In this episode of the After Life Podcast, Samina Bari is joined by Abby Reyes, a powerhouse communications executive and a longtime friend of both Samina and her late husband, Doug. Abby shares the extraordinary and tender role she played in supporting Samina during the immediate aftermath of Doug's sudden passing - including managing the countless details that weigh heavily on those left behind.

Together, they explore themes of shock, grief, and the immense challenge of stepping up for someone while navigating their own emotions. Abby's cultural perspective - rooted in Filipino traditions that openly acknowledge and celebrate death - shaped her approach to support, allowing her to hold space for Samina's grief without overwhelming her with her own feelings.

Keeping open conversations about the deceased and creating lasting remembrances are crucial for long-term emotional well-being.

Personalizing memorials with favorite music, cocktails, and memories helps celebrate a loved one's life and fosters healing.

Including children in remembrance activities allows them to participate and keeps their connection to the lost parent alive.

Grief is personal and different for everyone, so it's important to honor and respect each person's unique way of feeling and processing loss without judgment.

If the stories and insights from these episodes have touched you, I warmly invite you to continue the conversation with me at saminabari.com. There, you'll discover meaningful ways to share this work - whether by ordering copies for your office or community, gifting the book to someone in need, or inviting me to speak and ignite more of these essential conversations together.

On the site, you'll also find the latest updates about my book Don't Call Me Widow: How to Support Someone Who Has Lost Their Spouse.

Additionally, you can download a free resource I created, What to Do When You Don't Know What to Do.