📋 Episode Summary:
In this soul-stirring episode of #FreeAdviceFriday, Dr. Spirit dives deep into what it means to actually feel your feelings, connect to your body’s wisdom, and break free from cycles of self-sabotage. She takes live questions from listeners on topics ranging from people-pleasing, choosing unhealthy relationships, and struggling to accept appreciation — to finding the right therapist, navigating professional burnout, and supporting emotionally withdrawn children. Packed with wisdom, warmth, and truth, this is the kind of episode that gently calls you in, holds up a mirror, and offers you tools to begin again — on purpose.

⏱️ Timestamps:

• 🧘 00:00 – Deep breathing as a diagnostic tool for emotional overload

• 💓 02:00 – What feelings really are and why we ignore them

• 🚨 04:20 – Survival mode vs. thriving: the cost of putting others first

• 📣 05:00 – Welcome to Free Advice Friday + how the platform works

• 😴 07:30 – Dr. Spirit shares how she’s really feeling: the importance of rest over sleep

• 💔 09:30 – Listener Q: “How do I stop self-betraying to keep the peace?”

• 🧠 15:30 – Listener Q: “Is this therapist a good fit for me?”

• 💘 20:15 – Listener Q: “Why do I keep attracting narcissistic men?”

• 😰 25:45 – Listener Q: “I was just diagnosed with ADHD & PDA — I’m overwhelmed”

• 🧑🏾‍🤝‍🧑🏿 33:00 – Listener Q: “As a Black man, where do I start my healing journey?”

• 👶🏽 35:00 – Listener Q: “How do I help teens who emotionally shut down?”

• 🙏🏽 41:45 – Listener Q: “Why can’t I accept appreciation from others?”

• 🌧️ 48:00 – Listener Q: “What do I do when life just keeps falling apart?”

• 🔗 53:00 – Listener Q: “What’s the difference between attachment and alignment?”

• 🧩 59:45 – Listener Q: “How do I actually start reframing negative thoughts?”

• 🌱 1:05:00 – Final thoughts: Stop DIY healing, build community, and get the support you deserve

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In this heartfelt and raw episode of #FreeAdviceFriday, Dr. Spirit creates a soul-nourishing space for listeners navigating emotional overload, burnout, and heartbreak. Addressing everything from the physical toll of chronic stress to the stigma of mental illness in African and Caribbean cultures, she provides affirming, real-time coaching that blends psychological insight with deep spiritual compassion.

Listeners are reminded to check in with their bodies—not just their thoughts—and are guided through recognizing signs of depression, learning to prioritize their needs without guilt, and reclaiming their voice from the depths of trauma. From helping a mother in the Caribbean suffering under the weight of invisible labor to explaining therapeutic strategies for clients struggling to stay present during sessions, Dr. Spirit reaffirms that healing is a communal, courageous, and wholly possible act.

The episode also highlights a powerful global initiative: supporting the East African Community Mental Health Network’s registration effort. With compassion and clarity, Dr. Spirit demonstrates that care knows no borders.

• 00:00 – 04:00
  ✨ Welcome & Body Check-in: Spirit opens with emotional and physical self-awareness, grounding listeners in the present moment.

• 04:00 – 07:00
  🌍 East African Community Mental Health Network: A call to action to raise $120 to help register an eight-country mental health network across East Africa.

• 07:00 – 13:00
  🧠 Burnout, Depression & Therapy Access in the Caribbean: A listener question reveals chronic stress and self-sacrifice; Spirit reframes the "I can't afford therapy" mindset and shares how to access free or low-cost services.

• 13:00 – 19:00
  🌿 Mental Health & Cultural Stigma: Spirit responds to cultural misconceptions around therapy, especially in African communities, challenging listeners to choose health over heritage-based shame.

• 19:00 – 26:30
  ✍️ Therapy Note-Taking & Presence: Advice for therapists and clients balancing between staying present in sessions and remembering insights. She advocates for recording sessions when appropriate.

• 26:30 – 31:45
  ❤️ Couples Therapy vs Individual Therapy: Insightful breakdown of how to choose the best starting point for relationship work, honoring complexity and fluidity in healing.

• 31:45 – 36:25
  💊 Psychosis, Medication & Healing Hope: A mother seeks guidance on her son’s recovery after cannabis-induced psychosis. Spirit underscores partnership with providers and the importance of community care for the caregiver.

• 36:25 – 42:20
  💔 Abuse Recovery & Nervous System Regulation: A listener recovering from an abusive relationship learns how layering care, including medication evaluation, can support emotional stability and healing.

