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  • Psychologists React to Love Island People Pleasing, Lusting, Image Managing, & (Un)Consenting--US S8 ::} 138
    2026/07/13

    Doctor Kay and Doctor Ray bring their psychological segments to Fiji! They discuss the standard 6 segments applied to castmates & moments from the entire season 8–all but the finale! The abhorrent moments that showed a lack of consent by the women are exposed, the championing moment of gathering castmate consent on Aftersun is celebrated, and the specific examples of people-pleasing vs. image management are delineated. Plus, Dr.s Kay & Ray discuss some of the wins & losses of Aftersun in detail.

    REALITY TEST WITH US: Did you like the Aftersun episodes this season? What were some of the winning & losing moments on Aftersun, from your opinion? EMAIL US about it! Realitycheckpodding@gmail.com.

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    Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (http://patreon.com/RealityTest) ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (or search on Patreon with “@RealityTest”) & check out some of the benefits of a free membership (early access to the audio episodes!) & the paid tier! For only a MEASLY $5/month, you get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes, the VIDEO episodes, the full audio episode archive, and bonus & behind-the-scenes video content!

    The first 10 paying members will get shoutouts on the pod & 5 randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our video episodes, & join us in learning a little something about psych & mental health from our examinations of your favorite reality TV shows, castmates, and tea!

    O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-oReality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.

    Come with us, let’s Reality Test!

    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray

    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest

    Linkt.ree/@RealityTest

    Instagram: @realitytestpodcast

    Threads: @drkaypods

    TikTok: @realitytestpod

    YouTube Channel: @realitytestpod

    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod

    Email: realitycheckpodding@gmail.com

    Dr. Kay: @drkaypods (Insta) & @dr.realitv (TikTok)

    Dr. Ray: @drraypods (Insta)

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  • Ready Recruits, Racism Resurgence, & Revealing Testimonials | Awards Show | Spring 2026 ::} 137
    2026/07/01

    Doctor Kay and Doctor Ray return to awards! They each designated the 8 standard awards to moments and castmates from ALL of the reality television they had watched over the past couple of months. Together, they addressed The Valley, Perfect Match, Ladies of London New Reign, Southern Hospitality, Survivor, Love Island US, & Summer House!

    REALITY TEST WITH US: Did you find Danny’s apology to Lala and/or Nia satisfactory? If so, how so? EMAIL US about it! Realitycheckpodding@gmail.com.

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    Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (http://patreon.com/RealityTest) ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (or search on Patreon with “@RealityTest”) & check out some of the benefits of a free membership (early access to the audio episodes!) & the paid tier! For only a MEASLY $5/month, you get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes, the VIDEO episodes, the full audio episode archive, and bonus & behind-the-scenes video content!

    The first 10 paying members will get shoutouts on the pod & 5 randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our video episodes, & join us in learning a little something about psych & mental health from our examinations of your favorite reality TV shows, castmates, and tea!

    O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-oReality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.

    Come with us, let’s Reality Test!

    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray

    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest

    Linkt.ree/@RealityTest

    Instagram: @realitytestpodcast

    Threads: @drkaypods

    TikTok: @realitytestpod

    YouTube Channel: @realitytestpod

    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod

    Email: realitycheckpodding@gmail.com

    Dr. Kay: @drkaypods (Insta) & @dr.realitv (TikTok)

    Dr. Ray: @drraypods (Insta)

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  • Scamanda V: BPD, Racism, & Why Amanda Stayed | Summer House Bonus Ep | ::} 136
    2026/06/20

    Doctor Kay is joined again by Doctor Ray at long last! They get to discuss their personal theories about Scamanda timelines and relationships, before dipping into the topic areas for today’s episode. Dr.s Kay & Ray start with the ways in which Amanda’s & West’s purported timeline was challenged by their own admissions in the Bonus Episode. Then, the doctors challenge three themes that arose across the reunion and bonus episodes of Summer House Season 10. Specifically, they challenge the objectification and villainizing of black castmates on Summer House, KJ being diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) while in the hospital, and the popular response going around the other podcasts of “if being married to Kyle was so bad, why did Amanda stay with him?”.

    REALITY TEST WITH US: Do you agree with the other podcasters that Amanda should have left Kyle if she was so unhappy? Or do you agree with Dr.s Kay & Ray that relationships are more complicated than that? EMAIL US about it! Realitycheckpodding@gmail.com.

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    Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (http://patreon.com/RealityTest) ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (or search on Patreon with “@RealityTest”) & check out some of the benefits of a free membership (early access to the audio episodes!) & the paid tier! For only a MEASLY $5/month, you get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes, the VIDEO episodes, the full audio episode archive, and bonus & behind-the-scenes video content!

    The first 10 paying members will get shoutouts on the pod & 5 randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our video episodes, & join us in learning a little something about psych & mental health from our examinations of your favorite reality TV shows, castmates, and tea!

    O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-oReality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.

    Come with us, let’s Reality Test!

