Today, I want to talk about how hard of a job it is to be a parent. There is not a lot of talk about the absolute difficulty of raising children. Planning to have kids is a very bad thing to do as it is. Planning to have children is the same as saying, yes, I want to be tortured for the next 18 years, as long as I do not die, I am completely fine with pain. The first thing to know about being a parent is that pain can not be directed; it just happens to everyone, usually without notice. There are things that can be done to avoid pain, if we know about the pain first. For example, we know that having children causes major, prolonged, drawn-out pain, but because there is a chance that something good may happen from that event, we do not care about that pain at all. I will tell you that the chance of something good happening does not outweigh the absolutely horrible life of suffering that those parents and their newborn child are going to go through. There will be times when bad things happen that you have no control over. Like when your toddler comes home from the sitter with bite marks on their arm? What can a parent do about that? Sure, you can call the sitter and be like WTF? This is what they are going to say to you. “I saw that, I am pretty sure I know how that happened, and as soon as I noticed it, I separated them right away.” That is all that can be done about that. The sitter noticed it and separated them immediately, and that is all that can be done. You absolutely can find a new sitter or take your child elsewhere. This problem is rampant, and it happens everywhere. There is no way to avoid it. The only way to avoid this problem is to employ a family member or friend to watch your child. There are risks there also. Raising children is a very hard thing to do, and something that needs to be considered is how that child is going to be cared for in the first 3 years of their life. The best thing to do is to imagine what your life will be like after that child is born. There is so much to know, and especially young parents do not know anything pretty much. The hospital will put all of you right out on the street after that child is born, and the mother is stable again. The real things start happening right then. The parents don't even consider what is happening at that moment. There are so very many things happening at that time, there is a new life now, we need to create folders and classifications for this new life. Let’s see here. What sex is that kid? Is that kid a twin (hopefully not)? Is that kid retarded? Does that kid have all of its limbs? Does that kid have all of its fingers and toes? Oh, it has an extra toe? Extra toes and fingers are okay, I guess we can just chop one of them off. It is when things are missing that we consider them to be a problem. No matter how that child appears, it is all the same, their parents have to love and care, and protect that child no matter what. Except right now, you can prevent all of that well-known torture with an abortion. It is a very invasive and barbaric surgery. If you remember exactly how bad of an event that was, you will forever understand and be grateful like I am that the condom was invented.

This can happen to anyone at any time, all you have to do to qualify is have a child.

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Today, I want to talk about the time when the mother was pregnant with her first child. Remember when you looked at that pregnancy test and it was positive. I am like, “UMM, CAN I PLEASE GET A DO-OVER?” I go to the closest drug store, lol. I get a name brand version of the test, for this purpose, I will spare no expense, I want the best damn pregnancy test that money can buy lol. I splurged and paid the full $24.99 (like paying more money would lead to a better result). I got home and eagerly gave her the test. She went into the bathroom to take the test, and when she came out of that bathroom, the result was the same; there was, in fact, a child on the way. I imagine there are mothers out there who had that same feeling. I did not know what to do. I have already paid for 2 abortions, and we have already talked about this. If she got pregnant again, she was going to have that child. I had already agreed to go through with this. So at the time, she was working for Bright House Networks and had good insurance, Mandatory for American parents, because in Amerika, there is no universal healthcare. That is a business in Amerika and in Amerika everything is a business. It was in that previous conversation that I got into this mess in the first place. I just did not see that until it was way too late. There have been many times that I wished I had never agreed to that. I did not analyze the mother of my child. She was good in bed, she had dark skin, and she was of Mediterranean descent. That was all the analyzing I did in my 20s. Now, when I see her, I am disgusted at myself. I didn't know yet about how evil the “Child Support” system was, but I was about to learn. When we split up, I understood how this was going to work, I had done this before, without a kid, though. I knew that I was going to have other girlfriends, and she was going to have other boyfriends. That meant there were going to be other men and women making contact with my child. That is a large mistake that I made. That was an invitation for the “Family” courts and “Child Support” to come into my life. There is no way to prevent “Child Support” from entering your life. It works like this: they have a number to contact if you want their “services” or if you submit an application for government assistance. That is also how they acquire “new customers,” the customers are parents. So there is nothing that you can do to prevent that from happening at all. I was told that “Child Support” even goes into families that still have both parents. It is the decision that is made right then and there, when that 2nd pregnancy test comes back positive, that changes everything.

