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  • Episode 85 | Marriage, male grief, and finding hope after loss with Matthew and Colleen Wright (Part 1)

    Episode 85 | Marriage, male grief, and finding hope after loss with Matthew and Colleen Wright (Part 1)
    2026/10/20
    When pregnancy ends abruptly in miscarriage, couples are often thrust into a silent, disorienting wilderness. Between dismissiveness from doctors, the shock of lost dreams, and the deafening isolation that follows, the weight of baby loss can feel impossible to carry—especially when compounded by career upheaval, military transition, or life-threatening health crises.

    For fathers and husbands, that grief carries a unique, unspoken sting: the agony of helplessness when the instinct to protect your wife and family is stripped away.

    In Part 1 of this special two-part conversation—the very first guest interview on the Silent Grief Podcast—we sit down with longtime friends Matthew ("Feej") and Colleen Wright. Matthew, a former US Army combat aviator, and Colleen share their deeply personal journey through the sudden loss of their fourth baby in 2016, the emotional and physical toll of an unresolved missed miscarriage, and Matthew's raw struggle with grief, control, and denial as a protector. They open up about facing an overlapping kidney cancer diagnosis and an infertility prognosis, the miraculous prayer that defied the medical odds, and why true faith anchors us through tragedy without superficial prosperity promises.In Part 1 of this conversation, the Wrights share:
    • Confronting the clinical, dismissive attitudes often encountered in medical care during a miscarriage
    • The prolonged physical and emotional trauma of missed miscarriages and delayed surgical intervention
    • The husband's perspective: dismantling the cultural pressure on men to suppress grief and pretend loss never happened
    • The emotional courage required to name a miscarried child and acknowledge that joy and grief can coexist
    • Navigating the vulnerability of public pregnancy announcements and discovering unexpected peer support in shared sorrow
    • Clinging to God when crises collide: enduring a kidney cancer diagnosis alongside pregnancy loss
    • Matthew's journal prayer, Colleen's subsequent pregnancy, and reframing answered prayers without prosperity theology
    Special Thanks to Our Sponsor: Wright Farm Coffee RoastersWhen grief drains your energy, creating small anchors of morning stillness and comfort restores the soul. Our guests, Matthew and Colleen Wright, roast their premium, small-batch craft specialty coffee to order on their family farm—with each order including a personal handwritten note from Colleen. Enjoy 10% off your first purchase by visiting Wright Farm Coffee Roasters and using promo code SilentGrief at checkout.
    Connect with the Silent Grief Community:
    • Visit the Silent Grief Support Website
    • Listen and follow on Spotify
    • Read "Silent Grief: Finding Hope After Miscarriage or Death of a Child" by Clara Hinton
    • Stay tuned for Part 2 next week as Matthew and Colleen return to discuss cumulative grief, pastoral ministry, and building a business from the ground up.
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    35 分
  • Episode 84 | Does an early miscarriage qualify for the Wave of Light?

    Episode 84 | Does an early miscarriage qualify for the Wave of Light?
    2026/10/13
    This Thursday, October 15th, marks International Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day. At 7:00 PM in every time zone across the earth, families will light a candle, creating a continuous, 24-hour "Wave of Light" around the globe in memory of all babies gone too soon.

    For parents who have experienced miscarriage, stillbirth, ectopic pregnancy, or infant loss, the Wave of Light is a sacred moment of solidarity. It is a time to break the silence, say our children's names out loud, and remember that our love for them never ends

    .In this episode of the Silent Grief Podcast, we help prepare our hearts for this powerful week. Clara reflects on her personal journey of remembering her stillborn son and why every loss—no matter how early—deserves to be honored. Together, Jimmy and Clara offer gentle guidance on creating your own remembrance ritual and navigating the days surrounding October 15th.

    In this episode, we explore:
    • The history and meaning behind the October 15 International Wave of Light
    • Overcoming "imposter grief": Why early pregnancy loss belongs in the light
    • The profound healing power of saying your child's name out loud
    • How to participate in the Wave of Light (privately or digitally with #WaveOfLight)
    • Navigating the "grief hangover" the morning after an emotional memorial
    Featured Sponsor: Special thanks to our sponsor, Wright Farm Coffee Roasters. Start your morning with quiet comfort and warmth. Discover small-batch roasted specialty coffee at WrightFarmCoffeeRoasters.com. Use the code SilentGrief to get 10% off your first order.

