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  • LTN 45 - Take Me Line Dancing

    LTN 45 - Take Me Line Dancing
    2026/08/26
    Love Thy Neighbor — Episode Notes Episode: "Take Me Line Dancing" Hosts: Tom Vann, Colette Fehr, Dan Dennis | Guest: None Sponsors / Ad Reads No sponsor segments or ad reads appear in this episode. Segment Rundown Cold open: 80s cover band night — The hosts open by discussing a Molly Ringwald's-themed 80s tribute show one of them attended, riffing on how great cover bands can be at delivering pure nostalgia. A shoutout goes to a local DeLand cover band called The A-Team, friends of one of the hosts who mostly play high school reunion parties. The non-dancing spouse — The hosts dig into the dynamic of one spouse being an enthusiastic singer/dancer while the other stands stone-still at concerts. They joke about husbands who show zero reaction, the frustration of feeling like your energy gets "sucked out," and the impossibility of forcing a partner to perform enthusiasm they don't feel. Lionel Richie / Earth, Wind & Fire concert recap — A host recounts going to a last-minute Lionel Richie show in Orlando with Earth, Wind & Fire opening, including praise for how enduring EWF's catalog is. They note the band's drummer is currently in intensive care and had to cancel a planned interview. The host admits being annoyed at the show because her husband, drained from a same-day flight back from Iceland, wasn't showing any enthusiasm; he apologized the next day. The line-dancing "map" — The conversation turns to a real situation: one host's wife left him a treasure-hunt-style map leading to a barn, asking him to take her line dancing. He's reluctant, citing fear of embarrassment, being a bad dancer, and especially the risk of being filmed and mocked on social media. He compares the ask to his wife asking him to go skydiving — something outside his comfort zone. Ordering for your spouse / gentlemanly gestures — A tangent breaks out about husbands ordering food for their wives at restaurants and pumping their gas, debating where thoughtful gentlemanly behavior ends and controlling behavior begins. Bids for connection — the therapy take — Returning to the line-dancing dilemma, the group discusses the idea of a "bid for connection": a partner's request doesn't have to be about the literal activity, and dismissing it outright can reinforce a partner's fear that they're never prioritized. The advice is to have an honest conversation about the discomfort rather than either refusing outright or faking enthusiasm. Standing like a statue in public — More examples of unengaged spouses at social events — looking like "security guards" at a book launch, standing silently at a graduation party — and discussion of how that body language can embarrass or hurt a partner even if unintentional, balanced against the point that people shouldn't have to fake their personality. Colette's viral "Sweet Child O' Mine" moment — Colette Fehr describes posting a video of herself screaming along to "Sweet Child O' Mine" at the 80s show to her Instagram story. Her adult daughters messaged saying it sounded bad and was unprofessional for her public/therapist brand; a former high-school acquaintance also sent a snarky comment. She took the video down but later second-guessed that decision, especially after her husband said the reaction seemed like an overreaction and he liked the authenticity. Social media out of context — The hosts discuss how a moment that's totally normal live (singing/dancing at a concert) reads as strange or cringey when reduced to an out-of-context clip for people scrolling at home — "had to be there" — and how authenticity gets punished online in a way it wouldn't in person. Curated photos vs. real moments — Related tangent on how posed vacation photos (endless retakes for the "perfect" shot) are arguably less real than a single unedited, in-the-moment clip, and how younger generations may read spontaneous/unpolished content differently than older ones. Vulnerability as connection — The hosts tie the social-media embarrassment back to the show's broader relationship theme: being less guarded and more authentic — admitting insecurity, trying something uncomfortable for a partner (like line dancing) — is what actually builds connection. Should a therapist look "put together"? — Debate over whether a relationship therapist sharing goofy, imperfect content undermines professional credibility, using analogies to wanting your surgeon or pilot to appear buttoned-up versus wanting a therapist to seem human and relatable. Does a therapist need a great relationship to give advice? — Colette Fehr discusses whether being single or divorced affects credibility as a couples therapist. She argues clinical skill and evidence-based methods matter more than personal relationship status, though she feels her own experience with marriage, divorce, and remarriage helps her relate to clients. She references a recent Substack post she wrote about the importance of "play" and silliness ...
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  • LTN 44 - Mama Coco's Milk Vortex

