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Growing up Gen X, many of us heard the same warning: "What happens in this house stays in this house."

But what happened when the family secrets weren't simply embarrassing? What happened when the things children were told to keep quiet about were the very things they needed help with?

In Episode 2 of Things We Never Talked About, But Should Have, we're examining the culture of family secrecy during the 1970s and 1980s—and how attitudes toward child abuse, domestic violence, discipline, and family reputation affected the children growing up in those households.

We'll explore the changing recognition of child abuse, the emergence of domestic violence shelters, the impact of television movies like The Burning Bed and Something About Amelia, and the long-term effects of adverse childhood experiences.

This isn't about blaming an entire generation of parents. It's about understanding the attitudes we inherited, the people who challenged them, and what we can do differently today.

Because privacy and secrecy aren't always the same thing.

And a family's reputation should never matter more than someone's safety.

Support resources (United States):

National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233
https://www.thehotline.org/

Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: 800-422-4453
https://www.childhelphotline.org/

If you or someone else is in immediate danger, contact emergency services.

Historical and research sources:

Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act (CAPTA): https://www.congress.gov/

Family Violence Prevention and Services Act: https://www.acf.hhs.gov/fysb

CDC — Adverse Childhood Experiences: https://www.cdc.gov/aces/

Things We Never Talked About, But Should Have is a Mighty Philbert series examining the uncomfortable subjects that shaped Generation X—and the conversations we still need to have.

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Growing up in the 1970s and 1980s wasn't always the carefree adventure we remember.

While Generation X was riding bicycles, watching MTV, and surviving the Satanic Panic, America was confronting a growing teenage suicide crisis.

Television movies, after-school specials, public-service announcements, and songs like Rick Cua's "Don't Say Suicide" attempted to address the problem. But there was something many of us struggled with: we were told to ask adults for help, even when we didn't trust those adults enough to tell them what we were going through.

In the first episode of Things We Never Talked About, But Should Have, we examine the history of teenage suicide during the Gen X years, the cultural response, the stigma surrounding mental health, and why so many young people felt safer talking to their friends than to parents, teachers, or religious leaders.

I'll also share a personal memory of a friend I lost, and reflect on what our generation can learn from the conversations we wish we'd had.

This isn't about blaming an entire generation of parents. It's about understanding the world that shaped us—and asking how we can do better for the generations coming after us.

If this episode resonates with you, I'd love to hear your thoughts. What subjects were difficult or impossible to discuss with adults when you were growing up?

Please keep the conversation compassionate and respectful.

Support resources: If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide, call or text 988 in the United States, or visit https://988lifeline.org. If someone is in immediate danger, contact emergency services.

Research and further reading:

CDC — Suicide Among Children, Adolescents, and Young Adults, 1980–1992
https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/00031525.htm

CBS television's response to teenage suicide (1984)
https://www.upi.com/Archives/1984/10/08/TV-WorldTwo-CBS-movies-look-at-teenage-suicides/9802466056000/

The Trevor Project — Acceptance From Adults and LGBTQ Youth
https://www.thetrevorproject.org/research-briefs/acceptance-from-adults-is-associated-with-lower-rates-of-suicide-attempts-among-lgbtq-young-people-sep-2023/

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Halloween was different when we were kids! We had homemade popcorn balls, caramel apples, school costume contests, pillowcases full of candy, and the freedom to roam all over town.

Today, Halloween often means organized events, trunk-or-treat festivals, costume restrictions, and curfews. But has Halloween really changed for the worse, or are we just remembering the magic of childhood?

Join The Mighty Philbert as we revisit Halloween in the '70s and '80s, explore how the traditions changed, and remember one unfortunate dentist who learned why it's called TRICK or treat.

What was Halloween like when you were a kid? Share your favorite memories in the comments!

#GenX #Halloween #1980s #1970s #Nostalgia #TheMightyPhilbert

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We grew up alone. We watched the American family change. Now it's time to talk about what happened when Gen X grew up and started relationships of our own.

In the first episode of this series, we explored the latchkey generation and the independence so many Gen X kids learned growing up.

In Episode 2, we looked at the divorce boom of the 1970s and '80s and asked why so many families were changing while we were kids.

Tonight, we're bringing those stories together—and we're doing it LIVE.

Did watching our parents divorce change the way we approached marriage? Did growing up independent make it harder to depend on someone else? Why did living together without marriage go from “living in sin” to increasingly normal? And what about those whose parents stayed together—sometimes happily, and sometimes when perhaps they shouldn't have?

I'll bring the research and share some of my own experiences, but tonight I especially want to hear from you.