The judge sent my child to live in a foreign country with this person, he is alive still and everything!

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Today I want to talk about a very hot subject, and that is abortion. A lot of people have strong views on this subject, and I think that is a very good thing. I do not have a problem with abortion at all. I am a male, so I do NOT ever get pregnant. I have to pay for abortions, and that is all. In my life so far, I have had to pay for a total of 6 abortions. I made a mistake, though; that number should have been 7 abortions in total. I do not have to actually get them performed on me, I just have to pay for them. The last time I had to pay for an abortion was around 2008. Everything was inflated, but not hyperinflated yet. Back then, the cost for an abortion was about $450.00 USD. That is a lot of money, but in exchange for all the absolute trouble they negate $450.00 is a really good deal. Just the amount of headache it saved me from having to deal with “family” court judges and the “Child Support” agency, that was money very well spent! Those 6 abortions were separated evenly between 3 women. Abortions are very barbaric, invasive, and tragic, and there are usually people outside the building when you enter that call you a murderer too.The fact that it is so tragic is a good thing because it resolves the issue of becoming a parent (becoming a parent now is a very bad thing), but there is a traumatic effect that is left with the mother. It is that effect that reminds a prospective parent about the time that she had to traumatically deal with a problem. It is that trauma that will forever prevent a pregnancy from happening again. I do know that the number of abortions that I have paid for is excessive, I am grateful for them. Now, the U.S. government has repealed Roe VS. Wade and that law was replaced by each state. Now the abortions that I paid for in the past would not be possible under this new state law, it is called “The heartbeat” bill or law. That law makes abortions illegal after only 6 weeks of pregnancy. So parents who have daughters need to be even more vigilant. As a father, I would (Which I despise) need to check every month and make certain that your kid is not pregnant (yes, it is now up to the parents), and if they are, an abortion is happening period. I do not want to go through that either, so do not force it!

This can happen at any time to any parent.

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Today, I want to talk about the act of being a parent. Adults and teenage children know what causes people to be parents. The thing that most people do not understand but need to is that it is a different time now than it used to be. Raising children is a very hard thing to do as it is. Now, technology and mobile devices are everywhere. These things on their surface look like they are no big deal, and we embrace what makes things easier for us. That puts technology everywhere, and whether we like it or not, it does not matter. This world is not a place to bring a child into; just do not do it. Prevent becoming a parent at all costs. Do not get pregnant and do not impregnate anyone. I do not have a problem with abortion, but a lot of people do. It is barbaric and invasive, and there are people outside the abortion clinic telling people as they arrive that abortion is murder. It used to cost around $450.00. That is a lot of money, but if you compare that to 18 years of misery for the parents and for the child. Also, there is college too. I think college is very expensive now, and there is no guarantee of a job after college is completed, but what is guaranteed is that college will be expensive. Now the parents may be able to afford to pay for it. There also may be a scholarship, but if there is not either one of those things in place, then a student loan will need to pay for that. If there is a student loan involved, that child is being strapped with a lot of debt right out of the gate. Also, there is proof that any sitting president can forgive all student loans and all of those 1.77 trillion dollars in debt have to be repaid to the holders of that student loan debt and that is done from Taxpayers. I am a taxpayer and I paid off my student loan in 2012.

Having children has always been very difficult.

Having children now is just down right wrong!

Do not do it, and if you ask anyone about their existing children, they will all tell you that they can't imagine life without their kid. Duh, you cannot listen to existing parents about their kids, they all will say only good things about their children. If you ask a person who decided to NOT have kids, why they made that decision, and they will tell you that having children is a horrible choice and you can see that.

This is pretty simple, if you like your life right now, do not fuck it up with a kid. Having a child now is a very bad thing to do. Do not do it. I am a man and I have never been pregnant, but I know that having children breaks stuff in a woman's body that can never be fixed.

