What if you could replace a lifetime of self doubt with a daily practice of self love? So many of us, especially women over 40, struggle with the feeling that we are not enough. We put everyone else’s needs before our own and forget how to prioritize ourselves. This conversation is a powerful reminder that you are worthy of your own love and attention.

In this episode of Whinypaluza, Rebecca Greene sits down with Theresa Paganini, the founder of eLOVEate and a no-nonsense self-love mentor. Theresa shares her personal journey of overcoming self-rejection and an eating disorder to build a life of unapologetic confidence. She offers practical, actionable advice on how to build a consistent self-love practice, show up with confidence in all areas of your life, and finally break free from the patterns that are holding you back.

Here are six key takeaways from their conversation:

→ Your past is your because, not your blame. It is the reason for your journey, not an excuse to stay stuck.

→ Self-love is about prioritizing your own needs and wants. It is not selfish, it is essential.

→ We do our children a disservice when we do not trust them to be resilient and figure things out on their own.

→ When you know your worth, you will get what you are worth. Do not be afraid to ask for what you deserve.

→ Complimenting others is a simple way to make both them and you feel good. Spread love and kindness wherever you go.

→ Food loses its power when you step into your own power. When you own your emotions, you no longer need to hide behind food.

This conversation is a must-listen for any woman who is ready to stop shrinking and start living a life of authentic, unapologetic self-love. Listen to the full episode to learn how you can start your own self-love journey today. Subscribe to Whinypaluza for more conversations that will help you laugh, learn, and love.

To learn more about Theresa Paganini and her work, visit her website at eLOVEate.com. You can also connect with her to learn more about her eLOVEate program and how she helps women over 40 build lasting confidence.

We are bringing back a true fan favorite from 2024.

As the Greene family is grieving the loss of their sweet dog, Tanner, this conversation feels like the kind of steady, supportive reminder we all need, especially when life feels heavy. If you have kids (or love someone who does), this one is worth a re-listen.

Building self-confidence in children is a pivotal aspect of their development, and there are practical ways to strengthen it without adding pressure or unrealistic expectations.

Join Rebecca Greene, Whinypaluza’s podcast host, and her husband, Seth Greene, CEO of Market Domination LLC, as they share their perspective on what actually helps kids build confidence. They talk about encouraging children to try new things, discover their passions, and focus on personal goals. They also caution against the harmful effects of comparison, especially between siblings or friends, and instead encourage resilience and a growth mindset. The Greenes highlight the role of supportive adults in a child’s life, including teachers and coaches, and the impact of open communication, celebrating progress, and recognizing a child’s uniqueness.

Key Takeaways:

💪 The power of constructive feedback in building kids’ confidence

🌿 Fostering confidence through independent exploration

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 The impact of birth order on children’s experiences

🌱 Building a growth mindset through self comparison, not peer comparison

🤝 How support and encouragement help kids take healthy risks

🎉 Creating an environment where kids feel seen, capable, and celebrated

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This heartfelt Valentine’s Day episode brings you inside Rebecca and Seth Greene’s 22-year love story—from their almost-Valentine's first date to the lessons learned through parenting, conflict, and connection. With humor, vulnerability, and zero filters, they reflect on marriage, growth, and how love evolves when you choose each other every day.

They talk about rituals that keep them close, TikTok marriage hacks, parenting chaos, and even managing a podcast mid-kid-pickup. It’s real, it’s romantic, and it’s Rebecca and Seth at their most honest and endearing.

Top Takeaways:

→ Your first date may not fall on Valentine's Day—but the story is what matters.

→ Love grows through daily micro-moments (coffee runs, foot rubs, showing up).

→ Marriages thrive when you recommit daily—not just yearly.

→ Conflict isn’t failure—it's growth if you repair it well.

→ Parenting is the most intense (and rewarding) team sport.

Quote from Rebecca:

“Marriage is two imperfect people who never give up on each other.”

Quote from Seth:

“I want to be married to you every single day—and I want you to want to stay married to me every day too.”

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💌 Share this episode with someone you love—or someone who needs to hear real talk about lasting love.

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