検索キーワード： "自己啓発" 結婚・長期パートナシップ

夫への 妻への不平・不満は実はやり直しの鍵「幸せな家庭」をあきらめない!病気の妻にから揚げが食べたいと言う夫。なんでも嘘をつく夫。家事をやらない妻。実家に尽くし過ぎる妻。夫も妻も、なぜ、みすみす関係を悪化させるような言動をとってしまうのか。実はそこには夫婦それぞれが育ってきた家庭環境が影響している。

We use the word love more confidently than any other word in any language. And understand it less. The Direction of Love is an inquiry into what gets in the way—the counterfeits we mistake for love, the anxiety that displaces it, the games that manufacture its feeling, the cages we build and call devotion—and what remains when they are removed. What remains is not a feeling. It is a direction.

自分にしかできない本物の恋愛。その中で最高の自分を引き出すには!?


恋愛は、人生の中での大きなテーマ。
これに今一番悩んでいるという方も多いのではないでしょうか?

どういう恋愛をするかによって、そして、どんな男、どんな女と付き合い、結ばれるかによって、その人の人生が左右されてしまいます。
最高の自分を引き出せるかどうかも、恋愛・結婚によって変わってくるのです。

恋愛・結婚は自己実現、夢実現のための最高のパートナー探し。
この本では、ほとんど知らずにいる男と女の心の秘密、性の本質やナゾについて見てみることによって、本物の恋愛を体験・創造し、最高の自分を引き出していける方法を具体的に紹介しています。

先日、ある教育関係者と対談をした。打ちあわせの席で彼がしみじみと口にしたことがある。 「石田さん、見合いっていいですよ」 彼はぼくより６歳年下で、当然恋愛結婚だと思っていた。 「もしかして、お見あいで結婚したの」 創作和食の個室で、彼はお造りをつまみながらいう。 「そうなんです。最初にうちの奥さんと会ったときは、ぼくが18歳で彼女が16歳でした」 驚いた。ふたりともようやく婚姻が可能な年齢になったばかりだ。 「これからこの人と結婚するとわかっている相手と初めて会うというのは、なんだか不思議な感じで、なかなかいいものです」 （本文より）　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　石田衣良ブックトーク『小説家と過ごす日曜日』はこちらから→http://yakan-hiko.com/ishidaira.html

Tu e la persona che ami usate la stessa lingua per esprimere il vostro amore? Le persone esprimono e ricevono amore con modalità diverse. Il Dottor Gary Chapman identifica queste modalità con i cinque linguaggi dell'amore.

Blame is an alarm bell, not a strategy. The moment blame takes over, connection gets choked—like weeds in a garden. This book shows you how to catch the pattern early, slow the escalation, uncover the real issue underneath the fight, and come back with one clear request instead of a spiral.

You love each other. So why does it feel like you keep missing each other? If your relationship is shaped by autism, ADHD, or AuDHD, misunderstandings can feel relentless. A forgotten task becomes rejection. A need for quiet feels like withdrawal. A shutdown feels like disconnection. The same painful cycles repeat, and both of you end up feeling unseen, misunderstood, and exhausted. The problem isn’t a lack of love. It’s a translation gap.

Do you worry your partner will lose interest or pull away? Do you replay conversations, looking for signs something is wrong? Do you feel like you're always too much in relationships? You may be experiencing anxious attachment, a pattern that shapes how you think, feel, and react in love. Anxious Attachment Rewired offers a clear, compassionate path out of the anxiety cycle. You’ll learn where these patterns come from and how to retrain your mind and body so relationships feel safe instead of overwhelming. This isn’t a surface-level workbook.

Do you reread texts looking for hidden meaning? Does a delayed reply make your stomach drop? Do you promise yourself you will not overthink again, only to end up checking your phone, replaying conversations, and fearing you are about to be abandoned? You are not broken. You are not unlovable. And you are not “too much” for wanting to feel safe, chosen, and secure in love. Anxious Attachment Recovery is a compassionate and practical audiobook for anyone struggling with relationship anxiety, fear of abandonment, emotional dependency, people pleasing, and the constant need for reassurance.

¿Estás listo para tomar el control de tus emociones en lugar de dejar que ellas te controlen a ti? Seamos honestos: nadie nos enseñó cómo manejar lo que sentimos. Aprendimos muchas cosas en la escuela, pero no cómo enfrentar las tormentas emocionales de la vida. En este audiolibro descubrirás una verdad poderosa: tus emociones no son tu enemigo. Cuando aprendes a guiarlas, se convierten en tu mayor fortaleza. Imagina afrontar los retos con calma y claridad, construir relaciones sólidas y alcanzar tus metas sin que tus emociones te desestabilicen.

