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  • 63. Breaking the Silence: Men’s Mental Health & the Courage to Heal — with Dr. Gilda Carle
    2025/07/03

    In this empowering and insightful episode of the Undeletable Dad Podcast, Tracy sits down with the renowned relationship and business expert, Dr. Gilda Carle. Famously known as the "Love Doctor" from her MTV days, Dr. Gilda brings decades of experience and wisdom into an often-overlooked topic—men’s mental health.

    Drawing from her newest, thought-provoking book, "Real Men Don't Go Woke," Dr. Gilda sheds light on the hidden crisis of men's emotional well-being, revealing alarming statistics around depression, loneliness, and suicide rates among men, particularly those facing challenges like parental alienation, divorce, and isolation.

    Episode Highlights:

    • Men’s Silent Crisis

      • Why men often suffer in silence and the alarming statistic that suicide is the leading cause of death for men under 50.

      • Insightful discussion about celebrities like Howie Mandel, Pete Davidson, Simon Cowell, and Will Smith, highlighting that even seemingly successful men struggle deeply behind the scenes.

    • The Book Behind the Conversation

      • Dr. Gilda reveals why major publishers rejected her book due to its provocative title and how she bravely took the publishing journey into her own hands.

      • How this book, described as "a love story for men," has resonated globally, reaching readers who felt isolated and alone in their experiences.

    • Understanding the Woke Narrative

      • A deep dive into why "woke" culture poses unique challenges to men's self-esteem and emotional health.

      • Discussion on why society quickly labels men as "toxic," pushing some toward self-denial and despair.

    • Strategies for Emotional Mastery

      • Dr. Gilda introduces her powerful three-step approach:
        "Frame it, Claim it, Tame it" to manage anger and emotional overwhelm.

      • Practical examples and communication strategies to foster better understanding in personal and professional relationships.

    • Taking Personal Responsibility

      • Why taking responsibility for your emotional state and life circumstances is foundational to healing and personal growth.

      • Real-life anecdotes from Dr. Gilda’s extensive coaching experience, including the critical need to recognize and address one's own role in personal struggles.

    • Empowering Women to Support Men

      • How women can create emotionally safe environments for the men in their lives to openly express vulnerability without shame.

      • The importance of genuine listening and compassionate communication, breaking down misconceptions around male vulnerability.

    • Transformative Insights for Relationships

      • Dr. Gilda’s direct, no-nonsense advice about avoiding the pitfalls of victimhood, codependency, and "people-pleasing."

      • How authentic self-expression and vulnerability become the foundation for lasting and fulfilling relationships.

    About Dr. Gilda Carle:
    Dr. Gilda Carle is a celebrated relationship expert, author of 19 books, and former MTV personality known as the “Love Doctor.” She expertly combines relationship and business strategies, helping individuals and corporations communicate effectively, build resilience, and cultivate genuine connections.

    Connect with Dr. Gilda:

    • Website: drgilda.com

    • LinkedIn, Instagram, TikTok: @DrGilda

    Host Information:
    Reach out to Tracy at UndeletableDad.com for support, resources, or coaching on navigating fatherhood, parental alienation, and men’s mental health.

    Listen in, share with friends, and join the vital conversation about breaking the silence around men's mental health. It’s time to heal.

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    49 分
  • 62. Tammy Cohen: Text Messages To My Kids
    2024/07/12

    Tammy Cohen, brand messaging consultant and founder of the Women Beyond the Table Business Network is the author of Text Messages To My Kids, a book brimming with inspiration for how you (or your partner) can begin, renew or truly uplevel your connection with kids - especially those who don't live with you or who are in a phase of life where they don't seem open to hearing from you. By going where they are - ie., on their phones - you can meet them in familiar territory and get their attention in a new way. In our conversation, I highlight 10 different strategies Tammy used that any dad (or stepmom) can copy or adapt to suit their own family situation and fill a communication gap with love, attention, security and trust.



