検索キーワード： "自己啓発" 結婚・長期パートナシップ

夫への 妻への不平・不満は実はやり直しの鍵「幸せな家庭」をあきらめない!病気の妻にから揚げが食べたいと言う夫。なんでも嘘をつく夫。家事をやらない妻。実家に尽くし過ぎる妻。夫も妻も、なぜ、みすみす関係を悪化させるような言動をとってしまうのか。実はそこには夫婦それぞれが育ってきた家庭環境が影響している。

自分にしかできない本物の恋愛。その中で最高の自分を引き出すには!?


恋愛は、人生の中での大きなテーマ。
これに今一番悩んでいるという方も多いのではないでしょうか?

どういう恋愛をするかによって、そして、どんな男、どんな女と付き合い、結ばれるかによって、その人の人生が左右されてしまいます。
最高の自分を引き出せるかどうかも、恋愛・結婚によって変わってくるのです。

恋愛・結婚は自己実現、夢実現のための最高のパートナー探し。
この本では、ほとんど知らずにいる男と女の心の秘密、性の本質やナゾについて見てみることによって、本物の恋愛を体験・創造し、最高の自分を引き出していける方法を具体的に紹介しています。

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先日、ある教育関係者と対談をした。打ちあわせの席で彼がしみじみと口にしたことがある。 「石田さん、見合いっていいですよ」 彼はぼくより６歳年下で、当然恋愛結婚だと思っていた。 「もしかして、お見あいで結婚したの」 創作和食の個室で、彼はお造りをつまみながらいう。 「そうなんです。最初にうちの奥さんと会ったときは、ぼくが18歳で彼女が16歳でした」 驚いた。ふたりともようやく婚姻が可能な年齢になったばかりだ。 「これからこの人と結婚するとわかっている相手と初めて会うというのは、なんだか不思議な感じで、なかなかいいものです」 （本文より）　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　石田衣良ブックトーク『小説家と過ごす日曜日』はこちらから→http://yakan-hiko.com/ishidaira.html

From our earliest years, teaches Diane Poole Heller, we develop an attachment style that follows us through life, replaying in our intimate relationships, with our children, and at work. And traumatic events can deeply affect that core relational blueprint. With Healing Your Attachment Wounds, a pioneer in attachment theory and trauma resolution brings together these two fields to help us understand and benefit from their complementary principles and methods.

In the second edition of The Emotionally Abusive Relationship: How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing, internationally recognized therapist Beverly Engel walks listeners through a proven program designed to help then get to the core of their unhealthy behavior patterns.

Do loving relationships end because couples lack communication skills, struggle to empathize, and fail to accommodate each other’s needs? That’s a common belief within and outside of the therapeutic world… but what if it’s all wrong? In You Are the One You’ve Been Waiting For, Dr. Richard Schwartz, the celebrated founder of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, offers a new way—a path toward courageous love that replaces the striving, dependent, and disconnected approach to solving relationship challenges.

Lucinde kann nach 25 Jahren Ehe, als Mutter von vier Kindern, Tochter und Freundin ein Lied davon singen, was es heißt, immer für alle anderen perfekt sein zu wollen. Jenseits der 50 angekommen, weiß Lucinde, dass es höchste Zeit ist, in ihrem Leben die Prioritäten neu zu ordnen – und damit endlich bei sich selbst anzufangen. Die beliebte DONNA-Kolumnistin und systemische Coach macht es vor. Lass dich von ihr inspirieren, erlaube dir, dich anzunehmen, wie du bist und ausschließlich auf dein eigenes Herz zu hören – denn dein Leben ist jetzt!

The Anxious-Avoidant Trap will show you and your partner how to gain a better understanding of each other, so you can improve communication, avoid emotional reactions, and bring joy back into your relationship. With this compassionate guide, you will: discover how attachment styles are formed in childhood; learn about the three "core wounds" of attachment trauma; recognize signs of anxious or avoidant attachment in adulthood; and develop skills to respond to your partner while reducing emotional reactions.