• 42:20 – 50:00
  🤝 Emotional Boundaries in Marriage: Spirit advises a wife on how to navigate emotional fallout from her husband's business struggles without self-sacrifice, teaching boundary-setting through love.

• 50:00 – 57:00
  🕊️ Why Grief Feels So Hard: In response to a profound question, Spirit explains the biology of grief, emotional release, and why feeling deeply is actually a path toward wellness.

• 57:00 – End
  📣 Global Mental Health Advocacy & Closing Blessings: Spirit closes with another reminder to support the East African Mental Health Network and offers heartfelt blessings to all listeners. Contact info for further support is shared.

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In this heartfelt episode of #FreeAdviceFriday, Dr. Spirit brings radical honesty and soul-nourishing wisdom to listeners dealing with burnout, depression, grief, boundary violations, toxic relationships, and familial trauma. Broadcasting on location with an NFL team, she reminds us of the importance of self-honoring decisions, personalized care, and rest as resistance. Spirit answers anonymous listener questions with compassion and candor—offering healing for those navigating suicidal thoughts, estrangement from abusive parents, codependent partnerships, emotional dysregulation, and attachment issues. The episode ends with a powerful reminder that therapy is a bridge, not the destination, and that the journey toward emotional wellness begins with one brave step.

⏱️ Timestamps:
00:00 – 04:00 ✨ Wellness Check-In: The importance of naming real feelings, not vague conclusions like “fine” or “tired.”
04:00 – 07:00 ❤️ Anonymous Q&A: Confronting suicidality and what “doing the work” actually means in therapy.
07:00 – 14:00 🧠 Depression vs Burnout: Symptoms, therapy misconceptions, and why alignment with your care team is essential.
14:00 – 20:30 🚨 When to Seek Higher-Level Care: Shifting from books to actual support networks—when therapy alone isn’t enough.
20:30 – 26:30 🌿 Trauma from Toxic Parents: How to navigate estrangement from a mother who has been abusive.
26:30 – 33:30 🔁 Can You Heal in the Same Place You Got Sick?: Why self-care practices must be paired with emotional processing.
33:30 – 39:00 💬 Why You Might Feel Unlovable: Unpacking why some people feel uncomfortable receiving affirmation and empathy.
39:00 – 46:00 💔 Breakup Grief: Detaching from a three-year situationship and understanding why walking away hurts—even when it’s right.
46:00 – 52:30 💡 Overwhelm & Regression: What happens when your nervous system defaults to old patterns and how to restore balance.
52:30 – End 🌹 Final Reflections: Loving yourself more fully, stepping away from partial connections, and a closing blessing from Dr. Spirit.

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This week on #FreeAdviceFriday, Dr. Spirit invites listeners to shed their emotional armor and get real about the inner work. From misunderstood boundaries and emotional burnout in marriage 💔, to rekindling romantic connection through chemistry and compatibility 💞, this episode dives deep into how our mental health patterns shape every interaction we have — especially with ourselves.

Whether it’s navigating grief 🕊️, procrastination 🐌, or reclaiming joy after years of numbness 🤖, Spirit doesn't just give answers — she helps listeners find their truth beneath the question.

🔐 This isn’t therapy… but it’s therapy therapy.

• [00:00:00] 🧘‍♀️ Emotional Check-In: “What are you feeling, and where are you feeling it?”

• [00:03:00] 💬 Ask Me Anything: Boundaries, anonymous questions, and the safe space created over 9 years.

• [00:06:00] 🧱 Setting Boundaries: The real reason your "healthy boundary" leads to emotional messes.

• [00:14:00] 🔊 “Why Do I Always Raise My Voice?”: Unpacking emotional escalation and the illusion of control.

• [00:18:00] 💍 Marriage or Mismatch?: When numbness, not love, takes up space in your relationship.

• [00:25:00] ❤️ Attachment Styles in Love: Why dismissive, avoidant, and anxious types aren’t dealbreakers — trauma is.

• [00:32:00] 🧠 Chemistry vs Compatibility: Can you train your brain to fall in love?

• [00:37:00] 🧪 Relationship Burnout: How hormones affect your feelings of love (and how to reignite them).

• [00:44:00] ⌛ Procrastination Problems: The science behind waiting until the last minute.

• [00:49:00] 💔 The Relationship Gap: Why 7 years of singleness isn’t the issue — it's clarity.

• [00:55:00] 🕯️ Grieving and Growing: The power of therapy for loss, transformation, and restoration.

• [01:01:00] 💖 Loving You Better: Final thoughts on self-love, advocacy, and leaving the world better for our children.