    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray

    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest

    Linkt.ree/@RealityTest

    Instagram: @realitytestpodcast

    Threads: @drkaypods

    TikTok: @realitytestpod

    YouTube Channel: @realitytestpod

    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod

    Email: realitycheckpodding@gmail.com

    Dr. Kay: @drkaypods (Insta) & @dr.realitv (TikTok)

    Dr. Ray: @drraypods (Insta)

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  • Scamanda Timeline, Betrayal, & Mom Issues | Scamanda Update IV | Reunion ::} 135
    2026/06/12

    The audio is Fixed! All sorts of issues have been resolved, including a BIG ol' missing chunk towards the end :)

    Doctor Kay returns to her Scamanda timeline theory, now firmer as more details emerged from the Reunion episodes. Dr. Kay also tackles a couple themes that emerged from the reunion episodes, related to the betrayals and West’s attitudes towards women. However, there are many more themes that Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray will tackle together in their next episode for the middle of next week.

    REALITY TEST WITH US: If Amanda said “act like you like me” at the end of a sentence, is there a beginning of a sentence that would change the meaning of it? EMAIL US about it! Realitycheckpodding@gmail.com.

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    Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (http://patreon.com/RealityTest) ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (or search on Patreon with “@RealityTest”) & check out some of the benefits of a free membership (early access to the audio episodes!) & the paid tier! For only a MEASLY $5/month, you get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes, the VIDEO episodes, the full audio episode archive, and bonus & behind-the-scenes video content!

    The first 10 paying members will get shoutouts on the pod & 5 randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our video episodes, & join us in learning a little something about psych & mental health from our examinations of your favorite reality TV shows, castmates, and tea!

    O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-oReality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.

    Come with us, let’s Reality Test!

    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray

    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest

    Linkt.ree/@RealityTest

    Instagram: @realitytestpodcast

    Threads: @drkaypods

    TikTok: @realitytestpod

    YouTube Channel: @realitytestpod

    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod

    Email: realitycheckpodding@gmail.com

    Dr. Kay: @drkaypods (Insta) & @dr.realitv (TikTok)

    Dr. Ray: @drraypods (Insta)

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  • When West & Amanda First Hooked Up | Scamanda Update III | Ep.s 13-15 ::} 134
    2026/05/15

    Doctor Kay is back to solo while Doctor Ray is away (for pleasure this time!) and is eager to share her theory for when West and Amanda first hooked up. If you’ve been following the Scamanda timeline, then you know it was established pretty early on that the purported start date of Spring 2026 was false…but how false are we talking? Check out Dr. Kay’s theory, as she unpacks episodes 13-15 of Summer House Season 10, mining only the bits & bobs relevant to Scamanda and tying in contemporary data points to help build her case.

    For Reality Check, Dr. Kay unpacks the suggestions of having three lifetime loves, as antidotal to the shaming cultural narrative about divorce and stepfamilies.

    REALITY TEST WITH US: When do YOU think Amanda and West first started hooking up? What’s your theory? Or why do you dis/agree with Dr. Kay’s theory? EMAIL US about it! Realitycheckpodding@gmail.com.

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    Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (http://patreon.com/RealityTest) ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (or search on Patreon with “@RealityTest”) & check out some of the benefits of a free membership (early access to the audio episodes!) & the paid tier! For only a MEASLY $5/month, you get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes, the VIDEO episodes, the full audio episode archive, and bonus & behind-the-scenes video content!

    The first 10 paying members will get shoutouts on the pod & 5 randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our video episodes, & join us in learning a little something about psych & mental health from our examinations of your favorite reality TV shows, castmates, and tea!

    O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-oReality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.

    Come with us, let’s Reality Test!

    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray

    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest

    Linkt.ree/@RealityTest

    Instagram: @realitytestpodcast

    Threads: @drkaypods

    TikTok: @realitytestpod

    YouTube Channel: @realitytestpod

    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod

    Email: realitycheckpodding@gmail.com

    Dr. Kay: @drkaypods (Insta) & @dr.realitv (TikTok)

    Dr. Ray: @drraypods (Insta)

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  • Breadwinning Betties, Care Competitors, & a Defensive Debutante | RHOBH Reunion Part 1 ::} 133
    2026/05/04

    Doctors Kay and Ray discuss part 1 of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills reunion, starting with the fissure between the two groups of women. They recap the opening argument about who cares more, followed by Rachel’s glowing edit, and ending with the shock and defense of Amanda Frances, as she gets hammered by the reel, given all of the juicy moments she gave producers over the season.

    For Reality Check, Dr.s Kay & Ray both chose studies related to reducing sexism and stigma towards women, first in the wake of divorce and second in the wake of giving birth.

    REALITY TEST WITH US: Do you think Amanda was trying to encourage women to be the breadwinner in their families by bragging about her own breadwinner status?

