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Hey friend! When you saw the title “Sexy Talk,” your mind might’ve jumped to flirting or bedroom talk—but that’s a different chapter. 😉 In today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie are diving into Chapter 7 of their new book, Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and unpacking what “Sexy Talk” really means: open, healthy communication around s*x in marriage.

Let’s be honest—s*x, money, and kids are the top 3 tension points in most marriages. And if you’re not talking about s*x in a healthy way, (or at all,) you’re likely missing out on deeper connection, better intimacy, and real emotional safety.

In this episode, Josh (certified Christian s*x therapist) and Cassie discuss:

• Why talking about s*x is one of the most intimate acts of marriage
• How to build communication skills when you weren’t exactly “born with them”
• The common barriers that stop couples from talking honestly about intimacy
• Practical ways to start having non-awkward, meaningful conversations about your s*x life

Whether you've been married 6 months or 16 years, this episode will help you communicate better, connect deeper, and feel more confident navigating one of the most sacred parts of your relationship.

Key Takeaways:

• Emotional intelligence and healthy s*xual communication are learned, not automatic.
• Avoiding conversations about s*x creates distance—talking about it brings connection.
• You don’t need perfect words—just honest, kind ones.
• Communication is a skill that can transform your bedroom and your bond.

It’s time to stop guessing in the bedroom and start talking.

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Hey friend! We’re back with another episode in our Feeling Sexy series, and this one gets real. Today, Josh & Cassie are diving into Chapter 6 of their book, Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and the topic? Emotional maturity in marriage—and what happens when it’s missing.

In the early days of love, everything feels dreamy. But when the honeymoon phase fades and real life sets in, those adorable quirks can turn into major irritations. That’s when we often default into one of two unhealthy patterns in marriage: The Brat or the Doormat.

In this episode, Josh (certified Christian s*x therapist) and Cassie unpack:

• What it looks like when wives show up as “Brats” (tantrums, sulking, withholding)
• How “Doormats” bury their voice to avoid conflict (hello, people-pleasing!)
• Why both are rooted in emotional immaturity—not brokenness
• How to step into your God-given confidence and grow into a mature, sexy, whole woman

Because here’s the truth: great s*x isn’t built on manipulation or passivity—it flows from maturity, self-awareness, and emotional connection.

Key Takeaways:

• The “Brat” and the “Doormat” are just unhealed parts of us—not our final identity
• Emotional maturity is sexy—it builds trust, safety, and real connection
• You can be strong and soft. Assertive and loving. Confident and kind.
• Growth in the bedroom starts with growth in the heart

No matter where you find yourself—whether you've been defaulting to Brat-mode, hiding as a Doormat, or somewhere in between—there’s hope, grace, and room to grow. You were made for more than emotional survival. You were made for intimacy that’s rich, mature, and deeply satisfying, and we’re here to help you get there—one honest conversation at a time.

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If you’ve ever felt like a Brat or a Doormat—this episode is for you. Share it with a friend and let’s keep growing into emotionally mature, s*xually confident women—together. 💖

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Hey friend! Today on The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie are diving into Chapter 5 of their new book, Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and it’s a game-changer.

This episode is all about the deep and often overlooked connection between your nervous system and your s*xuality—and how understanding that connection can completely transform your experience in the bedroom.

Using a powerful stoplight analogy, they break down what your body might be telling you:

• 💚 Green = Ventral Vagal: You’re safe, connected, and open to intimacy
• 💛 Yellow = Sympathetic Activation: You’re alert, anxious, or bracing
• ❤️ Red = Dorsal Vagal: You’re shut down, disconnected, or numb

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• • How to recognize your nervous system “state” during or before intimacy
  • What to do when you’re in yellow or red—and how to shift toward green
  • Why God designed your body to speak to you—and how it connects to your healing
  • That safety, connection, and presence are the foundation for s*xual confidence & feelings of desire

Wherever you are in that nervous system spectrum—it’s not wrong, and it’s not shameful. Josh (certified sex therapist) and Cassie want to help you tune in, listen well, and respond with love, grace, and truth.

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Hey friend! We’re continuing our deep-dive into Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and today’s episode is all about one of the most tender (and powerful) topics: seduction.

In Chapter 4, “The Art of Seduction,” Josh & Cassie explore how desire is experienced differently between men and women—and how confidence plays a key role. For many husbands, desire is fueled by how attracted they are to their wives. But for wives? It’s often about how attractive they feel about themselves.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• How to build s*xual confidence by changing how you see yourself
• Practical ways to honor your body and visualize yourself through Jesus’ lens
• Mindset shifts to help you let go of shame and step into holy seduction
• Why feeling sexy isn’t about performance—it’s about presence, identity, and delight

Josh (certified Christian s*x therapist) and his wife Cassie are here to guide you gently and boldly into embracing your body, your desire, and your God-given capacity for intimacy.

This is your invitation to step into the intimate life God designed for you—with courage, clarity, and support.

