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🎙️ Episode 14 — “Why Some Rooms Aren’t for Everybody (and That’s Okay)”

🔒 Exclusive doesn’t always mean elitist. Sometimes it’s the only way to keep a space sacred.
#SafeSpaces #Belonging

Think “safe space” means beanbag chairs and free coffee? Think again.
In this episode of Three for the Founders, Lybroan, Reynaldo, and Jon dig into the real meaning of sacred spaces—the rooms, circles, and communities built not just for comfort, but for survival. Spaces that hold identity, protect culture, and preserve histories too often erased.

They explore the deep roots of Black fraternities and why their existence has always been more than social. They take on the strange, rarely-named phenomenon of white “affinity spaces.” And they unpack how certain kinds of “inclusion” can quietly dismantle the very communities they claim to celebrate.

The conversation asks uncomfortable but necessary questions:

• Who really benefits when everyone is invited?
• How did Brown v. Board of Education open legal doors but shut cultural ones?
• What’s the difference between being excluded and simply not being the intended audience?
• How can well-meaning outsiders avoid unintentionally colonizing a space built for someone else’s healing?

Part history lesson, part cultural roast, part uncomfortable mirror—this episode will have you rethinking the spaces you enter, the company you keep, and what belonging actually means.

💡 Action Items for Listeners:

1. Reflect: Identify a space in your life that feels sacred to you—what protects it, and what threatens it?
2. Listen & Learn: If you’ve been an “outsider” in an affinity space, think about how you showed up—did you listen more than you spoke?
3. Engage: Share your thoughts or your own experiences with sacred spaces using #ThreeForTheFounders.
4. Discuss: Bring these questions to your next group chat, team meeting, or family dinner—see how people define “safe” differently.

🎧 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts. And if you walk away without at least one “oh… yikes” moment, you weren’t really listening.

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Okay, so here’s my take — and yes, I totally geeked out writing this: So, in this episode of Three for the Founders, these three guys from Phi Beta Sigma (it’s a fraternity, but not the wild “college movie” kind) start talking about what it actually means to “be a man” in 2025. And spoiler: it’s not just about being able to lift heavy stuff or never crying.

They talk about how old-school ideas of manhood can be kinda… broken? Like, they don’t leave space for feelings, therapy, or just saying “hey, I’m not okay.” And they explain how brotherhood means actually showing up for each other, not just fist-bumping and pretending you’re fine.

Honestly, it’s like they’re trying to upgrade masculinity so it works for real people instead of some cartoon version of a “tough guy.”

Action Items:

1. Think about what “being a man” actually means to you (even if you’re not a guy).
2. Talk to your friends about mental health without making it weird.
3. Ask your dad, uncle, or brother what they think about manhood — and actually listen.
4. Maybe… cry if you need to? No shame.

Questions to Think About:

• Who decided what “real men” are supposed to act like in the first place?
• Why is it easier for guys to talk about sports than their feelings?
• Can vulnerability be a kind of strength?
• What would happen if men stopped trying to “act tough” all the time?

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🎙️ EPISODE 12 — “The Masks We Wear, The Roots We Bury”

In this incendiary and eye-opening episode of Three for the Founders, the trio wades into America’s murkiest waters—race, identity politics, and immigration policy—with no life vest and no filter. Buckle in as Antonio dares to ask, “What if we just gave the country back to white people?” It’s not a surrender—it’s a provocation. What would it really take for America to confront its foundational contradictions?

👀 What’s Inside:

• Media manipulation, political theatre, and the weaponization of identity in the age of Trump
• “Neowhites” and the strange phenomenon of people of color aligning with oppressive ideologies
• Black and Latino tensions, internalized racism, and the exhausting chase for proximity to whiteness
• Real talk about performative patriotism, assimilation, and the trauma of conditional belonging

🤔 Questions for the Audience:

• Have you ever caught yourself shrinking your identity to fit in?
• What do you gain—or lose—by trying to be seen as “one of the good ones”?
• Who benefits when communities of color turn on each other?

🧠 Takeaways:

• Silence is not neutrality—it’s complicity.
• Identity isn’t just personal—it’s political.
• Assimilation can be a survival tactic, but at what cost?

