What Is Trauma And How Do You Treat It?

Trauma leaves an imprint that goes far beyond the event itself, embedding itself in our bodies and minds in ways that can seem mysterious or even frustrating. Licensed clinical social worker Anne Chester discussed this complex topic, revealing how trauma actually works in our neurobiology and why so many of us struggle to "just get over it."

The conversation distinguishes between what therapists call "big T trauma" – those life-altering, clearly identifiable events like accidents or violence – and the more insidious "little t trauma" that accumulates through persistent negative experiences that chip away at our sense of safety and self-worth. Anne explains how our nervous system processes (or fails to process) these experiences, leaving memories stuck in a way that continues to affect us years later.

Most powerfully, Anne shares her own experience with trauma, recounting a disturbing incident on a school field trip that affected her for decades before she connected it to her anxiety about public places. Through this personal story, she demonstrates why validation is so crucial to healing – acknowledging that an experience was genuinely difficult rather than dismissing its impact. She explains how treatments like EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) can help the brain properly file these stuck memories, allowing people to move forward without carrying the burden of past experiences.

Whether you're struggling with your own trauma, supporting someone who is, or simply want to better understand this fundamental aspect of mental health, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and hope. The message throughout is clear: trauma may be complex, but healing is possible. Listen now and discover why Anne believes that when it comes to the pain of your past, "it doesn't have to be that way."

To learn more about Anne Chester™, LCSW Counseling visit:
https://www.AnneChester.com
Anne Chester™, LCSW Counseling
122 River Oaks Drive
Southlake, Texas 76092
817-939-7884

Why Your Friend Can't Be Your Therapist

Have you ever found yourself wondering why venting to your best friend doesn't seem to solve your problems? That's exactly what licensed clinical social worker Anne Chester unpacks in this eye-opening conversation about the crucial distinction between friendship and therapy.

Anne draws from three decades of professional experience to explain why even your most loving, supportive friends can't replace a trained therapist. At the heart of this difference is bias—friends naturally adopt our perspective and validate our feelings because they love us and want us to feel better immediately. Meanwhile, therapists provide something entirely different: an unbiased assessment grounded in professional training and methodology. "I have a weight and a love for my friend that I never, ever have for a patient," Anne explains, highlighting how this emotional attachment actually prevents friends from providing the objective guidance we sometimes need.

The conversation delves into the structural differences between these relationships as well. Therapy involves professional evaluation, goal-setting, and working toward "graduation," while friendship offers companionship through life's journey without formal parameters. Anne also addresses the risks of oversharing with friends, which can damage relationships or shift power dynamics in ways that don't happen within the protective boundaries of therapy. Perhaps most illuminating is her distinction between emotional support (bringing casseroles during hard times) and therapeutic support (challenging unhealthy perspectives and fostering growth).

Ready to understand why good boundaries make for both better mental health and stronger friendships? Listen now, and if you're a Texas resident struggling with anxiety, depression, or trauma, schedule a free 15-minute consultation with Anne at Annechester.com—because as she reminds us, it doesn't have to be that way.

To learn more about Anne Chester™, LCSW Counseling visit:
https://www.AnneChester.com
Anne Chester™, LCSW Counseling
122 River Oaks Drive
Southlake, Texas 76092
817-939-7884

What Are The Top Misconceptions About Therapists?

Tired of hearing that therapy is only for those in crisis or with "serious issues"? This episode shatters the myths surrounding mental health support while offering a refreshing perspective on who really benefits from therapy—spoiler alert: it's probably you.

Licensed clinical social worker Anne Chester delivers powerful insights about the preventative power of therapy, explaining why waiting until you're at your breaking point means missing the entire purpose of therapeutic support. She challenges the statistic that only 5.5% of U.S. adults experience serious mental illness, making it clear that therapy serves a much broader population—anyone experiencing the complex emotions of being human.

We explore common misconceptions about therapy, including the belief that it requires endless rehashing of childhood trauma or represents a lifelong commitment. Anne shares compelling real-world examples of clients who sought help before crisis struck—from career transitions to addressing relationship patterns that might have damaged important connections. These stories demonstrate how therapy serves as a tool for growth rather than merely crisis management.

The conversation takes an illuminating turn when Anne explains why our well-meaning friends can't replace professional support. While friends offer validation, therapists provide the neutral perspective needed to recognize patterns and challenge unhealthy behaviors. She identifies everyday signs that might indicate therapy would be beneficial: recurring relationship patterns, diminished joy, sleep disturbances, or simply feeling something's "off" but being unable to identify the source.

Whether you're struggling, curious, or somewhere in between, this episode provides the clarity and encouragement needed to take that first step toward professional support.

To learn more about Anne Chester™, LCSW Counseling visit:
https://www.AnneChester.com
Anne Chester™, LCSW Counseling
122 River Oaks Drive
Southlake, Texas 76092
817-939-7884

Meet The Host: Licensed Clinical Social Worker & Texas Based Therapist, Anne Chester

Ever wondered what happens when life's path takes an unexpected turn? Meet Anne Chester, a licensed clinical social worker who discovered her true calling not in the classroom, but on the playground. After realizing that traditional teaching wasn't her forte, Anne found herself drawn to helping children and families navigate conflicts—a revelation that led her to Washington University's prestigious social work program and eventually to founding her own therapy practice in 2004.

With a compassionate approach grounded in systems theory, Anne specializes in guiding women through life's most challenging transitions—from the intense demands of motherhood to the emotional complexity of an empty nest. She brings a refreshing blend of warmth and straightforward advice to her sessions, believing that sometimes all we need is a neutral perspective when we "just can't see a way out" of our struggles. Her clients' enthusiastic requests for more accessible resources sparked the creation of this very podcast.

When she's not helping Texan women overcome anxiety, depression, and trauma, Anne cherishes time with her husband, two children, and beloved pets. She's also developed a passion for making homemade jam from her own secret recipes—proving that healers need creative outlets too. The launch of "Ask Anne Chester™: Therapy Talks" represents her commitment to expanding mental health resources beyond the therapy room. Ready to discover if Anne's approach might be right for you? Schedule a free 15-minute consultation through her website or by phone, because as Anne firmly believes, whatever you're going through, "it doesn't have to be that way."

To learn more about Anne Chester™, LCSW Counseling visit:
https://www.AnneChester.com
Anne Chester™, LCSW Counseling
122 River Oaks Drive
Southlake, Texas 76092
817-939-7884