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  • How I Learned To Regulate My Nervous System & What Happened
    2025/07/04

    Release Stored Emotions and Reset Your Nervous System With Proven Somatic Tools Taught by Thais Gibson. Buy the Course for $19 (Regularly $250). Limited-Time Offer: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-somatic?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-somatic&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-07-04-25&el=podcast

    Do you ever feel emotionally overwhelmed, exhausted, or stuck in cycles of stress and burnout? If your nervous system feels constantly “on,” like you can never fully relax or be present—this episode is for you.

    In this solo episode, Thais Gibson shares how nervous system dysregulation quietly sabotages your relationships, health, and personal growth and how somatic tools can help you shift from fight-or-flight into peace, presence, and healing. Drawing from personal experience and polyvagal theory, Thais explains how learning to regulate your body transforms your emotional landscape.

    You’ll learn:

    • ✅ The difference between sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous system states

    • ✅ How trauma trains your body to stay in fight-or-flight

    • ✅ Why emotional reactivity feels “bigger” when you're dysregulated

    • ✅ Practical somatic habits to reset your system—no fancy tools required

    • ✅ What most people are really doing when they binge eat, drink, or scroll

    • ✅ Why your energy crashes (and how to access a second wind without burnout)

    • ✅ How to stop coping and start creating from a place of grounded peace

    Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

    Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

    📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

    Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

    #SomaticHealing #NervousSystemReset #PolyvagalTheory #ThaisGibson #EmotionalRegulation #PersonalDevelopment #StressReliefTools #HealingTrauma #BurnoutRecovery #MindBodyConnection

    💬 Love this episode? Please subscribe, leave a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review, and share it with someone who needs a nervous system reset today!

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    14 分
  • 5 Signs the Person You’re Dating Is Securely Attached
    2025/06/30

    💞 Want to become secure and attract healthy love? Start the 6 Pillars to a Secure Relationship course FREE for 7 days! 👉 https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-pillars-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=june-promo&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=podcast-episode&utm_content=pod-06-14-25&el=podcast

    Curious if the person you're dating is actually secure—or just seems that way? When it comes to building a healthy relationship, recognizing secure traits early on can save you months (or years) of confusion, anxiety, or emotional push-pull.

    In this insightful episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the five core traits of a securely attached partner. From how they handle conflict to how they set boundaries, you’ll learn how to spot emotional maturity and relational balance—so you can date with clarity, confidence, and peace of mind.

    🎯 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
    • Why emotional transparency is a hallmark of secure attachment

    • How securely attached partners handle conflict and miscommunication

    • The difference between interdependence and codependence

    • What healthy vulnerability really looks like in dating

    • How boundary-setting helps secure people stay balanced in life and love

    👩‍🏫 Meet the Host

    Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. 🔗 Learn more about Thais

    🧰 Helpful Resources

    🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

    📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

    📲 Connect With Us on Social

    📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

    #SecureAttachment #HealthyRelationships #DatingAdvice #AttachmentStyles #EmotionalIntelligence #ThaisGibson #PDSPodcast #RelationshipTips #SelfAwareness #EmotionalMaturity

    ✨ If this episode gave you clarity, please subscribe, rate, or share it with someone navigating the dating world. Knowing what secure looks like changes everything. ✨

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  • Do These 6 Things to Become Securely Attached in 90 Days (Integrated Attachment Theory)
    2025/06/27

    🔐 Ready to heal and rewire your attachment style? Start the 6 Pillars to a Secure Relationship course FREE for 7 days—yours to keep for life! 👉 https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-pillars-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=june-promo&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=podcast-episode&utm_content=pod-06-14-25&el=podcast

    Tired of cycling through insecure relationships or struggling with painful patterns you can’t seem to break? Change is closer than you think.

    In this powerful episode, Thais Gibson shares the exact 6-step framework from her Integrated Attachment Theory to help you become securely attached in just 90 days. Based on thousands of case studies and the unique needs of each attachment style, this roadmap integrates subconscious reprogramming, emotional regulation, and identity transformation—giving you a real path to lasting healing and secure love.

