Let us hear from you!

Watch this episode on Youtube.

Reconciliation therapy offers a path parents and estranged children to reconnect, but it's not without significant risks. Many parents assume there's nothing to lose, but an unprepared approach can actually worsen the situation, causing more pain for both parent and child, and potentially ending any chance of future reconciliation.

In this candid discussion, we dive deep into the often-overlooked dangers of entering reconciliation counseling without proper preparation. We discuss why it's important for estranged parents to be financially ready, emotionally stable, and to have addressed underlying issues like anger management, domestic violence, coercive control, and substance abuse.

Learn why genuine self-reflection and a willingness to be vulnerable are essential for success. We also highlight the critical role of attorneys in guiding clients through this complex process, ensuring they are truly ready to engage constructively and, most importantly, safely for the child.

Let us hear from you!

Watch this episode on YouTube.

What is child support really for? When a parent pays a set amount each month, does that cover every single expense for the children, including seasonal necessities like snow boots? We break down a viral Reddit post from a mom questioning the purpose of the $200 per child she receives monthly. Her ex-husband claims his child support payments cover his half of new snow boots, even telling the kids he's already paid for them.

Join us as we discuss the fundamental legal and ethical obligations of both parents when it comes to financially supporting their children. We'll explore:

- The primary purpose of child support (Hint: It's for necessities like housing, food, and utilities).

- Whether the paying parent has a right to control how the money is spent.

- The damaging effects of discussing child support payments with your children.

- How custody arrangements, like 50/50 splits, factor into the equation.

Whether you're paying or receiving child support, this is a conversation you don't want to miss.

Disclaimer: This podcast provides general information and discussions about legal topics. It is not a substitute for legal advice from a qualified attorney licensed in your jurisdiction.

Chapters:
00:00:00 A Reddit Dilemma: "What is Child Support For?"
00:01:13 The Damaging Mistake Parents Make With Child Support
00:02:21 The Legal Obligation of Both Parents
00:04:42 Prioritizing Needs: Rent and Food Before Clothing
00:05:49 "It's None of Your Business How the Money is Spent"

Let us hear from you!

Watch this episode on YouTube.

Having tough conversations with your coparent can feel overwhelming, especially when emotions run high or past conflict clouds your judgment. In this video a family law attorney and a therapist talk about practical, compassionate strategies to help coparents with difficult discussions.

Whether you're deciding on daycare, addressing new romantic partners, or managing your child's education, this video will help you:

- Recognize your own mixed emotions

- Prepare for conflict without defensiveness

- Break conversations into manageable steps

- Stay grounded when the other parent is dismissive

- Seek understanding instead of just solutions

This isn’t about “winning” the argument—it’s about improving communication, even in high-conflict situations.

Let us hear from you!

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/JZg4RHaNxd4

There’s a widely misunderstood belief that children can choose which coparent to live with once they turn 12. But the reality is far more complex—and emotionally loaded—for both kids and parents.

In this video we unpack the legal truth, emotional toll, and long-term consequences of involving children in custody decisions. You'll hear why children often say what they think adults want to hear, how parents sometimes weaponize a child's "preference," and how fragile adult self-esteem can result in heartbreaking consequences for the whole family.

Let us hear from you!

Watch this episode on YouTube:

Mindfulness is a powerful tool for navigating high-conflict coparenting dynamics. In this episode, we talk with Karen Kranbuehl — a licensed clinical social worker and attorney — about how mindfulness can help coparents move from automatic, stress-driven reactions to more intentional and productive communication.

Learn how slowing down, being curious, and embracing non-judgmental awareness can unlock better outcomes for both you and your children.

Topics covered include:

• What mindfulness really means
• The science behind automatic stress responses
• Real-life examples of mindful coparenting
• Why noticing is the first step toward change
• How small self-care actions build trust in yourself

This episode is especially helpful for coparents dealing with emotionally charged situations, conflict resolution, or court-ordered communication platforms like parenting apps.

The list of values Karen referenced can be found here: https://www.actmindfully.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/Values_Checklist_-_Russ_Harris.pdf

Thanks for listening! If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at ron@coparentacademy.com

To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

Let us hear from you!

Watch this video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/-miVOo1A5Nw

Discipline done wrong can destroy your relationship with your child—and even land you in court. In this episode, we break down 8 common discipline mistakes that cost parents not only thousands in legal fees but also the trust of their children and coparents.

Whether you're going through a custody battle, coparenting after separation, or just trying to raise emotionally healthy kids, this video gives you actionable insights to parent wisely—without risking your legal standing or your child’s emotional wellbeing.

Thanks for listening! If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at ron@coparentacademy.com. To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

Let us hear from you!

Watch this episode on Youtube

Struggling with a high-conflict coparent?

You’re not alone. But while conflict in coparenting might be unavoidable it doesn't have to be destructive — to you or your kids.

In this episode, we’ll break down a powerful mindset shift to help you stay grounded during frustrating moments. Using the common (and infuriating) example of your coparent being late to a custody exchange, we’ll explore:

• Why your anger might not be about just being 10 minutes late
• How to use journaling to uncover and process emotional triggers
• A simple question to reframe the situation and regain control
• How your emotional response impacts your child — and your custody case
• When and how to communicate your boundaries without looking reactive

You’ll walk away with practical tools to protect your peace, show up better for your kids, and stop giving your coparent power over your mood.

Let us hear from you!

Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/wtOVdWh5RLQ

Are you tired of unnecessary conflicts and misunderstandings with your coparent? Mindreading can be a major relationship killer, including your coparenting relationship. In this episode, we talk about 8 key reasons why you should never try to mindread your coparent. From avoiding miscommunication to promoting a healthier coparenting dynamic, we discuss the benefits of not assuming what's on your coparent's mind. Watch until the end to learn how to improve your coparenting relationship and create a more positive environment for your child.

For more resources and in-depth courses visit www.coparentacademy.com.

Have questions or comments? We’d love to hear from you! Send them to ron@coparentacademy.com.