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Have you ever lost yourself in a relationship without even realizing it?

When you're not firmly rooted in who you are, it's surprisingly easy to lose sight of yourself trying to make someone else happy, keep a relationship together, or be the person you think they want you to be.

You may have done it for years without recognizing just how much of yourself you were sacrificing along the way. But it doesn't have to be this way!

When you build a solid foundation of self, losing yourself becomes almost impossible because you know your worth, understand what matters to you, and know how to stay connected to yourself even when relationships get challenging.

In this episode, you'll learn exactly what to put into place to build that foundation, so you can enjoy equally respectful and loving connections without sacrificing you.

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On the path of people pleasing recovery, it can be challenging to know what's considered a "healthy need" vs. what's "being needy" -- especially if you've had needy tendencies in the past.

In this episode, Kristen dives deep into this topic, bringing much-needed clarity in her signature non-judgmental and jovial way.

You'll learn:

🧠 Key distinctions between healthy needs and neediness

👫 Why healthy needs are normal and necessary in relationships

🩹 The wounds that create neediness and how to heal them

💅🏼 Where validation that "sticks" comes from

🧬 The role of self-love and reparenting in healing emotional wounds

Remember, your healthy needs are not unreasonable. They are required for a relationship to thrive. The goal isn't to need less; it's to become radically clear about what is healthy so you can work toward the right things in your relationship.

✨ All change starts on the inside first. When you change your inner world, you change your life.

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Are you constantly giving people the benefit of the doubt, making excuses for their behavior, or tolerating things that leave you feeling drained, unseen, and resentful?

As recovering people pleasers, many of us have been conditioned to prioritize keeping the peace over honoring ourselves. We become so understanding, accommodating, and forgiving that we end up accepting behavior and situations that slowly erode our self-respect and well-being.

In this episode of Self-Healing with KB, I explore why people pleasers tend to tolerate far more than they should, the hidden costs of over-tolerating unhealthy behaviors, and how lowering your threshold for what you accept can dramatically improve your relationships, self-worth, and quality of life.

I also share personal examples from my own journey as a recovering people pleaser and the lessons I learned from tolerating things that should have been addressed much sooner.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• What tolerations are and why they matter
• Why people pleasers often accept too much for too long
• The hidden emotional, mental, and relational costs of over-tolerating
• The difference between being patient and abandoning yourself
• How healthier self-worth naturally lowers your tolerance for unhealthy behavior
• Practical questions to help identify what you're currently tolerating

Remember, one of the greatest acts of self-love is refusing to tolerate what consistently diminishes your peace, self-respect, and well-being.

The healthier your self-worth becomes, the lower your threshold for accepting what doesn't honor who you are.

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