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This episode explores the nature of trauma, its impact on our lives, and the path to healing and joy. The core idea is that the "past following you around" is actually a form of self-separation—a subconscious attempt to outrun a wounded part of yourself.
Understanding Trauma and Its Impact
Ayurvedic Doctor Jeannine Rashidi defines trauma as any event that overwhelms the mind-body system, causing the psyche to disconnect. The impact of a traumatic event is highly personal, influenced by an individual's innate nature and sensitivity. The severity and duration of the event, as well as the support received, also play a crucial role. A painful event leaves an impression that can create imbalances in our relationships with ourselves and others.
Ayu Dr. Jeannine describes a "Trauma Trigger Time Loop Experience," where a person gets stuck in a past event. When triggered, their emotional, mental, and physical responses are driven by that past experience rather than the present moment. This can lead to confusing and self-sabotaging behavior.
Dr. Alina Soto adds that healing involves confronting the "inconvenient truth" that a painful experience hurt you, a difficult but necessary step to reconnect with yourself. Breaking the Cycle of Pain Both doctors emphasize that the key to healing is to stop resisting the truth of your painful past and take back your power of choice.
Recognize Your Patterns: Dr. Alina shares their experience of building a tough exterior to outrun past emotional and psychological abuse, only to find they couldn't escape the parts of themselves they disliked. Similarly, Dr. Rashidi reflects on a lifetime of abusive relationships that mirrored her parents' behavior. The first step to breaking this cycle is to acknowledge that you are the common denominator in your life's recurring patterns.
Reclaim Your Power: Dr. Alina's clinical definition of trauma is "The I can't story." This belief—that we are powerless—is often rooted in a mindset that confuses discipline with punishment. The hard truth is that staying stuck is a choice. Healing is about realizing your power of choice isn't lost; it's waiting for you to use it.
Choose Wisely: Ayu Dr. Jeannine realized her mistake was waiting for others to change, which led to a series of dysfunctional relationships. She learned that a true act of grace is to leave a situation that isn't working for you. Dr. Alina adds that true healing involves finding a relationship where you can be yourself, without trying to change yourself or the other person. The simple, repeated question to ask yourself is, "What is the mistake I keep making?"
Through her book, Abundance Beyond Trauma, Ayu Dr. Jeannine offers a process called EDHIR® to help people release and digest these painful impressions. Both doctors attest that healing is possible and that the joy of moving beyond these experiences is worth the work.
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