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Today I want to talk about business in America. There are many countries that think Amerika is so great. The truth about Amerika is this. Amerika turns everything it possibly can into a business. Everything, and they still have a huge debt. Marriage is a business, you have to have a “License” in America to be married cost is about $150.00 USD., then to go through a divorce, where both parties agree about their asset division, and there are no lawyers involved, the cost to dissolve that marriage and license is about $450.00 USD. So even if there are no lawyers involved, there is a huge cost to get married and divorced without a lawyer at all in the case. If you choose to get an Amerikan marriage license (Which I did, twice), there are huge costs associated with getting married in America. If there are lawyers involved, prenuptial agreement or not, the cost of a divorce is astronomical, depending on the cost of the lawyers, they like to talk in thousands of USD, so I try to stay away from them. Amerika has also created a business out of being a parent. There are many other ways to have a child supported, but the “Child Support” enforcement program likes to use brute force. If, for any reason, you do not have all of the money to pay the “distribution” unit that month, “Child Support” will just send that parent a threatening letter, which generates a payment event for them at the state level from the U.S. Federal government. Then, if that parent still cannot pay them, they issue an order to the DMV to suspend that parent's driver’s license, along with any other professional license that you have. Everything a parent does is called out by the state “Child Support” program because that is how the government-run “Child Support” agency gets paid from the Federal government. If you just look at every single “Child Support” office in Amerika, you will see that they are all in very good locations, usually very close to a courthouse. Just the rent payments alone have to cost like 5K maybe more or less per month, and who pays the rent at those locations? The Amerikan taxpayers and China pay for them. So parents, do not push your kids into marriage,

Do not push your kids into having their own children, and unless college is being paid for from a scholarship or a parent, then do NOT push your kids into going to college either. There are many, many high paying jobs that do not require a college degree. A college degree does not land you a good job anywhere! Watch Mike Rowe!

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Today, I want to talk about the decision to become a parent. The biggest thing about becoming a parent that a lot of people do not consider is that, yes, the child will be biologically connected to his or her parent and will look similar to them, but that is all. They will still be a polluter, we are all polluters. It does not matter how much a person tries not to be; we all are, and that is a fact. I make sure all of my trash makes it into a garbage can, and I never litter. But I know that I am still a polluter. Having a child means that you are creating another human , and that human will be a polluter!

As much as you love them, just know that they are going to hate you. Between the ages of about 13 and 18, they are going to not like their parents. Now with the information age, there are connected devices everywhere. So children are getting exposed to porn and sex at a very early age. As a parent, you are going to have to deal with that. Then there is also the fact that children love their devices, and they want to have them all the time, and that is also a problem. I do not think a child should have an electronic device until they are at least in middle school (grade 6). My child's mother gave him a mobile phone at age 8 which is like second or third grade. His mother and I split up when he was like 2 years old, and since then I have had no say at all about anything. That is something to consider too, you lose control and the other parent can do pretty much whatever they wish. Kids do not understand the dangers that these devices pose. If their parent or guardian takes a child's phone for any reason, they freak out. When I was a child, I was just trying not to get a whooping from my parents, lol. Now, these kids do not care about pain at all, but if their devices are taken from them, they behave then, and only then. Children are also very expensive. I am not just talking about money here. We know that having a child is tremendously hard on a woman's body. Also, the best way to feed an infant during the first year is to breastfeed. I am a male, so I do not have to worry so much about that. That first year of breastfeeding is very important for the cognitive development of a child’s brain. The father of an infant cannot breastfeed a child, but they are definitely going to have to participate in it either way. I have never seen a mother breastfeeding her infant in public, but a mother could if she wanted to. They have a pump now, and that pump transfers breast milk into a bottle, and the child gets fed that way. I asked my mother what she did with me, and she said, “I breastfed all of you kids” (3) of us. “Because we were broke.” We were all born in the late 1970s and there was no pump. What a P.I.T.A. I thought.

Planning to have children is nowhere near how it was when you were a child. There are lots of differences, the world has changed a lot in the past 25 years. Do NOT think that having a child will do anything other than make your life much worse. Having just a single child now is a very hard thing to do. We thank people all the time who are in the armed services. What is a real help to humanity and planet earth are those who fight the instinct to replicate. Those are the true heroes.

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Today, I am talking about how hard it is to raise a child, whether it is a boy or a girl. It is a very hard thing to do. There are many times when the choices that have to be made as a parent are impossible. This happens all the time as a parent, but the time that is easiest for me to illustrate this point was during the COVID-19 pandemic. During that time, parenting especially was very hard. The schools were all shut down, so the kids had to stay home. Jobs were being lost in droves because they could not conduct business to support payroll (payroll is the largest recurring cost in business) Yet that pay check is what pays the bills, and puts food on the table. Also, going to work was very risky, a person could very easily catch the virus and then bring it home and infect the remainder of the family (COVID-19 was extremely contagious) So whatever choice a parent made was very damaging to the children, and their parents. The “Child Support” agency staff closed their doors, and all court hearings were suspended. So if you were a parent on “Child Support” like I was during the COVID-19 pandemic, parents were all screwed except for those that worked for the courts or the “Child Support” enforcement program as usual they are always kept safe (We do not need anything happening to the evil “Child Support” staff or the judges or magistrates) The rest of the families can die, but the courts and the “Child Support” families have priority.

