In this episode, Sarah explores why the inner critic exists and how it often tries to protect us from perceived risks like rejection, failure, or judgement. The challenge is that while it may have good intentions, it can also keep us stuck, holding back from the opportunities we truly want.

Sarah shares three practical strategies to help you quieten your inner critic and strengthen your inner coach so you can move forward with more confidence and self-trust.

00:00 – Welcome to Unstuck and Unstoppable

01:17 – Episode introduction: The inner critic

Why this topic comes up frequently in coaching sessions and how it affects confidence, career progression, and leadership.

02:15 – What the inner critic sounds like

Common thoughts that trigger self-doubt and prevent action.

03:20 – Why we actually have an inner critic

Understanding the brain’s role in protecting us from physical and emotional risk.

05:00 – How limiting beliefs fuel the inner critic

Where these beliefs come from and how they become ammunition for self-doubt.

06:10 – Your inner narrative and the story you tell yourself

How unconscious scripts shape what you believe is possible for you.

07:10 – Strategy 1: Notice and rewrite the narrative

Becoming aware of the story you’re telling yourself and consciously editing it.

08:05 – Flipping the script

Using the perspective of how you would speak to a friend to create a more empowering narrative.

08:40 – Strategy 2: Evidence-based reframing

Using real achievements and experiences to challenge the inner critic.

09:25 – Client example: Recovering confidence after burnout

How reframing helped a client rebuild trust in herself and pursue leadership again.

11:20 – Strategy 3: Create distance from your inner critic

Naming and externalising the inner critic to reduce its power.

12:20 – Real client example: Visualising and managing the inner critic

How one creative technique dramatically quietened a client’s inner critic.

13:10 – Strengthening your inner coach

Why self-trust is essential for leadership growth.

14:05 – Reflection exercise for listeners

A simple question to help you challenge your inner critic this week.

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Episode 51: How to Change Your Inner Critic into Your Inner Coach

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Your inner critic isn’t trying to sabotage you - it’s trying to protect you. But when you learn how to rewrite the story it’s telling and strengthen your inner coach, you create the confidence and self-trust needed to step into bigger opportunities.

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If you’re working hard but not getting the traction, visibility or progression you want, this episode will help you understand why.

Sarah breaks down the four core Influence Blockers she sees repeatedly in senior female leaders - the hidden patterns that quietly limit confidence, authority, and advancement. Once you can spot your blocker, you can shift it.

[00:00] Welcome to Unstuck and Unstoppabl-

[02:00] Why Hard Work Isn’t Enough

The unconscious patterns that hold capable women back.

[03:30] The Four Influence Blockers Overview

An introduction to the four key categories.

[04:00] Blocker 1: Internal Confidence & Identity

Second-guessing yourself, overthinking meetings, still feeling the need to prove your capability - and how this shrinks your influence.

[06:00] Blocker 2: Communication & Presence

Softening your message, over-explaining, speaking late in meetings, and why executive presence determines how much weight your words carry.

[07:00] Blocker 3: Strategic Positioning

Staying operational instead of visible at a strategic level. Why being excellent at delivery doesn’t automatically position you for promotion.

(Referenced: Episode 66 on strengthening strategic thinking.)

[08:30] Blocker 4: Environment & Power Dynamics

Navigating dominant personalities, organisational politics, and male-dominated cultures - and how your response shapes your influence.

[10:00] The Real Cost of Not Addressing Your Blocker

Staying stuck, being overlooked, watching less capable peers move ahead - and the damage self-doubt can cause.

[11:30] Your Action Step

Identify your primary blocker and decide what action you’ll take to shift the pattern.

[12:30] How to Get Support

How coaching can accelerate your influence and position you for the next level.

Influence blockers aren’t capability gaps - they’re patterns. And patterns can be changed.

If you’re ready to stop playing small and start positioning yourself as the leader you already are, this episode will give you the clarity to begin.

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Episode 66 Strengthening Your Strategic Thinking: From Operational to Big Picture

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In this episode, Sarah shares a practical four-part framework to help you decide your next leadership move when you’re feeling stuck, flat, or ready for more. If you’re successful on paper but something feels off, this episode will help you turn that restlessness into useful data and make a thoughtful, aligned career decision instead of drifting or making a reactive move.

Whether your next step is redesigning your current role or moving on, Sarah walks you through how to reconnect with your energy, ambition, strengths, and the realities of the market so you can move forward with clarity and confidence.

1. Why feeling restless in your role is not a problem, but valuable information
2. The biggest mistake leaders make when choosing their next role
3. How to avoid career drift and make intentional career decisions
4. A simple four-step framework to evaluate your next leadership move
5. How to use your energy, successes, ambition, and market insight as decision tools
6. Why your next move might be within your current organisation, not outside it

[00:00] Introduction to the podcast and Sarah’s mission

[01:00] Why even successful leaders feel stuck

The reality of self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and losing alignment in senior roles.

[01:40] Episode focus: Choosing your next leadership move

Who this episode is for and why clarity matters before making a move.

[02:40] The danger of reacting instead of reflecting

How overwhelm and gratitude guilt keep leaders stuck or lead to poor decisions.

[04:00] Restlessness is data, not failure

Why your dissatisfaction is a signal to explore, not suppress.

[05:00] Framework Part 1: Internal Signals – Your Energy

Identifying what energises you, what drains you, and what that reveals.

[06:30] Framework Part 2: Experiential Proof – Your Success Patterns

Looking at your proudest moments and what they tell you about your strengths and direction.

[08:00] Framework Part 3: Ambition – What You Really Want

Clarifying your desired impact, challenge, growth, and learning.

[08:50] Framework Part 4: Market Reality – What’s Available

Understanding how your skills and experience align with real opportunities.

[09:40] Your next move might be where you are

How to assess whether to reshape your current role instead of leaving.

[10:15] Connecting the dots to make the right decision

Using the framework as criteria to evaluate future opportunities.

[11:00] How to access Sarah’s leadership clarity framework

How to request the tool and get support applying it.

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