    🎯 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
    • The key differences between traditional and Integrated Attachment Theory (IAT)

    • How insecure patterns are wired into your subconscious—and how to rewire them

    • The 6 core areas you must master to become secure (including emotional regulation, needs, and boundaries)

    • How to use subconscious tools like repetition and somatic work for real transformation

    • What 92% of committed PDS students did to become securely attached in 90 days

    👩‍🏫 Meet the Host

    Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. 🔗 Learn more about Thais

    🧰 Helpful Resources

    🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

    📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

    📲 Connect With Us on Social

    📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

    #SecureAttachment #AttachmentStyles #IntegratedAttachmentTheory #EmotionalHealing #ThaisGibson #SelfWorth #HealingJourney #SubconsciousReprogramming #PDSPodcast #PersonalGrowth

    ✨ If you’re ready to rewire your attachment style and experience real love, please subscribe, rate, and share this episode with someone on their healing journey. Healing is possible—and it starts with the right tools. ✨

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  • How to Stop Feeling Insecure in Relationships (Anxious Preoccupied Attachment Style)
    2025/06/23

    💞 Heal your attachment style with Thais Gibson’s signature course: The 6 Pillars to a Secure Relationship—FREE 7-day trial starts today! 👉 https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-pillars-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=june-promo&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=podcast-episode&utm_content=pod-06-14-25&el=podcast

    Do you often feel panicked when your partner pulls away or worry they’ll stop loving you out of the blue? For the anxious preoccupied, relationships can feel like an emotional rollercoaster—but it doesn’t have to be this way.

    In this transformative episode, Thais Gibson explores the roots of insecurity for the anxious preoccupied attachment style and offers clear tools to help you feel safe, seen, and secure—without needing constant reassurance. Learn how to reconnect with yourself, meet your own needs, and communicate with confidence.

    🎯 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
    • Why unmet needs trigger panic and identity loss in anxious preoccupied individuals

    • How to develop a secure sense of self by identifying and meeting your own needs

    • Why the traits you seek in others often mirror what you're ready to strengthen in yourself

    • How advocating for your needs reduces insecurity and increases relationship satisfaction

    • How to challenge assumptions about abandonment and rejection before they sabotage connection

    👩‍🏫 Meet the Host

    Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. 🔗 Learn more about Thais

    🧰 Helpful Resources

    🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

    📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

    📲 Connect With Us on Social

    📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

    #AnxiousAttachment #RelationshipInsecurity #AttachmentStyles #HealingJourney #ThaisGibson #EmotionalHealing #SelfWorth #PDSPodcast #InnerSecurity #HealthyRelationships

    ✨ If this episode resonated with you, be sure to subscribe, rate, or share it with someone who could use extra support and validation in love. You’re not alone. ✨

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  • How to Stop Feeling Insecure in Relationships (Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style)
    2025/06/20

    🧠 Heal your attachment style with Thais Gibson’s 6 Pillars to a Secure Relationship course—FREE 7-day trial (yours to keep, for life!) 👉 https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-pillars-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=june-promo&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=podcast-episode&utm_content=pod-06-14-25&el=podcast

    Fearful avoidants often feel confident at the start of a relationship—until deeper commitments trigger the old fear of betrayal, mistrust, or not being “good enough.” If this sounds familiar, you’re not broken—you're responding to past emotional injuries that can be healed.

    In this compassionate episode, Thais Gibson dives deep into the core insecurities of the fearful avoidant attachment style and shares practical steps to help you build inner safety, trust others, and receive love without perfectionism. Learn how to move beyond the rollercoaster and into lasting emotional security.