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    Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (http://patreon.com/RealityTest) ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (or search on Patreon with “@RealityTest”) & check out some of the benefits of a free membership (early access to the audio episodes!) & the paid tier! For only a MEASLY $5/month, you get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes, the VIDEO episodes, the full audio episode archive, and bonus & behind-the-scenes video content!

    The first 10 paying members will get shoutouts on the pod & 5 randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our video episodes, & join us in learning a little something about psych & mental health from our examinations of your favorite reality TV shows, castmates, and tea!

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    Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.

    Come with us, let’s Reality Test!

    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray

    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest

    Linkt.ree/@RealityTest

    Instagram: @realitytestpodcast

    Threads: @drkaypods

    TikTok: @realitytestpod

    YouTube Channel: @realitytestpod

    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod

    Email: realitycheckpodding@gmail.com

    Dr. Kay: @drkaypods (Insta) & @dr.realitv (TikTok)

    Dr. Ray: @drraypods (Insta)

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  • Scamanda Update II! + Marital Sexual Coercion & Post-Partum Body Image | Surprise Mid-Week Drop ::} 132
    2026/04/29

    Dr. Ray is away for a couple weeks, and after a break, Dr. Kay is back to drop a surprise mid-week pod! First, Dr. Kay updates us on Scamanda, with use of examples from the recent episodes of the currently-airing season of Summer House, given what we now know about West and Amanda’s relationship. She then used our classic Reality Test approach–the 6 psychologically-focused segments–to discuss other hot topics from Summer House, as well as hot topics from the current seasons of The Valley, Beyond the Villa, and Real Housewives of Beverly Hills!

    In the reality TV you watched this past week, what sociopolitical moments did you spot? How was therapy discussed? What did you expect to be a popular topic in the social media halls the next day, only to find no one was talking about it? Dr. Kay answered these questions & more, with discussion of such themes as sexual coercion and post-partum body image in marital/romantic relationships, the impacts of getting reality TV fame, and beauty culture expectations around make-up. She ends with a note or two, including an informal Reality Check, about cyberbullying.

    REALITY TEST WITH US: What would you say to a friend who was having difficulty with their body image after having a baby?

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    Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (http://patreon.com/RealityTest) ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (or search on Patreon with “@RealityTest”) & check out some of the benefits of a free membership (early access to the audio episodes!) & the paid tier! For only a MEASLY $5/month, you get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes, the VIDEO episodes, the full audio episode archive, and bonus & behind-the-scenes video content!

    The first 10 paying members will get shoutouts on the pod & 5 randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our video episodes, & join us in learning a little something about psych & mental health from our examinations of your favorite reality TV shows, castmates, and tea!

    O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-oReality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.

    Come with us, let’s Reality Test!

    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray

    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest

    Linkt.ree/@RealityTest

    Instagram: @realitytestpodcast

    Threads: @drkaypods

    TikTok: @realitytestpod

    YouTube Channel: @realitytestpod

    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod

    Email: realitycheckpodding@gmail.com

    Dr. Kay: @drkaypods (Insta) & @dr.realitv (TikTok)

    Dr. Ray: @drraypods (Insta)

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  • Psychologists' Relationship Advice from Southern Charm Reunion: 6 “Do” + “Don’t”s! ::} 131
    2026/04/13

    The doctors return to Southern Charm’s recently-concluded season to discuss the 6 remaining pieces of relationship advice mined from both episodes of the reunion! Whether discussing internalized misogyny in the form of the “dramatic” stereotype of women, or the misguided coopting of friends to spy on your ideal girlfriend, Dr.s Kay & Ray bring the relational advice and surrounding sociopolitical topics to the table. There are, as in episode 128, three “do”s and three “don’t”s!

    For Reality Check’s psych studies, Dr.s Kay & Ray both discuss stereotype threat: what it is and one application of it that relates to the “dramatic” stereotype of women.

    REALITY TEST WITH US: Have you had experiences where a stereotype about any of your demographic factors likely influenced how you performed in a task related to that stereotype?

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    Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (http://patreon.com/RealityTest) ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (or search on Patreon with “@RealityTest”) & check out some of the benefits of a free membership (early access to the audio episodes!) & the paid tier! For only a MEASLY $5/month, you get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes, the VIDEO episodes, the full audio episode archive, and bonus & behind-the-scenes video content!

    The first 10 paying members will get shoutouts on the pod & 5 randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our video episodes, & join us in learning a little something about psych & mental health from our examinations of your favorite reality TV shows, castmates, and tea!

    O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-oReality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.

    So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.

    Come with us, let’s Reality Test!

    Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray

    Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor!

    Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest

    Linkt.ree/@RealityTest

    Instagram: @realitytestpodcast

    Threads: @drkaypods

    TikTok: @realitytestpod

    YouTube Channel: @realitytestpod

    Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod

    Email: realitycheckpodding@gmail.com

    Dr. Kay: @drkaypods (Insta) & @dr.realitv (TikTok)

    Dr. Ray: @drraypods (Insta)

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    44 分