In this audiobook, Relationship Dynamics Specialist Dr. Arica Law helps you understand what disconnection is hiding. She guides you through the invisible unraveling that begins long before most couples ever separate.

I Promise You offers couples four ways to create a healthy and vibrant marriage: care, protection, honesty, and time. Each chapter contains useful and practical exercises to help listeners make each of these four keys second nature in their relationships. Engaged couples will find this book an invaluable tool in evaluating and improving their relationships. Additionally, pastors and counselors will find I Promise You an excellent source of information and advice.

More than personal boundaries, this book is really about relationships - healthy and unhealthy ones. Here best-selling author and psychotherapist Charles Whitfield blends theories and dynamics from several disciplines into practical knowledge and actions that your can use in your relationships right now. This comprehensive book opens with clear definitions and descriptions of boundaries, a self-assessment survey, and a history of our accumulated knowledge. Going deeper, it describes the 10 essential areas of human interaction wherein you can improve your relationships.

Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola stumbled right out of the wedding gate. Their choices in the early years, they’ll tell you, nearly bought their marriage a one-way ticket to Suckville. The New York Times best-selling authors explore all the adventures of early wedlock, from the moment one of you gets on one knee to the day when sex starts to feel like work instead of play. In this guidebook, Behrendt and Ruotola explore their own marriage and, with gleeful candor, tremendous warmth, sharp humor, and piercing insight, look at what we hope to get out of our most lasting relationship.

We've been sold the story that happiness requires a partner. That being single is a waiting room, a problem to solve, a gap to fill. But what if the most transformative relationship you'll ever have is the one with yourself? Drawing from over fifteen years of clinical experience, as well as her own journey through heartbreak and healing, Dr. Marny Lishman reveals why solitude isn't something to fear, but is instead a powerful catalyst for growth, creativity and genuine contentment.

When life throws us non-stop challenges and curveballs, how can we have any hope of building a fulfilling and intimate marriage? How do we move from stressed and stretched to energized and inspired, finding the strength to transform both our lives and relationship? Robert Paul and Tara Lalonde equip husbands and wives with practical, biblically based tools to transform their personal lives and grow their marriage into something they’ll both love

Lost enough loves for three lifetimes? Want to break bad habits and replace them with good ones that last? Whether you are male or female, single or married, gay or straight, Rational-Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), created by world renowned therapist Dr. Albert Ellis, can help anyone - at any age - learn to maintain healthy and lasting love. Simple and effective, the proven REBT techniques in this landmark book show you how to relate lovingly and intimately, for the long-term.

Drawing on psychology, real-world examples, and proven strategies, Alina Ryyna guides you through seven progressive steps every couple can master. From creating a safe space for open dialogue to managing emotions, resolving conflicts collaboratively, and rebuilding intimacy, you’ll discover how to transform daily conversations into opportunities for connection.

Growing your family doesn't have to mean losing your spark. If your sexual connection and intimacy with your partner has become collateral damage to raising happy kids, Parents in Love will help you bring that passion back to your relationship!

When a relationship with a narcissist ends, the caretaking partner is often left confused, deeply hurt, and often still emotionally connected, while the narcissist seems to easily move on to the next relationship. Healing from a Narcissistic Relationship offers guidance about what to expect as the relationship unravels and how to cope with the fallout. It also helps the reader learn to truly disengage and move through the grief process.

It may feel like your world is falling apart, and your relationship with it, but this doesn't have to be the end. Healing from Infidelity is a thoughtful, practical guide to help you rebuild trust and repair your relationship. Alice Gardner, a psychologist with over 20 years of experience in couples counseling, provides compassionate insights to help you heal and move forward. This book offers an in-depth look at the psychology behind cheating, the motivations for infidelity, and how to cope with the aftermath.