    Connect with the Silent Grief Community:Website: silentgriefsupport.comListen on Spotify: Silent Grief PodcastBook: Silent Grief: Finding Hope After Miscarriage or Death of a Child by Clara HintonRemember: At 7:00 PM this Thursday, our lights will shine together.
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    21 分
  • Episode 83 | Preparing Your Heart for October: Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month

    Episode 83 | Preparing Your Heart for October: Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month
    2026/10/06
    As September draws to a close, October arrives with deep meaning for millions of families around the world: Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month.

    For parents who have experienced miscarriage, stillbirth, SIDS, or the loss of an infant, October is a sacred yet emotionally challenging season. While it offers a long-awaited opportunity for our babies to be acknowledged and remembered, the sudden flood of ribbons, memorials, and public grief can also leave us feeling emotionally exposed and overwhelmed.

    In this episode of the Silent Grief Podcast, we sit down to discuss how to prepare your heart for the month ahead. Clara shares deeply from her personal journey of stillbirth and the origins of her book Silent Grief, offering gentle guidance on how to navigate October with grace, boundaries, and love.In this episode, we explore:
    • The bittersweet duality of Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month
    • Why society still struggles to acknowledge perinatal and infant bereavement
    • Giving yourself permission to participate—or protect your peace—on your own terms
    • Practical ways to honor your baby during October (including the Oct 15 Wave of Light)
    • How quiet morning rituals can sustain your emotional reserves when grief is heavy
    Featured Sponsor: Special thanks to our sponsor, Wright Farm Coffee Roasters. Cultivate a gentle morning rhythm of warmth, solace, and peace. Discover fresh, small-batch roasted specialty coffee at WrightFarmCoffeeRoasters.com Use the code SilentGrief to get 10% of your first order.

    Connect with the Silent Grief Community:
    Website & Support: silentgriefsupport.com
    Listen on Spotify: Silent Grief Podcast
    Book: Silent Grief: Finding Hope After Miscarriage or Death of a Child by Clara Hinton
    Remember: No matter how brief their time was, your baby's life matters.
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    24 分
  • Episode 82 | “How Many Kids Do You Have?”: Answering the Hardest Question After Child Loss

    Episode 82 | “How Many Kids Do You Have?”: Answering the Hardest Question After Child Loss
    2026/09/22
    It is one of the most common, casual questions in everyday life: "So, do you have children? How many do you have?" But for a parent who has lost a child, those few words can stop time.Do you count the child who is no longer here and risk an awkward, painful silence? Or do you only name your living children to spare the stranger's discomfort, only to walk away feeling a wave of guilt for leaving your child out?In this episode of the Silent Grief Podcast, co-hosts Jimmy Hinton and Clara Hinton dive deep into "the dreaded question." Together, they unpack the emotional tug-of-war between honoring your child and protecting your emotional energy, sharing a practical 3-tier framework to help you navigate casual conversations without guilt.In this episode, we discuss:
    • Why the "how many kids" question triggers such acute anxiety and guilt
    • Breaking free from the belief that protecting your peace means erasing your child
    • A practical 3-Tier Response Guide: What to say to strangers, acquaintances, and close friends
    • How spouses can align on their answers before walking into social gatherings
    • Finding daily anchors of stillness and self-compassion when social interaction drains you
    Featured Sponsor: Special thanks to our sponsor, Wright Farm Coffee Roasters. Start your morning with warmth, comfort, and mindful reflection. Explore their handcrafted single-origin roasts and blends at WrightFarmCoffeeRoasters.com.Connect with the Silent Grief Community:
    Website & Support: silentgriefsupport.com
    Listen on Spotify: Silent Grief Podcast
    Remember: You are always a parent to every one of your children.
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    19 分
  • Episode 81 | Grieving milestones they never reached: Hope for bereaved parents

    Episode 81 | Grieving milestones they never reached: Hope for bereaved parents
    2026/09/15
    September brings a quiet ache that catches so many bereaved parents off guard. Between social media flooded with first-day-of-school photos, yellow buses rolling down our streets, and the haunting thought of what grade your child would be entering this year, "back-to-school" season can feel like an emotional battlefield.In this episode of the Silent Grief Podcast, we sit down to talk openly about navigating milestone grief, managing the sudden triggers of the school season, and how to gently protect your heart when the rest of the world seems to be moving on.

