In this engaging conversation, Lori Woodley-Langendorff discusses her book 'SEL Muscle Mastery' and the importance of practical skills in education. The dialogue explores the journey of writing and publishing a book, the significance of social-emotional learning (SEL), and the application of practical skills in everyday life. Lori emphasizes the need for curiosity, effective communication, and self-reflection in educational settings, while also highlighting the importance of empathy and compassion. The conversation concludes with reflections on personal growth, recognition in the counseling field, and the joy of pursuing one's passions.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to SEL Muscle Mastery
02:54 The Journey of Writing and Publishing a Book
06:07 Understanding SEL Muscles and Their Importance
09:07 Practical Skills for Everyday Life
11:52 The Q-Tip Principle: Quit Taking It Personally
15:06 Curiosity and Its Role in Education
17:48 Creating a Supportive Learning Environment
20:47 Understanding Different Communication Styles
27:48 The Cycle of Self-Criticism
29:58 Empathy and Compassion in Education
32:56 Finding Joy Amidst Challenges
36:04 Authenticity and Self-Reflection
40:57 Celebrating Achievements and Milestones
46:10 Pursuing Passion and Overcoming Doubts

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In this conversation, Dr. Loretta Whitson discusses the vital role of advocacy in school counseling, emphasizing the importance of finding meaning and purpose in the profession. She highlights the significance of curiosity and personal connection in counseling, and offers advice for future educators and counselors. Dr. Whitson also reflects on the moral compass that guides leadership in education, underscoring the need for a supportive and collaborative environment for students.

Takeaways

• Advocacy is essential in school counseling.

• Finding meaning in work enhances professional fulfillment.

• Curiosity drives effective counseling practices.

• Personal connections with students lead to better outcomes.

• Choosing a career aligned with personal beliefs fosters motivation.

• Collaboration among educators, counselors, and administrators is crucial.

• A balanced support system is necessary for student success.

• Counseling should address personal and social domains for effectiveness.

• Leaders should have a strong moral compass to guide their actions.

• Opportunities for students should be prioritized in counseling.

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V= Values

I = Investigate and show Interest

B = Boldness

E = Enjoy each moment

S = Start and Start again

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In this episode of the Focused Mindset podcast, Cher discusses the importance of reframing our mindset to foster hope, growth, and effective communication. She emphasizes the role of mindset in shaping our experiences and interactions, drawing on personal anecdotes and research in neuroplasticity. Cher encourages listeners to embrace uncertainty and curiosity as they navigate life's challenges, ultimately redefining hope and personal growth.

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Your frame of mind matters and in this episode Cher talks about why that is true. Find out more about the significance of mindset in shaping our communication and personal growth. She emphasizes the importance of adopting a growth mindset, the power of neuroplasticity, and the need to adjust our mental settings to foster better communication and relationships. Through personal anecdotes and insights, Cher illustrates how our beliefs and experiences frame our mindset and how we can choose to shift our perspectives to embrace uncertainty and redefine hope.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Focused Mindset

01:32 The Power of Mindset in Communication

05:53 Neuroplasticity and the Flexibility of Our Mind

08:38 Understanding the Frame of Mind

16:04 Shifting Mindsets Through Experience

26:34 Choosing a Mindset That Serves Us

31:37 Embracing Uncertainty and Hope

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Takeaways

• Mindset is crucial for effective communication.

• A growth mindset allows for new perspectives.

• Neuroplasticity enables us to change our thought patterns.

• Curiosity leads to better understanding and communication.

• Our frame of mind shapes our beliefs and experiences.

• We can choose to shift our mindset intentionally.

• Transformative experiences can change our outlook on life.

• It's important to adapt to change rather than resist it.

• What we focus on influences our motivation and actions.

• Redefining hope involves embracing uncertainty.

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In this episode of the Focused Mindset Podcast, Cher discusses the importance of taking deliberate and disciplined action in our lives. She shares personal stories about family, travel, and the influence of her grandmother, emphasizing the significance of intentionality in our actions. Cher encourages listeners to reflect on their own lives and take action on their convictions, highlighting the ripple effect of communication and the value of mentorship. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to embrace their journey with purpose and with a solution-focused mindset.

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Chapters

00:00 The Challenge of Taking Action

02:04 Reflections on Family and Conviction

09:13 Lessons from Travel and Attitude

10:36 Influence of Grandparents on Life Choices

14:46 The Importance of Deliberate Action

20:33 The Role of Interns in Personal Growth

23:48 Teaching with Intention and Discipline

30:20 The Ripple Effect of Communication

36:32 Taking Action with Purpose

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In this conversation, Cher discusses how to adjust our mindset for the holiday season, focusing on proactive strategies to enhance family gatherings. She emphasizes the importance of planning ahead, taking intentional pauses, and choosing a positive vibe to create a more enjoyable experience. Cher encourages listeners to reflect on positive memories and the qualities they appreciate in their family members, ultimately promoting a mindset of gratitude and intentionality during the holidays.

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Chapters

00:00 Embracing the Holiday Spirit
03:10 Mindfulness and Intentionality in Family Gatherings
05:40 Planning Ahead: Writing Your Own Narrative
08:12 Taking a Beat: The Power of Pausing
10:49 Choosing Your Vibe: Setting the Mood
14:04 Reflecting on Positive Memories
16:54 The Importance of Attitude
19:20 Transforming Interactions: Being Intentional
22:25 Preparing for the Unexpected
24:33 Conclusion: Embracing the Journey Ahead

In this episode, Michael Mushong shares his experiences in the military and his journey towards helping others with their mental health. He discusses the importance of connection, trust, and being present for those in need, especially in high-stress environments like the military. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion, understanding, and the role of first sergeants in supporting their troops. Michael's personal stories highlight the impact of being there for someone in crisis and the importance of leading with love and humility.

takeaways

• Mental health awareness is crucial year-round.
• Connection and trust are vital in helping others.
• Being present can save lives.
• Building rapport is essential for effective communication.
• Humility is key for leaders in the military.
• Loneliness is a common issue among service members.
• It's important to listen without judgment.
• Life is a journey with ups and downs.
• Support systems within the military are important.
• Everyone has their struggles; compassion is necessary.

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In this episode Cher discusses the challenges many of us face in communicating with their children. She emphasizes the importance of understanding that kids often do not share the full story of their day, focusing instead on conflicts or negative experiences. Cher provides strategies for parents to encourage open communication, problem-solving, and a balanced perspective in their children's storytelling. By fostering a safe and supportive environment, parents can help their kids feel comfortable sharing their experiences, leading to stronger connections and healthier relationships.

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Chapters

00:00

Understanding Communication Gaps with Kids

06:29

The Importance of Full Storytelling

12:27

Encouraging Problem-Solving Skills

19:34

Navigating Emotional Responses

28:29

Effective Questioning Techniques

37:04

Celebrating the Good with the Bad