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In this episode of The Well Self Podcast, Dr. Nicole and Coach John are joined by guest Pablo Del Real of Soil & Soul for a powerful conversation about what it really means to build an intentional community.

Pablo shares wisdom on how community doesn’t just happen by chance — it’s something we actively cultivate through effort, self-awareness, courage, and kindness. From finding the right people to learning how to get along, work together, and grow together, this episode explores the deeper work behind creating spaces where people can truly thrive.

The conversation also dives into spiritual wellness, the importance of healthy boundaries, and how “pruning” old beliefs, habits, and dynamics can make room for real growth. Just like a plant needs care to flourish, our relationships and communities need intentional attention to become strong, supportive, and life-giving.

If you’ve been craving deeper connection or wondering how to build a community that aligns with your values, this episode is for you!

How are you intentionally fostering your community today? Join the conversation by listening to the episode and commenting below!🌿

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Have you ever wondered what spirituality really is—beyond church and tradition?

✨ Drop a 🔥 if you've been deconstructing your beliefs or redefining what faith means to you.

Today’s conversation with leaders from different backgrounds showed me how our connection to spirit isn’t confined to one box. Whether it’s ancestors, nature, or the Holy Spirit—how we define spirituality evolves as we grow. Our guests shared their perspectives: Wiley pointed out that spirituality is community—our collective strength handed down through generations. Jr. shared how deconstruction isn’t about rejecting faith but liberating ourselves from trauma and old narratives. And Wesley’s experience in the UK shows that spiritual awakening is happening globally, breaking barriers and building bridges.

What does spirituality look like for you? How does it serve your culture and community? Let’s talk in comments — we want to hear your journey!

✨Remember: true spirituality is about freedom, connection, and community.

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What if the hardest diagnosis becomes the moment you find your voice? 🤔

In this conversation, entrepreneur and our cousin Amanda shares what it looked like to face breast cancer twice and still choose to keep living with intention, courage, and honesty. She talks about the power of advocating for yourself, asking direct questions, and refusing to let fear or pity define your experience.

One of the biggest lessons we want to share with our community from this conversation is that you do not have to accept every story someone else tells you about your body, your future, or your recovery.
💭 You can ask for facts.
💭 You can ask for a second opinion.
💭 You can say, “That doesn’t feel normal for me.”
💭 You can protect your peace by choosing support that actually supports you.

Healing is not only physical — it is emotional, mental, and deeply personal. Sometimes the most helpful thing you can do is stay grounded in what is true, keep doing the things that bring you joy, and make space for life even in the middle of treatment. 🙂

This conversation is a reminder that you are allowed to be strong, to be scared, to be tired, and still keep going. You are allowed to make your own rules for how you want to move through hard seasons. And you are allowed to believe that there is life after diagnosis — and life during it too.

Listen in to this meaningful conversation and if it resonates with you, share it with someone who needs encouragement.

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Are we really in control of our money, or are we just going with the flow?

We admit, for years we were just spending without a plan—and it showed.

Budgeting isn’t exciting, but it’s your financial roadmap. Drop a 💡 if this resonates.Your money tells a story about your priorities.

In our latest episode, we chat with debt consultant Junior Walker and his spouse/ instructional designer Fela on how creating an intentional budgeting plan can change everything. This conversation will encourage you to not just spend, but to allocate, save, and keep our eyes on the goal.

Smart budgeting isn’t about deprivation; it’s about intentionality—knowing where every dollar goes and having a plan for life’s surprises. That’s how you build real freedom.

Want to take control? Start small, track spending, and don’t be discouraged if it feels awkward at first. Keep revisiting your goals, and adjust as you grow.

Are you ready to see where your money is really going? Listen in, tag someone who needs to hear this, and share your feedback with us!

Disclaimer: The Well Self Podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as financial, investment, tax, or legal advice. Listeners should consult a qualified professional before making any financial decisions.

Any products, services, books, or resources mentioned on this podcast are shared for informational purposes only. Unless explicitly stated, they are not sponsors of the podcast and no endorsement is implied.

The views expressed by hosts and guests are their own and do not guarantee any specific outcomes. The Well Self Podcast and its hosts are not responsible for any actions taken based on the content shared.