    LTN 44 - Mama Coco's Milk Vortex
    2026/08/20
    Love Thy Neighbor — Episode Notes Episode: "Mama Coco's Milk Vortex" Hosts: Tom Vann, Colette Fehr, Dan Dennis | Guest: None Sponsors / Ad Reads No sponsor or ad-read segments appear in this transcript. Segment Rundown Cold open: age is just a number — Banter kicking off the show about embracing/celebrating age, and the Southern-raised taboo against ever asking a woman's (or grandma's) age.Aging double standard — Men vs. women on how aging is perceived: "silver fox" jokes, wanting a host's wife to grow out sideburns, riffing on cosmetic work and turning into a "lion man."Colette on confronting her own age — Her childhood nickname "Coco"/"Mama Coco"; a moment where her daughter's friend reacted with shock to old photos of her, leading to reflection on vanity and reframing this life stage as empowering rather than a decline.Public scrutiny of women's looks — How actresses and especially female news anchors face harsher criticism than men; a detour praising a former colleague of a host's wife ("Amy Koffel") for her natural beauty and kindness.Lindsay Clancy trial — The Massachusetts case of a mother on trial for killing her children; hosts say it's too disturbing to fully engage with and speculate it reflects severe untreated mental illness (possible postpartum psychosis) rather than a comprehensible motive.Postpartum depression/anxiety discussion — Colette's own postpartum anxiety after her first daughter 25 years ago (largely unacknowledged at the time); a host's wife's postpartum depression after their first child; group discussion of the lack of structured protocols/support for new mothers and the loss of "village" community.Peer-support comparison — Likening the need for new-mom peer support to AA-style group models; the value of connecting with others going through the same experience."Booby buffet" breastfeeding story — Colette's anxiety-driven story about breastfeeding her daughter Charlotte for only 5 minutes per side, and the Orlando hospital program that weighed the baby before/after feeding to prove she was getting plenty — the origin of the "Milk Vortex" nickname/episode title.Breastfeeding vs. formula pressure — Judgment from lactation advocates (La Leche League) and Colette's choice to combine breastfeeding and formula with her second daughter without shame.Childbirth war stories — Hosts recount witnessing childbirth firsthand, how much more intense/graphic it is than movies portray, with tangents into C-sections, doulas, perineum massage, and placenta capsules.Historical maternal mortality tangent — Comparing childbirth risk historically vs. today, with a pop-culture aside comparing it to Game of Thrones/House of the Dragon birth scenes.Hayden Panettiere memoir — Hope that high-profile cases spark better postpartum care, plus discussion of Panettiere's memoir covering postpartum depression, domestic violence, addiction, and giving up custody of her children.Arnold Schwarzenegger "Broomhilda" debate — Hypothetical/listener-style debate sparked by Schwarzenegger's affair with his housekeeper: is it worse to be cheated on with someone less attractive than yourself, tying in the song "Jolene."Colette on the psychology of affairs — Drawing on her therapy practice with infidelity/betrayal trauma clients, she explains affairs are rarely about looks and usually about proximity/emotional needs, with a personal anecdote about dismissing a coworker as a non-threat to her marriage.Hypothetical infidelity scenarios — Riffing on young men attracted to older women, a personal anecdote about an attractive older nanny, nostalgia for "barely legal"-era pop culture, and debate over which infidelity scenario (same-sex affair, more successful rival, etc.) would hurt each host's ego most.Wrap-up — Closing thoughts on the double standard for men vs. women in scandal, a "Rock"/Moana wig tangent, and sign-off with a call for listener relationship questions and plugs. Key Dates / Plugs Mentioned Ongoing: Lindsay Clancy trial, Massachusetts.Recently released: Hayden Panettiere's memoir.Standing: Submit relationship questions to hello@lovethyneighborshow.com (anonymity offered).Plug: Colette Fehr's book, "The Cost of Quiet."Plug: Colette Fehr's other podcast, "Insights from the Couch." Notable Guests/Callers No in-studio guest or phone-in caller this episode.Ryan — listener who proposed "Mama Coco's Milk Vortex" as the episode title via the live chat room. ### Website: https://tomanddan.com/ App: https://tomanddan.com/app Become a BDM: https://tomanddan.com/registration Merch: https://tomanddan.myshopify.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomandDanLive Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/tomanddanlive Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AMediocreTime Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tomanddanlive/ X: https://x.com/TomAndDanLive TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@tomanddanlive Reddit: https://reddit.com/r/tomanddan ACT RSS: https://feeds.libsyn.com/61976/rss AMT RSS: https://...
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  • LTN 43 - Talking to Teens