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In this vulnerable, truth-filled session of #FreeAdviceFriday, Dr. Spirit takes listeners on a healing journey through personal triggers, emotional trauma, and the misunderstood nature of feelings as messages from the soul. Answering a variety of listener-submitted questions, she decodes difficult relational dynamics, cultural clashes, childhood trauma, and even the mystery of chronic pain. With loving candor and spiritual clarity, she lays out a blueprint for reclaiming mental wellness—starting with honoring your emotional intelligence and investing in healing.

⏱️ Timestamps:

• [00:00–03:00] 🎧 Opening Check-in

  • Weekly grounding space for mental health

  • Emotions as essential signals

  [03:00–06:00] 🧭 Feelings vs. Thoughts vs. Behavior

  • Why feelings are the gateway to truth

  • Emotional IQ and survival instincts

  [06:00–13:30] ❤️‍🩹 Reconnecting With An Estranged Father

  • Letter from listener struggling to rebuild relationship

  • Cost of presence, motivation to heal

  [13:30–20:00] 🚪 Triggered by Feeling Trapped

  • Childhood trauma’s lingering grip

  • The difference between then and now

  [20:00–26:30] 🌡️ Can Trauma Cause Chronic Pain?

  • Mind-body connection explained

  • Modalities like TFCBT & somatic therapies

  [26:30–33:30] 🧠 Fear vs. Realism

  • Breaking down fear as a biological tool

  • How anxious thoughts hijack clarity

  [33:30–42:00] 🚫 Navigating Toxic Parental Dynamics

  • When abuse masks as family obligation

  • Building legacy by protecting your peace

  [42:00–49:30] 🏫 Homeschooling & Mental Health

  • When school becomes a trigger

  • How to listen to what your child’s body is saying

  [49:30–56:00] 🚫 Can Narcissists Truly Change?

  • The brutal truth about narcissistic personality disorder

  • “Not yet” as a space for future healing science

  [56:00–01:00:00] 🚩 Healthy Relationships vs. Red Flags

  • A quick and powerful guide to relational clarity

  [01:00:00–End] 🎁 Announcement: 150 Free Therapy Sessions

  • New pro bono therapy opportunity from T2S C.A.R.E.S.

  • Men’s support group launching globally

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In this intimate and powerful episode of #FreeAdviceFriday, Dr. Spirit creates space for deep soul healing through emotional validation, psychological insight, and spiritual encouragement. She begins by inviting listeners to check in with their bodies and honor their emotional truths. From there, she answers heartfelt listener questions on toxic relationships, emotional detachment, postpartum dynamics, traumatic past partners, and navigating the murky waters of exclusivity in dating. With clarity, compassion, and a touch of humor, Dr. Spirit demystifies topics like burnout, workplace toxicity, parental trauma, and even “soul ties.” This episode is a masterclass in emotional intelligence, offering tools for recovery, grounding, and reclaiming personal power.

⏱️ Timestamps:

00:00 – 04:00
✨ Welcome & Emotional Check-In – Dr. Spirit invites listeners to assess their emotional state and connect to their body’s messages.

04:00 – 06:00
❤️ Purpose of the Show & Ways to Participate – Spirit explains how to engage live and how donations help others get mental health services.

06:00 – 14:30
💔 Dear Spirit: Is My Partner a Red Flag? – A listener questions staying in a rekindled relationship with emotionally harmful and concerning dynamics.

14:30 – 22:20
👶 Relationship Shift After Baby – A listener navigates engagement, childbirth, and a partner’s sudden change in family planning.

22:20 – 28:30
🌪️ Surviving Toxic Workplaces – Spirit outlines grounding techniques and stresses the importance of planning your exit strategy from harmful work environments.

28:30 – 36:30
🙅🏽‍♀️ Choosing Singlehood or Avoiding Growth? – A listener argues that relationships hinder growth. Spirit challenges this notion with bold insights.

36:30 – 43:00
🏡 Living Together Before Marriage? – Spirit reframes the question by focusing on compatibility, mutual goals, and intentionality—not just cohabitation.

43:00 – 50:30
🤬 Replaced After Years? – How to manage feelings of rejection and anger when your ex moves on quickly.

50:30 – 58:10
🤝 Exclusive or Nah? – What to consider when dating someone hesitant about commitment, and how to avoid rushing the timeline of emotional compatibility.

58:10 – 01:06:30
🔗 Breaking Soul Ties & Healing Sexual Trauma – A married woman struggles with thoughts of a toxic ex. Spirit gives a deep-dive on rewiring arousal, pattern disruption, and the sacred power of emotional honesty.

01:06:30 – End
💌 Closing Blessings & Resources – Spirit signs off with encouragement, international contact info, and a loving reminder that healing is always possible.