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Your body is not a problem to fix—it’s a gift to honor. Share this episode with a friend who needs a reminder that confidence is holy, and desire is good. 🤗

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Hey friend—want to improve your s*x life? You’re in good company. In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie dive into Chapter 3 of their new book, Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and they’re not holding back.

Today’s conversation is all about God’s design—for your body, for intimacy, and for what s*x is supposed to look like within Christian marriage. Spoiler alert: it’s better, deeper, and more sacred than what the world tries to offer.

Josh (certified Christian s*x therapist) and Cassie unpack:

• What Scripture reveals about God’s design for s*xual pleasure
• How your anatomy and desire are good—not shameful
• What’s permissible in the bedroom for Christian couples
• And why embracing your s*xuality is part of embracing your full self in Christ

If you’re ready to shed shame, reclaim passion, and embrace the truth that God created s*x to be both holy and hot—this episode is for you.

Key Takeaways:

• Your body and desire are God-designed and worth celebrating
• S*x isn’t “dirty”—it’s divine when rooted in covenant love
• Exploring what’s okay in the bedroom starts with love, safety, and mutuality
• Growing in intimacy is spiritual, emotional, and physical—it’s all connected.

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This is your permission to love your body, your spouse, and your s*x life—without shame. Share this episode with a friend who needs to know that God’s design for s*x is way better than you think. 💖

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Hey friend! If you’ve grabbed your copy of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire (or you're thinking about it), today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast is for you.

Josh & Cassie are sharing the best ways to read Feeling Sexy—whether you're a wife ready to grow in confidence and desire, or a husband hoping to better understand your wife’s journey. This isn't just a book—it’s a roadmap for healing, connection, and sexual wholeness, rooted in biblical truth and backed by decades of clinical expertise.

In this episode, they’ll cover:

• How to approach the book based on where you are in your journey
• Why Feeling Sexy is for both women and the men who love them
• How to engage with the content in a way that leads to real growth and healing
• What makes this book different: 13K+ hours of therapy wisdom from Josh, nearly 20 years of real-life marriage experience from Cassie, and 100K+ hours of combined certified Christian sex therapy experience through MyCounselor.Online, seeing results of healing, and achieving the goals their clients have.

This is your invitation to step into the intimate life God designed for you—with courage, clarity, and support.

Key Takeaways:

• There’s no “right” way to read Feeling Sexy—just start where you are
• Husbands: reading this alongside your wife is a game-changer
• Healing and confidence are possible with intentional steps and support
• You’re not alone—Josh & Cassie (and thousands of others) are cheering you on

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Hey Friend... Feeling Sexy? Because we've got some exciting news! 🎉 Josh & Cassie are thrilled to announce the release of their brand new book:

Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman's Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire - and in this episode, they're giving you a behind-the-scenes look at how it came to life!

This episode kicks off a special podcast series where they unpack why they wrote the book, who it's form, and how faith, neuroscience, and s*xuality all work together to help you create the thriving, connected, and joy-filled intimate life you were designed for.

Tune in as they share:

• The heart behind the book and what sparked the idea
• Why Christian women often struggle with desire - and how to reclaim it
• A sneak peek at a few chapter themes (spoiler: they're 🔥 and grounded in truth!)
• How the combo of Biblical truth + brain science can transform your s*x life!

Josh brings his experience as a certified Christian s*cs therapist, and Cassie shares her wisdom from 20 years of marriage and motherhood. Together, they're your guides to a more confident, connected, and God-honoring s** life.

Key Takeaways:

• You don’t have to choose between spiritual and sexual confidence—you can have both
• Desire is holy, beautiful, and worth cultivating
• Your past doesn’t disqualify you—God’s not done writing your intimacy story
• This book was written for you, and healing is possible

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Already grabbed the book? Share your favorite chapter or takeaway and tag us! And if you haven't yet, what are you waiting for? Let's grow the intimate life of your dreams - together. 💖

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Hey friend! Today on The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie are diving into a topic that doesn’t get talked about enough—why alpha males often avoid therapy and what that means for their growth, relationships, and emotional well-being.

If you’re someone with a strong, take-charge personality—or you love someone who is—this conversation is for you. We’re breaking down the myths around masculinity and strength, and challenging the idea that emotions make you weak. Because true strength? It starts with honesty, vulnerability, and a willingness to grow.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why alpha males tend to resist therapy (and why that matters)
• How bottling emotions blocks REAL strength and emotional maturity
• How family members can lovingly support the alpha male in their life
• A bold challenge for the guys: don’t let fear of vulnerability keep you stuck
• This isn’t about changing who you are—it’s about becoming the strongest, healthiest version of yourself.

Strength isn’t about pushing through; avoiding emotions doesn’t make you tough—being present and emotionally mature gives you TRUE strength. Growth requires courage—and yes, that includes therapy and emotional work.

The people in your life need your whole heart, not just your drive. This episode is full of empathy, encouragement, and truth—and it’s here to remind you that healing is not only possible, it’s powerful.❤️

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To the alpha males out there—we dare you. Don’t sit this one out. Step into the real work of healing and wholeness. And if you love an alpha male in your life? Share this episode with them today.

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