Did your childhood shape the way you approach love, marriage, commitment or divorce?

Join the conversation and tell me your story.

#GenerationX #GenX #GenXRelationships #Marriage #Divorce #LatchkeyKids #GenXChildhood #MightyPhilbert

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On September 30, 2026, Tennessee attempted to execute Christa Gail Pike by lethal injection.

She survived.

As of this video, Pike is reportedly in critical condition, Governor Bill Lee has halted Tennessee's remaining 2026 execution and ordered a third-party investigation into what went wrong.

But what happens legally when someone survives an execution? Can the state simply try again?

The answer takes us back nearly 80 years to Willie Francis, a Louisiana teenager who survived the electric chair and became the subject of the landmark Supreme Court case Louisiana ex rel. Francis v. Resweber.

In this episode, we examine the myth that surviving an execution means you're set free, the history of failed executions, problems surrounding lethal injection, Idaho's struggle to obtain execution drugs, the failed executions of Thomas Creech and Tony Carruthers, and what we currently know—and DON'T know—about Christa Pike.

We'll also sort through some of the rumors already spreading online, from expired drugs and redheaded resistance to anesthesia to claims of...demonic interference.

This isn't about forgetting Pike's victim, 19-year-old Colleen Slemmer. It's about a larger constitutional question:

If the government has the authority to take a human life, what happens when it tries—and fails?

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Generation X grew up during one of the biggest transformations of the American family in modern history.

Divorce rates soared during the 1960s and '70s, reaching historic highs just as Gen X was growing up. More than a million American children a year were being affected by divorce by the 1970s.

So what happened?

Was it no-fault divorce? Feminism? Women entering the workforce? The sexual revolution? Were our parents simply giving up on marriage—or were people finally gaining the freedom to leave relationships previous generations had been expected to endure?

In Episode 2 of this Gen X series, we're looking beyond the nostalgia to explore why divorce became so common during our childhood, what “broken home” actually meant, and what millions of Gen X kids experienced while the definition of the American family was changing around them.

And this leads directly into our next conversation: What did watching our parents' relationships teach Gen X about love, marriage and commitment?

That one we're doing LIVE—and I want your stories.

Did your parents divorce? Did they stay together? Do you think their relationship affected the way you approached your own?

Tell me about it in the comments.

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Generation X has become known as the “latchkey generation.”

We came home from school, unlocked the door, called Mom at work, made ourselves something to eat, watched TV—and somehow managed not to burn the house down before our parents got home.

But why were so many of us home alone in the first place?

In this episode, we're going beyond the Gen X nostalgia to look at what was happening to the American family during the 1970s and '80s: more mothers entering the workforce, changing economic realities, limited after-school childcare, single-parent households, and a culture that expected kids to become independent much earlier.

And then there's the bigger question:

What did growing up that way do to us?

Did being latchkey kids make Gen X independent, resourceful and self-reliant? Or did some of us also learn that needing other people was something we should avoid?

And this is only the beginning. Next time, we're looking at another major change happening while Gen X was growing up: the divorce boom.

Were you a latchkey kid? Tell me your story in the comments. How old were you when you started staying home alone—and do you think it shaped the adult you became?

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What if something unusual in your blood became evidence of an ancient extraterrestrial experiment?

Rh-negative blood is a completely real genetic variation—but around it has grown one of the strangest collections of theories we've encountered on Carpe Noctem.

In this episode, Adie and Phil explore the real science behind the Rh factor, Rh incompatibility during pregnancy, and the unusual distribution of Rh-negative blood around the world. Then we head down the rabbit hole.

Why is Rh-negative blood particularly associated with certain European populations? What do the Basques have to do with the mystery? And how did an ordinary blood-group characteristic become connected to the Anunnaki, Nephilim, ancient aliens, royal bloodlines, psychic abilities, and extraterrestrial genetic engineering?

Adie approaches the mystery as a believer willing to consider the possibilities. Phil approaches it as the resident skeptic asking the annoying question:

“Okay...but where's the evidence?”

We'll separate what science actually knows from what remains uncertain—and from what the Internet has enthusiastically filled in with aliens.

So what do you think?

Is Rh-negative blood simply a fascinating part of human genetic history, or could there be more to the story?

And if you're Rh-negative, we especially want to hear from you. Do any of the traits commonly associated with Rh-negative people sound familiar?

#RHNegative #AlienConspiracy #AncientAliens #CarpeNoctem #RHNegativeBlood #Anunnaki #Nephilim #AlienDNA #ConspiracyTheories #Paranormal