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Have you ever questioned why we limit romantic love to just one person when we don't apply the same restrictions to friendships, family relationships, or parental love? This thought-provoking episode with sexologist Kate Campbell challenges everything you thought you knew about relationship structures.

We dive deep into what polyamory actually means—and what it doesn't. Forget the stereotypes of commitment-phobic people or hypersexual escapades. Polyamory (poly = many, amory = love) is about creating multiple committed, loving relationships with consent and communication at the core. Kate shares her journey from skepticism to embracing polyamory, realizing that what society taught her about "finding the one" never quite fit her authentic self.

The conversation tackles jealousy head-on, reframing it not as a relationship killer but as an opportunity for growth. When someone in a polyamorous relationship feels jealous, they're encouraged to explore why—what insecurity or fear lies beneath the surface? This practice creates emotional intelligence that monogamous relationships might never develop simply because they avoid these triggering situations altogether.

We explore fascinating parallels between relationship structures and other aspects of identity. Many neurodivergent individuals find polyamory aligns better with how they naturally form connections. We discuss the problematic double standards (why is a man with multiple female partners seen as powerful while a woman with multiple male partners is questioned?), the historical roots of monogamy in patriarchal control systems, and the practical considerations of time management and sexual health.

Whether you're polycurious, happily monogamous, or somewhere in between, this episode offers valuable insights about communication, emotional intelligence, and expanding your capacity for love. As Kate beautifully puts it, "Love is not a finite resource—you get more by giving more and having more."

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Dive into the profound world of fisting – a practice that goes far beyond what many consider "extreme" or "fringe." This episode challenges us to rethink our assumptions about intimacy, pleasure, and connection through the lens of a practice that demands extraordinary trust and communication.

Drawing from Chris Barcelos' groundbreaking 2023 academic paper, we explore how fisting represents not just a sexual act but an entire epistemology – a way of knowing and being with others that defies conventional sexual scripts. When we look deeper, fisting emerges as a radical form of pedagogy, where knowledge passes through communities rather than institutions, centered on consent, care, and pleasure.

What makes this practice particularly revolutionary is how it inverts traditional sexual values. Unlike the fast, goal-oriented approach often celebrated in mainstream sexual culture, fisting demands slowness, patience, and constant checking in. It asks participants to be fully present, to prioritize connection over performance, and to embrace vulnerability as a pathway to pleasure. Even during the AIDS crisis when it was heavily stigmatized, fisting persisted as both a source of joy and a symbol of resistance within queer communities.

Whether you're curious about expanding your sexual horizons or simply interested in new frameworks for thinking about intimacy, this episode offers valuable insights. The principles at the heart of fisting – radical communication, mutual care, and challenging normative boundaries – apply far beyond any specific sex act. They remind us that sometimes our most profound connections come when we slow down, get curious, and allow ourselves to go deep.

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