In the season finale of the After Life Podcast, host Samina Bari returns to reflect on the powerful conversations and lessons learned over the past five episodes. With honesty and gratitude, she shares how these raw, intimate discussions - rooted in her own journey of spousal loss - have opened doors for compassion, healing, and new understanding. Joined by lifelong friends, thought leaders, and grief advocates, Samina weaves their wisdom and stories into a tapestry of practical support and hope for anyone touched by loss.

Through candid conversations about identity, navigating uncomfortable silences, supporting grieving children, and managing life's practical challenges after loss, Samina shines a light on what truly helps (and what doesn't) when someone's world has been upended. This episode is both a heartfelt recap and a call to action to keep the dialogue alive, offering resources and support for anyone grieving or supporting someone who is.

The loss of a spouse is a uniquely devastating experience, shattering identity and rewriting the present and future overnight.

Support goes beyond words. Small, genuine gestures can comfort grieving people in ways that platitudes or silence never can.

Grieving children need special care, honest communication, and lasting community support—resilience is not automatic.

Friends and chosen family form a vital network, and self-care for those supporting the bereaved is essential to sustaining compassion.

Cultural traditions, personalized remembrance, and practical planning all play a meaningful role in fostering healing and connection.

If the stories and insights from these episodes have touched you, I warmly invite you to continue the conversation with me at saminabari.com. There, you'll discover meaningful ways to share this work - whether by ordering copies for your friends, office or community, gifting the book to someone in need, or inviting me to speak to ignite more of these essential conversations together.

On the site, you'll also find the latest updates about my book Don't Call Me Widow: How to Support Someone Who Has Lost Their Spouse. Additionally, you can download a free resource I created, What to Do When You Don't Know What to Do

In this episode of the After Life Podcast, Samina Bari sits down with Cara Belvin, founder and CEO of Empower, a nonprofit devoted to building community for children who've lost a parent. Cara opens up about her own experience of losing her mother at the age of nine, the "rules" she picked up about remaining silent, and how that isolation motivated her to help other children who have lost a parent. Together, Samina and Cara talk candidly about the myth about children's resilience, the weight placed on grieving families to "move on," and why empathy, support networks, and open conversation matter for real healing.

Cara explains how Empower's unique mentorship model helps young people feel less alone and gives the entire family permission to talk because the surviving parent doesn't have the bandwidth. The episode also highlights the ripple effects of grief through childhood, adolescence, and beyond - and how being surrounded by people who "get it" can be life-changing.

True healing is nurtured by empathy, mentorship, and connections - not by ignoring the loss or expecting kids to "be fine" after a set period of time.

Children of grief and trauma are not resilient, and adults who surround the bereaved family should forgo that thinking or expressing it as a platitude.

The weight of a parent's loss stays with children like a weight on their soul despite their outward appearance, and they feel different from others and isolated in their daily lives

Healing happens when grieving children see others who have lived through similar grief, especially peers who can share honest experiences and offer hope, or through community-based support and mentorship.

If the stories and insights from these episodes have touched you, I warmly invite you to continue the conversation with me at saminabari.com. There, you'll discover meaningful ways to share this work - whether by ordering copies for your office or community, gifting the book to someone in need, or inviting me to speak and ignite more of these essential conversations together.

On the site, you'll also find the latest updates about my book Don't Call Me Widow: How to Support Someone Who Has Lost Their Spouse.

Additionally, you can download a free resource I created, What to Do When You Don't Know What to Do.

In this episode of the After Life Podcast, Samina Bari sits down with Jason Fang, founder of TerraFirma Wealth Partners, to explore the often unseen challenges that come after losing a loved one. Jason shares his personal story of losing his father at a young age and how that shaped his empathetic and hands-on approach to helping families navigate the overwhelming financial and administrative responsibilities that follow a death.

Together, Samina and Jason discuss the realities of grief, the limitations of "planning ahead," and the practical—yet emotionally taxing—steps surviving spouses and families must take in the aftermath of loss. From managing joint accounts and Social Security benefits to protecting against fraud, updating beneficiaries, and navigating digital assets, this conversation is both personal and practical. More than anything, Jason emphasizes the importance of compassion, building a strong support network, and ensuring no one has to walk this painful path alone.

Lean on your village: Friends and family can help with administrative tasks, meal trains, and phone calls - delegating is not only allowed but necessary.

Try to avoid costly mistakes: Many financial and legal decisions are one-way doors. Professional guidance is invaluable for preventing errors with lasting consequences.

Digital assets require special planning: Wills often don't account for digital legacies. Assigning a legacy contact and using password managers can prevent costly and painful legal hurdles.

Family transparency prevents conflict: Open conversations about estate intentions reduce confusion and future disputes among loved ones.

If the stories and insights from these episodes have touched you, I warmly invite you to continue the conversation with me at saminabari.com. There, you'll discover meaningful ways to share this work - whether by ordering copies for your office or community, gifting the book to someone in need, or inviting me to speak and ignite more of these essential conversations together.

On the site, you'll also find the latest updates about my book Don't Call Me Widow: How to Support Someone Who Has Lost Their Spouse.

Additionally, you can download a free resource I created, What to Do When You Don't Know What to Do.