検索キーワード： "自己啓発" 結婚・長期パートナシップ

自分にしかできない本物の恋愛。その中で最高の自分を引き出すには!?


恋愛は、人生の中での大きなテーマ。
これに今一番悩んでいるという方も多いのではないでしょうか?

どういう恋愛をするかによって、そして、どんな男、どんな女と付き合い、結ばれるかによって、その人の人生が左右されてしまいます。
最高の自分を引き出せるかどうかも、恋愛・結婚によって変わってくるのです。

恋愛・結婚は自己実現、夢実現のための最高のパートナー探し。
この本では、ほとんど知らずにいる男と女の心の秘密、性の本質やナゾについて見てみることによって、本物の恋愛を体験・創造し、最高の自分を引き出していける方法を具体的に紹介しています。

Do loving relationships end because couples lack communication skills, struggle to empathize, and fail to accommodate each other’s needs? That’s a common belief within and outside of the therapeutic world… but what if it’s all wrong? In You Are the One You’ve Been Waiting For, Dr. Richard Schwartz, the celebrated founder of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, offers a new way—a path toward courageous love that replaces the striving, dependent, and disconnected approach to solving relationship challenges.

先日、ある教育関係者と対談をした。打ちあわせの席で彼がしみじみと口にしたことがある。 「石田さん、見合いっていいですよ」 彼はぼくより６歳年下で、当然恋愛結婚だと思っていた。 「もしかして、お見あいで結婚したの」 創作和食の個室で、彼はお造りをつまみながらいう。 「そうなんです。最初にうちの奥さんと会ったときは、ぼくが18歳で彼女が16歳でした」 驚いた。ふたりともようやく婚姻が可能な年齢になったばかりだ。 「これからこの人と結婚するとわかっている相手と初めて会うというのは、なんだか不思議な感じで、なかなかいいものです」 （本文より）　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　石田衣良ブックトーク『小説家と過ごす日曜日』はこちらから→http://yakan-hiko.com/ishidaira.html

Marriage That Lasts: The 24 Pillar Foundation is a practical, faith-anchored roadmap for couples who want to build a marriage that not only survives but thrives for a lifetime. Drawing on timeless wisdom, modern insights, and real-life stories, Matt Wallace introduces 24 foundational “pillars” that strengthen the bond between husband and wife. Each pillar addresses a core area of married life—such as trust, communication, intimacy, conflict resolution, finances, shared dreams, forgiveness, and spiritual unity—offering clear guidance, reflective questions, and actionable steps.

When life throws us non-stop challenges and curveballs, how can we have any hope of building a fulfilling and intimate marriage? How do we move from stressed and stretched to energized and inspired, finding the strength to transform both our lives and relationship? Robert Paul and Tara Lalonde equip husbands and wives with practical, biblically based tools to transform their personal lives and grow their marriage into something they’ll both love

From our earliest years, teaches Diane Poole Heller, we develop an attachment style that follows us through life, replaying in our intimate relationships, with our children, and at work. And traumatic events can deeply affect that core relational blueprint. With Healing Your Attachment Wounds, a pioneer in attachment theory and trauma resolution brings together these two fields to help us understand and benefit from their complementary principles and methods.

Drawing on psychology, real-world examples, and proven strategies, Alina Ryyna guides you through seven progressive steps every couple can master. From creating a safe space for open dialogue to managing emotions, resolving conflicts collaboratively, and rebuilding intimacy, you’ll discover how to transform daily conversations into opportunities for connection.

Growing your family doesn't have to mean losing your spark. If your sexual connection and intimacy with your partner has become collateral damage to raising happy kids, Parents in Love will help you bring that passion back to your relationship!

De la Codependencia a la Conciencia es un audiolibro que ofrece orientación paso a paso para liberarnos de los patrones de comportamiento dañinos, sanar nuestras heridas emocionales y construir relaciones más saludables. A través de ejemplos claros y ejercicios prácticos, la narradora nos guía en el viaje hacia la conciencia, el empoderamiento personal y la sanación emocional. Este recurso es una valiosa herramienta para quienes buscan comprender y superar la codependencia y sus raíces en la infancia.

Are you feeling lost in the roles of partner and parent—like your identity is fading beneath the weight of daily responsibilities? Do you crave deeper connection, emotional balance, and a stronger sense of self? You’re not alone—and The Relationship Mastery Collectionby Aziza J is your guide to healing, empowerment, and lasting love. This transformative two-in-one volume—The Solitary Partner and Love Unlocked—is designed for individuals who often feel like they’re carrying the emotional weight of their relationships by themselves.

The Anxious-Avoidant Trap will show you and your partner how to gain a better understanding of each other, so you can improve communication, avoid emotional reactions, and bring joy back into your relationship. With this compassionate guide, you will: discover how attachment styles are formed in childhood; learn about the three "core wounds" of attachment trauma; recognize signs of anxious or avoidant attachment in adulthood; and develop skills to respond to your partner while reducing emotional reactions.

Written by a psychologist and based on the Gottman Method for couples therapy, this book outlines a trauma-informed approach to help you and your partner heal. You'll find skills to help you cultivate a deeper bond—one that builds on friendship and shared experiences. You'll learn to set healthy boundaries and manage difficult emotions.

In this powerful guide, a clinical psychologist and trauma expert synthesizes proven-effective therapies to bring immediate, trauma-informed relief to couples who share the collective weight of suffering. Working together, you'll develop emotion regulation skills for cultivating a relationship built on mutual safety, trust, and togetherness.

Couple Therapy: The Basics provides a comprehensive introduction to couple therapy. Taking both a general overview and a psychoanalytic focus, it addresses the basic questions that both couples and those interested in becoming couple therapists can expect to ask.

Whatever the scenario may be - whether you need to make peace with a certain situation, with a loved one or friend, or with a total stranger - the process of forgiveness is an art and a science, and this hands-on guide walks readers through it in eight key steps. How can we become forgivingly "fit"? How can we identify the source of our pain and inner turmoil? How can we find meaning in what we have suffered, or learn to forgive ourselves?

Just as ships can struggle in stormy seas, many of us face relationship challenges. Anxious attachment can often be at the heart of these issues. But you don't have to endure heartache. Explore how anxious attachment quietly affects your bonds. Learn the keys to lasting, happy connections: self-awareness, good communication, and a solid self-esteem that brings security to you and your relationships.

A practical guide that explores how nonmonogamous relationships do not belong exclusively to the neurotypicals, but to us all.

If you felt unloved or unsafe as a child, you may have difficulty trusting others as an adult. You might struggle to maintain healthy relationships, or feel like you are somehow damaged. Written by a renowned family therapist, this gentle guide offers an evidence-based approach to help you move past relational trauma—the psychological wounds that can result from experiences of abuse, neglect, or betrayal. By building self-awareness, understanding triggers, and improving your communication skills, you can achieve the love and connection you deserve.

Boundaries are limits we establish for ourselves and implement through action or communication. Personal Boundaries for Dummies gives you all the basics on what boundaries look like (spoiler: they aren't "one-size-fits-all"), along with step-by-step instructions for figuring out what your boundaries are and communicating them with others.

Master Your Relationship Anxiety delivers a simple four-week program for overcoming the mental and emotional stresses that can stop us being our best selves in relationships. Exploring the four types of relationship anxiety, this book provides holistic, practical and highly relatable advice to help you feel better able to love others and create the deeper connections we all crave. You'll find valuable personal growth hidden in the anxiety, worry, insecurity and doubt that relationships inevitably bring to the surface.