    LTN 43 - Talking to Teens
    2026/08/13
    Love Thy Neighbor returns for back-to-school season Late-night fishing with Tommy leads to no shave and unfinished dishes Close friends use deep trust to safely needle each other Tom and Dan function like a non-sexual married couple Imagining Tom and Dan's productivity as a gay couple Teen hormones and developing brains limit emotional control and decision-making Peer pressure and social media make modern adolescence uniquely difficult Smartphones erase privacy, extend school drama, and create constant judgment Online highlight reels fuel nonstop comparison and unrealistic standards Less face-to-face interaction limits real-world social development Humans were not built to compare themselves with the entire world Rejection triggers an ancient fear of exclusion from the group Intelligence cannot erase the pain of judgment or vulnerability Emotional sensitivity and detachment are opposite unhealthy extremes Accepting emotions reduces shame, withdrawal, and negative self-talk Local rivals can trigger more jealousy than distant success Imagining a younger therapist named Paulette replacing Colette Colette unsuccessfully pitched her relationship book to Oprah's podcast An AI-sounding rival book succeeding would make rejection sting more Jealousy, anger, hurt, and disappointment are normal human emotions Feelings are valid, but cruelty and hostile reactions are not Another person's success does not prove personal inadequacy Self-compassion should come before gratitude and redirection Tamron Hall proves one missed opportunity does not erase past success Comfort yourself like a loving parent or best friend Paulette takes over Love Thy Neighbor with "Who Needs Namers" Dreaming of tutoring kids despite terrible math and weak math SAT scores Social media comparison hits emotionally immature teens especially hard Worrying about Maisie's innocence as harsher realities approach Modern kids are overexposed online but sheltered from real life A 13-year-old dating a 22-year-old counselor reflects once-normalized predatory behavior Earlier generations raised themselves, gaining independence through real risks Smoking at 13 and other youthful risks could be traumatic or dangerous Modern teens get fewer chances to fail, adapt, and build resilience Peer conflict, rejection, and disappointment teach essential life skills Wondering if delayed independence is healthier or creates fragile adults Ancient children faced danger and contributed to survival at young ages Tommy fishes unsupervised while phone tracking balances freedom and safety Parents fear alligators, traffic, predators, and kidnappers Women constantly scan for danger while men often overlook that burden Arriving alone early or jogging with loud music raises safety concerns Men may imagine attacks as exciting stories instead of constant threats Absurd fantasies about fighting an attacker and cleaning up afterward Missing physical challenges and adrenaline, with skydiving as a safer thrill A father avoids emotional and sexual conversations with his sons Silent fishing trips lead to an awkward masturbation talk assignment Sneaking condoms into a backpack instead of discussing sex An eight-year-old gets a horrifyingly clinical explanation of reproduction Accidentally witnessing parents having sex creates an "unfortunate experience" Parents struggle because they received little sex education themselves Both parents should give sons shame-free guidance about sex and masturbation Religious shame and porn fears can distort normal adolescent sexuality Mentoring boys shapes how they become men and treat women Children learn relationships by watching affection and conflict at home Genetics and poor role models do not excuse avoiding personal growth Losing a father young and having an emotionally reserved stepfather Family patterns can normalize low affection, unhealthy conflict, and estrangement Intentional work and honest talks can break unhealthy family cycles Children of divorced parents are more likely to divorce Divorce may be necessary without being the ideal outcome Helping children choose healthy partners before divorce becomes necessary Distrusting divorce research because the researcher is named Wolfinger Stable marriages show children that couples can survive difficult periods Healthy disagreement allows commitment without identical beliefs Childhood divorce can make ordinary conflict feel catastrophic Therapy can reframe disagreement as healthy instead of threatening Parents will make mistakes, but honest dialogue matters more than perfection Approach struggling teens with curiosity instead of immediately fixing them Adapt difficult conversations to each child's personality Fathers discussing feelings show boys that men can be emotionally open Humor, everyday stories, and AI tips can help start awkward conversations Maisie's school attitude creates a natural parenting lesson Parents do not ...
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  • LTN 42 - We're Back!

