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What if the standard rules of dating and sex were written for someone else’s brain? We sit down with researcher and PhD candidate Kai Schweizer to unpack how neurodivergent people experience desire, consent, and relationships—and why structure and clarity often unlock deeper intimacy. From sensory processing differences to executive function, social style, and learning patterns, we explore how touch, smell, sound, and texture shape pleasure and boundaries. Kai shares why kink can offer safety and ease for autistic folks, how masks and roles reduce social load, and why frameworks like FRIES make consent feel safe, sexy, and specific.

We dig into the double empathy problem and what happens when two communication dialects collide. Expect practical tools for translating across styles: using checklists without killing the mood, choosing verbal cues over guesswork, and deciding—together—whether a moment calls for venting, distraction, or solutions. We also get real about interoception and delayed emotions, why ADHD conflict often needs separation time, and how to support a partner who processes out loud. Along the way we touch on higher rates of gender and sexual diversity among neurodivergent folks, and why late diagnosis can increase vulnerability to coercive dynamics.

One of the most eye-opening parts of the conversation is memory foaming—the tendency to reshape yourself to fit a partner. Kai offers simple practices to keep a solid sense of self: solo hobbies, personal aesthetics, friends beyond the couple bubble, and regular check-ins on what you genuinely like. For educators and curious partners, we make the case for co-designed sex education that includes sensory mapping, explicit consent scripts, and communication models that actually work for different brains.

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A UTI becomes a prostate test for someone who never had one. A hospital wristband prints the wrong gender, and every interaction tilts from care to harm. With Kai Schweizer—researcher, educator, and trans advocate—we pull back the curtain on how systems ignore lived reality, why that costs lives, and what actually works when you put dignity first.

We move from personal stories to hard science. Kai explains how neuroimaging captures dysphoria in the brain, and why that matters when clinicians confuse it with body dysmorphia. We break down eating disorder treatments that help cis patients but retraumatise trans ones, and we talk frankly about why some teens starve to halt puberty when blockers are banned. This isn’t a culture war rant; it’s a clear-eyed look at outcomes, costs, and the biology of minority stress. Along the way, we explore co‑designed research, data literacy, and the nuance missing from public debates about prevalence and youth identity.

There’s hope here too. A receptionist who updates pronouns without fuss. A nurse who chooses the blue‑packaged pad. A clinician who asks, “What language do you want for your body?” Small choices stack into safety, especially while we push for policy reform, training that goes beyond tokenism, and healthcare that distinguishes dysphoria from dysmorphia. If you care about sex education, gender‑affirming care, neurodiversity, or just better medicine, this conversation gives you language, evidence, and practical steps.

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Curious about threesomes but stuck between fantasy and “okay… now what?” We bring the heat and the homework, unpacking how three people can create a safe, thrilling, and genuinely connected experience without getting lost in porn scripts or performance pressure. From the first conversation to the final aftercare cuddle, we map out the moments that matter.

We start with the real reasons people want threesomes—curiosity, novelty, voyeurism, exhibitionism, and exploring sexual orientation—and explain why a good plan beats a good fantasy. You’ll learn how to open the conversation with your partner without spooking them, what boundaries to define before anyone meets, and how to choose the right dynamic for you. We share practical scripts, profile tips for Feeld, FetLife, and swinger-friendly platforms, and the crucial difference between being vague and being inviting. Safety gets the spotlight: STI talk without shame, how to avoid cross-contamination when switching acts, and why “are you clean?” is a red flag. We also cover neutral locations, hotel-lobby meetups, live-location check-ins, and what to pack so the night flows.

Then we go deeper on human stuff: jealousy as information, not a stop sign; traffic-light signals and preplanned exits; and why aftercare—water, warmth, and words—cements trust. Performance anxiety doesn’t have to run the room; pleasure is bigger than penetration and many people prefer the “side” of intimacy without insertion. We challenge body myths with resources like the Labia Library and the Vulva Diversity Gallery, and remind you that porn isn’t a measuring stick for genitals or pleasure. The core takeaway is simple: the perfect threesome isn’t about flawless choreography, it’s about communication, curiosity, and care that starts long before anyone gets naked.

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We reboot the show with three sexologists and set the tone for evidence-based, shameless talk about sex, stigma, and real pleasure. We share our paths into the field, bust common myths, and swap stories that make space for better questions and kinder boundaries.

• reboot with new co-hosts and clear mission
• why sexology: psychology, nursing, and education perspectives
• rising shame in young people and mixed-gender sex ed
• body image pressures and “Barbie look” surgery risks
• male size anxiety and performance scripts
• first kisses, early social scripts, and unlearning
• attraction beyond looks and values as turn-ons
• dating app boundaries, safety, and banter
• playful quiz: averages, nerve endings, odd animal facts
• practical takeaways: talk more, double the time, hydrate
• closing gratitude and ways to support the show

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What if your best sex lives ahead of you—not behind you? We sit down with Susan Bratton to map a practical, science-led route to more pleasure, deeper connection, and better health, no matter your age or experience. Susan breaks down the anatomy most of us never learned at school: the clitoral network, urethral sponge, perineal sponge, and vestibular bulbs that together form the foundation of female arousal. Once you understand engorgement—the “lady boner”—you stop rushing to penetration and start building the kind of full-body turn-on that makes orgasms stack and last.

