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  • Have we become intolerant in our old age?
    2025/05/08

    Episode Summary:

    In this episode, we discuss tolerance and intolerance and how these change as you get older. We talk about how things changing around us affect our tolerance and the difference between tolerance and being moody.


    Key Takeaways:

    What we tolerate and don’t tolerate

    How getting older changes what we tolerate

    Is moody being intolerant?


    Timestamps:

    • [01:20] – Do you think its fear?

    • [02:33] – Are you finding yourself more intolerant?

    • [04:04] – What is tolerance?

    • [8:17] – Understanding the new way of living

    • [11:54] – How do we maintain our boundaries?

    • [16:05] – Express your boundaries without being offensive

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    20 分
  • Navigating sex and sexual choices after 60
    2025/05/01

    Navigating Sex and Sexual Choices after 60


    Summary:

    In this episode we explore talking about sexual choices when you get old, we discuss wife swapping, polyamorous relationships and porn.

    We talk about what partner’s needs are sexually, playing and having fun in sexual intimacy.


    Key Takeaways:

    Polyamorous relationships

    How porn can affect relationships

    Having fun with sex


    Timestamps:

    • [01:02] – Wife Swapping

    • [05:15] – Do I feel confident enough

    • [06:46] – Sexual intimacy

    • [11:52] – Porn

    • [16:51] – Playing in sex


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    24 分
  • When friendships and relationships evolve
    2025/04/24

    When friendship evolves in later life.


    Episode Summary:

    In this episode we discuss everything about friendships, how these change

    in later life, what we need from a friendship and how to make new friends.

    We talk about long term friends and new friends and also what friendship

    means to us.


    Key Takeaways:

    What is friendship about?

    What are you wanting from a friendship

    The 4 assumptions


    Timestamps:

    • [00:18] – Talking about friendship and relationships for women.

    • [03:45] – How do you make friends

    • [07:51] – Worried about being judged

    • [13:56] – Do you have anything in common with your husband

    • [18:23] – As an older person what do you want out of your friendship.

    • [21:45] – What does friendship mean to you

    • [26:12] – The 4 assumptions


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    28 分
  • Early Days of Retirement - What I wish I had done!
    2025/04/17

    The Early Days of Retirement.

    Episode Summary:

    In this episode we discuss the early days of retirement with our guest Paul Rolfe. We talk about how the process feels and what regrets you may have. We go into the money side of retirement and when and what to think about at younger ages.

    Key Takeaways:

    Finances in retirement

    Regrets before retirement

    How retirement makes you feel

    Paul Rolfe’s new podcast, called Happy Money, is due to be released end of May

    Timestamps:

    · [00:14] – Introducing guest Paul Rolfe

    · [01:12] – How you finding retirement 4 months in?

    · [04:51] – Does retirement feel like freedom or a slow march toward irrelevance?

    · [09:30] – What are you doing to push yourself out of your comfort zone?

    · [13:23] – What gets you out of bed in the morning?

    · [15:48] – Biggest lie society tells us about retirement

    · [24:28 ] – Paul’s podcast release date

    · [25:54] – What would your advice be to 40-year-old you?

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    32 分
  • Battle of the sexes in the aging process - it's not fair!
    2025/04/10

    The Battle of the Sexes as we age.

    Episode Summary:

    In this episode we discuss the difference between Men and Women aging. We talk about how men can still reproduce at older age, how the media perceives it to be allowed for Men to get old but not for Women and the grey hair look on both Men and Women.

    Key Takeaways:

    Men can still biologically still reproduce at older age.

    If they can shame people into buying something then they are making money.

    Grey Hair

    Timestamps:

    • [00:17] – Physical Appearance

    • [03:22] – Why are men allowed to be older

    • [04:16] – Biologically men can still produce • [09:48] – Men are more attractive when older than women

    • [12:08] – It takes Women much longer to look better.

    • [17:13] – The grey hair

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    22 分
  • Let's talk about our sexuality - now!
    2025/04/03

    Episode Summary:

    In this episode we talk about everything linked to sexuality, how this has changed over the years, being comfortable in yourself and energy shifting. We discuss how sexuality changes as you get older and the importance of self-love.


    Key Takeaways:

    Being comfortable and confident in yourself.

    Physical energy shifts

    Self-love


    Timestamps:

    • [00:27] – What does Sexuality mean.

    •[02:34] – Being comfortable in yourself.

    •[04:18] – How has our sexual and physical energy changed in our 60’s.

    •[05:18] – Less vivid orgasms in our 60s or not.

    •[09:42] – Masturbation.

    •[16:47] – Once you open our legs, you open your heart.

    •[21:12] – Relationship with yourself is the most important thing.

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    27 分
  • Exploring being a mother after 60 - Happy Mother's Day
    2025/03/28

    Episode Summary: In this episode we talk about everything that is linked to Mother's Day. We discuss how Mother’s Day has changed as we have got older, the pressure of the day and why we celebrate Mother’s Day. We also talk about how it feels for others who don’t have mothers or who are not mothers and the impact the day has on them.


    Key Takeaways:

    Why do we celebrate Mother’s Day?

    The pressure of Mother’s Day

    The commercial impact behind Mother’s Day


    Timestamps:

    • [00:38] – What do you think of Mother’s Day

    • [02:23] – Who is Mother’s Day being done for?

    • [07:16] – How has your relationship with your mother changed over the years?

    • [12:36] – How does the younger generation view Mother’s Day

    • [13:33] – Why are we celebrating Mother’s Day

    • [20:07] – All mother’s fuck up

    • [29:22] – How do you encapsulate Mother’s Day


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    34 分
  • Ailments and trying not to become them!
    2025/03/21

    Episode Summary: In this episode we talk about how we discuss ailments, how things change as you get older, how we are always discussing ailments at dinner parties. Wear and tear as you get older and what we can do to help. We also talk about the blue zones; 5 areas in the world where poeple are living well at 100 plus.


    Key Takeaways:

    Changes as you get older

    Discussing Ailments all time

    Blue zones

    What can we do instead of complaining


    Timestamps:

    • [00:39] – Talking about Ailments

    • [02:51] – Age 60

    • [08:47] - Blue Zones

    • [13:00] – We need to be shifting

    • [16:53] – Behind naming the podcast

    • [17:22] – Aging gracefully or not


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    23 分