    LTN 42 - We're Back!
    2026/08/06

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  • LTN 41 - The Icelandic Dilemma

    LTN 41 - The Icelandic Dilemma
    2026/07/16

    • Love Thy Neighbor relationship show and listener updates

    • Colette prepares for Italy with language lessons

    • Why Italy's culture, food and slower pace are so appealing

    • Venice travel stories and European dress expectations

    • Rushing vacations vs staying longer in one destination

    • Dressing respectfully in public and while flying

    • Airline buddy pass dress codes and travel etiquette

    • Budgeting for travel and appreciating vacations more

    • Three-year journey of writing and publishing a psychology book

    • Book launch stress overshadowing a Hawaii vacation

    • Planning a relaxing Iceland trip with ChatGPT

    • Iceland's waterfalls, volcanoes, glaciers and black sand beaches

    • Outdoor adventure vacations vs city vacations

    • Couples balancing different travel styles and interests

    • How many hobbies couples really need to share

    • Glacier snorkeling between tectonic plates explained

    • Snorkeling vs scuba diving and certification requirements

    • Fear of scuba, deep water and underwater environments

    • Anxiety, wetsuits, safety briefings and group excursions

    • Previous snorkeling panic in Hawaii

    • Choosing to stay on the boat instead of snorkeling

    • Supporting a spouse without forcing shared adventures

    • Respecting personal limits instead of pushing through fear

    • Why empathy matters when a partner has anxiety

    • Relationship lessons from a kayaking panic attack

    • Letting partners enjoy separate vacation activities

    • Expensive excursions that disappoint

    • $800 snowmobile trip gone wrong with young kids

    • Preferring scenic stops and simple experiences over pricey tours

    • Puffin tour chosen over whale watching

    • Seasickness and rough ocean concerns

    • Visiting waterfalls and geothermal lagoons instead

    • Choosing shorter excursions over all-day tours

    • Yellowstone bison accident discussion

    • Victim blaming and the psychology behind it

    • Agoraphobia, staying home and online isolation

    • Healthy stress vs overwhelming yourself

    • Turning down risky adventures without guilt

    • Honest self-talk and accepting personal limits

    • Vacation recap planned after Iceland

    • Two-week Love Thy Neighbor summer break

    • Nearly one year of producing the podcast

    • Small relationship improvements through consistent micro-steps

    • Anonymous relationship questions by email

    • Book recommendations: The Cost of Quiet and Insights from the Couch

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  • LTN 40 - The Art of Saying No

