So many women are “in a relationship” but only half in their own life.

In this intimate episode of The Glow Up Experience, Lindsay Jacobi explores the moment you realise you’ve been performing in love—smiling through what hurts, softening your truth, and serving a curated version of yourself you hope will be easier to stay for.

You’ll hear about:

• The subtle ways we “perform” in long-term relationships without even noticing

• How people-pleasing and shrinking ourselves slowly erodes connection

• Why true intimacy requires freedom: freedom to be honest, and freedom for them to respond

• The terrifying–liberating question: “Are they loving the real me, or the version I think they’ll stay for?”

• What changes when you stop auditioning for love and start choosing yourself first

This episode is your permission slip to stop half-living in your relationship and let yourself be fully seen. Because being loved for a polished performance will never compare to being accepted as you, exactly as you are.

Links & Resources

Free Glow Up Bundle: https://coaching.glowupcollective.co/glow-up-edition

90-Day Private Glow Up Coaching: https://glowupcollective.co

Instagram: @lindsaystewartjacobi

You can journal, manifest and “stay open” all day long—but if you haven’t actually decided what you want, you’re sending the universe a mixed order.

In this episode of The Glow Up Experience, Lindsay Jacobi breaks down why vague desires keep you stuck… and how clear, specific decisions become a magnet for money, clients, love, health and more.

You’ll learn:

• Why “I’m just being patient” is often code for staying vague and safe

• How confusion is actually an avoidance strategy to dodge potential disappointment

• The difference between manifesting a specific person vs a specific standard (client, partner, opportunity)

• How to back your desires with embodiment—showing up like the woman who already has it

• A simple way to apply this to business, relationships, health, parenting and your glow up

Links & Resources

Free Glow Up Bundle: https://coaching.glowupcollective.co/glow-up-edition

90-Day Private Glow Up Coaching: https://glowupcollective.co

Instagram: @lindsaystewartjacobi

Under every glow up is a nervous system that finally feels safe to stop performing.

In this grounded, liberating episode of The Glow Up Experience, Lindsay Jacobi helps you spot the survival identities you built to earn love—good girl, over-achiever, caretaker—and shows you how to release them and choose who you’ll be next.

You’ll learn

• Why people-pleasing and over-functioning are brilliant past coping strategies—but terrible identities

• How to find the hidden “rules” you wrote about being worthy, safe, and lovable

• A simple journal framework to retire old roles and script a new self-concept

• How micro-choices reprogram your nervous system for rest, receiving, and truth

Links & Resources

Free Glow Up Bundle: https://coaching.glowupcollective.co/glow-up-edition

90-Day Private Glow Up Coaching: https://glowupcollective.co

Instagram: @lindsaystewartjacobi