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(Concept of satisficing: Herbert Simon; maximizers vs. satisficers: Barry Schwartz)

Struggling to make decisions with ADHD? This video explores why your ADHD brain get stuck optimizing (trying to make the perfect choice) and how “good enough” decisions can protect your energy budget and build self-trust.

If you’ve ever spent 45 minutes researching a hoodie, this one’s for you...


0:00 Why decision-making is so hard with ADHD
0:25 What it means to be an “optimizer” (the dinner example)
1:15 Too many priorities = decision overload
2:00 Decisions, energy budgeting, and self-trust
2:30 Which decisions deserve your energy (and which don’t)
3:10 Optimizing vs. satisficing
3:45 The hoodie story
4:25 Step 1 and 2: Recognize it and notice when it’s happening
5:05 Put rails on your decisions
5:30 Rail #1: Set a time limit
5:50 Rail #2: Pick only one or two priorities
6:35 Make fewer decisions: automate and delegate
7:20 Ask: “What’s the real cost of a not-ideal decision?”
7:55 ADHD, perfectionism, and decisions

🔗 OTHER EPISODES MENTIONED
Energy budgeting with ADHD: 6 Ways to Manage Your Energy with ADHD

💬 Tell me in the comments: what decision keeps sucking up your energy?

👋 I’m Donae, an occupational therapist and executive function coach helping people with ADHD build self-trust. If you want support beyond the videos, my group coaching program has rolling enrollment (start anytime, stay one month or the full program) and a private community. Book a free call to see if it’s a fit: https://theadhdclaritycoach.com/page/dc-1ctaquestions

#ADHD #ADHDDecisionMaking #ExecutiveFunction #ADHDWomen #Overthinking

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If you have 2 modes: "Superhero": where you get everything done on your list in record time OR "Jello" where you collapse and need 3 days to recover, this one is for you!

There's nothing inherently wrong with switching between these 2 modes if it works for you, but most of us find that it doesn't work long term. Not only is it stressful, it totally erodes our self trust: we never know if we're going to have a superhero day or a jello day.
In order to get things done and be able to trust yourself, you need a 3rd mode! In this video we'll talk about how to do that!
#adhdproductivity #adhdfamily

Timestamps

0:00 Superhero mode vs. Jell-O mode
1:00 Why the two-mode cycle stops working
2:00 Why productivity-bro advice doesn’t fit ADHD brains
2:45 Why ADHD isn’t really a “superpower”
4:00 How to build your middle mode (task initiation)
4:45 Shrink it until starting feels easy
5:15 Habits, laundry, and the 5-minute start
5:45 Why “just push through” erodes self-trust
7:00 Example: studying without the all-nighter
8:00 You still get all three modes
8:30 How to go deeper

🧠SENSORY STRATEGIES FOR ADHD: Tools for Energy, Calm + Focus
FREE TRAINING! https://theadhdclaritycoach.com/page/sensory-strategies

👥 GROUP COACHING:
https://theadhdclaritycoach.com/page/adhd-group-coaching-program
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Ever struggle to start and think, "Why can't I just DO this? It's not even that hard"? Stop doing that to yourself! In this video, I explain why believing it's hard (even when no one else does) is the first step to getting unstuck and a client story about a thank-you note that sat on her list, draining her energy, for eight months.

#ADHD #ExecutiveFunction #ADHDWomen #LateDiagnosedADHD #ADHDCoach #TaskInitiation #ADHDShame #ADHDTips #WorkWithYourBrain

Time Stamps
0:00 Why can't I just start? (it's "not even that hard")
0:25 Stop doing this to yourself: believe it's hard
1:00 The manual vs. automatic transmission brain
2:00 You don't need anyone else to agree with you
2:40 Kim's story: the thank-you note she couldn't write
3:30 Why nothing felt like "enough"
4:30 The 30-minute cap that made it doable
5:15 Swap "this is no big deal" for "something here is sticky"
5:50 Why powering through drains your energy budget
6:50 Common reasons you're stuck (perfectionism, too many steps, unclear tasks)
7:50 Your environment and body state: the hidden friction
8:50 Building self-trust in a way that's sustainable
9:20 How to get more support