    🎯 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
    • Why fearful avoidants often feel most secure in the dating stage—and what changes later

    • How trust wounds develop and get triggered in relationships

    • What a “fragmented internal trust baseline” is and how to reprogram it

    • Why hiding your flaws keeps you from building real trust

    • How to release perfectionism and reclaim your worth—even on your worst days

    👩‍🏫 Meet the Host

    Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. 🔗 Learn more about Thais

    🧰 Helpful Resources

    🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

    📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

    📲 Connect With Us on Social

    📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

    #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipInsecurity #SelfWorth #HealingJourney #EmotionalHealing #ThaisGibson #TrustIssues #PDSPodcast #PersonalGrowth

    ✨ Found this episode helpful? Please subscribe, rate, or share it with someone on their healing journey. Your support makes a difference! ✨

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    9 分
  • The Dismissive Avoidant Patterns Around Sex That Change EVERYTHING
    2025/06/19

    Build Amazing Connections With Our 7 Day All-access Course Pass and Keep Our "Key Pillars to Secure Attachment" Course Fully Free for Life (Valued at $250!). Check It Out and Claim This Free Gift Before They Run Out! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-pillars-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=june-promo&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=podcast-episode&utm_content=pod-06-19-25&el=podcast

    Why do dismissive avoidant partners sometimes pull away after intimacy—or seem disconnected during it? If you've ever felt confused, hurt, or triggered in these moments, you're not alone. This episode is here to bring you clarity, compassion, and a path forward.

    In this powerful and revealing conversation, Thais Gibson and co-host Mike delve into the hidden emotional patterns behind the dismissive avoidant attachment style and sex. Drawing from neuroscience, real client stories, and lived experience, they unpack how avoidant behaviors form—and what it takes to build meaningful intimacy, trust, and long-term desire.

    You’ll learn:

    • ✅ Why DAs often crave physical intimacy early on—only to pull away later

    • ✅ The four pillars of connection and how sex fits into healthy relationships

    • ✅ The difference between lust and love—and why both matter

    • ✅ How neurochemicals like oxytocin and vasopressin shape bonding for men and women

    • ✅ What to do if you've “had sex too early” and want to shift your dynamic

    • ✅ How to build intimacy through intellectual and emotional connection

    • ✅ The real reason many DAs avoid eye contact during sex

    • ✅ How to communicate sexual needs without triggering shutdowns

    Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

    Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

    📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

    Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

    #AttachmentTheory #DismissiveAvoidant #EmotionalHealing #ThaisGibson #SexAndIntimacy #RelationshipPatterns #PersonalDevelopment #FearOfCloseness #AnxiousAttachment #EmotionalIntelligence

    If you found this episode helpful, be sure to subscribe, rate, and share it with someone healing their relationship patterns. Your support helps us reach more people on the path to secure love. 💕

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  • How to Stop Feeling Insecure in Romantic Relationships (Dismissive Avoidant Attachment)
    2025/06/16

    🧠 Heal your attachment style with Thais Gibson’s signature course: The 6 Pillars to a Secure Relationship—FREE 7-day trial 👉 https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-pillars-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=june-promo&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=podcast-episode&utm_content=pod-06-14-25&el=podcast

    Dismissive avoidants are often seen as confident or aloof in relationships—but underneath that exterior, many silently struggle with deep feelings of insecurity. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, disconnected, or emotionally shut down in love, this episode is for you.

    Join Thais Gibson as she unpacks the hidden insecurities of the dismissive avoidant attachment style and shares empowering tools to break free from shame, self-doubt, and emotional repression. Learn how to build self-acceptance, communicate your needs, and reconnect authentically—without losing your independence.

    🎯 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
    • Why dismissive avoidants often feel "not good at relationships"

    • How unmet expectations trigger shame and emotional withdrawal

    • The internal dialogue that fuels insecurity—and how to rewire it

    • The link between emotional modeling and relationship confidence

    • How to speak up about your needs (without feeling weak or clingy)

    👩‍🏫 Meet the Host

    Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

    🧰 Helpful Resources

    🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

    📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

    📲 Connect With Us on Social

    📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

    #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #InsecureAttachment #EmotionalHealing #ThaisGibson #RelationshipAnxiety #SelfSoothing #Boundaries #PDSPodcast #PersonalDevelopment

    ✨ If this episode helped you understand your inner world more clearly, please subscribe, rate, or share the podcast with someone navigating avoidant tendencies. Your support helps others heal too! ✨

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    8 分