    Text Messages To My Sons: Connecting Deeply In A World of Devices is a BookFest award winner and Next Generation Indie Book Awards finalist. It's a must read for anyone looking to build a deeper connection with their loved ones!

    Contact Tammy at:

    www.tcbrandconsulting.com

    Instagram: @textmessagestomysons

    Facebook.com/Textmessagestomysons

    Facebook.com@tammyjcohen

    www.linkedin.com/in/tammy-cohen-915815143

    tammy@tcbrandconsulting.com


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    56 分
  • 61. A Single Dad's Perspective - with Mario Boucher
    2024/05/29

    Learn to trust your parenting instincts and step into authentic leadership as a father.

    Mario Boucher is open to connecting with divorced dads who want to shoot the breeze about raising kids. He can be reached at mk3boucher@gmail.com

    Visit https://undeletabledad.com to book a free call with me where we can explore different levels of support for journey of post-divorce parenting, from self-paced video programs to the accelerated transformation of VIP 1:1 coaching tailored to your exact needs .

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    33 分
  • 60. False Allegations with Attorney Charles Jamieson
    2024/05/21

    No dad ever thinks it could happen to him but thousands of such cases are brought before the courts every year.

    Knowledge is power - protect yourself with the information and preparation strategies to make sure you don't become embroiled in a scheme designed to take you out of the custody equation.

    Attorney Charles Jamieson has some free materials with valuable tips - find those at https://cjamiesonlaw.com

    Connect with me to learn what you need to stay clear of this kind of ploy and reverse engineer all the evidence you might need one day to clear your name quickly and definitively.

    Request a free consultation via my website, https://undeletabledad.com

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    23 分
  • 59. When Your Child Hits You Where It Hurts
    2024/05/20

    Reach out for a conversation about personal support, whether to find the best video program for your needs or to inquire about VIP level mentorship around settlement strategies, parenting a hostile teen or shifting your energy from a limiting victim mindset to a true Dark Horse energy.

    You can find me at https://undeletabledad.com or https://tracypoizner.com.

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    12 分
  • 57. What's Positive Fatherhood Involvement? It's Proof That You Matter.
    2024/02/02

    Drew Soleyn is a coach, creator of training programs for dads and director of Dad Central Ontario (Canada). Go to dadcentral.ca for loads of free resources and first class support for men to bring the best of themselves to parenting.

    Click here to see the infographics about Positive Father Involvement:

    https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1BHVlHmzqhph6EimJicTkaDIIRhfUF5yH?usp=sharing

    Connect with Tracy by email at tracy@undeletabledad.com to schedule a free 20-minute assessment and strategy session.

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    56 分
  • 58. Putting Kids At The Center with Kate Anthony
    2024/02/01

    It might seem counter-intuitive to invite a women's divorce coach as a guest to this podcast, but Kate Anthony is a voice of reason and a beacon of sanity for divorced mothers everywhere. Hers is a book you can confidently recommend (or gift!) to the mother of your children to help her make the wisest, most compassionate choices for your kids.

    Kate is the host of the New York Times recommended podcast The Divorce Survival Guide and author of "The D-Word: Making The Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage".

    Visit kateanthony.com for more information or connect with her on Instagram @thedivorcesurvivalguide.

    Reach out to Tracy at undeletabledad.com, or by email at tracy@undeletabledad.com

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    25 分
  • 56. Confronting a Custodial Narcissist - with Dr. Leslie Austin
    2024/01/08

    Dr. Leslie Austin is a clinical psychotherapist and nationally recognized expert on personality disorders. She's been featured on numerous network and syndicated TV programs for over 20 years. Visit her website at leslieaustin.com.


    Book a complimentary session with Tracy to explore how to get back into contact with your alienated or resistant kids, how to deal effectively with a hostile coparent or how to restore your sense of sovereign fatherhood so your kids are drawn back into your orbit where they belong.

    Contact tracy@undeletabledad.com to schedule a call.

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    57 分