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Reconciliation therapy offers a path parents and estranged children to reconnect, but it's not without significant risks. Many parents assume there's nothing to lose, but an unprepared approach can actually worsen the situation, causing more pain for both parent and child, and potentially ending any chance of future reconciliation.

In this candid discussion, we dive deep into the often-overlooked dangers of entering reconciliation counseling without proper preparation. We discuss why it's important for estranged parents to be financially ready, emotionally stable, and to have addressed underlying issues like anger management, domestic violence, coercive control, and substance abuse.

Learn why genuine self-reflection and a willingness to be vulnerable are essential for success. We also highlight the critical role of attorneys in guiding clients through this complex process, ensuring they are truly ready to engage constructively and, most importantly, safely for the child.

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What is child support really for? When a parent pays a set amount each month, does that cover every single expense for the children, including seasonal necessities like snow boots? We break down a viral Reddit post from a mom questioning the purpose of the $200 per child she receives monthly. Her ex-husband claims his child support payments cover his half of new snow boots, even telling the kids he's already paid for them.

Join us as we discuss the fundamental legal and ethical obligations of both parents when it comes to financially supporting their children. We'll explore:

- The primary purpose of child support (Hint: It's for necessities like housing, food, and utilities).

- Whether the paying parent has a right to control how the money is spent.

- The damaging effects of discussing child support payments with your children.

- How custody arrangements, like 50/50 splits, factor into the equation.

Whether you're paying or receiving child support, this is a conversation you don't want to miss.

Disclaimer: This podcast provides general information and discussions about legal topics. It is not a substitute for legal advice from a qualified attorney licensed in your jurisdiction.

Chapters:
00:00:00 A Reddit Dilemma: "What is Child Support For?"
00:01:13 The Damaging Mistake Parents Make With Child Support
00:02:21 The Legal Obligation of Both Parents
00:04:42 Prioritizing Needs: Rent and Food Before Clothing
00:05:49 "It's None of Your Business How the Money is Spent"

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Having tough conversations with your coparent can feel overwhelming, especially when emotions run high or past conflict clouds your judgment. In this video a family law attorney and a therapist talk about practical, compassionate strategies to help coparents with difficult discussions.

Whether you're deciding on daycare, addressing new romantic partners, or managing your child's education, this video will help you:

- Recognize your own mixed emotions

- Prepare for conflict without defensiveness

- Break conversations into manageable steps

- Stay grounded when the other parent is dismissive

- Seek understanding instead of just solutions

This isn’t about “winning” the argument—it’s about improving communication, even in high-conflict situations.