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Love Thy Neighbor Show

Love Thy Neighbor Show

著者： Tom Vann Dan Dennis and Colette Fehr
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概要

 Love Thy Neighbor is a straight-talk relationship show from Tom Vann, Dan Dennis, and licensed therapist Colette J. Fehr - born the day Colette knocked on their door and they realized they were literal next-door neighbors. Together, they bring 50 years of broadcasting (Dan 30, Tom 20) and 15 years of clinical counseling (Colette), plus real-life reps: Tom's 20-year marriage, Dan's 15-year marriage, and Colette's second, thriving chapter. Expect humor, empathy, and practical advice from both sides of the wall. New episodes every Thursday, wherever you get your podcasts.2025 個人的成功 心理学 心理学・心の健康 自己啓発 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • LTN 22 - Dan and Shana LIVE

    LTN 22 - Dan and Shana LIVE
    2026/03/05
    Introduction to Love Thy Neighbor relationship show with Colette Fehr Dan Dennis present and joking about liking being called Dan Dennis Story behind Dan calling Tom "T" tied to Tom's late brother Tim New segment idea interviewing listener couples about relationships on Zoom First listener couple introduced Dan and Shanna Tom jokes about grading their relationship compared to his own marriage Tom rates his 18 year marriage a C+ Debate whether long marriages automatically mean successful relationships Colette explains longevity alone does not equal relationship quality Couple interview format introduced for relationship discussions Dan and Shanna explain they met nine years ago Their relationship has been long distance between Georgia and Florida Distance due to each having teenagers still in school Plan to live in the same city after kids graduate Discussion of challenges of long distance relationships Colette shares experience with a failed long distance relationship Couple schedules visits months ahead to stay connected They see each other most weekends or every other weekend Early relationship involved meeting halfway and staying in motels Story of how they met through Twitter/X after a podcast connection Attraction built through humor and online banter before meeting Physical attraction confirmed after meeting in person Humor discussed as a strong attraction factor in relationships Dan introduces Shanna to the Tom and Dan podcast Joke about couples not sharing the same podcast interests Discussion of issues when long distance couples finally live together Example of military couples struggling after living together full time Concern that weekend relationships avoid daily stressors Colette notes strong body language and connection between the couple Warning that daily compatibility can still challenge long distance couples Example of a long distance marriage collapsing after moving together Couple explains what makes them compatible They intentionally do normal daily routines during visits Normal annoyance after several days together described as healthy Discussion of couples who stay married but live in separate houses Trend of living apart together relationships among adults Example of couples maintaining relationships while living separately Cost and logistics prevent many couples from trying the arrangement Dan shares family tension between Andrea and Maisie after crafting together Andrea uses a go to your corners rule to cool off arguments Temporary personal space helps reset emotions during conflict Relationship advice about taking timeouts during arguments Reference to couples timeout concept from Colette's book The Cost of Quiet Importance of emotional regulation before continuing arguments Couple explains how they handle conflict and hard conversations Earlier arguments were intense due to stubborn personalities Communication improved significantly over the last three years Practice of letting partners fully speak and validating feelings Emphasis on listening rather than fixing problems immediately Some conflicts require understanding rather than solutions One partner self imposes timeouts to avoid saying hurtful things Therapist explains timeouts prevent damaging statements in fights Cooling off helps people return to a calmer adult mindset Words said in anger can permanently damage relationships Conversation shifts to sexual compatibility in relationships Question about how long distance affects sexual frequency Discussion of libido expectations in long term relationships Joke about having sex soon after hip replacement surgery Anticipation increases excitement before long distance visits Fear of rejection after expecting sex during visits Discussion of pouting or silent treatment after sexual rejection Admission silent treatment was previously used after rejection Partner explains the behavior causes emotional shutdown Pressure for sex reduces desire and intimacy Mismatched libido occurs in most couples Importance of compromise with different sex drives Couple tries to meet each other's sexual needs Story about spontaneous sex in airport and airplane bathrooms Therapist observes strong chemistry between the couple Importance of maintaining sexual connection over time Advice to discuss sexual desires and fantasies openly Many people feel uncomfortable discussing sex Long term couples must adapt as attraction and libido change Hormones and emotional connection influence sexual desire Importance of communicating sexual preferences and concerns Emotional intimacy strongly affects sexual desire Dan reflects on past arguments about mismatched libido Expecting sex to happen naturally caused frustration Directly asking for intimacy can be healthier than passive anger Debate between spontaneous romance and directly asking for sex Initiating sex requires vulnerability and risk of rejection Couples often expect ...
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  • LTN 21 - Morgan & Leo