WHY? Why Do Women Think the Way They Do? Why do so many modern relationships feel unstable, confusing, and emotionally volatile? Why do men and women often seem to be speaking entirely different languages? Why do strong men hesitate to lead, and why do so many women say they do not need men at all? This audiobook confronts those questions directly. Drawing from personal experience, cultural observation, and a clear-eyed examination of modern relationship dynamics, the author challenges prevailing narratives about feminism, independence, marriage, leadership, and family.

Are you sick and tired of the "hot-and-cold" cycles where closeness is immediately followed by distance and silence? Have you tried countless ways to "fix" the connection, only to have your partner withdraw further? Do you finally want to say goodbye to the fear of abandonment and discover a way to feel confident again—regardless of how your partner responds? If so, then this book is for you. Imagine how you’ll feel once you can stay emotionally anchored in yourself, and how your life could change when you no longer walk on eggshells.

When a relationship with a narcissist ends, the caretaking partner is often left confused, deeply hurt, and often still emotionally connected, while the narcissist seems to easily move on to the next relationship. Healing from a Narcissistic Relationship offers guidance about what to expect as the relationship unravels and how to cope with the fallout. It also helps the reader learn to truly disengage and move through the grief process.

When nice people are asked to do things, those who feel insecure may be tempted to say "yes" more often than not. They need to create reasonable boundaries that allow a certain element of personal freedom of choice. Without these boundaries, what tends to happen is that others use nice people as doormats. It's a fact of life that there are givers and takers that make up the human race. Givers are those who tend to put other people's needs before their own. Takers are those who profit from the generosity of kind people.

Are you tired of attracting the same unhealthy dynamics again and again? Do you struggle with trust issues, overthinking, jealousy, people-pleasing, or losing yourself in relationships? If you've experienced gaslighting, narcissistic abuse, betrayal, emotional neglect, or chronic relationship anxiety, you're not broken...but your patterns may be holding you back.

In Empath in Love, author Maren Sinclair offers a powerful roadmap for turning sensitivity into strength. With clarity, warmth, and real-world tools, she shows you how to love deeply without abandoning yourself in the process. This is not a book of vague advice it’s a step-by-step guide filled with strategies, reflections, and practices you can start using immediately. Whether you are single and searching, newly in love, or years into a committed relationship, these tools will help you build the kind of love that feels safe, passionate, and sustainable.

Lucinde kann nach 25 Jahren Ehe, als Mutter von vier Kindern, Tochter und Freundin ein Lied davon singen, was es heißt, immer für alle anderen perfekt sein zu wollen. Jenseits der 50 angekommen, weiß Lucinde, dass es höchste Zeit ist, in ihrem Leben die Prioritäten neu zu ordnen – und damit endlich bei sich selbst anzufangen. Die beliebte DONNA-Kolumnistin und systemische Coach macht es vor. Lass dich von ihr inspirieren, erlaube dir, dich anzunehmen, wie du bist und ausschließlich auf dein eigenes Herz zu hören – denn dein Leben ist jetzt!

Relationship anxiety can make even deep connections feel unsafe. You overanalyze every word, fear rejection, and try to control love—just to feel secure. But control doesn’t create safety. Self-trust does. In this empowering guide, author and emotional healing mentor Ellis D. Mercer blends attachment healing with the transformational power of divine feminine energy—helping you shift from survival mode to deep emotional confidence.

In "Self-Love for Black Women," Nya Love takes you on a transformative journey, offering practical tools and strategies to help you overcome past traumas, improve relationships, and cultivate unshakable self-worth. From childhood wounds to racial trauma, Love delves deep into the impact these experiences have on your self-love journey. Drawing from her own personal story, she shares relatable anecdotes that will resonate with you, providing a solid foundation to connect and engage with the book's teachings.

À une époque où un couple sur deux va se séparer dans les dix ans, prenant le contre-pied de l'idéologie dominante, Brigitte Lahaie propose un véritable plaidoyer pour cette institution et n'hésite pas à nous conseiller d'assumer le couple "pour le meilleur et pour le pire". Avec un peu de "travail" et de bonne volonté, l'amour peut durer ! Si vous êtes dans une relation plutôt harmonieuse, ce livre vous permettra de l'améliorer. Si vous traversez quelques difficultés, il vous donnera des éléments qui vous permettront de reprendre espoir.