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  • Widow's Fire
    2026/10/12
    Today we meet with Diane Heiler, author of "A Widow's Fire," discussing her experiences with grief, remarriage, and the phenomenon of "widow's fire" - the intense physical and emotional craving for intimacy and touch after losing a spouse. Diane shares how her husband Al's dying words about her needing to find another man proved prophetic as she experienced strong desires for physical touch and connection after his death at age 80. She describes her new relationship with Bob, who accepted her continued love for Al, and discussed how she handled judgment from others about moving on too quickly. The conversation takes an unexpected emotional turn when Diane reveals she experienced three visits from what she believes were Al's deceased wife's spirit and his own spirit, which moved one of us to tears (I bet you can't guess which one).And don’t forget to hang around for our “After Thoughts” where Lori and Constance unpack the episode and chat about our thoughts on what we heard, and where we have started “Listener Shout-Outs,” and episode-based Challenges for our listeners. SHOW NOTES A Widow's Fire: An Intimate Memoir of Heartbreak, Survival and Moving OnDiane's FaceBook PageDiane's Website When My Husband Of 25 Years Died, I Thought My Life Was Winding Down. I Couldn't Have Been More Wrong (Huffington Post, July 6, 2026)Once a Divorcee, Once a Widow - Now a Partner Re-Engaged in Life (Women Over 70 podcast)We would love to hear from you! Do you have ideas for future podcasts? Want to be a guest on our podcast? Have you tried one of our challenges and want a Shout Out? Please send your comments to: Email Us: WeAintDeadYetPod@gmail.comFollow the show on FacebookVisit our WebsiteListen Here! (Our linktree will direct you to Spotify, Apple Podcasts, GoodPods, and Pocket Casts). Subscribing to WADY is a free, quick way to ensure new episodes are automatically delivered to your device. Just click "Subscribe" or "Follow" in whichever app you use to listen. Send us Fan MailBeautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. Eleanor Roosevelt
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    44 分
  • Looking Back, Moving Forward: Celebrating WADY's First Year
    2026/09/28

    Join us in celebrating our podcast's one-year anniversary, as we reflect on our personal and professional growth. We highlight the many challenges we’ve faced, from learning new technology to navigating our collaborative dynamics. We examine how the creative process has broadened our perspectives and connections. We share our favorite episodes, some funny moments, and our most cherished memories. And, best of all, you’ll get to hear Lori sing, again :)

    We would love to hear from you! Do you have ideas for future podcasts? Want to be a guest on our podcast? Have you tried one of our challenges and want a Shout Out? Please send your comments to:

    Email Us: WeAintDeadYetPod@gmail.com

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    Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. Eleanor Roosevelt

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    32 分
  • You Can't Be What You Don't See!
    2026/09/14

    Today, we talk about a superpower that society often tries to strip away from those of us in our 60s and beyond – the power of being seen.

    Our guest, Stephanie O'Dell spent years styling over 6,000 women for brands like Athleta. In her 50s, she decided to completely reinvent her career and herself. With no prior experience running a talent agency, she launched Celebrate The Gray—a modeling and consulting agency that now represents over 400 silver-haired women who are redefining beauty.

    Join us for real talk about trying new and hard things in your older years, anti-ageism, how to make yourself visible again, how AI is impacting the movement to age naturally, and real ways that you and I can play an important part in the campaign for ads depicting real, aging women. We end with a fun rapid-fire round of questions about Stephanie's favorite silver celebrities, best color for women over 60, and more.

    SHOW NOTES

    Celebrate the Gray

    Instagram

    Upcoming: Stephanie will be an Expert Panelist for a Sacntuary-Sponsored Screening of "Your Roots Are Showing" (This amazing documentary was produced by Ilise Harris, who will be a guest on our podcast in a few weeks, and the panelists include a former guest of ours, the inimitable Jacqui Getz).

    We would love to hear from you! Do you have ideas for future podcasts? Want to be a guest on our podcast? Have you tried one of our challenges and want a Shout Out? Please send your comments to:

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    Listen Here! (Our linktree will direct you to Spotify, Apple Podcasts, GoodPods, and Pocket Casts). Subscribing to WADY is a free, quick way to ensure new episodes are automatically delivered to your device. Just click "Subscribe" or "Follow" in whichever app you use to listen.

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    Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. Eleanor Roosevelt

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    38 分
  • We May Be Retired, But Our Genitals Are Not
    2026/09/01
    Today we venture back into the bedroom. Society loves to tell us that once we hit a certain age, our desires are supposed to just fade into the background. Well, today's guest says hell no to that! Dubbed the 'wrinkly sex kitten' by the media, Joan Price is a powerful advocate for ageless sexuality. Join us in this unfiltered conversation about finding your own “inner sex kitten,” confronting the “ick factor” of seeing older adults as sexual beings, learning to love our naked bodies at any age, redefining what “good sex” looks like, and understanding the difference between spontaneous and responsive desire. We’ll also get the inside scoop on Joan’s famous “Cow Bell” erotic ritual and her "sex baskets." Finally, you’ll learn practical tips for solo and self-pleasure, the best lubes and sex toys for our age group, and juicy recommendations for connecting with your own sensuality. Meow! And don’t forget to hang around for our “After Thoughts” where Lori and Constance unpack the episode and chat about our thoughts on what we heard, and where we have started “Listener Shout-Outs,” and episode-based Challenges for our listeners. SHOW NOTESJoan's Website. You can buy autographed copies of all of Joan's books here, including the 15th Anniversary Edition of Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud about Senior SexAll of Joan's BooksJoan's Senior Sex BlogWicked Sensual Care Simply Timeless Lube We-Vibe Melt 2 (Best Senior Vibrator)Joan's Upcoming Documentary or https://joanprice.com/films/ask-joanJoan's Sex Toys Reviews (keep scrolling - there are many of them!)Joan's Free Newsletter For senior sex news and views, subscribe to Joan’s newsletter.Pleasurewave Arousal Lotion (reviewed and recommended by Constance, not Joan or Lori)We would love to hear from you! Do you have ideas for future podcasts? Want to be a guest on our podcast? Have you tried one of our challenges and want a Shout Out? Please send your comments to: Email Us: WeAintDeadYetPod@gmail.com Follow the show on Facebook Visit our WebsiteListen Here! (Our linktree will direct you to Spotify, Apple Podcasts, GoodPods, and Pocket Casts). Subscribing to WADY is a free, quick way to ensure new episodes are automatically delivered to your device. Just click "Subscribe" or "Follow" in whichever app you use to listen.Send us Fan MailBeautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. Eleanor Roosevelt
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  • The Blessings and Bullshit of Getting Old
    2026/08/18