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Think you need to be consistent to succeed with ADHD? Think again. In this video, we unpack why "consistent" is the wrong goal for ADHD brains — and why persistence and flexibility will actually get you further.
Timestamps:
00:00 – Why "consistency" is the wrong goal for ADHD
00:56 – How coaching differs from OT: the client defines "done"
02:03 – A client's realization that her "consistent" dream life sounded horrible
03:12 – Flexibility in habits: the running example
04:38 – Why persistence is a core ADHD strength
05:38 – Small versions still count: building self-trust
06:40 – Where to find more support (coaching + mailing list)

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People with ADHD often overwork and burn out — not because of laziness or poor productivity, but due to specific ADHD-related challenges. In this episode, we break down four key drivers and how to work with them instead of against them.
Timestamps:
00:00 – Why ADHD leads to overworking and burnout
00:00 – Time blindness: it's a math problem, not a productivity problem
01:53 – Working in cycles: hyperfocus vs. downshifting
04:00 – Rejection sensitivity and the trap of saying "yes"
06:06 – Self-advocacy at work without disclosing a diagnosis
08:00 – Where to get more support (coaching info)

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I just celebrated my 5th year of making this podcast! The old me would have burnt out a long time ago, but I've done things differently this time and it's made a difference!

Today I'm sharing 4 of my counter intuitive approaches that have helped me keep the joy and stay with it! And one thing I've NOT done very well.:D

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A lot of us with ADHD have the same problem Goldilocks had — we're looking for "just right," not too much, not too little.

In this video, occupational therapist and ADHD executive functioning coach Donae breaks down why finding that just-right zone of pressure is the key to getting started, staying focused, and actually finishing what matters (without white-knuckling through it).

You'll learn what body doubling actually is, why announcing your plans out loud can backfire, and how to figure out what kind of gentle accountability works for your brain.

Timestamps:
00:00 — The Goldilocks problem with ADHD attention
01:00 — Why deadlines feel like the only way to get moving
02:00 — Finding your "just right" pressure zone
03:00 — What body doubling actually is (and isn't)
04:00 — Why announcing your plans can backfire
05:00 — How to find what works for your brain

#executive functioning #body doubling, #ADHD focus tips

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Struggling to stay organized with ADHD? You're not lazy or "bad at this" — most organizing advice just isn't built for how our brains actually work. In this episode, I break down how to create home, digital, and project organization systems that support ADHD memory and reduce overwhelm — instead of fighting against it.

You'll learn:
✅ The real definition of "organized" (hint: it's not about looks)
✅ How to balance memory vs. visual overwhelm
✅ Why clear, contained storage works better than hiding things away
✅ How to organize by "point of action" to reduce friction
✅ How to build "drop zones" so you stop losing your keys, phone, and mail
✅ Why "good enough" beats Pinterest-perfect organizing
✅ How to build resets into your system so it actually lasts

Whether you're organizing your kitchen, closet, home office, or digital files, these ADHD-friendly organizing tips are designed to work with your brain, not against it.

Chapters:
0:00 – Why organizing feels so hard with ADHD
1:00 – Balancing memory vs. overwhelm
2:00 – Clear storage & container depth
3:00 – Labeling for your brain, not everyone else's
4:00 – Why traditional organizing advice falls short
5:00 – Organizing by point of action (shoe example)
6:00 – Real client examples: toothbrushing stations & trash cans
7:00 – Building categories that make sense to YOU
8:00 – Drop zones: how to stop losing your keys
9:00 – Good enough vs. Pinterest-perfect
10:00 – Why every system needs regular resets
11:00 – How to work with me (1:1 & group coaching)

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