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  • Award Smörgåsbord | Week of 5/20 | Who is the most or least grown?
    2024/05/28

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    Hint: Kristen Doute is on The GOAT on Amazon Prime–did she get an award for most or least growth?

    As a part II regarding the week’s reality television, Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray dispense awards to moments and castmates from all of the reality television they watched! Awards include castmates who show the most or least growth (TEST results), give the best confessional (TESTimonials), and serve the most cringes (doing the mosTEST).

    Whom/which moments won these awards from your perspective?

    Awards are won by a plethora of reality TV shows from the past week, including Vanderpump Rules, The Valley, Vanderpump Villa, Survivor, The GOAT, Summer House, & Summer House Martha’s Vineyard!

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    Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.

    Come Reality Test with us!

    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray
    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Instagram: @drkaypods @drraypods
    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod
    Email:
    realitycheckpodding@gmail.com

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    39 分
  • VPR Reunion pt.2 & The Valley ep.10: The cage of patriarchy, indefinitely strengthened by hegemonic masculinity!
    2024/05/27

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    Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray discuss the second portion of the Vanderpump Rules (VPR) Season 11 reunion, and episode 10 of The Valley season 1, including the effects of the cage built around us all by patriarchy, strengthened indefinitely by hegemonic masculinity. These negative effects of patriarchy harm all of us, regardless of gender, as evident on The Valley. They also discuss the new evolution of realiTV competition shows.

    As a bonus, hear what a clinical psychologist has to say about astrology!

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    Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.

    Come Reality Test with us!

    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray
    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Instagram: @drkaypods @drraypods
    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod
    Email:
    realitycheckpodding@gmail.com

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    49 分
  • Award Smörgåsbord | Week of 5/13 | Amanda & all significant others are entitled to their own sense of purpose!
    2024/05/21

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    As a part II regarding the week’s reality television, Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray dispense awards to moments and castmates from all of the reality television they watched! Awards include moments that are meanest (proTEST this mess!), the biggest fail (you’re TESTing me!) and the most mysterious (conTESTable).

    Whom/which moments won these awards from your perspective?

    Awards are won by a plethora of reality TV shows from the past week, including The Circle, Real Housewives of New Jersey, Vanderpump Rules, The Valley, Vanderpump Villa, Survivor, The Challenge All Stars, Summer House, & Summer House Martha’s Vineyard!

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    Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.

    Come Reality Test with us!



    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray
    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Instagram: @drkaypods @drraypods
    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod
    Email:
    realitycheckpodding@gmail.com

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    44 分
  • VPR Reunion pt.1 & The Valley ep.9: Note Ariana not joining in the victim-blaming... plus, projection & grooming
    2024/05/20

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    Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray discuss the first portion of the Vanderpump Rules (VPR) Season 11 reunion, and episode 9 of The Valley season 1, including topics such as projection, victim-blaming, and grooming--both the standard definition & colloquial use! While the official definition specifies children or young people as the victims, the colloquial use of the word “grooming” is more expansive, including any power differential at the center of the coercion and abuse.

    “The comments sections” are a microcosm of our society, and therefore highlight the human tendency towards victim-blaming that also peppered the VPR reunion! We actually feel safer when we can blame the victim, because we believe we can avoid it happening to us, if we’re better–in any way–than the victim was. What might it take to challenge ourselves to move past that gut reaction to blame the victim?

    (Notice Ariana was one of the only castmates who didn't feel the need to engage in it! Just another reason to stan.)
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    Feeling suicidal, urges to self-harm, or in a state of crisis? Call or text the National Suicide & Crisis Hotline at 988 (or Google 988 to online chat).
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    Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.

    Come Reality Test with us!

    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray
    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Instagram: @drkaypods @drraypods
    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod
    Email:
    realitycheckpodding@gmail.com

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    44 分
  • Award Smörgåsbord | Week of 5/6 | Jax is the one who brought it up to Kristen!
    2024/05/16

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    As a part II regarding the week’s reality television, Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray dispense awards to moments and castmates from all of the reality television they watched! Awards include moments that are most patriarchal (TESTosterboned), feminist (Bechdel TEST), and cringe/embarrassing (doing the mosTEST).

    Which moments/castmates would you give these awards to?

    Awards are won by a plethora of reality TV shows from the past week, including Vanderpump Rules, The Valley, Vanderpump Villa, Survivor, The Challenge All Stars, Summer House, & Summer House Martha’s Vineyard!

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    Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.

    Come Reality Test with us!

    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray
    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Instagram: @drkaypods @drraypods
    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod
    Email:
    realitycheckpodding@gmail.com

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    1 時間 3 分
  • Vanderpump Finale & The Valley ep.8: Run Ariana, Run!
    2024/05/15

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    Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray talk the FINALE of Vanderpump Rules season 11, and episode 8 of The Valley season 1, including therapy-related content, sociopolitical themes, and Sandoval making everything worse again!

    What do you make of Ariana's finale exit? We stan.

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    Feeling suicidal, urges to self-harm, or in a state of crisis? Call or text the National Suicide & Crisis Hotline at 988 (or Google 988 to online chat).
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    Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.

    Come Reality Test with us!

    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray
    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Instagram: @drkaypods @drraypods
    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod
    Email:
    realitycheckpodding@gmail.com

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    43 分
  • Award Smörgåsbord | Week of 4/30 | Who got atTESTable (besTEST of friends) and deTESTable (worsTEST of friends)?
    2024/05/09

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    Hint: Summer House, VPR, and Survivor were in the mix!

    As a part II regarding the week’s reality television, Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray dispense awards to moments and castmates from all of the reality television they watched! Awards include moments we proTEST, deTEST, atTEST to, and conTEST, among many others.

    Which moments/castmates would you give these awards to?

    Awards are won by all sorts of reality TV shows from the past week, including Vanderpump Rules, The Valley, Vanderpump Villa, Survivor, Summer House, Summer House Martha’s Vineyard, & Deal or No Deal Island!

    **We’ve rebranded our award episodes as “Award Smörgåsbord” in reference to the Swedish roots of several Reality Test crew members!**

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    Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.

    Come Reality Test with us!

    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray
    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Instagram: @drkaypods @drraypods
    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod
    Email:
    realitycheckpodding@gmail.com

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    49 分
  • Vanderpump ep.14, The Valley ep.7: The Power of Grayrocking and Women's Rage
    2024/05/07

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    Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray talk episode 14 of Vanderpump Rules season 11, and episode 7 of The Valley season 1, including instances of and references to therapy, sociopolitical moments, and how the shows might look different if the producers were psychologists! How come everyone finds every reason to tear down Kristen, while not blinking when Jesse is assaultive? Learned helplessness?

    Ariana agrees with us from “Anger is allowed for Ariana and us all” and Nia agrees with us from “Danny took a Dive & Divorce isn't a Dirty Word”! Come listen to how!

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    Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.

    So, here on Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.

    Come Reality Test with us!

    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray
    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Instagram: @drkaypods @drraypods
    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod
    Email:
    realitycheckpodding@gmail.com

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    47 分