In this episode, Alex dismantles the illusion of permission and reveals why waiting for recognition, success, confidence, followers, qualifications, or approval is the very thing keeping you stuck.

Drawing from Be Unacceptable and Code Four: You Are the Permission You’ve Been Waiting For, this conversation exposes:

• Why no one is coming to give you permission
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• How acting “smaller than you are” is actually an unconscious performance
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• Why your circumstances don’t change before you step up—they change because you do
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• The moment everything shifts when you stop waiting and start owning your authority
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This is a call to stop postponing your life.

You don’t need permission to be who you already are.

You just need to claim it.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

FIND DARE

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

Every decision you make answers this — whether you realise it or not.

In this episode, Alex breaks down the core question behind confusion, self-doubt, and feeling stuck: are you making your life about safety, approval, and security… or about living your true nature and purpose?

Drawing from Code One of Alex’ new book, Be Unacceptable, The Holy Hot Service of Self-Worship, this episode reveals why trying to “secure life first” keeps you in conflict, and how everything becomes simple once you choose what your life is actually for.

This is a foundational episode for women ready to stop straddling two paths—and fully choose their own.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

FIND DARE

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

Ok, here is the long-awaited next podcast episode — YES, I WROTE MY BOOK! And had a book launch, and launched it on Amazon, and hit best seller in one of my categories within 24hrs (without doing any Amazon launch tactic), alongside completing and launching the Dare Silk Collection, Dare Elevate Collection & Dare Glass Pleasure Collection… all at the same event.

Listen to this episode to hear about the process and exactly what’s happened in the last 3 months in my last episode… it’s been a lot!

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

🍆 FIND DARE

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

I’ve been talking about writing this book for years now… and yet here we are, two years later, and it still isn’t finished. In this episode, I take you deep, deep, deep behind the scenes (of my consciousness) into the real reasons I’ve been avoiding it.

This is not a normal podcast episode - in this episode I take you along with me through my own process of uncovering why I haven’t been writing the book. It’s 100% raw, real, bts.

It isn’t just about writing a book - it’s about what we all avoid, what we fear being seen for, and the ways we hold ourselves back from our own creative genius. My hope is that by sharing my process in such a vulnerable way, it sparks something inside of you, too.

I hope you love this one. 💖

👉 WHERE TO FIND ALEX & GET MORE

• Find me on Insta and DM me here @alexh.co.
• Subscribe to my YouTube channel @alexisharvey.
• Visit my website for my latest offerings here themoderwoman.academy

In this raw and honest update, I share the next layer of what I’m working through in my weight loss/ health journey - and what I’ve been learning (of which there are two main things that I share in this ep!).

For years, I’ve oscillated between two modes: total food freedom, where I feel light, radiant, and intuitive with eating… and the dark spiral of compulsion, emotional eating, and shame.

This year, I’ve been facing this pattern head-on and sharing about what I’m learning through this process - which has been sooooooo rich. Omg.

In this episode, I dive into:

⚡️ What shifted when I decided to sit with the unbearable sensation instead of numbing it with food

⚡️ The truth about programs and patterns that run our lives if we don’t stop them

⚡️ Why your results in body, business, and life are always a direct match for who you are “being”

⚡️ The crucial difference between doing something for a temporary result and embodying it as your new identity

Whether your struggle is with food, business consistency, or self-sabotage, this episode will show you how to recognise the unconscious programs running you - and how to finally liberate yourself from them.

👉 WHERE TO FIND ALEX & GET MORE

• Find me on Insta and DM me here @alexh.co.
• Subscribe to my YouTube channel @alexisharvey.
• Visit my website for my latest offerings here themoderwoman.academy

Have you ever noticed how everything can be flowing beautifully - you’re creating, you’re in your power, things are lining up - and then suddenly…it all starts to feel heavy, hard, and stressful? That’s what I call ‘ego creep’.

In this episode, I share a raw and real experience from my own life where, after an incredible creative high, I found myself exhausted, disconnected, and shutting down. I unpack:

⚡️ The unconscious alarm system from childhood that you need to know about

⚡️ What “ego creep” is and why it always shows up when you’re expanding

⚡️ Practical ways to move through contraction, stress, and shutdown so you can return to flow

⚡️ My own practices - like feeling, presence, and pleasure - that dissolve the ego’s grip and reconnect you with your energy, turn-on, and creativity

This isn’t about “fixing” yourself or eliminating the ego. It’s about mastering your energy, embracing the parts of you that get scared, and reclaiming your power so you can keep creating, leading, and living from your soul.

If you’ve ever wondered why things feel like they fall apart just when they’re going so well - this episode will land deeply.

👉 WHERE TO FIND ALEX & GET MORE

• Find me on Insta and DM me here @alexh.co.
• Subscribe to my YouTube channel @alexisharvey.
• Visit my website for my latest offerings here themoderwoman.academy

You’re probably brushing off your own brilliance without even realising it. That little voice that says “it’s not enough yet” or “I’ll celebrate when it’s bigger”? It’s draining your power, and you probably don’t even realise you’re doing it.

In this episode, I share the simple but life-changing practice I’ve been living by (and giving my mastermind women too) that instantly shifts your energy, expands your creative flow, and makes you magnetic AF.

It’s not about fake positivity or hyping yourself up - it’s about fully receiving what you’ve already created.

🎧 Tune in and let this practice become your new superpower.

👉 WHERE TO FIND ALEX & GET MORE

• Find me on Insta and DM me here @alexh.co.
• Subscribe to my YouTube channel @alexisharvey.
• Visit my website for my latest offerings here themoderwoman.academy

Look, honey buns - you’re self-editing right now in a multitude of ways… what you’re saying, not saying, with your offers, your marketing - and even your vision itself.

If you catch yourself still trying to follow the “right” steps, fit yourself into a box, or tick all the marketing guru’s rules… no wonder you feel flat.

Formulas kill your genius. They shut down your turn-on, disconnect you from your energy, and keep you performing instead of embodying your power.

In this episode, I’m sharing what’s been going on behind the scenes in my world - launching new offers, writing my book, building Dare - and the big reminder that came through: my magnetism only flows when I do things my way.

If you’ve been feeling uninspired, disconnected, or like you’re doing “everything right” but it’s not landing - this episode is your permission slip to burn the formulas and come back to your truth.

Because your genius isn’t found in the steps. It’s found in you.

👉 WHERE TO FIND ALEX & GET MORE

• Find me on Insta and DM me here @alexh.co.
• Subscribe to my YouTube channel @alexisharvey.
• Visit my website for my latest offerings here themoderwoman.academy