We explore how desire often follows arousal, why many women need 20 to 30 minutes for peak blood flow, and the simple habits that change everything: kissing and nipple play to prime the inside, lay-on vibrators and skilled hands to activate the outside. Susan connects the dots on nitric oxide—how leafy greens, beetroot, and smart supplementation improve blood flow for all genders—and shows why antibacterial mouthwash and acid blockers can sabotage your bedroom and your brain. We talk pegging and prostate play without the blushes, clear STI testing protocols that make open relationships safer, and how podcasts have become the candid classroom porn never was.

For those curious about biohacking, Susan shares firsthand wins using PRP “O shots,” shockwave therapy, pumps, and even stem cells to regenerate genital tissue and sensation. The goal isn’t quick fixes—it’s capacity building, so your body learns to deliver more pleasure with less effort. Along the way we touch on sleep, stress, and why oxytocin-fuelled intimacy is nervous system medicine. Ready to turn sex into a craft you’ll keep mastering for life? Press play, subscribe for more candid, smart conversations, and leave a review telling us the one insight you’ll try first.

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Let’s start the year where curiosity meets candour. We open 2025 by taking a clear-eyed look at water sports—demystifying what it actually includes, why some people love it, and how to keep exploration safe, consensual, and drama-free. No shock tactics. No shame. Just honest conversation about a kink many whisper about but rarely understand.

We break down the spectrum: from watching and mutual peeing to holding, wetting, and power exchange. You’ll hear how sensation, warmth, relief, and taboo intersect with intimacy and trust, and why the visual intensity resonates for people who enjoy seeing ejaculation or squirting. We also untangle persistent myths—especially the “urine is sterile” claim—then explain the real risks, the pH realities of vaginal health, and why rectal play, while comparatively safer, still demands planning because what goes in must come out.

Practicality matters. We share prep tips that make or break the experience: hydration for volume and milder taste, foods that change smell and flavour, and the best environments to start (showers, hard surfaces, spaces with drains). We talk puppy pads, towels, and splash blankets to protect beds and floors, plus simple cleanup strategies that lower anxiety so you can focus on pleasure. And we emphasise communication—how to bring it up without awkwardness, set clear yes/no boundaries, and use porn as a tool to discover what excites you rather than as a how-to guide.

Whether you’re curious about sensation, drawn to the intimacy of “gifting,” or just want to understand a taboo with empathy, this conversation gives you practical safety guidance, thoughtful context, and a few laughs along the way. If this sparks a question, a rethink, or a new boundary to share with your partner, our mission’s working. Subscribe for more candid sex education, leave a review to support the show, and share this with a friend who loves learning about what we didn’t get taught at school.

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Most people treat sex like a race to the finish. We don’t. Jordan, Sherman, and Victoria pull back the sheets on what actually creates better lovers: communication that turns you on, safety that lets you let go, and generosity that makes pleasure the point—not just arriving. We talk about how to ask for what you want without killing the mood, why receptive partners (women, bottoms, subs) often hold the real power, and how all-day foreplay—texts, neck kisses, and practical help—switches the brain from stress to desire. Expect science, stories, and a few savage truths, like why spit isn’t lube and why slowing down usually speeds everything up.

We get practical about anal sex prep and empathy, explore the mental side of arousal for busy partners, and share scripts you can steal tonight: sexy check-ins, clear boundaries, and step-by-step “roadmaps” that remove guessing. There’s a beautiful detour into the “garden” of sexuality—how culture plants weeds, how to pull them, and how to grow what really lights you up. We also name a quiet truth many couples feel: the best sessions don’t always end in orgasm, and that’s not failure. When you shift from performance to collaboration, desire expands, pressure drops, and the fun returns.

If you’re ready to trade mediocre routines for mindful heat—more oral, more care, more courage—this one’s for you. Listen, share with a partner, and tell us: what helps you switch from work brain to sex brain? If this resonated, follow the show, leave a review, and send the episode to someone who deserves better nights.

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Ever had a fantasy you were almost afraid to admit—even to yourself? We go straight at one of the most misunderstood dynamics in sex and relationships: hotwifing. No humiliation scripts, no clickbait; we draw a clean line between hotwifing and cuckolding, and then we get into the real engine behind it—compersion. Think of it as pleasure multiplied, not divided: the arousal of seeing your partner deeply satisfied, nested within ironclad trust and crystal‑clear boundaries.

We unpack why this can be so powerful for some couples, from the psychology of witnessing pleasure to the way novelty and variety keep desire alive. We talk about the hardest part—bringing it up without blowing up the relationship—and we offer practical steps: how to frame the first conversation, set hard no‑gos, choose whether encounters are witnessed or solo, design safer sex protocols, and build aftercare that re-bonds you. Along the way, we rethink power. The “stag” might curate scenes, but consent lives with the partner receiving pleasure; the guest (or “bull”) becomes a respected, consenting instrument in the couple’s shared erotic script. That shift changes everything.

You’ll also hear community wisdom from people who live the lifestyle: expect surprises, communicate more than you think you need, and keep ethics front and centre—no racial fetish myths, no secrecy that risks harm, and no pushing a partner past their true yes. Maybe this becomes a path you explore, or maybe the conversation alone refreshes desire. Either way, the takeaway is simple: with consent, respect, and honest talk, you can write a relationship that fits your real wants—not someone else’s rules.

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