    LTN 40 - The Art of Saying No
    2026/07/09

    • Off-air teaser and bonus live content for Twitch and YouTube viewers

    • Why people struggle to say no

    • Fear of disappointing others and people-pleasing

    • Healthy compromise vs chronic people-pleasing

    • Ignoring your own needs creates hidden resentment

    • "Victim volcano" analogy for bottled-up emotions

    • Small triggers can unleash years of buried frustration

    • Emotional suppression can affect mental and physical health

    • Setting boundaries and saying no as self-care

    • Healthy communication vs avoiding conflict

    • Fear of criticism keeps people from speaking honestly

    • Practicing "no" without overexplaining

    • Most people handle rejection better than expected

    • Losing touch with your own wants and preferences

    • Why some people freeze when asked to choose

    • Expressing preferences strengthens relationships

    • Constantly saying "I don't care" can create emotional distance

    • Taking turns making decisions in healthy relationships

    • Flexibility vs suppressing your opinions

    • Learning to tolerate small relationship conflicts

    • Food debates over quinoa, couscous, grits, rice, and comfort foods

    • Buffet choices and decision paralysis

    • Pretending to have opinions to satisfy a partner

    • Transition into communication about sex and intimacy

    • Different sex drives in long-term relationships

    • Honest conversations about intimacy during menstruation

    • Direct communication works better than hints

    • Humor around awkward conversations about sex

    • Romance, effort, and feeling intimacy must be earned

    • Planning intimacy vs expecting spontaneity

    • Scheduling sex as a healthy relationship tool

    • The "bristle effect" and separating affection from sexual pressure

    • Asking partners how they feel about the relationship's sex life

    • Handling rejection with humor instead of guilt

    • Normalizing conversations about desire and mismatched libidos

    • Porn's influence on unrealistic sexual expectations

    • Desensitization from heavy pornography use

    • Keeping intimacy simple if it works for both partners

    • Respecting a partner's comfort level while exploring together

    • Discussing fantasies without shame

    • "Yums and yucks" exercise for sharing turn-ons and boundaries

    • Finding overlap between each partner's interests

    • Fear and embarrassment block honest conversations

    • Communication and compromise beat avoidance and resentment

    • Ignoring intimacy problems can damage relationships

    • Start with small, low-pressure conversations

    • Know and express your own preferences

    • Promotion for Colette's "Insights From the Couch" podcast

    • Episode wrap-up and invitation to return for the next episode of Love Thy Neighbor

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  • LTN 39 - Friends with Anyone

    LTN 39 - Friends with Anyone
    2026/07/02
    Love Thy Neighbor relationship show introduction Jokes about lending friends money and buying a boat USA soccer win, FIFA officiating, and Bosnia confusion Friendships, family, and business relationships Handling money requests from friends and family Financial help can create guilt, pressure, and resentment Difference between true hardship and entitlement Listener requested money for a house down payment Wealthy people face constant expectations to help Mr. Wonderful's "give once, never again" advice Debate over whether that advice fits average people People-pleasing and avoiding uncomfortable conversations Family support after divorce Consider need, ability, and relationship before lending Only lend money without resentment or expectations Clearly define repayment terms for loans Repeated bailouts can become enabling Business favors and personal favors Benjamin Franklin effect explained Benjamin Franklin improved a rivalry by borrowing a book Cognitive dissonance behind the Benjamin Franklin effect Small favors can strengthen relationships Mr. Fascinating vs. Mr. Wonderful jokes Criticism of Mr. Wonderful's personality Relationship habits vs. manipulation Intentional compliments strengthen relationships Compliments should never have hidden motives Genuine praise helps people feel valued Regular compliments build confidence and positivity Positive reinforcement strengthens social circles Dr. John Gottman's positive interaction research Insincere or exaggerated praise backfires Authentic compliments should be specific Small compliments can brighten a stranger's day Say positive thoughts out loud Sales rapport vs. genuine connection Goodwill and persuasion can overlap Some people love deeply but struggle to express it Intentional habits improve relationships Different love and communication styles Acts of service can express love Expressive vs. stoic partners Deliberate routines help less expressive people Genie lamp debate $5 million challenge to befriend a stranger Common interests are not required for friendship Could you become friends with Kanye West? Healthy boundaries in unusual friendships Liver King, steroids, and Joe Rogan feud Severe mental illness or violence can limit relationships Therapy builds connection across differences Strong relationships do not require agreement Learn someone's story before judging them Diverse relationships promote personal growth Motivation matters more than similarity Eye contact strengthens emotional connection 36 questions associated with falling in love Prolonged eye contact and attraction studies Biology influences human connection Many people avoid vulnerable eye contact Co-regulation calms the nervous system Connection techniques can be used ethically or manipulatively Long-term couples develop nearly wordless communication Great partners function as dependable teammates Loneliness among older men Men often seek relationships quickly after divorce Grandfather's WWII and orphanage stories Childhood trauma shaped emotional expression Listening can be deeply therapeutic Respect vulnerable conversations without recording them Being heard without judgment helps healing Older generations often suppressed emotion Stoic people may crave connection Relationship skills can be learned Modern loneliness epidemic People can feel lonely even in crowds Ask thoughtful open-ended questions Invite meaningful stories instead of facts Ask what someone loves about their work Genuine curiosity strengthens relationships Human connection is a psychological need Strong relationships protect mental health Chronic loneliness is linked to serious health risks People need meaningful connections beyond small talk Humans are wired for belonging Much behavior is subconscious Therapy reveals unconscious patterns Habits reduce mental effort Decision fatigue affects behavior Wearing a daily uniform reduces decisions Lasting change requires repetition and reminders Practice daily compliments and kindness Small acts improve both people's moods Socializing often feels better once it starts Ask for a small favor to build rapport Borrowing a book as a Benjamin Franklin effect example Preview of an episode about saying no Healthy boundaries and saying no "No" can be a complete sentence Promotion of Colette's book, The Cost of Quiet Mention of Colette's Insights from the Couch podcast Closing joke about fewer genie discussions ### Website: https://tomanddan.com/ BDM: https://tomanddan.com/registration Merch: https://tomanddan.myshopify.com/ Watch Live: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomandDanLive Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/tomanddanlive Follow Us: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AMediocreTime Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tomanddanlive/ X: https://x.com/TomandDanLive RSS Feeds: ACT: https://feeds.libsyn.com/61976/rss AMT: https://feeds.libsyn.com/18904/rss BDM: https://...
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  • LTN 38 - Prenups & More