✅ Action Items:

• Reflect: Journal about a time you felt pressured to “perform” your race or hide it.
• Engage: Talk to a friend or loved one about how media narratives have shaped their political views.
• Challenge: The next time someone says they “don’t see race,” ask them why not?

💥 Expect fire, vulnerability, and maybe even a little guilt—but mostly, expect a real conversation that doesn’t flinch. Because on Three for the Founders, if it doesn’t make you uncomfortable, we’re not doing it right.

🎧 Tune in. Think deeply. Then do something.

📅 Airs Monday, August 4, 2025
🕒 69 minutes of uncomfortable truths, raw introspection, and bold questions

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🎙️ EPISODE 11 — “When immigrants aren't illegal, just immoral!”
📅 July 28, 2025 • Three for the Founders

Let’s cut the polite talk:
Why is it that every conversation about race somehow ends up about white folks' feelings?
Why are immigrants still treated like a national security threat... in a country built by immigrants (and, let’s be honest, on stolen land)?
And what’s with the obsession over “losing our culture” when Taco Tuesday and yoga pants are doing just fine?

This week, Reynaldo, Jon, and Lybroan are stirring the pot—and they’re not holding back.

From the deficit mindset that frames white people as “under attack,” to immigration policies that read like coded warnings from a Fox News fever dream, the hosts bring receipts, perspective, and sharp-tongued honesty.

They ask:

• Who benefits when whiteness is centered in every debate?
• How do immigration laws reinforce racial hierarchy?
• And can we even have honest conversations if fear keeps driving the narrative?

💥 Spoiler alert: You can’t fix a broken house by just painting over the cracks.

Takeaways for listeners:
✅ Spot the signs of whiteness being centered in conversations
✅ Recognize fear-based political messaging (and call it out)
✅ Understand the moral and historical roots of today’s immigration policies
✅ Push past comfort to build real solidarity across racial lines

Action Items:
🧠 Question the narratives you're fed—especially the ones that feel “neutral”
🗣️ Start (or continue) conversations that decenter whiteness
📚 Learn the history your textbooks skipped
👀 Pay attention to who’s framed as a threat—and who never is

🎧 Ready to get uncomfortable in the best way possible? Press play.

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🎙️ EPISODE 10 — “Who Are We Without the Struggle?”
Air Date: July 24, 2025
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What happens when three longtime friends—Reynaldo Antonio, Jon, and Lybroan—sit down to unpack race, identity, and the meaning of brotherhood in a country still haunted by its past?

In this bonus episode, Three for the Founders gets personal. From code-switching and cultural theft to sacred Black spaces and Toni Morrison’s searing question—“What would White people be without racism?”—this conversation doesn’t just ask questions. It lives in them.

🔍 Inside the episode:
• A father’s brutal wisdom on racism and the blues
• Jon reflects on how language shapes power and perception
• Lybroan opens up about the push-and-pull of representing a group vs. owning individuality
• The unspoken rules of barbershops, friendship, and cross-cultural connection
• And why “Black people aren’t a group—we’re individuals, just like White people.”

This isn’t a think piece—it’s a feel piece. A living, breathing conversation between friends who trust each other enough to tell the truth, even when it stings.

🌀 Come for the insight, stay for the vulnerability. Leave with more questions than answers—and that’s the point.

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🎙️ New Episode: Ancillary Costs
🗓️ Jul 21, 2025 • ⏱️ 30:18

What’s the price of being the other in America? In this charged and introspective episode, Reynaldo Antonio revisits a raw, unfiltered conversation with Jon and Lybroan on the hidden tolls of racism and unspoken privileges in the U.S.

From Trump-era policies to White voting patterns that prioritize racial identity over economic survival, the brothers dig deep into the ancillary costs of white supremacy — the emotional, financial, and generational taxes paid by communities of color just to exist.

💥 Why do so many White Americans vote against their own self-interest?
💥 Is capitalism just racism with a paycheck?
💥 What does it really mean to “benefit from the system” — even if you didn’t build it?

