Kind leadership isn’t about being nice all the time. It’s about leading with respect and care, without falling into the trap of people-pleasing.

In this episode, I unpack some of the common misconceptions about kind leadership. Thoughtful leaders often gravitate towards kindness, but it can backfire if we confuse kindness with always saying yes or avoiding difficult conversations.

You’ll hear:

• Why kindness doesn’t mean weakness
• The difference between being nice and being kind
• How to set boundaries and still be seen as a considerate leader
• Examples of how kind leadership can actually make your team stronger

If you’re someone who cares about your team but sometimes struggles with setting expectations or saying no, this one’s for you.

Resources:

• Explore 1:1 coaching to build your confidence as a thoughtful leader: Leadership Coaching Page
• Blog: How Letting Go Will Help You Take Control.

Ambitious team members can be exciting to lead, but they can also be tricky to manage. So how do you support them without burning out yourself?

In this episode, I explore what to do when you’re leading someone with big goals, a strong drive, and a desire to move quickly.

These employees often have great potential but without the right leadership, they can become frustrated, disengaged or even disruptive to your team.

If you’ve got a team member who’s eager for more, this episode will help you navigate their energy in a healthy, productive way.

• Common challenges leaders face with highly ambitious employees
• Three key principles to lead with clarity: honesty, accountability and follow-through
• How to help your team member see the real gap between where they are and where they want to go
• Why telling them to “just be patient” is usually a mistake
• Practical ways to give effective feedback and keep expectations clear

🎯 Key takeaway: You can support ambition without over-promising or overextending yourself. Leading well means being honest and realistic – while also being encouraging and fair.

• 10 Simple and Effective Tips for Giving Feedback
• The Useful Thinking Journal
• Team Accountability Builder Online Course
• Episode 71 – A Simple Model for Team Motivation
• Episode 254 – Prioritising the Career Conversation
• Private Leadership Coaching

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Are you staying in a job that no longer supports you, just because you feel loyal to your team or unsure of your next step?

It’s a common challenge for thoughtful leaders. In this episode, I explore why we sometimes stay too long in roles that aren’t working, and how to start thinking clearly about whether it’s time to move on.

• Why staying to “protect” your team might actually hold everyone back
• How toxic leadership can damage your self-esteem and confidence
• Why trying to “fix” your boss or workplace can keep you stuck
• How to start deciding whether to stay or go – in a clear, grounded way.

• The Iceberg Model of Human Behaviour
• The Useful Thinking Journal
• Working For an Insecure Manager? Here’s What to Do
• Work With Me 1:1.

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