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📋 Episode Summary:
In this emotionally resonant episode of #FreeAdviceFriday, Dr. Spirit returns from speaking at a UN mental health convening to pour wisdom, clarity, and compassion into her global audience. Covering deeply personal listener letters, she unpacks the real reasons behind relationship confusion, emotional overwhelm, and self-abandonment. With her signature blend of soulful truth and clinical insight, she discusses the difference between burnout and depression, how to process heartbreak without losing yourself, the sacred work of reclaiming your identity post-betrayal, and how to align long-distance love with spiritual and emotional growth. Whether you're navigating communication challenges, decluttering your life, or exploring AI in therapy, this episode delivers therapy for the soul with actionable strategies and unwavering love.

⏱️ Timestamps:

• 00:00 – 04:00 ✨ Welcome Back & UN Reflections – Spirit shares why she missed last week's episode and reflects on her UN speech about global mental health equity.

• 04:00 – 06:30 ❤️ Call for Real Healers – Spirit is hiring and mentoring; she emphasizes authenticity and passion for the healing journey.

• 06:30 – 13:30 💌 FWB or Relationship? – A listener confused about a "friends with benefits" dynamic gets a dose of truth, clarity, and responsibility.

• 13:30 – 15:00 💪 Reclaiming Power in Love – Spirit reminds listeners: stop waiting for others to change—choose yourself.

• 15:00 – 22:20 💔 Separation via Text: Now What? – A wife receives a shocking breakup text at work; Spirit coaches her through immediate steps and long-term strategy.

• 22:20 – 26:30 🧹 Decluttering & Emotional Attachment – Guidance on releasing possessions and the deeper meanings behind "holding on."

• 26:30 – 30:50 🫶 Breakups vs. Self-Abandonment – Choosing to leave someone who can’t meet your needs is hard. Spirit explains how to grieve with grace.

• 30:50 – 36:20 🧠 How to Feel Your Feelings – Spirit breaks down why so many people don’t feel anymore—and how to reconnect with your body.

• 36:20 – 43:50 💞 Long-Distance Love with Intention – How to deepen spiritual, emotional, and romantic intimacy even across the miles.

• 43:50 – 46:40 🛡️ Safe, Secure, Romantic Relationships – Spirit unpacks the difference between safety, security, and consistency in love.

• 46:40 – 51:20 🤖 AI & Therapy? – A thoughtful conversation about the rise of AI in mental health care, including risks, benefits, and the human element.

• 51:20 – 58:20 💬 Different Communication Styles – Not just about words: how trauma and misunderstanding can derail connection.

• 58:20 – 01:04:40 🧍🏽‍♀️ Healing After Betrayal & Finding Yourself Again – Spirit explores the hard truth: losing yourself isn’t just about the partner—it’s about reconnecting to who you’ve always been.

• 01:04:40 – End 🌺 Mother’s Day Love & Closing Blessings – A tender tribute to mothers of all kinds, and reminders for continued mental health advocacy.

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📋 Episode Summary:
In this heartfelt episode of #FreeAdviceFriday, Dr. Spirit invites listeners into a deeply healing space where soulful guidance meets practical psychology. Tackling topics from burnout and emotional exhaustion to setting healthy boundaries and navigating the complexities of modern relationships, she weaves cultural wisdom with clinical expertise. You’ll hear answers to raw listener questions about long-distance love, psychotic breaks, family conflict, parenting through adolescence, and healing from heartbreak. Spirit also addresses how to live authentically, honor your feelings, and create the life and love you truly deserve. With warmth, clarity, and soul, she brings therapy to your ears and transformation to your spirit.

⏱️ Timestamps:
00:00 – 04:00 | ✨ Welcome & Body Check-in
04:00 – 07:00 | ❤️ The Gift of Compersion & Provision
07:00 – 10:30 | 📩 Listener Q&A: Psychology Meets Media
10:30 – 14:00 | 🧠 Burnout vs Depression – Knowing the Difference
14:00 – 20:30 | 🛑 What Happens When You Don’t Rest
20:30 – 26:30 | 🌍 Culture Clashes & Emotional Honesty Abroad
26:30 – 33:30 | 🔍 Friendship, Boundaries & Emotional Clarity
33:30 – 39:00 | 💬 Becoming a Better Communicator Through Therapy
39:00 – 46:00 | 💔 Unspoken Pain & Finding Your Voice Again
46:00 – 52:30 | 🔥 Feminine Power & First Moves in Love
52:30 – 58:00 | 👵 Healing Teenage Heartbreak – A Grandma’s Love
58:00 – 01:07:30 | 🧠 When Therapy Stalls – What’s Next?
01:07:30 – End | 💌 Parting Words, Resources & Community Care

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