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🎙️ Episode 14 — “Why Some Rooms Aren’t for Everybody (and That’s Okay)”

🔒 Exclusive doesn’t always mean elitist. Sometimes it’s the only way to keep a space sacred.
#SafeSpaces #Belonging

Think “safe space” means beanbag chairs and free coffee? Think again.
In this episode of Three for the Founders, Lybroan, Reynaldo, and Jon dig into the real meaning of sacred spaces—the rooms, circles, and communities built not just for comfort, but for survival. Spaces that hold identity, protect culture, and preserve histories too often erased.

They explore the deep roots of Black fraternities and why their existence has always been more than social. They take on the strange, rarely-named phenomenon of white “affinity spaces.” And they unpack how certain kinds of “inclusion” can quietly dismantle the very communities they claim to celebrate.

The conversation asks uncomfortable but necessary questions:

• Who really benefits when everyone is invited?
• How did Brown v. Board of Education open legal doors but shut cultural ones?
• What’s the difference between being excluded and simply not being the intended audience?
• How can well-meaning outsiders avoid unintentionally colonizing a space built for someone else’s healing?

Part history lesson, part cultural roast, part uncomfortable mirror—this episode will have you rethinking the spaces you enter, the company you keep, and what belonging actually means.

💡 Action Items for Listeners:

1. Reflect: Identify a space in your life that feels sacred to you—what protects it, and what threatens it?
2. Listen & Learn: If you’ve been an “outsider” in an affinity space, think about how you showed up—did you listen more than you spoke?
3. Engage: Share your thoughts or your own experiences with sacred spaces using #ThreeForTheFounders.
4. Discuss: Bring these questions to your next group chat, team meeting, or family dinner—see how people define “safe” differently.

🎧 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts. And if you walk away without at least one “oh… yikes” moment, you weren’t really listening.

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