By listening, you agree that you use this information at your own discretion and risk.

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Take a breath with us for a few moments--

Money doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. 💡

In this conversation, financial advisor Jennifer Lee breaks it down: financial wellness isn’t about being perfect with money. It starts with getting honest about your money story, getting clear on what you actually want, and taking just one small, doable step today.

Whether you’re in the middle of a big life transition, working to build something better for your family, or simply staring at your bank app wondering “what now?” — this one’s for you.

Remember this:
✨ Money is a tool, not a measure of your worth. You get to decide how to use it.
✨ Having a plan gives you power — even a tiny plan counts.
✨ And it is never, ever too late to start. Not today, not at 40, not at 60.You don’t need to overhaul everything overnight. You just need one step. Pay one bill with intention. Write down one goal. Move $10 to savings.

That’s it. You’ve got this, friend. One small step today can shift everything tomorrow.
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What’s one small money move you can make this week? Drop it below — we're cheering you on! 👇 And listen to the episode and tell us what you think!

Disclosure statement: Discussions in this show should not be construed as specific recommendations or investment advice. Always consult with your investment professional before making important investment decisions. Securities offered through Cambridge Investment Research, Inc., a registered Broker/Dealer, Member FINRA/SIPC. Advisory services offered through Cambridge Investment Research Advisors, Inc., a Registered Investment Advisor. Modern-Wealth, LLC and Cambridge are not affiliated.

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Ever wondered if locks are truly unprofessional? 🤔
Spoiler: That myth is totally busted!
Think your style won't be accepted in the workplace? Think again! 💼✨

Drop a 🔥 if you’ve faced this stereotype—because it’s time we set the record straight!

For years, the misconception that locks are dirty or unkempt kept many from embracing their true beauty. But guess what? Locking your hair won’t make you less professional—it’s a personal choice rooted in culture, spirit, and self-love. 🥰

From ancient Egypt to modern workplaces, locks have always told a story of strength and identity.
Your hair is your crown, and like any crown, it deserves care, respect, and understanding. Whether you’re considering locking your hair or already on the journey, remember: style and professionalism are what you define.

What’s a myth about locks you’ve overheard? Drop it below and let’s break it today.
Join us as we chat with our dear friend and loctician Allmarie Coote for a conversation full of honesty and love from a stylist who sees your beauty in every phase.

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IG: @harmonycoachingwellness, @thewellselfpodcast, @coachjohn1

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Our hair is talking. Are we listening?

Turns out, our hair is telling us way more than what style is trending ✨

Hit us with a 💡 if you’ve ever felt like your hair and your wellness are connected. Guess what--they are! Hair is made of protein, but it’s also a record.
Of our health.
Our stress.
Our culture.
Our history.
Thinning? Breakage? Dullness? Those aren’t just “bad hair days.” They’re signals. And ignoring them is like muting a part of yourself.

Real hair health starts when we understand what our hair is made up of and how it reacts to our lives. Scalp care. Ingredients. Daily habits. It all counts, because your hair keeps score and reflects what’s happening inside.
So maybe the next step in our hair health isn’t another product. Maybe it’s listening. Really listening. And giving our hair the respect it’s been asking for.

What’s your hair trying to tell you right now? Watch and listen to our latest episode with our dear friend and loctician Allmarie Coote and drop us a comment below!

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We've spent years thinking we had to fix every miscommunication immediately, but the truth is, growth in communication isn’t linear — it’s ongoing.

In our recent chat, we shared how our conversations have evolved over time. How starting out, our words reflected who we wanted to be. Now, they reveal who we truly are — behind the scenes, we are raw and imperfect.

We’re learning that our conversations--those moments are not moments to conquer, but an unfolding journey of understanding, patience, and timing.

Sometimes, it’s about knowing when to speak, and other times, simply knowing how to listen.
And honestly? We’ve found that expecting perfection or quick fixes only creates more frustration. It’s about building a space of respect, awareness, and intentionality — especially when the energy around us feels chaotic.

Maybe that’s the point: communication isn’t about having it all figured out. It’s about showing up for each other, even in the mess.

Worth thinking about.

We invite you to join our conversation as we consider ways to work together within our most intimate relationships. Share your thoughts with us!

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