I remember that the “Child Support” agency made a mistake that put me over $700.00 in arrears with them. I put everything I had explaining this together and sent them a letter which very plainly explained the mistake that they made, they ignored that. Then I sent it certified return receipt (Which I still have). They stamped it as received, and then they ignored that too. So I sent it to the Federal “Child Support” enforcement program in Washington D.C. and they stamped it received also, and they contacted an employee in the Florida state “Child Support” enforcement program, and then that person called me from Tallahassee (The capital of Florida state) I never, ever answer my phone, If a message is left, I may call back but maybe not. They left me a message, and I decided for whatever reason not to call them back. What I pointed out in that letter was that a mistake was made. I showed in that letter (I also included very clear screenshots outlining the problem, when exactly it was made, when I noticed it, and the solution.) I continued sending that package everywhere certified return receipt, they would stamp it as received, and then ignore me. (The law is on their side, they can do whatever they want) I first noticed their mistake in 2016, then in 2020 when the first set of stimulus checks were sent out for $1200.00 the “Child Support” agency backed out the $700.00 from their error. They sent me a $500.00 stimulus payment for their mistake. I am just an American parent, it does not matter if my family suffers as long as the courts and the “Child Support” agency does not. The “Child Support” agency can take your payment and deny that it was ever sent to them. That is why I would always take a picture of the money order and the stamped envelope right before I sent it to them. They can and do steal from parents, and you can’t do anything about it, even if you can prove it, they still don’t have to refund it. The law in America is on their side, that can and do whatever they want all the time. The American “family” courts and the “Child Support” system are pure evil. Do whatever is necessary to stay away from them both.

The greatest thing a human being can ever do in their lives, is fight the human instinct to replicate, and also never ever get an American marriage license.

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Today is another day without any connection to the “Child Support” system. I am very grateful for that. I am a photographer and a graphic artist. I always had a digital camera with me when I

was in my twenties. I would go places and people would be like “Sean, please stop taking pictures of me.” I used to get that a lot. People also would use me as an excuse not to go places. They would say, “is Sean going to be there?” If I was going to be there, then they just wouldn’t go at all, I was very annoying, the camera I had also did video too, it was a point-and-shoot camera. I put all of those pictures in my Google Drive. Sometimes when I upgraded to a larger or faster hard drive, I would forget to pull off the pictures and upload them. In 2015 when my house was foreclosed on because I did not know how soul-sucking the “Child Support” system was, I threw away about 10 hard drives. I bet those drives had a lot of good pictures on them. Anyway, I am working on a project that requires a lot of old pictures from my past. So I went to that folder in my Google Drive and pulled it down. It is about 50 Gigabytes in storage size. I unzipped it which took a while and I started looking through them one by one. They are all digital, so I just need to click through them which is very cool. I also have a lot of pictures that are even older those are developed pictures, before digital pictures came around which are instantly viewable, we used to wait a minimum of three days after the film was all used up. We would mail them off somewhere or drop them off somewhere and then look through them because a lot of them would be very bad, and we could not afford the pictures that were good let alone the bad pictures. Those pictures are a P.I.T.A.! Once you decide that you want a picture, then you have to put it on a flatbed scanner, scan it in, and then it is in digital format if it is over 25 MB in storage size, which it often is, it cannot be sent in an email.

Planning to have kids is the absolute worst thing a person can ever do. Other parents will say stuff like “It's not that bad” It is them, and human instinct that continue to add more and more polluters to this already badly polluted world. So if you are a mother that just went through an abortion, a miscarriage, or stillbirth or your child dies from a freak accident or something, it is the best thing that will ever happen to you in your life (better even than winning the lottery), I know it feels bad now, but it is the best thing, I promise. It is not just better for the family, but it is also really good for the rest of the population and planet Earth. So if you have recently gone through the loss of a child, then please understand that it is truly a good thing!

This happened in 2017, and I still had to pay until my child was 18

even though he never contacted me after 1 year.

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