    Do you want to live life more boldly? Tune in as we get real with the "Queen of Elderstack," the powerhouse journalist, creator of the acclaimed [B]OLD AGE Substack -- Debbie Weil. Debbie has been leading discussions about Aging and Reinvention for years. In this rambling and REAL conversation about the ups, downs and uncertainties that define getting older, Weil sheds light on the problem with toxic positivity when it comes to talking about aging, moving from "doing" to "being," and her desire to continue to live boldly into her 90s. We delve into the complexities of the mother-daughter relationship, ones that still reverberate for Weil even after losing her mother a few years ago, and the challenges of acceptance and slowing down in the decades ahead.

    SHOW NOTES

    Debbie's Website

    [B}OLD AGE Substack

    (Former) [B]old Age Podcast

    Debbie's Husband Sam Harrington's Book: At Peace: Choosing a Good Death After a Long Life

    Substack Post about Debbie's Mother


    We would love to hear from you! Do you have ideas for future podcasts? Want to be a guest on our podcast? Have you tried one of our challenges and want a Shout Out? Please send your comments to:

    Email Us: WeAintDeadYetPod@gmail.com

    Follow the show on Facebook

    Visit our Website

    Listen Here! (Our linktree will direct you to Spotify, Apple Podcasts, GoodPods, and Pocket Casts). Subscribing to WADY is a free, quick way to ensure new episodes are automatically delivered to your device. Just click "Subscribe" or "Follow" in whichever app you use to listen.

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    Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. Eleanor Roosevelt

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    49 分
  • Getting Underneath the Clothes We Wear
    2026/07/14

    Ladies let's open our closets! In this fun and funny episode we talk with Jacqui Getz, a New York based stylist who helps women in midlife translate who they are becoming into what they wear. Who do we get dressed for in the morning? Why do we buy the clothes we buy? And how can we add creativity and zing to our lives just by getting more intentional about what we choose to wear? We get into it all, and we go deep as Jacqui shares her personal journey of grieving the loss of her husband just weeks ago, and how she is finding strength in getting dressed, and defining who she wants to be in this new chapter of her life. Join us for an oh-so-relatable conversation about what we wear and what it says about how we feel about ourselves, who we are, and who we might want to become at this time in life.

    SHOW NOTES

    Substack- https://substack.com/@jacquigetz
    Instagram: instagram.com/@thedetailsofstyle.com
    Website- detailsofstyle.com
    https://www.ageist.com/profile/jacqui-getz-64-pro-age-style/

    We also do a quick check-in with Suzanne Newman, Image Consultant, Chicago. Suzanne shares a few quick tips for reinventing your wardrobe and updating your look.

    https://findfashionhappiness.com/about-suzanne-newman-image-consultant/




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    Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. Eleanor Roosevelt

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    48 分
  • The Silver Bullet for Your Health: The Science of Friendship
    2026/07/02

    Join us as we chat with Jaimie Krem, friendship scientist and founding director of the UCLA Center for Friendship Research. We discuss how friendship is a “silver bullet” in terms of the many health benefits it brings, including improvements in cardiovascular health, sleep, immune function, and reduced risk of mental illness and dementia. Jaimie describes how venting to your friends can be a manipulative, but effective social strategy. We contemplate the differences between men’s and women’s friendships, ponder what to call the process of “friend flirting or dating,” and examine the importance of intergenerational friendships. Finally, for those more wonkily inclined, Jaimie discusses her fascinating research on the neuroscience of friendship.

    And don’t forget to hang around for our “After Thoughts” where Lori and Constance unpack the episode and chat about our thoughts on what we heard.

    SHOW NOTES

    Jaimie's TedX Talk on Friendship

    UCLA Social Minds Lab

    UCLA Center for Friendship Research

    NYT Article About The Benefits of Age-Gap Friendships

    The Friendship Advice Experts Swear By, NYT


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    Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. Eleanor Roosevelt

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    42 分
  • Navigating the Hard Stuff Together
    2026/06/27

    Join Constance and Lori for a personal catch-up episode, after a short podcasting break. They discuss recent health challenges, grandchildren, and grief. As always, expect some laughter and some tears as they explore themes of aging, the complex nature of caregiving, and maintaining connections with deceased loved ones. Please join us for this intimate discussion.

    And, please reach out to us with your own stories about these topics. We'd love to hear the good, the bad and they ugly. Let us know if you'd like us to shout out your story during the next episode.

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    Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. Eleanor Roosevelt

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    28 分