    LTN 38 - Prenups & More
    2026/06/25
    Divorce rates are falling while marriage rates also decline. Younger adults marry and divorce less often. Gray divorce is rising among older couples. High living costs keep some unhappy couples together. More couples choose lifelong partnerships without legal marriage. Some couples hold weddings without filing marriage paperwork. Legal marriage offers emotional value but financial risk. Silent marriages often continue for children or money. Empty nesters often reassess unhappy marriages. Midlife creates urgency to improve relationships. Life after 50 compared to the "back nine" in golf. Fix your marriage before chasing a fantasy relationship. Personal accountability matters more than finding a new partner. Some marriages cannot be repaired despite real effort. Emotional abuse and neglect can make divorce necessary. Relationship maintenance is easier than crisis repair. Avoiding hard conversations weakens marriages. Personal growth carries into future relationships. Starting over often feels easier than it is. Second and third marriages have higher divorce rates. Divorce can normalize future breakups. Children often model their parents' relationships. Many long marriages become happier after difficult years. Men often remarry faster after divorce. Married men often live longer and healthier lives. Funny discussion about anal fissures and embarrassing doctor visits. Women initiate most divorces. Celebrity divorces often become business negotiations. Divorce is one of the fastest ways to lose wealth. Loneliness and feeling unheard drive many divorces. Jelly Roll and Bunnie XO relationship discussion. Bunnie XO's IVF struggles. Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce prenup rumors. Wealth changes how couples approach marriage. Prenups protect finances without reducing commitment. Movie discussion about marriage, betrayal, and divorce. Story of a husband leaving his wife during COVID. Infidelity can leave spouses emotionally and financially vulnerable. Couples should openly discuss financial protection. First and second marriages handle finances differently. Shared assets feel different when couples grow together. Humor about losing a home after divorce. Accepting loss helps emotional healing. Later-life marriages often protect premarital assets. Inheritances are a common reason for prenups. Patrick Mahomes and Brittany Mahomes built wealth together. Athlete endorsements create massive wealth. Celebrity prenup speculation and personality jokes. Kermit the Frog bedroom voice humor. Most divorces begin with emotional pain, not money. Financial fear often prevents divorce. Stay-at-home spouses may fear financial independence. Personal story of leaving a marriage without seeking support. Career growth can restore confidence after divorce. Financial hardship changes views on prenups. Women should understand household finances. Some marriages still have one partner controlling money. Some men struggle when wives out-earn them. Healthy couples celebrate each other's success. More wives are primary breadwinners. Women are becoming more educated and earning more. Equality benefits both partners. Raise boys to respect strong, successful women. Men often struggle with emotional communication. Emojis can soften text conversations. Genuine affection matters more than emojis. Physical affection and verbal affirmation build stronger relationships. Small daily efforts strengthen marriages. Humor about inappropriate emoji combinations. Promotion for The Cost of Quiet. Promotion for Insights from the Couch. Promotion for Colette's FOX 35 Orlando appearances. Appreciation for the show's chemistry and conversations. ### Social Media https://tomanddan.com https://twitter.com/tomanddanlive https://facebook.com/amediocretime https://instagram.com/tomanddanlive Where to Find the Show Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-mediocre-time/id334142682 Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL2FtZWRpb2NyZXRpbWUvcG9kY2FzdC54bWw Tom & Dan on Real Radio 104.1 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-corporate-time/id975258990 Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL2Fjb3Jwb3JhdGV0aW1lL3BvZGNhc3QueG1s Exclusive Content https://tomanddan.com/registration Merch https://tomanddan.myshopify.com/
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