    In this episode, we explore:
    • Why September triggers such profound milestone grief for parents who have lost a child
    • Practical boundaries for social media during back-to-school week
    • How to honor and remember your child during milestone seasons
    • Finding daily anchors of quiet and comfort when grief feels overwhelming
    Featured Sponsor: Special thanks to our sponsor, Wright Farm Coffee Roasters. Discover fresh, small-batch roasted specialty coffee crafted for quiet morning reflection at WrightFarmCoffeeRoasters.com.Use code SilentGrief for 10% off your first purchase

    Connect with the Silent Grief Community:
    Website & Support: silentgriefsupport.com
    Listen on Spotify: Silent Grief Podcast
    Share your story and remember: You are not alone in your grief.
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    15 分
  • Episode 80 | There is no magic eraser for grief

    Episode 80 | There is no magic eraser for grief
    2026/07/21
    Don't you wish you could just erase grief with a magic eraser? There's not a parent alive who, if given the option, wouldn't just erase the grief and wish their child back to life. But there is no magic eraser. We all know that grief is a daily part of life. Our children aren't coming back. So how do we move forward with grief?

    It takes a tremendous amount of love, acceptance, and raw emotion to keep moving forward. In this heart-felt episode, we offer compassion for everyone who is struggling. We hope our words offer comfort to everyone who is struggling. Much love to all of you.

    Thank you to our newest sponsor, Wright Farm Coffee Roasters! Please help support this podcast by trying some delicious coffee at https://www.wrightfarmcoffeeroasters.com/ Use the code SilentGrief for 10% off your first purchase.

    Find us on Facebook:
    https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport

    And Twitter:
    https://twitter.com/clarahinton
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    25 分
  • Episode 79 | Loss rewrites the future

    Episode 79 | Loss rewrites the future
    2026/07/14
    Once our child passes away, life will never be the same. The second they are gone, the future is completely different. Grief rewrites our future. It's a harsh reality that all of us grieving parents must cope with.

    But we have the ability to rewrite part of that future as well. Sure, it will look completely different. Nothing will ever be the same as it was before. Yet we have the ability to make decisions to better ourselves. Grief is a complicated journey. Let this episode offer you some encouragement.

    Thank you to our newest sponsor, Wright Farm Coffee Roasters! Please help support this podcast by trying some delicious coffee at https://www.wrightfarmcoffeeroasters.com/ Use the code SilentGrief for 10% off your first purchase.

    Find us on Facebook:
    https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport

    And Twitter:
    https://twitter.com/clarahinton
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    17 分
  • Episode 78 | Should those who believe in Heaven grieve?

    Episode 78 | Should those who believe in Heaven grieve?
    2026/06/23
    Christians often are attacked for grieving. We are told that our faith is weak, that we are bitter, or that God had some marvelous plan for our child and somehow we are supposed to be excited about the fact that our child is no longer with us. Here's an important point: It's okay to grieve!

    We will shout it from the rooftop: "It's okay to grieve." It's absurd to expect people to not grieve just because they believe in heaven. It's unfair to ask grieving parents to park their sadness and pretend like they are happy after the trauma of child loss.

    There is no timeline for grief. If parents are still grieving decades after losing their child, that's OK. Grief is something that helps us to process the tremendous loss. Being a Christian doesn't magically take away the sadness.

    Check out my book Child Loss: The Heartbreak and the Hope at https://amzn.to/49E3tP6

    Find us on Facebook:
    https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport

    And Twitter:
    https://twitter.com/clarahinton
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    22 分