This isn’t about guilt. It’s about reckoning.

👀 Tune in to examine the uncomfortable truths behind the quiet violence of privilege, the weaponization of denial, and the uncounted costs we rarely name — but always feel.

🎧 LISTEN. SHARE. REFLECT.
✊🏾 Tag a friend who needs to hear this.

🎯 End-of-Episode Action Items:

• Ask Yourself: Where do I sit in the system — and what do I risk to change it?
• Talk About It: Who’s in your circle that you avoid these conversations with? Start there.
• Take Inventory: What privileges have you mistaken for “normal”?

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Strap in — this week, the Three for the Founders crew is coming for the biggest unpaid invoice in American history: reparations. In a raw, unfiltered roundtable, the hosts cut through the noise and zero in on why the U.S. has never paid its debts to Black Americans.

From the Homestead Act’s land giveaways for white settlers to actual reparations paid to other groups (hello, Japanese Americans and Holocaust survivors), this conversation lays bare the hypocrisy and moral gymnastics of the American government.

The hosts come with receipts, bold proposals (think free college, housing equity, generational wealth repair), and sharp takedowns of the narratives that keep reparations stalled. Whether you think reparations are overdue or out of reach, this episode is built to challenge you.

It's truth-telling with teeth — and it just might rewire the way you think about justice, history, and America's favorite habit: selective amnesia.

🧠 Questions to Ponder (or Argue About Over Dinner)

1. What do you think reparations should look like?
   Cash payments? Free college? Housing programs? What feels like real repair?
2. Why do some Americans see reparations as “unfair” — and who taught them that?
   Is it really about fairness, or fear of accountability?
3. If we can bail out banks, fund wars, and give tax breaks to billionaires, why is reparations where we draw the line?
4. Who benefits when we don’t talk about reparations?
   Silence isn't neutral. It protects someone — but not the people harmed.
5. How would owning and addressing the crime of slavery reshape our national identity?
   Can we ever become the country we claim to be without doing this?

✅ Action Items for the Real Ones

• 📚 Educate Yourself
  Dive into real proposals like HR 40, and works by scholars like Dr. William Darity (From Here to Equality) or Ta-Nehisi Coates (“The Case for Reparations”).
• 🗣️ Start the Conversation
  Bring up reparations in your group chat, book club, or family dinner. See who squirms — and why.
• 🔎 Follow the Money
  Research how your local government, alma mater, or workplace may have profited from slavery or segregation. Many institutions already have receipts.
• 📞 Push Local Leaders
  Don’t wait on Congress. Ask your city council: What’s our reparations plan? Cities like Evanston, Chicago, and San Francisco are already testing models.
• 💵 Support Black-Led Orgs
  Invest in the folks doing the work now — mutual aid funds, education equity initiatives, housing justice orgs. Reparations isn’t just policy. It’s practice.

“Don’t just listen — rethink, respond, and resist. Reparations isn’t just a political issue. It’s a moral one. And silence is a vote to keep the status quo.”

🎙️ Three for the Founders

Air Date: July 14, 2025
Duration: 64:06 minutes

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🇺🇸 This Fourth of July, we're turning down the fireworks and turning up the conversation.

On this episode of Three for the Founders, your favorite trio of fraternity brothers dives into the powerful (and sometimes polarizing) world of American symbols — flags, mottos, and the messy meanings behind them. Why do some see the Stars and Stripes as a badge of pride while others feel left out of the celebration? From Michelle Obama’s patriotism to the Confederate flag’s dark legacy, we unpack the emotional weight symbols carry — especially for Black and White Americans navigating their own sense of national identity.

🔍 We’re talking history, we’re talking heart, and we’re not afraid to ask the uncomfortable questions.

💥 If you’ve ever stood for the anthem with a lump in your throat, taken a knee as the jets flew overhead, or felt conflicted about waving a flag, this one’s for you.

Tap in for truth, tension, and a whole lot of thoughtful perspective.

🧠 Action Item: Bring an open mind and be ready to rethink what patriotism really means in 2025.

Subscribe now and join the conversation before the barbecue begins. 🌭🇺🇸

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