    LTN 21 - Morgan & Leo
    2026/02/26

    • Love Thy Neighbor show intro with therapist Colette Fair

    • Discussion of book The Cost of Quiet on Audible

    • Characters Morgan and Leo overview

    • Leo emotionally distant provider father

    • Morgan carrying most parenting duties

    • Morgan reconnects with ex and has affair

    • Can emotional neglect feel worse than cheating

    • Immediate villainizing of the cheating partner

    • Gender bias in judging infidelity

    • Disconnection caused by poor communication

    • Affairs driven by emotional needs vs physical urges

    • Therapy sometimes labels one partner the problem

    • Increase in female infidelity cases in therapy

    • Emotional vs transactional cheating debate

    • Happy ending massage framed as non emotional cheating

    • Lack of emotion does not excuse betrayal

    • Emotional cheating may hurt more than physical

    • Some partners see any cheating as unforgivable

    • Confession scenarios and perceived threat levels

    • Emotional attachment viewed as most damaging

    • Reconnecting with ex online as emotional cheating

    • Boundary defined by secrecy from partner

    • Public shaming and social stigma examples

    • Women judged harsher than men for affairs

    • Many couples repair relationships after infidelity

    • Healing commonly takes years

    • Anger followed by willingness to work together

    • Kids love and shared life influence reconciliation

    • Affairs often symptom not sole cause of divorce

    • Long term neglect leads to seeking connection elsewhere

    • Self reflection emphasized over blame

    • Sexual dissatisfaction used as justification

    • Mutual blame increases toxicity

    • Therapy fixes dynamics not villains

    • Relationship treated as one unit

    • Betrayal examined along with prior issues

    • Listener worried about spouse close to ex

    • Trusting discomfort vs self doubt

    • Boundaries vary by comfort levels

    • Micro betrayals through texting and closeness

    • Calm boundary communication shows maturity

    • Conflict avoidance suppresses needs

    • Ignored boundaries require relationship decisions

    • Validate feelings even in disagreement

    • Relationship health over being technically right

    • Avoid tempting situations

    • Ongoing contact with ex seen as risky

    • Balance respect and jealousy

    • Express fears openly

    • Reactions often less severe than expected

    • Acknowledging fears reduces anxiety

    • Accept people instead of trying to change them

    • Evaluate staying after honest communication

    • Therapy and medication support during crises

    • Antidepressants reduce anxiety and conflict

    • Personal experiences using medication in grief

    • Destigmatizing mental health treatment

    • Closing promotion of The Cost of Quiet

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  • LTN 20 - Annoyances

    LTN 20 - Annoyances
    2026/02/19

    • Coordinated show opening banter

    • Colette forgets makeup and panics before recording

    • Tom provides emergency mascara from truck kit

    • Nearly hitting Colette in the parking lot while distracted

    • Busy schedules and constant business work

    • Mascara as minimum presentable look

    • Keeping emergency makeup at the studio

    • Expired mascara and pink eye risk

    • Previous emergency makeup stored in Tom vehicle

    • Fear spouse learns another woman used the makeup

    • Jokes about trust and jealousy over shared items

    • Hiding the incident and trusting audience not to tell

    • Transition into long term relationship fatigue

    • Working together increases irritation and familiarity

    • Everyone has annoying habits and blind spots

    • Over communication anxiety and being particular

    • Questioning logic behind stories and actions

    • Difficulty suspending disbelief in TV and media

    • Logic driven vs emotion driven perspectives

    • Emotions matter even when intentions were harmless

    • Apologizing without defensiveness

    • Listening to feedback to repair relationships

    • Need for space vs constant communication

    • Talking openly to maintain relationships

    • Taking criticism without immediate explanation

    • Attachment makes criticism feel threatening

    • Defensiveness driven by fear of losing connection

    • Amygdala hijack during arguments

    • Emotional expression varies even in same family

    • Personality wiring differences

    • Genetic and environmental influence on emotions

    • Emotions as biological signals tied to needs

    • Share feelings instead of yelling or blame

    • Validate emotions instead of fixing them

    • Science based explanation helps logical partners empathize

    • Emotional education improves relationships

    • Complementary strengths balance weaknesses

    • Traits that attract also annoy partners

    • Passionate vs logical intimacy differences

    • Humor about AI partners and sex robots

    • Arranged marriages lasting longer discussion

    • Unconscious attraction patterns in partner choice

    • Repeating family of origin relationship dynamics

    • Therapy helps change unhealthy attraction patterns

    • Self awareness over chemistry alone

    • Reconsidering tolerance for bad behavior

    • Promotion of relationship advice book

    • Audiobook narration quality discussion

    • Practical communication tools for couples

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    Tom & Dan on Real Radio 104.1
    Apple Podcasts: [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-corporate-time/id975258990](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-corporate-time/id975258990)
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    44 分
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