Health Coaching HERE.

In this powerful episode, I reflect on a record-breaking storm that swept through our community—leaving destruction in its wake but also igniting an inspiring wave of collective resilience. Drawing on the lessons of Viktor Frankl and Man’s Search for Meaning, I dive into how our response to adversity—not just the event itself—shapes our peace, health, and leadership. I discuss practical strategies for midlife Christian women to intentionally choose hope, health, and spiritual restoration. Learn how to pause, connect, and rebuild after chaos—stepping into greater resilience, faith, and inner strength.

I hope this episode blesses you!

Xoxo,

Tanya

Episode Resources:

GFL Episode Catalog

5 Ways To Connect With Me:

1️⃣ FREE CALL: Book your FREE Coaching Call now! Get personalized and practical strategies for work-life balance. Start your grace-filled life and leadership journey ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/workwithme

2️⃣ FACEBOOK: Become part of our Supportive Facebook Group. Connect, share, and learn with others navigating life and leadership ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/community

3️⃣ FREE WORKSHOP: Watch my FREE “Conquer Your Email Inbox” workshop! It's your key to jumpstart productivity ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/workshop

4️⃣ COACHING: Are you READY to Lead Well, Live Well and BE Well? Get on the waitlist for functional health coaching. It’s the accountability and guidance you need to reclaim your health and happiness! ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/health

5️⃣CONTACT: Leave me a question or comment ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/contact

"Yes! Finally, a podcast helping others become the thriving leaders they’re meant to be outside of hustle-culture! This is an amazing resource! Thank you so much for sharing and helping us become Spirit-driven, peaceful leaders!"

If you can relate, please consider rating and reviewing my show! It helps me reach more people – just like you – to help them change their future. Don’t forget to follow the show so you don’t miss any episodes! And, if you’re feeling really generous, I’d be SO honored if you would share this podcast with someone.

Click here to view our privacy policy.

Reminder: The information you hear on this show is not meant to diagnose, manage or treat disease. Always consult with your own health practitioner before you make any changes to your health.

Get on the waitlist for Functional Health Coaching HERE.

Still tired, foggy, or inflamed—even though your labs are normal? This episode is your permission slip to stop guessing and start testing. I share why functional lab testing is a game-changer for high-capacity women in midlife who are ready to stop chasing symptoms and start healing from the inside out.

You’ll learn the difference between symptom-management and root-cause healing, how personalized wellness plans work, and why “doing all the right things” doesn’t always lead to results—unless you know what your body truly needs.

If you’re stuck in the in-between—not sick, but definitely not well—this is your moment to take back your health with clarity, strategy, and grace.

In This Episode:

• Why guessing at your health is exhausting (and ineffective)
• The limits of conventional lab work and standard health advice
• What functional testing can reveal about fatigue, brain fog, and hormone shifts
• A real-life example of how personalized wellness plans bring clarity and results
• What to expect when working with a functional health practitioner
• Why midlife is the ideal time to take a root-cause approach to your health

I hope this episode blesses you!

Xoxo,

Tanya

Episode Resources:

GFL Episode Catalog

5 Ways To Connect With Me:

1️⃣ FREE CALL: Book your FREE Coaching Call now! Get personalized and practical strategies for work-life balance. Start your grace-filled life and leadership journey ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/workwithme

2️⃣ FACEBOOK: Become part of our Supportive Facebook Group. Connect, share, and learn with others navigating life and leadership ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/community

3️⃣ FREE WORKSHOP: Watch my FREE “Conquer Your Email Inbox” workshop! It's your key to jumpstart productivity ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/workshop

4️⃣ COACHING: Are you READY to Lead Well, Live Well and BE Well? Get on the waitlist for functional health coaching. It’s the accountability and guidance you need to reclaim your health and happiness! ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/health

5️⃣CONTACT: Leave me a question or comment ➡︎ https://gracefilledleader.com/contact

"Yes! Finally, a podcast helping others become the thriving leaders they’re meant to be outside of hustle-culture! This is an amazing resource! Thank you so much for sharing and helping us become Spirit-driven, peaceful leaders!"

If you can relate, please consider rating and reviewing my show! It helps me reach more people – just like you – to help them change their future. Don’t forget to follow the show so you don’t miss any episodes! And, if you’re feeling really generous, I’d be SO honored if you would share this podcast with someone.

Click here to view our privacy policy.

Reminder: The information you hear on this show is not meant to diagnose, manage or treat disease. Always consult with your own health practitioner before you make any changes to your health.